I am not sure what you mean when you say "men are resorting back to the way things were." What decade are you referring to? In the '50s, 60's & beyond, men were still pretty traditional while dating, although one could always find an extreme subset of men who "hated" women. It is only recently that some of these subsets have grown, mostly due to the broad availability of the internet. As for men who are "concerned" about "risks" I have addressed that topic many times over in my comment section. Consequently, I will not go into detail once again.