I am male and gay but I have a girlfriend. She knows that I am gay and is totally fine with it. In fact, she is asexual and fine with me having sex with other men. However, I am not allowed to have sex with her brother. Yet I slept with him yesterday. How can I best rebuild the trust between us? Is there anything additional I can do in my particular situation, or anything I additionally need to take care of to repair my relationship with my girlfriend?
Your situation is complicated due to the triangulation you've created between your girlfriend and her brother and yourself. It will be difficult to repair the broken trust with this type of betrayal between family members, especially if it's kept secret. At some point, you will have to decide to be transparent with her. But unfortunately, all relationships will be negatively impacted by the deception.
Updated on September 11, 2019
By Janis Leslie Evans