So I’ve been talking to this guy, we text but we don’t talk on the phone which I’m okay with because I don’t really like talking on the phone. Anyways, we did have sex and he’s telling me he doesn’t want me to talk to anyone else and stuff however we’ve never actually gone out. He’ll pay for hotel rooms and stuff but he says he’s working but then again I never asked him to go anywhere. I guess I’m a little confused. What does his reticence to meet away from a hotel mean?
So you're talking to this guy and you've had sex, but it's not much of a relationship beyond that. And the kicker here is this guy told you not to talk to anyone. The big thing here is that anytime your partner in a relationship tries to control your behavior it's a giant RED FLAG. That this guy doesn't want you to talk to anyone is just a giant signal that something is wrong. Most likely he's married. Something is off.
Updated on October 20, 2019