You didn't do anything to deserve that. What are you doing to create a better life for yourself? You can't control or change him, but you can change your own experience. If you want things to be different for you, then make a decision to do something different. He's gotten into a pattern. Only you can break yourself out of that pattern. Spend time with people who respect and value you. Do things you enjoy. Find joy in your life, regardless of how he acts. You can make your world a better place.
I wish you all the best.
My husband just started a new job. But now he works insane hours. Like he will leave early in the morning and not come home until LATE that night or even sometimes the next morning. Now he first told me that he was working so much to provide for us, but just tonight he said that he's doing it so he can be comfortable. How do I handle this?
My husband and I have been together for 15 years. We have 3 boys together (13,4, and10 months). We started struggling after I had the 3rd baby. At this point, every time he gets upset at me, he ignored me for 1-2 weeks. No words were spoken at all! I feel like I am breaking. I don’t know what else to do. I love him but I want what we had. I’m not sure we can get out this. I feel like he wants to me to say ‘divorce’ and he is pushing me to it. Thoughts? I need help!
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