So basically you have a child with a guy who doesn't want to be with you, but he treats you and your daughter well. This seems pretty weird. This guy is afraid of commitment, but he clearly doesn't mind having you around. I guess there are worse things. And now he wants to have another baby. To me, it would seem this guy has a tremendous amount of control over you, so you need to think about what your life is going to be like under his thumb. He controls your paycheck, your living situation - pretty much everything. If he's nice to you and you can tolerate this situation, it doesn't sound too bad. However, if you need emotional support beyond what he's offering, then you're going to need to go see a lawyer and explain this situation and make sure that you are legally protected and that he will be supporting your daughter until she is 18 regardless of whether you stay or not. Does he want you? I don't know. It's clear he wants to control you.