You both sound like your past experiences and current ages would fit reconciliation and "starting over". There are two "Saturn Returns" that occur around 28 -29 and later around 56, The return of Saturn to its Birth Position means it is a TIME FOR GROWTH. This is an excellent time for growth and improvement. IF you have FORGIVEN each other AND yourselves, you probably have a shot. I would count on it.. Don't waste your Soul work. You have invested more than you even know in each other, Of course, you must try again.. Cap can be unforgiving and morose. That's because they really want life to work! Give your Aries woman a chance. She's strong and fiery. and she needs an UPBEAT Cap. Go to her with an uplifting plan, and "get on your knees" and give her your heart, even if its the 10th time.