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How to Flirt With Your Husband: Romantic Flirting in Marriage

How to flirt with your husband? This post discusses romantic ways of flirting with your husband while staying away from cliché and boring tips that revolve around making him laugh or smiling at him. Let's talk about the specific things you can do or the lines you can say to flirt with him.

Flirting in marriage is all about bringing out the teenage girl in you, who was forgotten ever since the responsibility of kids, work, school runs, cooking and mortgage payments took over your life.

Whether you are at work, home or with friends, take a selfie or a self-portrait with your iPhone or a camera and email it to your husband. Add a cute caption that says I Miss You or Wish you were here.

Whether you are at work, home or with friends, take a selfie or a self-portrait with your iPhone or a camera and email it to your husband. Add a cute caption that says I Miss You or Wish you were here.

1) Take a selfie and email it to him in the middle of the day

Take a selfie from your iPhone and email it to him at a random time during the day. You can pout, pose like a diva, play with your hair or wink as you take a self portrait on your cell phone.

Some partners even like to flirt in public on social media by posting selfies on Instagram or Facebook. The photo is usually captioned with a cute message like 'I Miss You' and their partners are tagged in the post or tweet.

2) Stop any sentence halfway and complete it with a wink

Flirting with your husband is actually one of the easiest things to do, even in daily life. All you need to do is stop any sentence halfway, pause for a second and complete it with just a flirty wink. It is foolproof, take a look at a few examples.

  • I am thinking of.... (wink)
  • The way you work out on elliptical at home is just.... (wink)
  • I am feeling so.... (wink)
  • Your rugged shoulders.... (wink)
  • I am feeling sweaty because.... (wink)

You can make literally anything sound flirty with a wink. Look in the mirror and practice your flirtiest wink-and-smile face so that you can use it to flirt with your hubby anytime anywhere.

3) Pinch him when you bump into each other

Remember how you and your husband flirted with each other before you got married? Flirty pinching would definitely have been a playful thing that you did.

Flirt with your husband again by pinching him randomly when you bump into him during the day in-between your routine. For example, pinch him on the waist as he is rushing to work and wink at him when he looks back in amusement. He will be pleasantly surprised.

4) Play the 'Just kidding' game with your husband

You can add a flirty touch to your conversation with your husband by making a manipulative use of the two words, 'just kidding'

For example, while you are on a dinner date with your hubby you can say 'I have gone commando today' and say 'just kidding' after he gives you that surprised look.

Pouting is a strong indicator of attraction. Use it to flirt with your husband.

Pouting is a strong indicator of attraction. Use it to flirt with your husband.

5) Pout your lips to him in public

Flirting in marriage does not need to be limited to cliché flirty moves that are confined to the privacy of a couple's bedroom. Lips play an important role in a woman's body and you can use this weapon to subtly grab your man's attention when you are in public.

Quickly wink at your hubby when you are outside and pout your lips at him. He will either wink back or will give you a flirty smile.

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6) Rub your legs under a restaurant table

The picture of a woman rubbing her leg on a man's leg under a restaurant table has been immortalized in movies and there is no reason why you shouldn't make this move to flirt with your husband too.

Sit with your legs crossed so you can use the leverage and height of one of your legs to gently rub your husband's leg. He will be startled when he feels it and he will immediately look at you. Wink at him, lower your head down and break into a flirty smile.

7) Compliment your husband's body and be specific

'You are so handsome' and similar compliments are very common, and maybe even boring to a certain extent. Add your own special twist to this way of flirting with your husband by giving him a specific compliment about his body.

  • Your broad shoulders are so manly
  • You have the cutest butt
  • There is something mysteriously sexy about your hands
  • Your jaw line is ruggedly sexy
  • The shape of your back is like that of a Greek god's
  • There is something magical about your chest, I like leaning on it

8) Make your husband pick your underwear, and you can pick his

Stop your husband dead in his tracks when you both are getting ready in the morning. Take out some of your best bras and panties, and hold them up for him. Ask him 'Which one do you want me to wear today honey?'

Model the underwear for him by giving a 5 second pose and raise the temperature by doing a quick swirl. It will give him a lot to think about during the day.

Do the same thing for him and make him hold out some of the different types of underwear that he wears. Pick one out and make up a reason for your choice. Say something along the lines of 'Dark clue underwear looks sexy on you'

9) Break into a single dance move and walk away

Whether it is a quick twirl or just a sideways move of the hips, a quick dance move can have a magical effect in attracting your husband. Practice such a five second move to perfection and pull it off when he least expects it.

Do it in front of him when he is watching the game and just walk away. He will be completely zapped and speechless.

10) Be stupid: Send him meaningless messages by making up your own words

Stupidity used in the right way, can be a lot of fun. Make up your own words and send him cute messages that will make him smile.

  • I want to kiss you YOM YOM YOM
  • Lick-a-dooba-doo ;)
  • Hellowyoumadubaluba handsome

None of these examples make any sense but the sheer stupidity and cuteness make them worth sending to your husband. Receiving such a senseless message in the middle of a meeting will make him chuckle.

11) Apply lip color and kiss the bathroom mirror to leave a luscious impression

Ever wondered how flirty your husband will feel when the first thing he sees in the morning is a luscious impression of your lips on the bathroom mirror? He will get a sultry wakeup call and will come straight to you to steal a real kiss.

Put on red lip color and plant a luscious kiss on the mirror to leave a perfect impression of your lips. You can make it special by using your lipstick to write a flirty message beside the pout.

12) Send flirty text messages to your husband

What is your husband most likely to think when he sees a text message from you in the middle of a busy day? He will probably think that you have messaged him to remind him of something or for some other work.

Flirt with him over text messages just like you did when you both started dating before marriage. Say naughty things and remind him that you miss him every second of the day.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.


ASTOST on May 26, 2018:

good post

Derrick Bennett on June 06, 2013:

It's always good that you want to keep the excitement in a relationship.

dashingscorpio from Chicago on June 05, 2013:

Wonderful suggestions! Voted up, useful and awesome!

One of the biggest reasons long-term relationships and marriages fall into a rut is couples "relax" when it comes to flirting and using sexual innuendo with one another. Both men & women need to feel desired!

"It's easier to maintain a fire than it is to reignite a spark!"

One man's opinion! :-)

Suzette Walker from Taos, NM on June 05, 2013:

Great ideas for flirting. It doesn't have to stop just because you are now married. These are fun ideas and hopefully keep the fires burning.

Devika Primić from Dubrovnik, Croatia on June 05, 2013:

Awesome ways here to flirt in marriage so well put together and sounds successful.

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