There's a girl who I think I might be in love with. I told her about my feelings and she said she didn't feel the same way. After a while she texted me back and asked whether I still want to speak with her or not and I said "of course yes but I will never see you as a friend" and she accepted. She acts so complicatedly I never understand her. Sometimes she is so eager to talk to me but some other times she acts like a cold fish. I am really puzzled. Should I cut off communication with her?
You don't have to cut off communication, but realize her feelings might never change. Will you be able to accept this while maintaining communication? She probably likes to talk/text with you because you are a good listener. We tend to be good listeners and be attentive when we like someone. So she is getting receptive attention from you when she wants it. She might act like a cold fish towards you when she doesn't need the attention. I suggest cutting off communication if you will be negatively affected by her lack of romantic interest.
Updated on January 4, 2020
By Hearts and Lattes