If you love each other, and are experiencing a difficult time, your marriage is worth saving. Marriages go through hard times. It's not easy to get out of the rut, but you can do it. Tell him you'd like to spend more time together. Hire a babysitter and take your husband on a date. Dress up for him, without expecting any certain behavior from him. Maybe after being gone for work, he just wants to relax when he's home. Ask him what he'd like from you, and then respond with that. Sometimes, when a person is gone from home, it's hard to get that spark back. Don't give up!