It’s great you’ve found a guy you’re attracted to, but don’t forget you’ve only just met him. A bit early to be making declarations of love.
But, you’re excited and that’s fun ... as long as you don’t end up in tears and grieving the love that never was. Because, quite honestly, there’s not much chance a guy you’ve just met in the library will be feeling ‘in love’ with you before you’ve ever spent any time together.
You like him. Maybe he likes you. There are ways to tell, but asking me is not one of them. You’ve seen my list of ‘50 Signs a Guy Likes You’. See how many of the signs I listed can be matched with your guy.
If you can identify 30 or more of those hints when it comes to your guy, I believe you’re safe to assume he likes you. But in your case, I’m guessing you don’t know him well enough yet to know how he behaves in different situations.
So I suggest you resist the temptation to obsess about your ‘love’, and just make it your goal to get to know the hot guy a bit better before worrying about how much you like each other. Otherwise, you’re just setting yourself up for disappointment.
Don’t be one of those girls who end up sobbing for weeks, claiming she’s ‘heartbroken’ about a guy she never really knew.
Feeling attracted is far more common than actuality ‘falling in love’. Attraction is part of the fun part, so don’t spoil it. Just enjoy trying to get to know him better.