Well, I'm not sure of what your question is. How do you handle it? With grace, would be my suggestion. What is it that is bothering you? You don't like the long hours? He isn't making enough money? You want to spend more time together? First, figure out what your own issue is. Lots of husbands, including mine, work very long hours. My husband wants to be comfortable. He want to have money for when we retire. He wants to go on trips together. Because of these things, he works long hours. I am supportive when he comes home, I try to let him rest on weekends, and I look forward to the time we get to spend together. Sure, sometimes I feel like his job is more important than I am. But I also realize that is my own perception and not how he feels.
So, the short answer is to be a loving supportive wife, especially if this is the only issue in your marriage. If there is other stuff going on that isn't working for you, then perhaps it's time to talk to him.
Wish you all the best.