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150+ Fun Questions to Ask Your Spouse

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Fun Questions to Ask Your Spouse

Fun Questions to Ask Your Spouse

When it comes to living a successful married life, a couple needs to fall in love with one another over and over again. This is for better or for worse—even if the better comes after the worse.

There are as many ways to bring glee and merriment to a romantic relationship sealed by marriage as there are stars in the universe. One of them happens to be asking your significant other fun questions!

This is a list of 150 fun questions that you could ask your spouse. They’re all quirky and amusing. But then again, this list is but a speck of dust in a galaxy of never-ending possibilities.

Use this list as you see fit. Take it as it is, build on it, or even create new questions based on it. The only requirement is passion. Remember that passion is the depth of the love experience. If you bring up some playful passion every now and then, a fun-filled married life is assured.

Intimate Conversation Sparkers for Married Couples

  • If you could live forever with me by your side, would you?
  • If we started a duo music group, what would our band name be?
  • What new hobby would you like us both to do together next?
  • Would you rather stay here at home with me or go out with for a date with me tonight?
  • If I let you choose my outfit for our next date, what would I be wearing?
  • If we had a pet, what would its name be?
  • Who do you wish we lived closer to?
  • How would you like to spend the rest of our lives when we’re old and wrinkly?
  • Do you check me out when I walk away from you?
  • What is the best thing about us being married?
  • Is there a memory you have of me that always makes you laugh?
  • Which of our dates is your favorite one?
  • How would you like to spruce up our romantic relationship?
  • What movie title perfectly describes our life together?
  • What language should we learn together?
  • Based on our relationship, what advice would you give people who are dating?
  • If today was your last day, what would you want me to prepare for you as your last meal?
  • What song perfectly describes our relationship?
  • What three things should we definitely take if we were to live on a secluded island?
  • How would you describe our wildest night?
  • Do you dream about me in your sleep?
  • If we could only eat one kind of food for the rest of our lives, what would it be?
  • What is the most memorable moment of our courtship days?
  • What would you like me to do to make our marriage more thrilling and exciting?
  • Where would you like both of us to go right now?
  • What do you want me to do to make you fall in love with me even more?
  • What was on your mind when we had our first kiss?
  • If we started our own restaurant, what food would we serve?
  • What would a world wherein we’re the absolute rulers look like?
  • Besides me, what’s your next most favorite thing in the world?
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Interesting Questions to Ask Your Significant Other

  • Which of your parents do you think you’re like most?
  • Which of your siblings do you think you’re like most?
  • What’s your biggest pet peeve?
  • Has anyone ever saved your life?
  • Have you ever saved anyone’s life?
  • Was there anything noteworthy about the circumstances of your birth?
  • What are you very proud of but never have an excuse to talk about?
  • How did your parents punish you when you were a child?
  • What’s the dumbest thing you’ve ever cried about?
  • If you could bring one of your past pets back to life, which one would you choose?
  • What’s the most embarrassing thing that ever happened to you?
  • What does a perfect day look like to you?
  • What was the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?
  • What did you hate as child but appreciate now?
  • What’s the least important thing that’s very important to you?
  • What was your first-ever date like?
  • What advice would you give your younger self?
  • What was the strangest thing you ever did as a child?
  • What’s the naughtiest thing you did as a teenager?
  • What was your greatest dream as a child?
  • What’s your wildest sexual fantasy?
  • What was the kindest thing a stranger has ever done for you?
  • What was the kindest thing you’ve ever done for a stranger?
  • What is your current obsession?
  • What's something you always wanted to do as a child but never got to do it?
  • What song never fails to pull you out of a bad mood?
  • What is one thing that you refuse to share, even with me?
  • Which of your ancestors do you admire the most?
  • What were you favorite books to read as a child?
  • Growing up, what was your favorite family tradition?
  • What’s your motto in life?
  • When was the last time you felt genuinely proud of yourself?
  • What song is the soundtrack of your teenage years?
  • What scares you the most?
  • What do you usually do to reduce stress?

Amusing Conversation Starters to Try on Your Spouse

  • How many days could you go without electricity?
  • If you could have song play every time you enter a room, what would it be?
  • Given a chance, what would you change your name into?
  • If you could deliver a speech to the whole world, what would you say?
  • How would you describe your personal heaven?
  • How would you describe your personal hell?
  • What makes you really happy?
  • What makes you really sad?
  • What makes you really angry?
  • What do you imagine when you think of home?
  • If your life was turned into a movie, what would its title be?
  • What’s the most extravagant thing you would spend your money on if you won the lottery?
  • What would 10-year-old you think about your current self?
  • What can you talk about for hours?
  • If you suddenly woke up as a member of the opposite sex, what are the top 3 things that you’d definitely do?
  • What’s the strangest thing you’ve ever seen?
  • Which actor/actress is best fit to play as you in a movie about your life?
  • If you could relive a certain year in your life, what age would you choose?
  • Would you rather have more money or more time?
  • If you had an archenemy, what qualities would they have?
  • Have you ever gotten in trouble for playing a prank on someone?
  • What was your most embarrassing romantic blunder?
  • If you had to be sent to prison for life, what crime would you have committed?
  • If you could punch anyone once without any repercussion, who would it be and why?
  • Have you ever been stuck inside an elevator?
  • What’s the funniest joke you’ve ever heard?
  • Would you rather go to the past and meet your ancestors or go to the future and meet your descendants?

Quirky Queries to Ask in a Romantic Relationship

  • How would you like me to express my love for you?
  • What do you think is your best physical feature?
  • What do you think is my best physical feature?
  • What was your very first impression of me?
  • If you had to go a week/month/year without me, what would miss the most?
  • Would you marry me again?
  • What do you want to role play in bed?
  • Which physical features of mine would you want our kids to possess?
  • Is there a secret that you have been hiding from me?
  • What annoys you most about me?
  • How rich would you be if you converted my love for you into money?
  • What traits do you like most about me?
  • If you could change three things about me, what would they be?
  • If you could change three things about yourself, what would they be?
  • How often do you actually want to go out on a date with me?
  • What turns you on?
  • How many seconds does it take for you to yearn for me?
  • What would you do to me if I was under your complete control?
  • Which body part of mine is your favorite?
  • How do think would we survive the zombie apocalypse?
  • Would you rather play a game or watch a movie with me right now?
  • Have I ever embarrassed you?
  • What is the most sensitive part of your body?
  • What is the most sensitive part of my body?
  • Do you consider yourself a great kisser?
  • What’s something that I wouldn't believe about you?
  • Do you have a dream that you want me to help you achieve?
  • When was the first time you knew that I was the one you wanted to spend the rest of your life with?
  • What’s the first the you’re going to do the next time we see each other?

Fun Questions to Ask Your Partner

  • What’s the worst movie you’ve ever seen?
  • If you were given the chance to live the life of any fictional character, who would it be and why?
  • Which color do you identify with most?
  • Which do you prefer: the sunrise or the sunset?
  • Have you ever been kissed by the same sex?
  • What does your dream vacation look like?
  • What does your dream house look like?
  • Who was your childhood celebrity crush?
  • If you could swap lives with anyone in the world for a day, who would it be and why?
  • Growing up, what were the nicknames that people gave to you?
  • Would you rather live in a glacial environment or a desert environment?
  • What’s the first thing you’d do if you won the lottery?
  • If you passed away today, what would you want your final arrangements to be?
  • What were your favorite shows when you were a child?
  • Have you ever done a dare for money?
  • What should we name our very own planet?
  • What would you do if you suddenly turned completely invisible for a day?
  • If you were given the chance to bring one fictional character into our reality, who would it be?
  • Given the power to go back in time, what’s the one thing that you would change in the history of our world?
  • Would you rather always speak your mind or never speak again?
  • Who’s your celebrity doppelganger?
  • If a genie granted you three wishes, what would they be?
  • What is the funniest prank you’ve ever played on someone?
  • Would you rather have nosy neighbors or noisy neighbors?
  • If you had a clone, how would you make use of him/her?
  • What scene from a non-horror movie scared you as a child?
  • As a school kid, did you ever do anything that warranted you getting sent to the principal’s office?
  • What are the most exciting things you’ve ever done on a dare?
  • What fashion fail did you embrace?
  • What’s the craziest dream you’ve ever had?

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