I do not know how arranged marriage works, and I do not know the cultural impact of your arrangement. In general, marriage works better if you can live together. Having said that, lots of people live apart due to a variety of circumstances. Perhaps you and he can set some definite times to talk during the day. Maybe first thing in the morning and last thing at night before you go to bed. Throughout the day, text when you can, but don't expect an immediate answer. My husband and I both work. Just because he doesn't answer my texts doesn't mean he doesn't love me. He is busy at work, just as I am. He answers when he can, and I answer him when I can. When you don't live together, you must make a lot of adjustments. Have you talked to him about moving there, and your fears? Be open and honest. Let him know what you think and how you feel. You can't have a strong marriage without good communication.