My partner and I have been married for almost a year. He is a businessman and I am working as an accountant in his company. Recently he's been going out claiming that he needs to find new business partners, but I found out he an affair with a woman and now she is haunting both of us. He ignores me and we only have sex once a month. He only has sex with me because he wants to get me pregnant so that he can spend his time out with his friends more frequently. Should I remain in this marriage?
Only you can determine if you should stay in your marriage. Is your marriage satisfying your needs for closeness, intimacy and connection? Do you mind that he his having an affair? If those things are okay with you, then stay. Create your own sense of self with friends, hobbies and other things that interest you. You have to determine what is best for you. And I'm not sure if you are having sex once a month in order to get pregnant or to avoid pregnancy. I would definitely wait to have children until you know you are where you want to be.
Updated on February 3, 2020
By Deborah Demander Reno