I am sick and we got invited to a party. It came and he is having thoughts if he should go or not seeing him that he wanted to be there. He asked me if i want him to go or not I said thats his decision to make which I told him just go enjoy I'm just home watching TV waiting for you, but deep in me i dont want him to go. He said I will go and stay for a couple or 3 hours. I was home all alone for more than 6 hours. Is it okay to be mad at my husband for going to this party? We are 6 months married by the way.
If you don't want to go, and you give him permission to go, then you can't punish him for going. Sure, you are missing out and you are sick. You told him to go ahead and have fun. There is nothing wrong with him going to a party without you. There is nothing wrong with you staying home when you don't feel well. Maybe he was just having fun and lost track of time. Don't hold petty grievances against your husband, or you won't enjoy the marriage. Picking fights over small things lead to bigger problems later.
Updated on November 18, 2019
By Deborah Demander