Your question reads like stream of consciousness writing. I need more clarity in order to answer your question. If women are always 'suddenly' becoming avoidant, there is a reason. Maybe it has to do with the sex issue. I would advise you NOT to go for sex prematurely. If you keep doing so, then you really do not have your act together and it does not matter where you live. Feel free to write back with a question that is clear. For example: How are you stereotyped? Why are you moving too fast? In what way are you manly and honorable? How are other's fake, while you are not?