The first question I have is what could your husband do that would make you believe he loves you? Sometimes it's impossible to feel love when you do not love yourself. It might be helpful to begin by pursuing positive, self-affirming activities and friendships in your own life. Build a solid foundation of self-love. If your husband is abusive, it might be impossible to ever receive what you need from him. If he is merely stand-offish, perhaps it is about communication. Maybe he doesn't know how to show you love! Counseling is crucial in relationships, whether there is abuse or communication breakdowns. First, love yourself. Work and prioritize that as your first goal in the process. No one can fulfill you if you are don't have a solid sense of self. Hopefully, he is just misguided. If not, by working toward positive change within you will find what you seek.