13 Signs That He Doesn't Love You Anymore

Updated on April 8, 2015
Signs he doesn't love you anymore
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If my boyfriend stops replying to my cute texts, is it a sign that he doesn't love me anymore? If he says he wants more space, does it mean he wants to break up with me? If my guy has stopped saying, "I love you," does it mean he doesn't have feelings for me anymore?

Stop assuming and read this article, which discusses some of the everyday signs that show that he isn't interested in you or the relationship any longer.

1) Your Boyfriend Suddenly Starts Demanding Space in the Relationship

Your boyfriend really shouldn't be asking for more space in your relationship if there have not been any changes in the way either of you behave. His demands to be left alone could be because he doesn't enjoy being with you the same way that he did before.

Calmly ask your guy why he wants more space. If he says something specific, deal with it and get it over with. But if he says something vague and has no clear reasons why he suddenly wants you to take a step back, his love for you may be fizzling out.

2) He Starts Comparing You to Other Girls

A guy should never say something to a girl that makes her feel less beautiful, less talented, or less of a woman than someone else. The slightest hints of comparisons made between you and any other girl should be a warning sign.

Comparing your behavior, looks, or any other aspect of personality with another woman suggests a deep-rooted resentment driving a sense of frustration. Here are some examples of how a guy's cruel words may mean that he is falling out of love with his girl:

  • Why can't you dress like her?
  • She carries such a lot of confidence when she speaks, why can't you do the same?
  • Maybe you should learn a thing or two about style from her.
  • You are such a jealous girlfriend, why can't you be like my best friend's girl? She is always relaxed and calm.

If your guy does this once, let him know that you will not tolerate being compared to another girl. Ask him how he would feel if you compared him with another guy. And if he still continues to do so, it may be a sign that he doesn't love you the same way he used to.

3) He Stops Replying to Your Texts or Takes a Long Time to Reply

Has he stopped replying to your texts? It could be a sign that he's not that into you.
Has he stopped replying to your texts? It could be a sign that he's not that into you. | Source

One of the first signs that your boyfriend is really beginning to lose his feelings for you is when he stops replying to your texts. This is the moment when he is out with his friends, he gets a beep on his phone, and he makes a dirty face when he sees that it is a text from you.

You will immediately notice this twist in his behavior because he will suddenly start taking longer than usual to reply to your texts. In the beginning, he will have all sorts of excuses for taking such a long time. But after a point, he will simply get irritated and lose his temper every time you ask him why he took so long. This is the moment when you must realize that the love in your relationship has been taken down a notch.

4) Your Boyfriend Starts Spending Most of His Time with His Friends

Everyday relationship problems, fights, and arguments often drive a couple apart to the point where they stop hanging out with each other. But usually this distance is temporary, lasting only until the silly arguments have been sorted out.

If your boyfriend has cut down on the time he spends with you and increased the amount of time he hangs out with his buddies, ask him if something is bothering him. If he is doing it unknowingly, he will do whatever he can to make you feel that nothing is wrong.

On the other hand, if he is deliberately avoiding you because he doesn't feel the same way about you anymore, he will fumble for a reason. Take this as a sign that his love for you is on the decline.

5) He Starts Becoming Extremely Selfish in the Relationship

Does he only care about his work/routine and refuse to recognize that you need attention as well?
Does he only care about his work/routine and refuse to recognize that you need attention as well? | Source

When a guy starts losing interest in his relationship, his behavior will likely take a very selfish turn. He will become more inconsiderate and self-centered in his interactions with you. Here are some of the classic signs you should watch out for.

  • He starts becoming extremely selfish in bed.
  • All he cares about is his routine, his studies, his work, and his friends.
  • He stops asking you for your opinion on where you both go out on dates.
  • He doesn't acknowledge his self-centered behavior even after you have pointed it out to him.

6) He Gets Irritated When You Start a Mushy Conversation

Mushy conversations and cute names are a playful part of a couple's love life. These things slowly taper off as the puppy-love effect wears off, but they still remain deep-rooted in everyday behavior.

Your guy's annoyance may be justified if you overdo it by calling him cute names all day long. But an overall aversion to anything lovey-dovey can be a sign that he is no longer invested in the relationship.

7) Your Boyfriend Has Stopped Saying "I Love You"

A guy and a girl usually start saying "I love you" to each other once they move past the first phase of dating. If your relationship developed into the "I love you" stage a long time ago, there is no reason why your boyfriend should suddenly feel averse to saying these three beautiful words to you. As cheesy as it sounds, if he stops saying them, it is a strong sign that that he isn't as into you as he was before.

8) He Doesn't Bother to Comfort You, Even When You Are Sad

If he doesn't comfort you when you're feeling blue, he's not reacting as a boyfriend should.
If he doesn't comfort you when you're feeling blue, he's not reacting as a boyfriend should. | Source

A man who is in love will always recognize when his loved one is sad or in distress, and will do whatever it takes to bring a smile back to her face. This is true regardless of how much a couple fights or argues. No guy can call himself a boyfriend if he does nothing when he knows that something is bothering his girl.

Hugging a girl when she looks sad and rubbing her shoulders when she is down should be a boyfriend's instincts. If your guy doesn't do any of that and turns a blind eye even when you are feeling blue, it can be a sign that he doesn't love you with the same intensity that he did before.

9) Your Boyfriend Digs up Regrettable Incidents from Your Past

Everyone knows how painful it feels when someone reminds you of memories that have scarred you emotional and psychologically. It takes a person many years to forget someone, let go of bitter memories, and move on from the regret of doing stupid things.

Your boyfriend has no reason to dig up painful memories from your past and fling them at you when you have an argument. This is one boundary that partners must not cross, because it can be very damaging to someone's confidence.

If your guy has recently started slinging your past regrets at you with a hurtful intent, his feelings for you may have already bottomed out.

10) He Doesn't Flirt with You Any More

Flirting speaks volumes about the chemistry a couple shares. No matter how long you have been in the same relationship, your boyfriend should typically be flirting with you by:

  • Giving you compliments when you wear something new
  • Picking random moments to tell you how beautiful you are
  • Staring at you and looking into your eyes when you are both alone
  • Make you feel sexy by telling you how attractive you are

Of course, your guy isn't expected to be Prince Charming all the time. But he should be taking the initiative to start such romantic conversations every now and then.

11) The Spark of Physical Intimacy Fizzles Out in Your Relationship

Snuggling and physical contact is normal in a relationship. If you find yourselves maintaining your distance from one another, that's a sign something is wrong.
Snuggling and physical contact is normal in a relationship. If you find yourselves maintaining your distance from one another, that's a sign something is wrong. | Source

When a guy starts falling out of love, it will reflect in his hugs, kisses, and cuddles. The chemistry of physical intimacy that you share with your guy says a lot about your relationship. Ask yourself these questions if you think that your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore:

  • Do you still share those long hugs that you used to when you started dating him?
  • Does your boyfriend cuddle you when you are all by yourselves?

Thinking about these things will immediately give you a fair idea of whether your boyfriend is still totally into you or has gotten bored in the relationship. Another sign of a lack of emotional connect is when your sex life is either non-existent or it has gotten to the point that it feels mundane.

12) He Gets Angry and Loses His Cool without Any Reason

People lose their tempers for any number of reasons, including doing poorly at school, having rough times at work, feeling bullied, or going through family problems.

If your boyfriend seems to be edgy all the time and loses his temper at non-issues, try to find out the reason for his anger. If you can't seem to pin-point any specific causes, his random flare-ups could simply mean that he is irritated by you and the relationship.

13) Your Boyfriend Suddenly Starts Getting Annoyed by Some of Your Habits

Has your boyfriend recently started pointing out little stuff in your everyday behavior, claiming that you annoy him endlessly? Ask yourself these questions if he suddenly feels that some of your habits are driving him crazy.

  • Did you have these habits before you met him?
  • Had any of those habits created problems in the relationship before?

Make a mental note of whether you have had those habits since the beginning of your relationship. If you did, then why is your boyfriend suddenly becoming averse to them? Ask the same question to him. If he doesn't have an answer for you, the real answer probably lies in his heart, which doesn't beat for you anymore.


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      Enna 6 days ago

      HONESTLY THIS IS SO ACCURATE I'M SCARED. My boyfriend has suddenly lost interest and has been spending a lot of time with this other girl that HE SWEARS he doesn't have feelings for. She's said she's had feelings for him in the past, so then he stopped being her friend. But now she's back.. And typically I don't get jealous.. But when he's spending more time with her than with me I get worried. And every time I look over at them she's tucking her hair behind her ear and batting her eyelashes at him. My god I hate her so much. But also in some ways I'm jealous of HER HERSELF. She's very pretty and kinda attractive. My head is shaved so I'm not typically an "attractive girlfriend". It just sucks that she can make him laugh and smile, while I can;t even get barely two words out of him. I'm terrified of losing him, but I feel like he's waiting on me to leave so that he doesn't have to hurt me. I've cried so much over this and, frankly, I honestly don't think he'd care..

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      happycamper10 9 days ago

      My question is what can we conclude if a woman exhibits these behaviors?

      What I'm implying/stating is that I see a lot of double standards here, where if a man exhibits the behavior it is a sign he doesn't love you where as if a woman does it she will get a pass.

      For example, is it not common for women to ask for space in a relationship, that you are smothering her and making her feel claustrophobic? So, the man is at fault either way. If the man wants space he is guilty of demonstrating that he doesn't love you. If the woman asks for space it is the man's fault that he is smothering her and of course he should provide her empathy and understanding.

      And what about #9: Your Boyfriend Digs up Regrettable Incidents from Your Past? My experience and the experiences of many of my male friends is that women, much more so than men, are guilty of this. They dig up painful memories from the past and manage to interject them into every argument you have - for eternity.

      And this one, 13) Your Boyfriend Suddenly Starts Getting Annoyed by Some of Your Habits. Really? Women are constantly annoyed by habits of their boyfriends, but I'm sure those feelings are all rational and just. But if a man has those feelings it means he doesn't love me.

      Seems like a lot of double standards here to me. No?

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      Linda 10 days ago

      Sometimes I feel as if he doesn't love me cause I'm an emotional disaster. He lies about talking to girls that he knows I don't like and yet I know he has messages and photes with her and when I asked him to see them he tried to delete them when I was in the same room. He is demanding more space and he says we hangout to much and this week I hadn't seen him for weeks and I finally see him and he says that we should spend more time with our friends as we see each other to much. I know it dosent seem so bad but these small things lower my self esteem even more that everything else. He has stopped giving me compliments as i respond with disagreement as I hate the way I look and he always tells me he finds all these girls really fit and it makes me feel ugly and ashamed of my body.

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      Sean X 10 days ago

      My bf and I were dating for a year now. We were long distance because we both went to college in different areas. Around the summertime things changed. He wasn't romantic anymore, he would get annoyed by me and stuff, and I knew this was not going to end well. This was our first relationship each and we did not know how to break up. We started out fast, because we had a lot of things in common. We were both Nigerian, in the closet, same tribe in Nigeria, and our moms were friends. I think us having that stuff in common made us want to date lol. We even said "I love you" a month after our first date! But, during Thanksgiving break, we finally saw each other after not seeing each other for three months. It was sooo awkward, because the relationship was dead as hell. So I ask him "do you still like me?", and he says "why would you ask me that?" and we had a little discussion, and we basically said that we should work on our relationship. So fast-forward to yesterday, I texted him telling him that we rushed into this and how the romance isn't there, but the friendship and humor is still there. He told me that he has been feeling the same way for months! When he told me that, I felt so relieved, like a big weight was lifted off my shoulders. I am so excited to start a new relationship as friends now!

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      11 days ago

      I know how you all feel

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      allyssa 2 weeks ago

      i feel sad my bf does most of these things, i try so hard and i get nothing i feel like shit cause he prefers to hang out with his friends and mother, he ignores me and rather plays on his stupid computer. he says theirs nothing wrong with our relationship but he always leaves, going to party's and wants to smoke weed and ruin his life. i love him but i dont think he loves me anymore.

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      Lyn 2 weeks ago

      My boyfriend did not meet me for six months already but he does messaging me. He says "I love you" in his text. All the sweet & comforting words he does say. Every time he is saying that he is just busy with the work that's why he cannot meet me. Just last 7 days he did not message me. After that he told me he was hospitalized due to a severe sickness. His mobile had been switched off for a week. He has always reason on everything. I don't know how to end up our relationship because I love him so much.

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      Elena 2 weeks ago

      Wow my boyfriend of almost 4 years does most of these, I know I have made mistakes in the relationship but I don’t know how to get back to when we were good. It breaks my heart he says he feels I don’t respect him I have been trying and working on myself but I guess he doesn’t see my effort. Sometimes I wonder why we even try to be with someone else for the long run anyways no one wants to stay or work on things anymore I feel like especially with my generation people see relationships as something that is so disposable. I love this man and I have wanted to be with him since I was 14 it hurts that he says he’s unhappy.

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      Lucy 2 weeks ago

      Dose it mean he still loves me if he dosent rlly talk to me and he hangs out with his friends more than me

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      Cleo 2 weeks ago

      But when he's showing that he actually still wants to be with a girl, could he just be pretending too? Because people do pretend

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      Tania 4 weeks ago

      LADIES! we all actually know exactly what we HAVE to do ... and that's to let go . because we deserve somebody that will fight for us not away from us . IF we FIGHT for them why cant they do the same? because we are not that important . because trust me! we ALL make time for what we really want in life,, unfortunately i am going thru this myself and it really makes me teary typing this because i actually needed it to hear it also :(

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      Dolce 5 weeks ago

      My boyfriend used to text me whenever he have a leisure time or a break time from his work he's in the army that's why I always understand his situation. And he always made me feel loved he talks about his dreams, goals, and our future. It just feel so good that he have plans together with me. But one day I was the one who stopped communicating with him because He changed like how often he text me before. And I get confused like does he really love me. I'm such an idiot...Well though it hurts a lot knowing that the person you loved just blocked you. I am still hoping that one day when the right time comes I will get to see him again and I hope whatever destiny would bring us ...what we have will work out.

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      Bre 5 weeks ago

      My boyfriend tells me all the time that he doesn't love me anymore, but then does things that make me feel like he does. Idk. We have a 1 & 2 year old and have been together for 4&a half years, but when I bring up marriage he changes the subject. I don't know if he loves me and it hurts me. I stay awake every night and think about the day I finally tell him that we are done. I feel like maybe we might meet up in our next life and it'll be the right time and we will both be on the same chapter, but unfortunately, I do not think this is the lifetime that we are meant to be. Breaks my heart.

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      Angie 6 weeks ago

      What if he shows these signs? Is there anything you can do?

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      Sihle 6 weeks ago

      My boyfriend is distant from me lately he says “I love you “ now n then. But he no longer stays at home , he doesn’t hangout with me his always out with his friends and all come back home late (mostly after 23:30) he comes back home moody doesn’t talk to me . He always snaps at me whenever I try to hold a conversation with him or ask him where is coming from. Most times he doesn’t come to bed , he sleeps on the couch. I feel like my presence annoys him coz whenever I seat next to him he moves away .even when I come to bed he moves out to the living room . His complains about everything I do and his always saying nasty things to me like I’m stupid , useless worthless hoe and an illiterate. I don’t know if I should just cut my loses coz I love him but his behavior is really affecting me , my confidence and self esteem. Please I need help

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      lilly cameron 6 weeks ago

      my boyfried does not hug me anyomore and he does not look at me in the eyes and he does not talk to me anymore it makes me really sad and does not say i love you anymore to me and he mad me cry in health today in 6 period

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      Mykou 6 weeks ago

      Hi. My boyfriend saids i love you but never look at me in my eyes and say it. He looks away and then say it. And it makes me really sad all the time. He never hugs me like he use to anymore and i just feel like hes losing feelings for me and i dont know what to do.

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      Zoey James 7 weeks ago

      My boyfriend shows all of these signs but I don't know what to do about it. I don't wanna break his heart.

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      Unknown 7 weeks ago

      Hello my boyfriend says he loves me but here's the thing. He is a drug addict he tries to fight his addiction but cant. We have been together 4½ years and we have a 1 year old boy. When he sees me upset he doesn't care. We don't get intimate as much as we use to. He always lies to me and expects me to be ok. I don't know if it's the drug or him not loving me anymore please help?

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      Ash 7 weeks ago


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      DawnM 8 weeks ago

      My boyfriend started doing 12 out of these 13 signs. This is such a good hub. I have learned a lot and said "yep he does that". I still love him and don't know what to do

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      c and s 2 months ago

      My friend s has a boyfriend, she and her boyfriend broke up about a couple of months ago. because she had feelings for another boy but was unsure about how she really felt. her and her original boyfriend got back together because she realized she still loved him. her boyfriend and her love each other, but he gets jealous often and gets mad at her for little things, we dont know if this is a sign that he loves her or that hes ready to break up with her. Please tell us what you think. thanks :)

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      sad 2 months ago

      my boyfriend always mad if i go out with my office mate, i explain to it that is part of my job to do some errand with my office mate at besides she is a woman. i cant see the problem why he is mad.

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      The truth 2 months ago

      1st of all, no one here knows who the other person who just commented is. You don't know what really was in people's lifes so what anyone here reads about anyone else ends up having information about half of the couple.

      2nd- there are way too many assumptions. "Can be", "could lead", "falling out of love represented by less kissing,hugging etc"(this one assumes that most of man living on this earth *a couple billion btw* will act like that. ASSUMING we act the same. ) =I pointed only few of the things a reader should be aware, not everyone is smart to think it for themselves and they are easily fooled.

      I'm not gonna go into who the article writer is and that a lot of this kind of suggestions make money to certain people, so marketing is quite important here as well; "everything/ anything can make money for certain people let's just keep it short.

      Now I'm not saying there is no good advice here, but for God's love, think people. This whole article is helpfull for some and not good for the rest. Use it, don't Believe it! Use it for what is beneficial! 80% of it refeers to high school type relationships and immature attitude. Plus the cultures and religiona of people from 160+ countries and thousands of different ways of speaking make things so much more complex.

      Think for yourself, use the right information combined with all your life experience and don't think there are two people the same !

      To be Normal is ABNORMAL !!!!!

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      Dwebber4285 3 months ago

      11/13. And 9 months pregnant!

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      Jessa 3 months ago

      5 years with my boyfriend and this is the only time im not feeling it...... Everything above seems to be all true. He gets angry for no reason, he doesnt say i love you , he replies to me super long, he always brings up my past, he compares me with other girls.... But yet i still think that he loves me and hes just like that cos hes used to me?

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      Adi 3 months ago

      Break up with him lena

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      Lena 3 months ago

      My boyfriend gives me stress pills because he doesn't have time to listen anymore, and he says painful things about my past everytime we fight

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      Emily 3 months ago

      if your boyfriend always request things from you like money and soon and if you don't give him he get angry what does it mean does he really love you as claimed.

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      kyra jericha alvarado 3 months ago

      this is right tsk.

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      fireballgirl 4 months ago

      idk if any are happening he just dont text me when hes at work any more. he has just stoped i have to text him first and he gives me aditude when i try to help him so idk

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      Steph 4 months ago

      0/13 but im still scared of losing him

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      Hannah 4 months ago

      8/13... now what?

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      hi im sad 4 months ago

      men are savage :((

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      Anonymous 4 months ago

      I'm young and I've already fell in love twice this may be my 3rd time but 2/13 are happening to me and idk what that means I've kept saying I missed him and he never said it back and I said I love you to him over and over again and he never says it back anymore he was the first one to say I love you he said he defiantly doesn't wanna break up but I have a lot of trust issues how am I supposed to believe anything anybody says

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      Leah 4 months ago

      3 out of 13 Is what he got right the problem is I love him too much to let go and are scared of being alone

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      Anushka 4 months ago

      Happens with me!

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      Lilli 4 months ago

      Two of those signs have me majorally worried. He doesn't speak to me or texts me, I send him a text on the 7th, he reponds on the 17th, saying he was busy or something. He literally NEVER says "I love you" anymore. He makes comments like "I wish I had never met you, or asked you out." or he'll say "I hate you." and all his friends assured me that he was "Joking" but he knows I can't take jokes. I don't want to give up on this, I've had such bad luck with relationships- I don't want this to be another "It's getting too rough, bye." sort of thing. I meet too many people who want to end it the second something happens. I'm done with relationships.

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      Kendra amos 5 months ago

      5 out of 8

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      Erika 5 months ago

      OMG yay he definetly still loves me!!!!! 0/13

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      sarah 5 months ago

      sadly I don't want any to be true but I quess he doesn't love and is trying cause of me

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      jessica 5 months ago

      oh no that is what is happening :(

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      Amanda 5 months ago

      Yes it's a scary thing to think of that your other half is bored of you and wants to move on. But do not get butt hurt if he tells you that he wants to move on respect his decision, yes it will hurt due to the fact of all the good Memories you guys had together, but you would also want him to do the same for you, and as time goes on so will your heart it's just a matter of time.

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      Sajida 5 months ago

      it's sad..

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      Ashley 5 months ago

      4/13... It's not terrible but I'm still unsure.. please help!

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      Saman 5 months ago

      0 out of 13

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      Someone 5 months ago

      5/13.. I dunno

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      Chantal 6 months ago

      I guess I'm the one who has fallen out of love..

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      Anon 6 months ago

      I love my man to the point I'm losing myself. We started talking last year and in a couple months time we became an official couple. He was the sweetest, most romantic guy initially ... That lasted for a few months and then there were days he wouldn't say much at all to me. The contrast really really hurts me and when I bring it up he denies it. He says I make it up in my head or tells me to stop complaining. The reason i speak up and tell him that it makes me feel like he's not into me anymore is because I want us to always show eachother mutual love. Relationships are hard work and take daily dedication. I will continue to pour my heart out to him, even if he doesn't reciprocate ... But when do I draw the line?

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      tia 6 months ago

      7\13 i feel real bad.

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      kemi 6 months ago

      10 /13 awww so bad but do difficult for me to let go cos I love him with everything, I can't think of letting go but inside me am tired, don't know what to do anyways, I guess patient will do the miracle

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      Kylie 6 months ago

      I'm surprised... I know something is wrong with my man, but when I ask him he says " I'm fine " or " nothing is wrong " and I'll even ask him again. When I was sad he'd always ask me what's wrong. Now when he sees me crying he just rolls his eyes and continues playing video games. The last time he said " I love you " or " I love you more " was 3 months ago... He has even stopped smiling when he talk so to me. I've asked him if he still loves me and he just gives me a 3 lettered word "yes". Our sex life was great too even when we were apart. The last time he every sent a pic was 4 months ago... I still love him, but don't know if I should leave him.

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      TheStupidFool 6 months ago

      13 for 13.

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      Natalie 6 months ago

      I want to feel like this isn't the case... but it might be...

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      Sally 6 months ago

      Yeah I totally relate to all of this. My boyfriend loves to hang out with me but if I initiate anything intimate he says no thanks I perferr men? Like : wtf!?!

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      Sushmitha Nagarajan 6 months ago

      8/13. I don't know what to think of this. Maybe it's me.

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      Cindy 6 months ago

      8 out of 13, Jacky I really love you, i know it's my fault, i know it's because of me that make you not feel in love any more. but i really want you to know that i will change better for us, i hope you would know it. i wish you know how much i love you

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      Emily 6 months ago

      6/13... help??

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      Miss confident 6 months ago

      Girls girls! I read down through the comments and saw a lot of disappointments. But ladies, we r better than this. There is sooo much more to a girl than, having a man or boy by our side 24/7! Dont be sad that your leaving him. Be proud

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      Lydia 6 months ago

      13/13 :(

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      Sasha 6 months ago

      This is stupid. A lot of these things can happen as time goes on without meaning you are not loved.

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      Anonymous 6 months ago

      My bf and I dated when I was 15 he cheated on me with multiple girls I was willing to forgive him but he wanted the other girl I got depressed and done things I regret after we broke up. We recently got back together in 18 now. we lived with eachother and we argued all the time he wouldn't let me on his phone but he would constantly be checking mine thinking I was cheating on him( I cheated on my ex bf with him) and every time I would touch his phone or even try to check the time or call my phone he would freak out I tried to go through it when he was asleep but it made a noise and I threw it down and ran to the restroom. And one morning I woke up to get a snack he rannoit of the restroom with angry eyes and started to question me about his phone asking me if I had it or if I was on it(i wasn't) he was acting suspicious. But, it was around Christmas and my birthday so I didn't think anything of it. We started to argue even more and I would threaten to kick him out. He wasn't protesting he was complying and started to pack his stuff. After he got all his stuff in his truck he apologized and started acting all lovey dovey and made me feel bad and I had to bring his crap in. Now He is moved out he ignores me, I have a feeling he's been cheating on me due to him coming home a few times around 11pm-12am when he usually gets home at 6:30pm. He makes a big deal when I go somewhere local where a girl he used to talk to works. And gets mad at me for driving my car around to my doctors appointments, work, College, and the pharmacy. He is doing just about everything on this list and I don't know what to do I love him with my heart and soul. We've been through way to much together and we've gotten through it. But now, idk what to do.(I apologize for the misspellings, grammar errors, and punctuation errors)

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      Moop 7 months ago

      :'( I guess it's pretty much it then

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      Jazzy 7 months ago

      How blind I was with him he used to do all that to me

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      Acel 7 months ago

      I got 3 out of 13...

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      felicia 7 months ago

      3,6,7 and 8 are happening in my relationship...and I am also starting to join the party

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      7 months ago

      11/13 :(

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      Katy 7 months ago

      Omg I'm crying I'm dating someone that has had a lot of gfs and i feel like he is just using me he's going to break up with me I'm sad he stoped replying to me and kept leaving me on read and when i say I love you he sends k or leaves me on seen what should I do?

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      Elice 7 months ago

      He's my fav boy in the world. Im 14 lol but the only one thats happening is doesn't text back quick often does then barely often he texted back after a while so ig he still loves me

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      M C... 7 months ago

      5-13.. For me.. I guess when you're checking online to find inside on why things are happening in your relationship is a very clear sign there's something wrong.. I've been with my boyfriend 2 years and, I truly love him with my entire heart, The only problem is, Is that, I dont think the feeling is mutual. He says that he loves me occasionally and has said he wanted to marry me but then it's like, I don't feel that he's sincere. He gets angry when, I'm hurt and, I cry although, I try and communicate why, I'm hurt he tells me all, I care about is myself and my own feelings and that's not true. It just hurts not being able to feel a intimate connection with your other half. I'm the only one who usually has to ask for a kiss or try and extend hugs and touches to show him how much, I love and care about him but it feels like there's a wall in between us, If. I dont initiate it then it will never happen. He'll say he doesn't like what, I wear on my lips which is usually a sweet flavored ChapStick or just my plain lips and in that case my lips are dry or his lips are dry smh, I truly feel he just doesn't feel any love for me. Maybe he isn't into me, I'm just torn because. I want my relationship. I've tried everything to try and prove to him that, he's everything to me but, I dont feel like, I'm nothing to him. Although, I love him, I'm willing to end the relationship if his feelings have died and he doesn't desire intimacy between us. I mean kisses are what brings closeness between two and, I only get rejection. If, I cry he gets angry and calls me all kinds of cruel names ie, bitch, cry baby,crazy,how etc.. I guess he's showing and telling me how he feels and, I just need to accept it and let him find happiness where he truly wants to be..

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      kaeli 7 months ago

      5 out of 13 and im not even in high school like he just stopped everything and wont even make eye contact anymore

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      miri 7 months ago

      3 out of 8. what an asshole, maybe even 4. thought it was serious between us, now just dissapointed and broken hearted.

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      Hayley 8 months ago

      3. 8. 13. Happen a lot especially all the time but I just don't know what to do. I just tell myself the good outweighs the bad but idk if that's what I should believe

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      Missy slic 8 months ago

      how can someone not know whether he loves his girlfriend whom he has been dating for 5 yearz now,is that even possible. Please help me to know whether he's fed up with the relationship or just he doesn't know how he feels about me anymore.

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      The good witch 8 months ago

      All of them. Not like I needed confirmation though. Truth it's been unbearably miserable for a while.

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      13/13 and more 8 months ago

      Omg thats not good

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      Nthabiseng Ramoreboli 8 months ago

      8 of 13 are happening

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      Unknown user 8 months ago

      4-13 I feel empty

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      Hannah 8 months ago

      Yeap he doesnt love me anymore

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      Megan 8 months ago

      I am supposed to say that he meets 6 out of 13 and it's good ? Less than half. Like no, idk why I even need to read this article. God knows I am not going to leave him. I did 3 times already. And I am just an idiot. I have a kid with him. It's hard. All three times I came back, he was worse of a person instead of better ! Haha, I am such a shitty person I guess, that I deserve such a shitty man.

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      Angela 8 months ago

      13/13. Guess I am such a dumb ass shit that never really know what is going on in my life. I should have known. No. I knew all along but I just love him enough to think that we could make it work. I lie to myself and because of my pride I deny the truth. Now I realise he never loved me from the start. It was never like what I thought. I am just in love with a illusion that I created from myself. I know I have to walk out because that is the right thing to do. I will walk out. It doesn't matter how Long. I want to be able to look back and tell myself good job one day.

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      shantow 8 months ago

      some of these things are happening after a short argument we had. I hope it will all change.i wonder y guys keep such distance n stop communicating after loving them even for long times. If this some doesn't work i will not love anyone like that again.

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      Mary 9 months ago


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      Kayla 9 months ago

      10/13 i dont get men if they dont love someone anymore its not hard to just say it why play games

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      Brandy 9 months ago

      I have been in a relationship for 8 years and in the past three years i noticed all these signs about myself. My days are hard and it keeps getting harder we share a 7 year old together and hes much older than me by 26 years he nit picks at me he nit picks towards my dog when i do the dishes when i mean he has a problem with everything i do granit he has been out of a job for 4 years i have been the bread winner i ask myself what more can i do to help this relationship and as of a year ago i gave up i talked to him about breaking it off then he replied if you start dating someone else i'll leave so now this leads to controling. He does not kiss me hug me say anything positve towards me nothing nice to me i am a emty lost soul and theres so much more to my story but iv lost hope i want to move forward in a eay i feel hes using me bc he has not many places tongo to he has a uncle and his parents though he says he does not want to live there im lost ots like you dont love me any more so why are you here!

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      Dumb 9 months ago

      12 of 13 wow

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      Lol 9 months ago

      My partner passed me this. Can you tell me why you put this crap on the net. Relationships are a 2 way thing. The problem is, most women want everything on a plate, but give little. Want everyone to feel sorry for them so much, everyone has problems but most just crack on with it, some dont take pride in their appearance, I take care in my appearance, keep clean, dress nice, basically make the bloody effort. Get off bloody Facebook, stop bloody moping about and give as much as you bloody expect to receive all the time. Most of the time you're the self centred ones, who choose to go out with someone and then want to mild that person. Get over yourselves

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      lovely 10 months ago

      Same with my bf as of now..

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      ella 10 months ago

      4/13. I still think he doesn't love me anymore though...

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      IKC 10 months ago

      TheThese are the things my boyfriend has starting to do with me...I guess now I know it is over.

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      Rufi 10 months ago

      Breaking away from people is as equal part of life as meeting them in the first place. Its always better to step away from an unhealthy relationship and step forward to other things and towards yourself in life. Ending things when they no more work for you is the best thing one can do. If someone doesn't care or love you as they should, its time for you to step away from that person, and take time for yourself.. travel, love, eat.. this will also give you and the other person a time to see how life will be without each other. And then decide.. whats best for you.

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      Sonu 10 months ago

      10/13 ... idek what to do anymore..

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      reen.miranda@gmail.com 10 months ago

      9 out of 13 happenings.

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      Twinkle 10 months ago

      As much as I don't want to say this....if you r on this page....it's because u already know deep down that it is either over or headed there.....

      10 of these relate to me.....

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      jenn 10 months ago

      10. Nice.

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      m.k 10 months ago

      He always with his friends or going to tarven get home late and drunk.and I love him I dnt know that I should leave him or give him a last chance, at last to celebrate our 1 year on Valentine's day. we will hv a year on 14 February.

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      Lol 10 months ago

      4/13 but i dont know I still feel like something is up.

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      Patricia CLAUDIO 10 months ago

      When he stops taking pictures