My husband and I are separated right now. We're always on and off in our marriage due to trust issues and infidelity. He has completely shut me out, and places blame on me. He will not tell me who he hangs out with, and I don't if he's having an affair or not. Our problem is trust, because of the past. I feel rejected and fearful. I tried giving him space, but it didn't seem to work. I'm scared he's playing games. He ignores me. I'm lost and not sure what to do?
Of course you feel rejected and fearful. These are natural reactions to not having trust in a relationship.
Be open and honest with your husband. Tell him the truth about how you feel. Find out what he wants. See if there is a way for the two of you to reach some common ground. If he's playing around, and you don't care, then why stay together? Maybe some counseling would give you clarity.
Updated on March 26, 2018
By Deborah Demander