I have been in a long distant relationship for a year and a half. There has been a lot of arguing and making up. Just over a week ago, he broke up with me because I’m not ready to move in with him, and I don't believe our relationship is strong enough either. I haven’t seen him for over three weeks. He broke it off in a text. Should I contact him to see if he will even talk to me?


Seriously? He dumped you by text, and you're the one worrying if he will talk to you!

Your relationship sounds rather volatile, and you obviously have reservations about committing yourself to this guy. It is important that you take heed of your sixth sense. I'm assuming that you're the one who will be giving up everything and moving away to be with him.

If he doesn't respect you enough to have a mature conversation about the future of your relationship, then I would be running in the opposite direction. Listen to your gut and don't allow yourself to be pressured into doing something you may later regret. If he's right for you, then he'll wait for you. Alternatively, look for a guy closer to home.

Updated on April 8, 2018

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7 Dumb Mistakes People Make After No Contact
By C L Grant