We've been trying for a baby for a few months. He recently told me that he's changed his mind and doesn't ever want a child. I feel incredibly betrayed and he just doesn't seem to get it. He seems to think if he just ignores my pain it will stop. I feel dead inside about our relationship and I don't know what to do or how to regain the trust I feel has been lost. Can we get past this or should I just leave?
Leaving doesn't always solve the problem. Your betrayal involves a broken promise which interrupted your plans for a future that involves children. Maybe it's time to try couples counseling to explore the reasons behind his broken promises and to see if your trust in him can be restored. Individual counseling for yourself may be helpful for you to figure out if there is a chance to heal from the hurt and regain trust.
Updated on October 21, 2019
By Janis Leslie Evans