If you are unfamiliar with current trends, the easiest way to figure out how to dress is to go into men's clothing shops and look at the mannequins. The Gap, for example, has nicely dressed male mannequins in their stores, The same goes for other higher-end men's shops, such as Dillards or Banana Republic. They make it easy for you. If you like the way a mannequin is dressed, just ask the clerk to help you find all those items in your size, including the shoes and belts. And by the way, a good pair of black and brown dress shoes are a must for your wardrobe. Be prepared to spend about $100 each on good looking shoes. You also want to get a really good haircut with a stylist or barber that knows what they are doing. If you do all those things, you will be a well dressed, well-groomed man. Best of luck to you!