I have been with my boyfriend for three years. He always has to be right and is always defensive and won't give me any hugs or kisses unless I do it first and then keep bugging him. He has had a terrible past and I get it but so do I and I don't let that stop me from trying everything I can to love him...he's always so depressing and I just want to know what to do...I love him... Is it possible that he lost interest in me? Is it my fault he doesn't want to hold me?
It sounds like you are dating a "know it all" and that is a character trait that will never change.
If you have to initiate affection then perhaps you need to talk to him about how you feel and see if there is a way forward together. Otherwise, it's time to move on sweety, find love that will adore you and give you love freely and unconditionally too.
Updated on March 19, 2020
By Natasha Pelati