My advice to you is to stop watching trash TV and to stop listening to the advice of men's forums that denigrate all women. Reality television is in the business of making rating thru sensationalism. Maury Povich and Jerry Springer began these trends. To this day, they are popular with college (frat) boys as well as uneducated young men and women. Do you really want to be associated with trash like that? As for men's forums, they feed off of confused young boys or older divorced men who are bitter and who have chosen to blame all women for their problems instead of taking responsibility for their half of the problem.
Anyway, my point is that the women you describe are not the majority. However, I will say that I am not in agreement with the philosophy of hardliner feminists. I do not think they have helped the cause of men or women.
I would encourage you to seek more education so that you might gain a broader view of women's issues.
For the record, global estimates published by WHO indicate that "about 1 in 3 women worldwide have experienced either physical and/or sexual intimate partner violence in their lifetime." I wish these women would have learned to be "picky." Maybe you should think about that the next time you make broad assumptions about all women.