So you're back with the same guy but the same things are starting to occur that made you break up in the first place? Does a Leopard change its spots? That said, I'm not sure I buy your complaint that he doesn't text and call enough. I think you'll be better off if you don't base your feeling on how much he texts and calls. It would be better if you simply didn't care much. It's one thing if he doesn't tell you he's coming over or when you're going out, but needing him to call and text all the time is called "controlling". Further, I'm pretty sure you wouldn't like it if he called and texted as much as you wanted him too because then you'd start to see him as needy. Think about it.