First, I'd suggest speaking up for yourself, to him and his mom. Let them know how destructive they are, not only to you but the relationship in general. Second, I'd suggest finding things outside the house and away from them to do with your kids, like field trips, outings to the library or local recreation center. Start building a support network among people who have similar interests to you. Churches and volunteer groups are great places to meet people, and you won't feel so isolated.
My husband and I have been together for ten years. We have three kids. The past year has been very very difficult for me. He is a workaholic. He never wants to spend time with me or the kids. He also badmouths me to his mom, niece and friends. He has never put me first, and never stands up for me. I feel very lonely, depressed and humiliated. I'm staying for the kids, but I'm destroyed on the inside. What should I do?
I am in a relationship with this woman. We are not married yet. She says harsh things, and talks out of respect at times. Our sex life is very poor as well. I tried to correct her about these things, but there are no changes at all. She has been asking me about marriage. Something keeps telling me that I will be making a big mistake if I get married to her. What should I do?
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