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10 Common Personality Traits of a Cheater

The lessons I learned from healing and moving on from an unfaithful spouse helped me to make better choices in all aspects of my life.

What are the signs of a cheater?

What are the signs of a cheater?

One Thing All Cheaters Have in Common

One thing all cheaters have in common is the propensity to cheat! Are you worried about your partner? If so, what causes a man to cheat on the woman he claims to love? Is the cheating man or woman just a selfish, self-absorbed jerk? Or, is there "dysfunction" lurking beneath his or her deceptive ways? What are the symptoms of a cheater?

The Serial Cheater Profile

Most research suggests that rather than there being one thing that all cheaters have in common, there is a common set of characteristics, personality traits and behavior patterns that set serial cheaters apart from their non-philandering counterparts. The sooner you can recognize these traits, the closer you will be to protecting yourself from their selfish ways. And now, without further ado, let's begin to evaluate the warnings signs of a cheater!

10 Traits of Cheater

  1. Narcissism
  2. Deception
  3. Jealousy
  4. Always Needing More
  5. Flirting
  6. Insecurity
  7. Thrill-Seeking
  8. Immorality
  9. Distorted View of Reality
  10. Lack of Respect

Take the Quiz: How to Spot a Cheater

For each question, choose the best answer for you.

  1. True or False: In their eyes, they can never do any wrong.
    • True
    • False
  2. True or False: They are good at telling lies.
    • True
    • False
  3. True or False: They act jealous at times.
    • True
    • False
  4. True or False: Nothing ever seems to satisfy them.
    • True
    • False
  5. True or False: They flirt in front of me and act like it shouldn't affect me.
    • True
    • False
  6. True or False: They constantly need reassurance from others and to be noticed.
    • True
    • False
  7. True or False: They've cheated before.
    • True
    • False
  8. True or False: They grew up with poor examples of a healthy relationships.
    • True
    • False
  9. True or False: They're disrespectful to you or others.
    • True
    • False
  10. True or False: They are always chasing the next best thing.
    • True
    • False

Scoring

Use the scoring guide below to add up your total points based on your answers.

  1. True or False: In their eyes, they can never do any wrong.
    • True: +1 point
    • False: +0 points
  2. True or False: They are good at telling lies.
    • True: +1 point
    • False: +0 points
  3. True or False: They act jealous at times.
    • True: +1 point
    • False: +0 points
  4. True or False: Nothing ever seems to satisfy them.
    • True: +1 point
    • False: +0 points
  5. True or False: They flirt in front of me and act like it shouldn't affect me.
    • True: +1 point
    • False: +0 points
  6. True or False: They constantly need reassurance from others and to be noticed.
    • True: +1 point
    • False: +0 points
  7. True or False: They've cheated before.
    • True: +3 points
    • False: +0 points
  8. True or False: They grew up with poor examples of a healthy relationships.
    • True: +1 point
    • False: -1 point
  9. True or False: They're disrespectful to you or others.
    • True: +2 points
    • False: -1 point
  10. True or False: They are always chasing the next best thing.
    • True: +2 points
    • False: -1 point

Interpreting Your Score

A score between -3 and 2 means: They seem to have high morals.

A score between 3 and 7 means: They may push the line here and there, but unlikely to cheat.

A score between 8 and 10 means: You're not crazy for wondering . . .

A score between 11 and 12 means: The signs are there!

A score between 13 and 14 means: They fit the profile!

One thing all cheaters have in common: narcissistic tendencies.

One thing all cheaters have in common: narcissistic tendencies.

1. Narcissism

Most often, cheaters are narcissists, or at the very least, they have many similar narcissistic qualities. For example, they are selfish, greedy, and often think only of themselves. A narcissist typically feels a sense of entitlement and will do whatever necessary to feed the "narcissistic supply". Wikipedia defines "narcissistic supply" as:

' . . . a concept in some psychoanalytic theories, which describes a type of admiration, interpersonal support or sustenance drawn by an individual from his or her environment (especially from careers, codependents and others). The term is typically used in a negative sense, describing a pathological or excessive need for attention or admiration that does not take into account the feelings, opinions or preferences of other people'.

Narcissism Behavior After Getting Caught Cheating

In short, narcissists are self-absorbed, out for number one and lack empathy, which makes it possible for them to have affairs without feeling guilty. Because they do not feel guilty and lack empathy and remorse after cheating, they are often full of excuses and reasons as to why they broke the trust in a relationship. It is, however, important to distinguish between narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), borderline personality disorder (BPD), and psychopathy as not to confuse them:

  • Psychopathy: These individuals are often referred to as predators. They prefer to work in private and in isolation.
  • NPD: May be concurrent with BPD. NPD individuals often choose to operate in public because they enjoy praise and attention. They see themselves as perfect. NPD individuals are more demeaning when it comes to criticism (in contrast to those with BPD).
  • BPD: May be concurrent with NPD. BPD individuals often express anger in a rage but show remorse after, contrary to NPD individuals.

Narcissists vs. Psychopaths—Traits and Characteristics

NarcissistPsychopath or Predator

Everybody loves me.

Human rights don't matter.

I'm never wrong.

Rules and laws should be broken.

I have no equals.

Most people deserve to be fooled.

No one measures up.

People ask for it.

Rules don't apply to me.

Everyone cheats.

You should appreciate me.

Everybody lies.

You'll never be like me.

I don't care about suffering.

My arrogance is greatness.

Emotions? Not me.

I don't have to be loyal, but you do.

I have a history and I don't care.

I'm allowed to be critical but not you.

People's lives don't matter.

Show interest in me.

"No" doesn't mean anything.

It's not manipulation, it's preference.

Physical violence is ok.

I only spend time with certain people.

Risk taking is no problem.

Just do what I say.

If people trust me, it's their fault.

Things cheaters have in common: the tendency towards deception.

Things cheaters have in common: the tendency towards deception.

2. Deception

A cheater can look you directly in the eyes and tell a lie without even blinking. They have been known to tell tall tales that are so outrageous, that you can’t help but believe them. We tend to believe them because they have perfected the lie, which makes it sound utterly convincing.

Liars and Cheaters, Oh My!

Not all liars are cheaters, but you can’t be a cheater and not be a liar: the two go hand in hand. The liar's life is so full of deception that the line between truth and fiction is blurred; the lies often become more and more intricate the more desperate the cheater is to cover their tracks.

Traits of cheaters: jealousy.

Traits of cheaters: jealousy.

3. Jealousy

What goes around comes around—or at least that's what they think! Cheaters constantly question you and frequently accuse you of inappropriate behavior or being flirtatious. The very fact that they are capable of being unfaithful puts them on the defensive and paranoia sets in. If they are doing it, they assume their partner must be doing it also. They are so deep into their life of lies and deception that insecurity sets in and they begin to accuse you of not only cheating, but lying, flirting, etc.

The best piece of advice I can give you is to listen carefully to what your partner is saying and remember this word: Projecting! Projecting, projecting, projecting . . . got it? Need some tips for processing jealousy on your end? Consider ways to understand and overcome jealousy.

Why Do Cheaters Get Jealous?

If they are accusing you of crazy, uncalled for behaviors, chances are they are the one committing the crime. Example: "You were late last night, you’re probably screwing around with your co-worker." Projecting! They really mean, "I am late sometimes because I’m screwing around." If you have tuned into your cheating spouse's behavior, you can pretty much figure out what they are up to just by listening to what their accusations are.

Personality characteristics of cheaters: always needing more.

Personality characteristics of cheaters: always needing more.

4. Always Needing More

It’s never enough! A common trait among cheaters is their constant need for more: more money, more attention, more recognition, etc. They are never happy or satisfied. They need constant attention and frequent ego boosts. They are always looking for that next hobby or activity to satisfy their needs, yet they are never happy no matter what they have in their lives. You can give and give, but they always need more. They need to be the center of attention, and they need to feel needed and wanted, always.

But What About Evolutionary Psychology?

Contrary to popular belief that males are simply programmed to cheat, the advantage lies within the female's court. According to an article by PacificStandard:

'Mating with multiple partners increases the genetic diversity of a female’s offspring, increasing the odds that at least some will survive regardless of changing environmental conditions. It can help a female acquire so-called "good genes" for her young . . . '

Sure, nature favors genetic diversity, but cheating is a choice. While always needing more may simply apply to other areas of life, we often see issues with sexual behavior and, specifically, impulse control when it comes to cheating. A cheating man or woman will often go outside of their marriage to indulge in sexual satisfaction. The reasons they choose to be unfaithful and go outside of their long-term relationship could be many, and oftentimes require the help of a relationship expert or similar professional.

One thing all cheaters have in common: the tendency to flirt.

One thing all cheaters have in common: the tendency to flirt.

5. Flirting

Cheaters are most often, but not always, huge flirts. They need validation from and to feel desired by the opposite sex. They often see any flirtatious exchange, no matter how small, as an invitation for more. Ironically, it's not so much that they have huge egos as it is that they lack self-esteem.

Is Flirting Cheating?

Not necessarily, but it can lead to more. Many times they will flirt in front of you as if it's harmless fun. They think that if we see it with our own eyes that we will believe that it will never happen behind our backs. "Yes, he's a huge flirt, but he always flirts with me there, so it's harmless." Flirting is disrespectful under any circumstance and should always be a huge red flag—period!

A common trait of cheaters is deep insecurity.

A common trait of cheaters is deep insecurity.

6. Insecurity

The saddest part of a cheater's personality is that they often carry emotional scars from their past. Many unfaithful partners were emotionally abused as children, were ignored or had love and attention withheld. Sometimes, their own role models were in messed up relationships. They are often emotionally dependent on their spouses or partners. The very thing they desire is the thing that causes them to cheat in the first place. Their fear of being alone is so huge that they need a backup plan; they need to know that someone is always available to them.

Why Are Cheaters so Weak?

Often, you may feel that your spouse's emotionally dependency on you is so high that they would never risk losing you by having an affair. But the catch here is that their insecurity is so strong that they need to seek out extra-marital affairs to ensure that they never feel alone or insignificant. As shocking as it may be, you may want to consider the signs of an extra-marital affair.

Partners who stray are often caught up in thrill-seeking.

Partners who stray are often caught up in thrill-seeking.

7. Thrill-Seeking

Cheaters are sometimes risk takers in other areas of their lives as well. It all boils down to that 'rush' they feel when there is something important at stake. It's often the lies and fear of getting caught that fuel their fire. They just can't seem to resist the thrill of the chase time and time again, and when the opportunity for reciprocation arrives, they can’t seem to resist that either. It’s a win-win with no regard for the people involved.

What Leads to Compulsive Cheating?

These thrill-seeking, cheating partners tend to be compulsive cheaters. They are constantly trying to squeeze the best out of life, whether it's gambling, impulsive spending or the beautiful woman or handsome man in the club. If it's not one thing, it's the next. The feelings they get from the pursuit or chase outweighs a lot of the positive qualities of a secure, trusting relationship. They're all about indulgence and pleasure.

Many unfaithful people have a tendency to be immoral in other areas of life.

Many unfaithful people have a tendency to be immoral in other areas of life.

8. Immorality

If your partner has confessed to cheating in past relationships, you need to pay close attention. Often, this indicates the extent of their moral code. They have pretty much confirmed that they have no problem crossing the line and will likely do it again. Please don't buy into the excuses they will give for their previous mistakes. It doesn't matter if "she was a bitch" or if "it was already over." Let's call a spade a spade. It's cheating and extremely disrespectful.

What Does Cheating Say About a Person?

Unhappy or not, partners deserve a better ending to their relationship than infidelity. So is 'once a cheater, always a cheater' true? Often the answer is, unfortunately, yes! (I do recognize that once in a blue moon, someone cheats, and it truly was a huge mistake that they can learn from and grow.) These people, too, do not play by the rules. They may resort to nasty things like emotional blackmail or blackmail on social media to keep things their way in addition to lying.

Serial cheaters often have a distorted view of reality.

Serial cheaters often have a distorted view of reality.

9. Distorted View of Reality

Cheaters often grew up in families where infidelity occurred, or a parent was disrespected in some other way. I'm not saying that it is genetic, just pointing out that if a person grew up in such a disrespectful environment, then this behavior is all they know or have to model their own behavior after.

How Do Cheaters Feel About Themselves?

They are more inclined to believe that cheating is a normal, acceptable behavior. They tend not to realize the repercussions on their current relationship. They may be blocked emotionally from past trauma, which causes them to lack empathy or remorse a lot of the time.

Cheaters have a lack of respect for others.

Cheaters have a lack of respect for others.

10. Lack of Respect

The way a man treats his mother and carries himself in her presence can tell you a lot about who he is as a person. If a man shows little respect for his mother, he most likely has little respect for women, in general, making him more likely to cross that line into infidelity. On the contrary, if he holds his mother and women in high regard and sees them as valuable creatures deserving respect, he is less likely to cheat.

A Word About Habitual or Chronic Cheaters

Habitual or chronic cheaters, otherwise known as serial cheaters, simply lack respect for their partner. If they have done it to you, they have probably done it to others or will do it to others in the future.

Once a Cheater Always a Cheater? The Takeaway

Although I am not a relationship expert, these are just some of the most common traits cheaters share. What is considered cheating is really up to you and your significant other. In summary, just be aware of the signs and don't make excuses for poor behavior. Being disrespected by a man (or a woman) is never acceptable, and it is often an indication of bigger problems in a relationship.

A Note About the Warning Signs

It is important to note that these warning signs are based on trends of infidelity and the traits of serial cheaters—this does not necessarily mean that your partner is cheating. If you are worried about your significant other, work with a relationship expert or similar professional to get to the heart of the matter.

If you don't stand for something, you will fall for anything.

Believe in Your Worth

Cheating, lying, flirting, verbal and emotional abuse are all things that should never be overlooked or tolerated from your partner. If you don't stand for something, you will fall for anything. Be strong and demand respect from your partner. You don't have to live that way.

Video: The Most Common Traits of Cheaters

Sources

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2011 cheatlierepeat

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I wish I would of figured out my problems before I screwed up the best possible person In life . She is / was amazing but I had to keep lying to keep my issues away. I should of been a man & stood up & taken care of my issues . I hurt & disappointed a lot of people

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Dan on July 30, 2018:

They simply don't care

B on June 12, 2018:

As the cheater I can look at this list & unfortunately know I'm guilty of all... Life isn't black and white and many of us tend to live in the grey abyss

kelly on June 06, 2018:

being married 25 years to a man whose had numerous affairs, I can attest to many of the signs listed however towards the end of our marriage, I began to look for someone else too. I admit it not being the right thing to do but I really felt neglected for nearly the entire 25 years. If ever in a comitted relationship again, I will never stray outside of the relationship but I would also never tolerate what I put up with for 25 years either!

Carol on May 17, 2018:

Me too Brett my ex husband is FILTH, his affairs took place in our family home in front of the kids! Just sickening!

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Brett on March 27, 2018:

It happened to me, i was cheated on. We were together for 5 years, she was possibly cheating for 2 years. I cannot describe the amount of pain i am in, she is apathetic and couldnt give two shits about how she has made me feel. 0 fucks given.

Faith on March 10, 2018:

I see it but I can't leave him alone.

Bob on February 17, 2018:

Hi i can relate to the stories

cheatlierepeat (author) from Canada on January 23, 2018:

Hi,

I have stated many times that I write based on my experience (a woman who has been cheated on by a man) Of course women cheat, and no I do not have a hate on for men. I am actually married to not only a man, but probably one of the most decent human beings that exist.

So, to answer your question - No, no I'm not kidding you.

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Me on January 18, 2018:

Quite politely - are you kidding Me?? Unbelievable misandry. Ridiculous.

Men? As if women don't cheat????

hapiness on October 31, 2017:

Susan,

I am a total stranger but I'd like to give you advice anyway, I think your husband has issue. Disaster is waiting to be happened. The issue here is do you accept that kind of behavior? sounds to me like it bothers you. I am not so sure about you can change him. Only you can decide to leave him or to keep him. This article covers 10 issues and he has most of them. Run Susan run. :) good luck to you

Susan on August 14, 2017:

My husband writes to woman on Facebook messenger and twitter He is from Mexico and he only writes to Spanish women. At times he will send a romantic picture. He has sent a message to a Spanish news woman about how highly he looks at her. He sent a message to a woman on twitter asking her if she wants to have a jacuzzi. He does not get responses from them. One time I found on twitter he wrote to his cousin asking her if she wanted to have sex. She lives in Mexico and he lives with me on Long Island. N. Y.. At first she said yes as long as it would be special, he said yes. Then she said no because she has self respect. What I do not understand is that he is only contacting women far away and not near where we live. I worry that one day he will start to call woman closer to home and have physical affairs. Except for his cousin all of these women are young and beautiful. I asked him to get help and he said I am crazy. I know the problem is all about him and his childhood issues. He always tells me that he does not feel like he is enough for me. I always tell him he is and it is never enough for him. He loves to look at beautiful women though he tries to get me fat. He is afraid of another man wanting me. It is confusing to me that he is calling and sending messages only to women in Mexico or other spanish countries. I have told him many times that I believe he wants to be married to a Spanish woman. He always tells me no. He received his Green Card in March. I thought he might have been doing this befor he received his card because he did not know if he had to leave the U. S. He has his green card and has not stopped contracting other women out of this country. I believe he loves me because we always enjoy each other. He is good to me. I don't understand what he is doing. He is always home with me when he is not with me. He is home when I am working.Can you give me your opinion

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Kris04 on June 10, 2017:

I have been married for 24 years my husband has always had emotional affairs and I always took him back. At this point we are going through a divorce I can say I have lived and learned yet better late than never. So I agree men cheat because they are not secure in their own skin, and needs attention more often than others , they want their cake and eat it too. My situation is wondering why and how can he replace me so fast with someone else and when he is caught he blames me, says he feels alone or the mighty one of " I don't know" yet he says he loves me ..Hello you have a heck of way showing it and talk is cheap. His latest is he was driving a woman home ( he does one of those use your car as a taxi service on the side) ) as he put it she was drunk and they started talking about life and she gave him her phone number, well he called and text her on his sideline account and was going to take her to dinner but he claims because he loves me he could not go through with it, my response when he told me was you did start it when you accepted her phone number with no regard or respect for me and knowing how the past affairs effected me you still went through with calls and text so please spare me your still in love with me. The worst part is I hold hope he will change even though he says he does not want the divorce I have yet to see him stop it or suggest therapy or something. Cheaters have no clue what their stupid mistakes do to others and even when busted there is very little feelings/regard to the spouse/partner. So how does one learn to move on and forward and let that hope go with a cheater that has cheated for over 20 years. Yes kids are involved age 20 and 17 and they are not in their dads life because of the examples he set and he chose years ago to not be active in the kids lives yet wants that title as "dad" how can a father say to his kids he will not do it again and will be and do better but be and do worse ? If you want to have a relationship with the kids then you would think doing anything and going to the end of the earth would come to mind. I am tired of being replaced , hurt, put on the sidelines . So now I stand tall and strong I just wish I could forget him, and stop asking why and not care . Other than that life is good considering my options divorce is best for me. I wasted enough time.

Jjj on May 02, 2017:

Why is this aimed at men?! Women cheat too....

Katie on March 02, 2017:

Thank you for this very helpful article. I am surprised how shallow and superficial cheaters are! Grateful I am disease free and free from the havoc of cheaters!!!

cheatlierepeat (author) from Canada on February 15, 2017:

I am sorry to hear that!

Mike on February 15, 2017:

This article perfectly describes my wife

Anthony jones on January 05, 2017:

Such a biased opinion. Theres no proof in this pudding. What you aren't reading is that ALL humans make mistakes and ALL people have these traits.

Accusations can come out of fear. Paranoid tendencies come out of insecurity. Everyone practices these emotions.

What this article sounds like to me is a paranoid woman who has been cheated on nunerously so she picks away at her partners and turns them into categories instead of a person.

Always dissecting the conversation to find an underlying cause.

This type of behavior is borderline.

Bottom line...people are gon a screw up and piss you off. Doesnt mean tjat they are held to the fire for life because of some simple words or actions.

Come on people!! Just use common sense and better judgement.

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cheatlierepeat (author) from Canada on September 17, 2015:

IamthatWife - Hi, thank you for your comment. I am sorry you are going through this, it really is torture.

You didn't ask for my advice but I just want to tell you to be very careful, your husbands actions are far from those of someone who will do anything to save their marriage. I know you already know this, trust your intuition... those nagging thoughts you try to silence are right, listen to them.

Maizie from North Western Canada on August 17, 2015:

My husband is several of these things but not all of them. He had a sexual affair and at the same time had an online emotional affair with a much younger woman. The sexual affair was just supposed to be friends with benefits sex but his married friend decided she wanted more. He did not want more with her. The 26 year old online affair, she's different. He cares about her, doesn't want to hurt her but his whole relationship with her has been a lie as well. His sexual affair started with her when his friend fell in love and her wants in their relationship changed. In order for our marriage to survive he needs to end his emotional relationship with this girl.

I wish I knew if I was making the right choice to continue to try and work this out with him. It should be an easy fix. Either he chooses life with me where I'm willing to work though and save our marriage or he isn't. It's very hard to walk away from someone who tells you it's you he really loves, and wants to be with but at the same time he won't disconnect his girlfriend cellphone to prove it. He doesn't want to hurt her because she suffers from anxiety and depression, he worries about her. He's not a mental health professional, he cannot help her. If anything he is making things worse, because it would be just as devastating to her, as it was to me, if she found out he's lied to her for the last three years. My patience is coming to an end, I'm finding it easier to walk away from him and not listen to his reasons for not doing what he told me he would do, why he can't just shut the phone down. I don't care anymore, just shut the phone down and then we can talk about repairing our life. I'm drained and have spent far too long trying to fix something I did not break. I've given him a year to prove he was going to change and it's still going on. I want to believe he's a good person and that he truly does want our marriage to work but there have been so many lies that I'm not sure he even knows what is the truth is anymore.

Very good article, thank you.

cheatlierepeat (author) from Canada on August 07, 2015:

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Foolish7 on August 06, 2015:

My ex and I moved in with each other in feb 2013 I thought things was going great but he lost his job in June of 2013. July he started staying away and staying with his mom every time he would not be home it was family reason.Finally he said its not working out I'm moving in with mom,but he was really moving in with the woman he was messing with behind my back. A woman with a teenage daughter. he blocked me from Facebook,so i would not find out I had to confront him when he came to get his stuff. Now we started talking again last year we realize we still loved each other. Even thought on facebook she has her self listed as engaged he told me it was a fake.He got a car to travel an hour 30 away every day to be with me. I took him back and same month again find out he is cheating once again moving out and has a new girlfriend again this time with three kids.I'm stuck with the bills and the damage he left behind once again.. And slept with another woman while he was with the one he cheated on me. Is this just a repeat cheater or a person that can't deal with any stress in his life?

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I am a female and i am everything that this article describes i can't stop cheating i feel bad at times but i haven't gotten caught and i keep doing it. This is a rush and i hate myself at times but in a way my sick twisted ways cant let go.

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I don't understand your comment, but women definitely cheat as well. I write mostly about my experiences.

Joe on October 16, 2014:

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