My wife and I have been married for 18 years and have 2 children. I went to prison for a year and a half. She got pregnant by someone else, had an abortion but blames me for everything. I told her I still love her and willing to look past that but now it seems every conversation we have, she's always angry at me. Is my marriage over? I think she's just trying to start an argument to justify her leaving. Is there anything I could do to save my marriage or should I move on?
There are so many levels of betrayal, deception, resentment, and anger to sort through. Your situation is complicated which makes it difficult to make a decision. I hope you have taken the time to work through the grief of watching your marriage sustain so much damage. You will need to take time for yourself to explore whether it's worth saving at this point if you're the only one who wants to save it. You might try marriage counseling so that both of you can address these unresolved issues in order to make a decision.
Updated on November 5, 2019
By Janis Leslie Evans