13 Signs That He Doesn't Love You Anymore

Updated on April 8, 2015
Signs he doesn't love you anymore
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If my boyfriend stops replying to my cute texts, is it a sign that he doesn't love me anymore? If he says he wants more space, does it mean he wants to break up with me? If my guy has stopped saying, "I love you," does it mean he doesn't have feelings for me anymore?

Stop assuming and read this article, which discusses some of the everyday signs that show that he isn't interested in you or the relationship any longer.

1) Your Boyfriend Suddenly Starts Demanding Space in the Relationship

Your boyfriend really shouldn't be asking for more space in your relationship if there have not been any changes in the way either of you behave. His demands to be left alone could be because he doesn't enjoy being with you the same way that he did before.

Calmly ask your guy why he wants more space. If he says something specific, deal with it and get it over with. But if he says something vague and has no clear reasons why he suddenly wants you to take a step back, his love for you may be fizzling out.

2) He Starts Comparing You to Other Girls

A guy should never say something to a girl that makes her feel less beautiful, less talented, or less of a woman than someone else. The slightest hints of comparisons made between you and any other girl should be a warning sign.

Comparing your behavior, looks, or any other aspect of personality with another woman suggests a deep-rooted resentment driving a sense of frustration. Here are some examples of how a guy's cruel words may mean that he is falling out of love with his girl:

  • Why can't you dress like her?
  • She carries such a lot of confidence when she speaks, why can't you do the same?
  • Maybe you should learn a thing or two about style from her.
  • You are such a jealous girlfriend, why can't you be like my best friend's girl? She is always relaxed and calm.

If your guy does this once, let him know that you will not tolerate being compared to another girl. Ask him how he would feel if you compared him with another guy. And if he still continues to do so, it may be a sign that he doesn't love you the same way he used to.

3) He Stops Replying to Your Texts or Takes a Long Time to Reply

Has he stopped replying to your texts? It could be a sign that he's not that into you.
Has he stopped replying to your texts? It could be a sign that he's not that into you. | Source

One of the first signs that your boyfriend is really beginning to lose his feelings for you is when he stops replying to your texts. This is the moment when he is out with his friends, he gets a beep on his phone, and he makes a dirty face when he sees that it is a text from you.

You will immediately notice this twist in his behavior because he will suddenly start taking longer than usual to reply to your texts. In the beginning, he will have all sorts of excuses for taking such a long time. But after a point, he will simply get irritated and lose his temper every time you ask him why he took so long. This is the moment when you must realize that the love in your relationship has been taken down a notch.

4) Your Boyfriend Starts Spending Most of His Time with His Friends

Everyday relationship problems, fights, and arguments often drive a couple apart to the point where they stop hanging out with each other. But usually this distance is temporary, lasting only until the silly arguments have been sorted out.

If your boyfriend has cut down on the time he spends with you and increased the amount of time he hangs out with his buddies, ask him if something is bothering him. If he is doing it unknowingly, he will do whatever he can to make you feel that nothing is wrong.

On the other hand, if he is deliberately avoiding you because he doesn't feel the same way about you anymore, he will fumble for a reason. Take this as a sign that his love for you is on the decline.

5) He Starts Becoming Extremely Selfish in the Relationship

Does he only care about his work/routine and refuse to recognize that you need attention as well?
Does he only care about his work/routine and refuse to recognize that you need attention as well? | Source

When a guy starts losing interest in his relationship, his behavior will likely take a very selfish turn. He will become more inconsiderate and self-centered in his interactions with you. Here are some of the classic signs you should watch out for.

  • He starts becoming extremely selfish in bed.
  • All he cares about is his routine, his studies, his work, and his friends.
  • He stops asking you for your opinion on where you both go out on dates.
  • He doesn't acknowledge his self-centered behavior even after you have pointed it out to him.

6) He Gets Irritated When You Start a Mushy Conversation

Mushy conversations and cute names are a playful part of a couple's love life. These things slowly taper off as the puppy-love effect wears off, but they still remain deep-rooted in everyday behavior.

Your guy's annoyance may be justified if you overdo it by calling him cute names all day long. But an overall aversion to anything lovey-dovey can be a sign that he is no longer invested in the relationship.

7) Your Boyfriend Has Stopped Saying "I Love You"

A guy and a girl usually start saying "I love you" to each other once they move past the first phase of dating. If your relationship developed into the "I love you" stage a long time ago, there is no reason why your boyfriend should suddenly feel averse to saying these three beautiful words to you. As cheesy as it sounds, if he stops saying them, it is a strong sign that that he isn't as into you as he was before.

8) He Doesn't Bother to Comfort You, Even When You Are Sad

If he doesn't comfort you when you're feeling blue, he's not reacting as a boyfriend should.
If he doesn't comfort you when you're feeling blue, he's not reacting as a boyfriend should. | Source

A man who is in love will always recognize when his loved one is sad or in distress, and will do whatever it takes to bring a smile back to her face. This is true regardless of how much a couple fights or argues. No guy can call himself a boyfriend if he does nothing when he knows that something is bothering his girl.

Hugging a girl when she looks sad and rubbing her shoulders when she is down should be a boyfriend's instincts. If your guy doesn't do any of that and turns a blind eye even when you are feeling blue, it can be a sign that he doesn't love you with the same intensity that he did before.

9) Your Boyfriend Digs up Regrettable Incidents from Your Past

Everyone knows how painful it feels when someone reminds you of memories that have scarred you emotional and psychologically. It takes a person many years to forget someone, let go of bitter memories, and move on from the regret of doing stupid things.

Your boyfriend has no reason to dig up painful memories from your past and fling them at you when you have an argument. This is one boundary that partners must not cross, because it can be very damaging to someone's confidence.

If your guy has recently started slinging your past regrets at you with a hurtful intent, his feelings for you may have already bottomed out.

10) He Doesn't Flirt with You Any More

Flirting speaks volumes about the chemistry a couple shares. No matter how long you have been in the same relationship, your boyfriend should typically be flirting with you by:

  • Giving you compliments when you wear something new
  • Picking random moments to tell you how beautiful you are
  • Staring at you and looking into your eyes when you are both alone
  • Make you feel sexy by telling you how attractive you are

Of course, your guy isn't expected to be Prince Charming all the time. But he should be taking the initiative to start such romantic conversations every now and then.

11) The Spark of Physical Intimacy Fizzles Out in Your Relationship

Snuggling and physical contact is normal in a relationship. If you find yourselves maintaining your distance from one another, that's a sign something is wrong.
Snuggling and physical contact is normal in a relationship. If you find yourselves maintaining your distance from one another, that's a sign something is wrong. | Source

When a guy starts falling out of love, it will reflect in his hugs, kisses, and cuddles. The chemistry of physical intimacy that you share with your guy says a lot about your relationship. Ask yourself these questions if you think that your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore:

  • Do you still share those long hugs that you used to when you started dating him?
  • Does your boyfriend cuddle you when you are all by yourselves?

Thinking about these things will immediately give you a fair idea of whether your boyfriend is still totally into you or has gotten bored in the relationship. Another sign of a lack of emotional connect is when your sex life is either non-existent or it has gotten to the point that it feels mundane.

12) He Gets Angry and Loses His Cool without Any Reason

People lose their tempers for any number of reasons, including doing poorly at school, having rough times at work, feeling bullied, or going through family problems.

If your boyfriend seems to be edgy all the time and loses his temper at non-issues, try to find out the reason for his anger. If you can't seem to pin-point any specific causes, his random flare-ups could simply mean that he is irritated by you and the relationship.

13) Your Boyfriend Suddenly Starts Getting Annoyed by Some of Your Habits

Has your boyfriend recently started pointing out little stuff in your everyday behavior, claiming that you annoy him endlessly? Ask yourself these questions if he suddenly feels that some of your habits are driving him crazy.

  • Did you have these habits before you met him?
  • Had any of those habits created problems in the relationship before?

Make a mental note of whether you have had those habits since the beginning of your relationship. If you did, then why is your boyfriend suddenly becoming averse to them? Ask the same question to him. If he doesn't have an answer for you, the real answer probably lies in his heart, which doesn't beat for you anymore.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

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      Emi 

      40 minutes ago

      Me and my boyfriend been dating for a year and 2 months now. And its been great but all last week it’s been non stop arguing. Idk why it’s just that I got threw stuff and when ever I would tell him about that i feel depressed or not in the mood he just doesnt show his emotions with me or even comforts me anymore. I always tell him what’s wrong do u not feel is anymore he says yes he loves me and all that but I don’t even know today we arguing again and idk what else to do plus I work and I try to make time for him and he doesn’t even try to make time for me

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      Arsha 

      30 hours ago

      Me and him are not together now. He has totally changed. He stopped comforting me when i was sad, took long time to reply messages and started spending more time with his friends. I tried so hard to bring him back to how he used to be. But now I understand that he himself never wanted to return.

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      nia 

      44 hours ago

      I cheated on my boyfriend he saw the messages then after 4 day he commited himself to another girl with a tatoo on their left finger both of them does dat mean he won't come back to me

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      katie rice 

      2 days ago

      im gonna die i do not wanna lose him......

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      Adora 

      3 days ago

      How to no my boyfriend won'ts to break up with me

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      Armi 

      10 days ago

      He's always with his friends, drinking, having fun.. and if I say something about what he's doing, why he's always with his friends, drinking? Then he has no reply at all.. and I started to cry because he has no time for me. Then suddenly he said, he was very bored when we are together. Then I cried more because it hurts, but he just get mad and said to me that stop crying! He just give me that angry look and I just continue crying because it hurts soooo much...

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      Midas Touch1242 

      3 weeks ago

      if he or she is not showing interest anymore, it might be the person is already seeing someone else. My girlfriend showed these signs so I decided to spy on her phone. It turned out I was just being too worried, she wasn't seeing anyone. She just had mood swings. You can reach out to cyberghostbusters911 at gmail dot com for help

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      jules 

      4 weeks ago

      my boyfriend is sorta scaring me because i just told him on text i love home and i hope he has a good day and he replied with “you too” which broke me, and it breaks me when he does this but when we are on call he just says it back, i feel like the relationship is just wearing off since our 4 months happend in the 14

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      leila 

      5 weeks ago

      I honestly don't know what to think sometimes I have done things in the past that some men wld stop talking to me fr but he still does

      I asked him if he is still interested and he said yes

      I believe him I think he is just afraid of getting hurt again

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      Sasha 

      6 weeks ago

      Me and my girlfriend have been Darwin for a little while and her parents just found out about her being a lesbian and since than our relationship seems strained and stressful and less connected like it was before she doesn’t ask me the simple things that she use to and it scares me bc I’m I love with her. I don’t know if it’s my insecurities or she just doesn’t love me.

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      Ayomikun 

      7 weeks ago

      My current relationship

      He doesn't call nor care

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      Brook 

      7 weeks ago

      my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months. Recently he's been very distant. He takes hours to reply to my text messages even when I know he is on his phone. The day before Christmas Eve we were planning on making Christmas cookies with his mom and his mom had to reach out to my mom so I could go over there. When I told him I could he had a bunch of reasons why he wouldn't be able to and when I asked if he could hang out at any time this week he said I could come over. I love him I just don't know how much he actually likes me, I was even the one to ask him out on the first date. We were good for the first couple of months but recently he's been distant and having short conversations with me. We used to say goodnight every night even if we hadn't talked in hours and tonight he texted me and I texted back and he never answered back.

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      Pretty 

      7 weeks ago

      My current relationship he doesn’t care nor call

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      Afuckedupgirl 

      2 months ago

      we've been dating for almost a year now, and he seems to be putting all his priorities before me. He texts me after hours, and seems to always have something to do instead of seeing us and has so many things to do... usually in a relationship there should be at least a little amount of time to spend together...

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      TypicalGirlInLove 

      2 months ago

      i been through the phase where he was distanced and put his priorities first and i understood so i supported him. i surprised visited him because we haven't seen each other in 2 weeks and he got very angry that i interrupted his schedule for the day which was playing fortnite with his buddies. i poured out my emotions and he didn't give a damn. after an hour we fixed through that "problem" and everything was better but i am starting to see this routine happening again where he is dodging dates and time with me. we've been together for 8 years and i just do not know what to do. i cannot leave because i am too deep in this hole of love. he is my only friend.

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      Sarah 

      3 months ago

      I’ve had talks with him he doesn’t express his emotions no more I say I love you in Spanish and he just says same he leaves me alone for along timeand makes hella excuses then I’ve talked with him that he’s being dry I say why he doesn’t say I love you the all he said is ily

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      3 months ago

      Thx this actually helps but Idk bcs he tells me ilysm but I don’t know if he really means it ...and so many other girls like him and I don’t want to lose him

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      bash 

      3 months ago

      i have lots of questions in our relationship and i found my self I'm here .

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      Ryleigh 

      3 months ago

      I've been experiencing most of these signs with my boyfriend, he doesn't text me as much as he use to when we first got together, he always finds the smallest things to argue with me about when their isn't any reason to argue about, he has been spending his days sleeping from 5 am until around 4 and then stays up all night playing games with his friend, and texts me maybe once or twice every 2 hours, then when i confront him about it he gets defensive bout it and try's to pin it on me like its my fault and i love him a lot i do, but i don't completely know if i should continue to stay with him any longer honestly.

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      3 months ago

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      Brokentotheworld 

      3 months ago

      I should of realised this a month ago. Now it’s to late.

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      Victoria 

      3 months ago

      I’m going through all of these now except worse, he’s gotten to the point where he verbally insults me and doesn’t bat an eye when he raises his hand . I can’t stop crying. I’ve never felt so unloved

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      3 months ago

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      3 months ago

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      Rajesh 

      4 months ago

      Each n every thing u wrote is wrong stope sprading wrong msg to lover.

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      Amylou83 

      4 months ago

      Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 and 1/2 years, we moved in together 2 years ago. We have been through a lot as a couple last year or so. When we first went out I knew he fancied me, sex was passionate, he appeared proud to have me on his arm, we talked for hours and he was always affectionate. Now I’m lucky if he says I look nice which I know I do! I make the effort in my appearance all the time! Buy sexy underwear, work out and wear nice clothes. I’m now feeling like what’s the point it’s all one sided, me making the effort, me deciding what we should do. He no longer does I’m lucky if he can be bothered to iron a tshirt if we go out. He has sex reluctantly and there’s no passion there at all, his face says I’d rather be asleep and he yawns throughout or doesn’t cum at all. He never appears to think of me, we do everything he wants, 2 times a week he’s out doing sports weekends are all about cricket and spending time with his friends. I’ve tried talking and saying is our relationship over but he says no I love you more than anything?, he promises to change but nothing happens, I still have to beg for sex, I don’t get any compliments, we do what he wants to do all the time and I cry myself to sleep because of it and he just rolls over and says I don’t see your problem.

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      Mobly 

      5 months ago

      I’ve been in my relationship for almost two years, I’m 50, he’s 44. I was married for 33 years, met my first husband after my father died when I was 15, he was 33. Married him when I was 16 and by the time I was 20 had three babies,living in a tiny town in I’ll near St Louis. I was always faithful & loyal to God first, my husband,family. In Aug of 2016 my sister 12 years younger living in northern ca got into trouble, I went out there to help her. In Oct- Nov 2016 I met a guy who turned my head, that never happened before, eventually in mid Dec we got together, I went back home to IL to my family for Christmas, my children are all grown with their own families, told my husband I met someone in CA.ive known for at least 10 years or more I wasn’t in love with him. So I eventually went back to CA in the end of Jan 2017, I was to go back for court & whatnot for my sister the beg of Jan but when I told the family I met someone, they took my phone, kept canceling my plane ticket, I had no money, no one in my family supported me(daughters, brothers, aunts) I was cut off, had to go to counseling, eventually the counselor who was a pastor at the church, who did not agree with my choices and was trying to counsel our marriage, told my husband at this point I’m kinda being held a prisoner & to let me go if I want. I finally arrived in ca to meet the guy I was in love with on jan31 2017. Things were great, I was so happy, but the about the end of March I started asking why we don’t have sex often, he replied I was going to ask you that. Fast forward to today Mid sept 2018, I still wonder why we’re not having sex more then once or twice a month, we never have held hands in public, he has never gone down on me more then 4 time and even then it was just a few seconds, I give him the “ special” once a week but still no sex or anything. I’m a very clean person, shower am & pm, teeth too, people always say how pretty I am, I’m slender. I just don’t understand what’s wrong. He says he’s in love with me or most times loves me. We rarely touch during the day only at bedtime we cuddle. He shows the cats n puppy love & affection daily. I told him once my ex is having a hard time getting over me, his reply was ur not that special. Ayayayay. He treats me ok but I feel like I’m a convince to him, cook, clean, trash, litter box, I’m always doing lil things for him like getting in things he likes, soda water, special candy, and he never does anything for me. I know what everyone’s response is gonna be......... I should also say he is a recovering alcoholic in sobriety for 7 years, it seems like addicts don’t think the same as a person who never had an addiction. Just had to get it out, he is kinda da unapproachable in some ways so I have not said most of this to him, but some like the sex part, in my mind I’m always going over what I’m gonna say ya know....... it’s like we’re more friends/ companions then lol very but I can never get the words out.

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      Cynthia 

      5 months ago

      I 've been in a 6 year relationship, he used to treat me great , now in last 2 and half years , he' s changed so much. It feels like he hates me. He did have 3 bad marriages and I was married for 30 years then my husband past away. He was mY husband best friend and I ve known him for 8 years before we started dating each other. We took it real slow for the first couple of years. Then things seemed well, then it started with him taking a cell phone to work and the rest is history . Since I've lost my job last week there hadn't been no weird numbers and calls on my house phone and his calls are narrowed down go a few. He never takes my phones calls or Texts , but he will everyone else. He never wants nothing go do with me anymore and when I've had enough I want to break up he dosen ' t want go he lives me and so forth. He doesn't' t need me for nothing, He has no affection, conversation , or taking me anywhere at all for months on end more like in last two years. He will change for a week or two then it's back again. Please help me. I know we need to break up he clearly don ' t care about my feelings, he just won't leave!!!!

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      Nthabilicious 

      5 months ago

      My boyfriend give me bad look and does not even care how do i feel,i love he and i dnt want to loss him but his behavior start boring me i dnt know what to do anymore.i told he everyday but he dont care

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      Taylor 

      5 months ago

      Me and my boyfreind broke up before b/c i thought he was cheating.But when we got back together he told me he loved me but now he doesnt say it at all and he hasn't texted me in three days at all.Its just been me I've told him I love him but all he does is ignore me but I dont want to break up with him because I still LOVE him.

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      Kerry Adams 

      6 months ago

      My boyfriend Marcus slater he hurt me he bullies me and I want to stop him he carry on with he was on Facebook and everything he 3 week he said he going to Bering the gun start thwarting sue Hubert I want Marcus to say sorry to his girlfriend Kerry Adams

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      Kerry Adams 

      6 months ago

      My boyfriend he was nasty to me he selling my bus fares and I didn’t mean to do it i was covering for him he wow talk to me anymore that way he didn’t love me anymore because don’t know what to do

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      Theresa 

      6 months ago

      Am Theresa by name am a gal of 21yrs old,am a student of uniuyo.am dating a guy inwhich we r in d same level nd same department level 100 we started datin each other in first semester so dis second semester he started showing some nasty character which i dn't lyk in him.example if i play wid him he wil be angry wid me he wil say dat am insulting him so pls i need ur advice

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      Lynn Hughston 

      6 months ago

      Sylvia Olympic if you believe he’s with his friends,look in the Mirror. He has

      another woman or more. If you find he doesn’t kiss you any more because he

      has someone more kissable I know as I had doubts about a lot of things in 6months. Then I saw them,the feeling of Revenge in Me has not left nor has the Sorrow. Lynn Hughston

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      Sylvia olyn 

      6 months ago

      My boyfriend doesn't spend time with me anymore he's every time with his friends and he doesn't even kiss me anymore

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      Bea 

      6 months ago

      three weeks ago,I caught my boyfriend trying to have sex with a lady. I can't control my temper then I scatter the phone he bought to me. and was begging me to forgive him that it was a temptation and he promise never to repeat it again.

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      girlfriend 

      6 months ago

      my boyfriend has been super distant lately and he doesn’t compliment me and he gets super angry and always yells at me. he gets angry when i’m depressed and i just can’t do it anymore. but i love him too much to break up with me

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      on my mind 

      6 months ago

      the past few days my boyfriend has been distant and dry when we talk & he likes to hang out with his friends & I feel really different like the spark isn't there any more HELP ????

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      KK 

      6 months ago

      Most of you sound extremely dumb. Dumb meaning unintelligent. That's probably the reason.

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      The boyfriend 

      6 months ago

      I accidently found this bookmarked in my phone and now I feel horrid these are all me and dang now I realize why she has been so depressed and upset I need to change and I think a lot of guys need to read these just wow.....

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      Lovamore 

      7 months ago

      My boyfriend of 2.5 years decided to move back home 1700 km away when mom passed away. To be with dad. All of a sudden plans changed and dad seems to be making all the decisions for a 42 yr old man. Just flew out of my life after 2 yrs. No more coomunications at all. What do you guys think.

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      Tyller 

      7 months ago

      Hi me n my boyfriend we have 4years dating for the first year its was nice going out having fun together share our problems but now since I moved in with him last year he has been distant he comes to bed at 12 or focusing on his phone while he is in bed bearly touches me or looking at me he grumpy all the time i don't know what to do

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      Summer 

      7 months ago

      My boyfriend barely touches me anymore and we barely have sex. He’s more interested in his phone than he is me. I think he’s just hanging around because I’m pregnant but I feel he is no longer interested. It’s just so sad.

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      Reena 

      7 months ago

      It's sad to read these signs because they perfectly apply to the person I love... and they don't really love me back anymore like they used to. I stay up late nights thinking about what went wrong in the relationship but I never seem to figure it out- Then after a lot of thought, I just cry about it through 2am to the late morning. I wish they knew how much pain they're putting me through but even if they did... would they care? I still love the person so much and it hurts to know that my love means nothing to them.

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      Chloe 

      8 months ago

      It hurt so much reading these all of them are right except from 1 we’ve been together a yeah and a half and we’ve got a 15 day old baby together and I love him ever so much my first love and i can only see a future with him in it I don’t know if it’s because we spend everyday together except from when he’s in work and don’t have any space or he’s doing it because he likes to get to me or he actually don’t love me

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      Javia 

      8 months ago

      I really felt like this helped me because I currently i broke up i feel like that anyone who's going through this it is okay just take this advice and move on and be happy with yourself

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      Franchesca 

      8 months ago

      This is great

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      Laurie 

      8 months ago

      My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We finally moved in together 2 months ago. He has friends over a lot, which I don't mind. He seems so happy and in high spirits with his friends, but when he's alone with me, I feel like his energy goes way down. He always has this tone of annoyance or disagreement with a lot of the things I say. It's gotten to the point where I don't even want to bother vocalizing what's really going on my mind because I know it will instantly turn him off and spark an argument. I feel like I'm a super chill girlfriend and I can't figure out why he's acting this way towards me. For the first 2 years, and even before we moved in, he was an amazing boyfriend. He was always there for me, and my relationship was the last thing in my life that I had to worry about. His only big turn off is that he does not strive professionally nearly as much as I do. He doesn't have any professional or personal plans for the future, and we're both in our early/mid-20s. Before, I didn't mind being patient or looking past his lack of professional ambition because he treated me SO well and truly made me feel happy and loved. But, now that he's treating me as if I'm annoying, or a nuissance, I'm questioning if this is still the right relationship for me. I feel so guilty because he's been so great up until about 2 months ago, and I'm not sure if I'm a bad person for leaving him because of this "phase." Basically, I'm not sure if this is just a phase/slump that he's in - or if he's really over me? Either way, I feel so lonely because of it. And it's even worse that I don't feel comfortable vocalizing these feelings to him at this point.

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      Kellie 

      8 months ago

      What if your man doesn't want to touch you any more does that mean he not in to me

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      thembi 

      8 months ago

      my boyfriend don't love me anymore don't knw wht to do

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      Nikki 

      9 months ago

      I habe been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he has grown disten just here recatloy and i dont know why

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      quin 

      9 months ago

      how about looking right at you everytime

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      Lexi 

      9 months ago

      So my bf and I started dating we have only seen eacher 3 times in the past due monthse due to our lives being busy and we are both teens and go to different high schools he used to always message me now he doesn't unless I message him sometimes he leaves me on read and he doesn't say I love you anymore or compliment me even though I compliment him all the time

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      Britt 

      10 months ago

      10 out of 13...

      My boyfriend and I had only been talking for a week when I told him I would be moving for college...then he asked me out and we tried to do the long distance thing. But some family stuff went down and he convinced me that moving in together after only dating for 3 months was a good idea. Now we've been together for almost a year and all we do is fight. When I try to talk with him he tells me I am too intouch with my feelings. And that when he makes comments about wishing I was skinny or had smaller boobs that he's just joking...however I have told him many times that I dont think those jokes are funny...its got so bad that I did try to leave however he just kept telling me how sad that made him and that I needed to come home. But I feel like if we only fight then why should we be in a relationship. It is obvious that neither of us are happy...

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      Deb 

      10 months ago

      My boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year. He is the first guy to ever give me a promise ring but yet he seems so distant. I'm not sure if he loves me anymore. The last 3 times that we've tried to had sex, it was difficult and we didnt even finish. One of the times, i even cried before we started because it just felt like a hookup more than love. Tonight we just came back from a movie and went to chickfila. I wanted an ice cream and he just wanted tea. He said i couldnt have ice cream in his brand new car, even the one in a cup because i didnt plan on eating it in there anyways. Long story short, it ended with me getting an ice cream, paying, him yelling at me because he said he was finally happy with me today and yet i managed to screw it up by throwing a fit about not getting my ice cream, which i really didnt, me crying, and now after being here for over 20 minutes and him on his phone, he just asked me what im doing as i type this. Not an "i'm sorry" not an explanation or anything. I just dont know if he loves me anymore

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      Cam 

      10 months ago

      Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months. It started off like any other relationship. Fun, loving, and lots of attention. Along the way in our relationship there were clear signs tht he was cheating. Like my brother telling me tht he's seen his messages with another girls name with hearts and kissy faces. I adressed him and he made up a lie and said he doesn't talk to her anymore. I just went along with it because I love him tht much to deal with his bullshit. But it started getting worse. At lunch he'd shut me out in his own world on his phone, texting back like 3 hours late or even days. But the whole thing is that I'm a homebody and he always gets cout and about. And when he does he cant help bu to talk to other girls, he's pretty aproachable to other girls so yeah. No the 3rd month in the relationship when he sees me walking his way, he turns around the other way avoiding me completely. I asked him what was wrong and he said its just family problems tht he doesn't wanna talk about, but "he loves me". I thought to myself yeah right you do. But it's been 2 weeks and he's still doing the same shit. Family problems couldn't have lasted that long. Especially if my brother is telling me tht your talking to other girls in class. He's perfectly fine and i know tht for a fact. I feel like he's just waiting for me to break up with him. But idk how to approach him with it. What really bothers me now is tht he doesn't even hug me anymore, kiss me. No love or afffection is shown or felt. And he calls me names tht he'd call his friends now like "Wassup G" an just throwin up the deuce.

      Wow now tht im reading all this, he definantly wants to break up. I have love for him an all but i cant deal with boys tht wanna act like the bitch in the relationship, seriously! After this im not wasting my precious time with anyone else thts on my mfkn life.

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      Dani 

      10 months ago

      I'm seeing a lot of these signs with my boyfriend...it's a long distance relationship though. He's told me he doesn't know if he feels the same way about me that he used to and I'm confused and hurt and he doesn't tell me that he loves me anymore and I don't know what to do because I care about him so much...help me please

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      Jennifer Herrera 

      10 months ago

      Okay so my boyfriends very very distant from when we first met.We've been together 2 yrs and Im not feeling Loved like before I guess maybe Its time to break up.He is into Porn way more than me and he is just plain Rude and Just ignores me. Ya Im not feeling or getting any attention or Love

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      Asia 

      11 months ago

      My bf and I have been together for 2 years we have a 6 month old and I’ll just say before I met him he was very “free spirited” if you know what I mean talking to handfuls of girls at a time & etc. when he met me I definitely changed his life. Helped him focus more on his ambitions and let him see that there are still good females out there with morals. Needles to say when I was 7 months pregnant I did snoop through his phone because he was becoming so distant and I knew something was was off to find out he was on a dating app talking to multiple women (‘none of which he’s never met in person) once confronted his reasoning was he wanted to see if he still had it. After his mom talking to him about How he messed up so bad with me and disappointed her and months of him being in the dog house and me threatening to leave when I was son was finally born he changed forever he was so much for affectionate. We talk everyday like best friends and soulmates staying up late nights playing games cooking together it’s amazing . My best advice would be communicate with ur partner and give them time to change. My bf was never affectionate to anyone he’s ever dated with (due to being hurt in the past and nothing having a great relation ship with his dad) until he met me because I stood my ground and demanded nothing but the best from him. And we have lived together for over a year now I wouldn’t change it for the world. But if you have explained your concerns with them and nothing changes that’s when it’s time to go. Believe me my bf has stated several times his life has been better since he’s met me and he couldn’t see his self with anyone else.

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      Rain 

      11 months ago

      My boyfriend and I has been together for 11 years. Most of the time he has no work and would be dependent to me. I would always tell him to find a decent job so that we can get married and start a family of our own. And whenever I open this topic he would become disinterested and refuses to find a job of his own. He has many plans, but he would always say that I can finance all of his plans. Whenever I would like to talk something serious about our relationship, he would not listen or would turn away from me. He never gave me any gifts nor any flowers and would say I am too materialistic even if I told him I just want to be given appreciation. He never made an effort to be close to my family. I do all the chores in the house while he just plays all day long on his computer. He never helps and would be angry if I ask him to. We seldom have sex, and whenever I would like to do it, he becomes angry with me. And whenever we do it, he will just be the only one to be satisfied in the end. He never kisses nor embraces me, he just turns around after we have sex. He gets angry whenever I cannot do something for him. And whenever he gets angry he always threaten to break up with me. I love him with all my heart, but I think I'm just getting tired. In the long years we've been together, he never asked me if I'm ok or if I'm doing fine. He never told me to eat my meals or simple gesture of saying good night. Whenever we fight, I was always the one asking for forgiveness. Recently, he's always hotheaded whenever I commit a mistake. Once, he was cursing me and telling me that he will hurt me because of a petty mistake. People see us as the perfect couple, but I am not truly happy because most of the times I know I am crying inside as I am the only trying to maintain this relationship. I want a way out, but thinking of losing him drives me crazy.

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      Kristal Morris 

      11 months ago

      I was in denial i guess because when i seen this it truly thru me i thought he loves me but to see it writing tore me in two.I read this article to him while i was crying and he said do i have to hear u cry about this all night now.I NEED TO LEAVE i just don't want to be alone.I cry every day because im feeling like crap because he makes me feel like I'm crap.He always is saying shut up he never says anything nice and when he does something nice he throws it my face he. Dont love me i know it now.

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      Birch 

      11 months ago

      Same

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      jazzy 

      11 months ago

      i still don't get if my boyfriend loves me

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      Flossy Jane 

      11 months ago

      My boyfriend and I haven't had sex in months. I finally confronted him about it and he said he wants "to cut back on sex because too much of it will ruin our relationship." ( Umm... Why couldn't you have talked to me about that MONTHS ago? )

      I asked a couple friends of mine what their opinion of his answers was, they said he is either no longer interested in me, or he has already interested in someone else or already seeing that person.

      Usually we are pretty close and tell each other everything. But work and life has gotten in the way and I feel like it's really taking a toll on our relationship.

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      A Person 

      11 months ago

      Today, my boyfriend said to me " I think you are taking it too far when you kiss me" for some reason the flagged up the alarm bells in my head. I feel really upset now. :(

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      Nelia 

      11 months ago

      I think that he doesn’t live me anymore. He is always irritated when i talk to him gets annoyed by every little that I say doesn’t reply to my texts and barely spends time with me. Over a whole year we went only on one date and since that never again. We didn’t even talk about it though I tried to bring the subject on the table. He no more tells me that he loves me nor does he hug me and this is tearing my heart and I feel so alone. I tried to speak to him about what i’m feeling and he just ignores what I was saying and move on with a new convo. I love him dearly with all my heart and will accept it if he wants us to break up cause I can’t do it anymore but he never talks about breaking up, he never talks about anything anyway.

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      Baby 

      12 months ago

      I just died again. I am not talking about the boss. I have spent over 2 weeks trying to level up one time and now I have to do it all over again

      I hate you. You are bad luck. Don't talk to me ever again. I don't care about you anymore

      That what he said just now it everyrtime he at work or playing games he gets so mean to me.

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      Mermaid 

      12 months ago

      I really want my boyfriend to just look at me like he use to and tell me I am beautiful...but he never does any more. He says I can’t make him do something he doesn’t want to do. Never thought I was asking for a lot. I also find he is all about him now and the hell with me. Meanwhile, I am dying to just have him love me and it really feels deep down that it’s not me who he wants.

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      Pride 

      12 months ago

      I had a missed miscarriage and the day we found out that our baby was no longer alive, I was a mess.. kept up a tough appearance at the clinic but broke when we got home. You would think that if anyone could relate to your grief.. it would be your other half (we were both wanting this child) but he left me on my own, left me swimming in my tear drenched pillow, to see his best friend.. who tf does that? I needed surgery to have the baby removed. He told me he had to work, even though his boss is his dad, who knew of our situation.. who tf does that? I went to the hospital with my mom and had to hold in the tears when I saw other women being held by their men. I knew we were done after that. I will never forgive him and have kicked him to the curb.. even after being together 4yrs.. who tf does that? A woman who refused to be treated like a rag, that's who

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      Rose 

      12 months ago

      I understand so many of you

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      Sue 

      12 months ago

      Been through so much of what I have read, and ladies I have some advice. Fuck 'em. Seriously. If they don't love you, love yourself enough and move on. I know this is hard. I have had to do it myself and it can either allow it define who you are, or you redefine your own damn self and move on. After my husband left me and our 12 year old 3 months after I was diagnosed with a brain tumor, I found in the years that followed a strength I never knew I even had. I've always unconsciously leaned towards abusive relationships (yep -a residual from a dysfunctional family) and somewhere along the line this past year, I just decided I don't have to do that anymore. I deserve to have some one love me and I don't have to settle for someone, or twist myself into someone I barely recognize to please a man who just makes me feel bad. I don't have to. I'd rather be alone than settle. I don't say this lightly either - I'm pushing 50. I deserve love and happiness - and so you all of you.

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      Kirsty 

      12 months ago

      Hi, I've been with my partner 5 years now, everything was OK at the start of our relationship, we've got a 2 year old son together. We are with our child all the time and we never get any time together. He dosent talk to me or admire me he's never nice to me anymore, he will sit on the room for hours and not say one word to me. Everytime I ask him does he love me he gets angry and says I'm not all there and that there's something wrong with me. We ha entirely got a sex life anymore we never cuddle or anything. We ha entirely been out for a meal for about 2 years. He always takes his phone in the bathroom and says hes having a shower but he watches porn and has wank. Im really frustrated and don't know what to do anymore. I love him bit I don't think he loves me anymore and I wouldn't dare ask him as he gets very angry with me. Help me please.

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      leelee 

      12 months ago

      i asked my bf if he loved me and he said idk i know he knows im hurting and he said i broke our trust i didnt do anything to him

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      12 months ago

      Hi I been in my relationship 14 years all four of my kids is his. He calls me names such as bitch or fat cause I gain weight since I had his kids. He done hit me multiple times he brings up my past bout me being molested as a young teen when he get mad. He tells me he loves me but I know he on cocaine bad could that be part of it or is it just him he can be sober and be hateful to me.

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      Brandy. Yea m** 

      12 months ago

      Yes brent i see how i was right ....u do exactly and

      Each and everyone of those ...now i know thar i can actualy be at peace n ...i love yo

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      Colly Thuso Makhubedu 

      13 months ago

      Communication is the only way to make it work also honesty. When a person doesn't want you anymore. He will hurt you in every chance he get it will even get to a point where he will insults you. Once a man calls u the Bitch (B) word know that it is over and sex is very important no sex no love. If u wanna save your relationship or marriage communicate and give it to him or her . Learn to more on forgive and be happy because happiness is a choice. Have a indirect girl or a guy talk. Do whatever it takes if she or he is the one u will know. Keep those P down. And don't forget to show and give TLC.

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      kb 

      13 months ago

      my BF has went from " I love You " to treating me ice cold, no kisses, no sex, no long talks on the telephone. all because he told me that he loved me after 3 weeks of dating i told him how could he loved me in so short time. I don't understand i thought asking that question was harmless. but i guess i have to suffer for asking.

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      Aura 

      13 months ago

      My bf ignores most of my text and he doesnt want to hang out with me anymore I feel so lonly ;-;

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      JJ 

      13 months ago

      Most of the above sounds like what I'm going through. Also, he said if he ever got me back, he'd never let me go. Obviously those were just pretty little words. His "boss", his best friend, my parents, his friends,.... even the dogs come before me!!! He makes up excuses for cancelling every plan he makes with me to be with someone else. Heck recently I left home over night and he never knew I was gone or didn't care. He's become an alcoholic and a pothead. We live with my parents who have so far stayed out of our relationship. He thinks he should stay and that he doesn't care what I do but he's not going anywhere. Our dog might be pregnant and he said we should kick her in the stomach so she doesn't have them. I cry and he doesn't comfort me. He has stopped saying I love you. I feel so alone. My friends don't talk to me outside of school so yeah I feel alone.

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      shivan soni 

      13 months ago

      My girlfriend has a past that i knew after 3 month of our relationship i have dought that still she is in touch with past and whenever i used to ask she becomes angry and fighting with me how will i come to know she will live with me upto end and how should i treat her so that she will tell me freely all the things or else i should break this relation. But i am unable to do this as well because i love her a lot more than myself i am in very tense please help me

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      skye marks 

      13 months ago

      My bf doesn’t kiss me cuddle me he dosor even touch me, I feel so unattractive to him, and lonely, he gets angry all the time a blames me for stuff that has nothing to do with me, I don’t know what to do, I love him, but I know the feelings not mutual any more

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      Anon 

      13 months ago

      My boyfriend has been really distant and has lost most interest into the relationship he doesn’t respond to my texts until like a day or two later he posts a lot of his girl friends on social media and saying how he’s so happy he has them in his life and when I’m upset he doesn’t take much interest

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      Amy 

      13 months ago

      my boyfriend doesn't talk to me anymore....i feel like the spark is gone

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      Puja 

      13 months ago

      My husband ignore me and left me alone at home all the time. I feel so lonely...i can't do anything..this feeling kills me..i even can't imagine anything beyond this.he has no Interest in me..even in small argument he threatened me of divorce. What should i do

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      Shweta 

      13 months ago

      My bf wants my expectations to be less now.. Do he luv me anymore or Not?

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      Mia 

      14 months ago

      I'm there

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      Bj 

      14 months ago

      I found a video of my partner of 12 years dressing up, i asked him about it but i didn't get any answers, 2 years on we are still together after 18 month break. Since than I've had a baby to a guy i had a short relationship with. My partner now won't touch me, he likes me doing things to him but i get nothing. He spends most his free time watching she male porn ....what should i do

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      Enna 

      14 months ago

      HONESTLY THIS IS SO ACCURATE I'M SCARED. My boyfriend has suddenly lost interest and has been spending a lot of time with this other girl that HE SWEARS he doesn't have feelings for. She's said she's had feelings for him in the past, so then he stopped being her friend. But now she's back.. And typically I don't get jealous.. But when he's spending more time with her than with me I get worried. And every time I look over at them she's tucking her hair behind her ear and batting her eyelashes at him. My god I hate her so much. But also in some ways I'm jealous of HER HERSELF. She's very pretty and kinda attractive. My head is shaved so I'm not typically an "attractive girlfriend". It just sucks that she can make him laugh and smile, while I can;t even get barely two words out of him. I'm terrified of losing him, but I feel like he's waiting on me to leave so that he doesn't have to hurt me. I've cried so much over this and, frankly, I honestly don't think he'd care..

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      happycamper10 

      14 months ago

      My question is what can we conclude if a woman exhibits these behaviors?

      What I'm implying/stating is that I see a lot of double standards here, where if a man exhibits the behavior it is a sign he doesn't love you where as if a woman does it she will get a pass.

      For example, is it not common for women to ask for space in a relationship, that you are smothering her and making her feel claustrophobic? So, the man is at fault either way. If the man wants space he is guilty of demonstrating that he doesn't love you. If the woman asks for space it is the man's fault that he is smothering her and of course he should provide her empathy and understanding.

      And what about #9: Your Boyfriend Digs up Regrettable Incidents from Your Past? My experience and the experiences of many of my male friends is that women, much more so than men, are guilty of this. They dig up painful memories from the past and manage to interject them into every argument you have - for eternity.

      And this one, 13) Your Boyfriend Suddenly Starts Getting Annoyed by Some of Your Habits. Really? Women are constantly annoyed by habits of their boyfriends, but I'm sure those feelings are all rational and just. But if a man has those feelings it means he doesn't love me.

      Seems like a lot of double standards here to me. No?

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      Linda 

      14 months ago

      Sometimes I feel as if he doesn't love me cause I'm an emotional disaster. He lies about talking to girls that he knows I don't like and yet I know he has messages and photes with her and when I asked him to see them he tried to delete them when I was in the same room. He is demanding more space and he says we hangout to much and this week I hadn't seen him for weeks and I finally see him and he says that we should spend more time with our friends as we see each other to much. I know it dosent seem so bad but these small things lower my self esteem even more that everything else. He has stopped giving me compliments as i respond with disagreement as I hate the way I look and he always tells me he finds all these girls really fit and it makes me feel ugly and ashamed of my body.

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      Sean X 

      14 months ago

      My bf and I were dating for a year now. We were long distance because we both went to college in different areas. Around the summertime things changed. He wasn't romantic anymore, he would get annoyed by me and stuff, and I knew this was not going to end well. This was our first relationship each and we did not know how to break up. We started out fast, because we had a lot of things in common. We were both Nigerian, in the closet, same tribe in Nigeria, and our moms were friends. I think us having that stuff in common made us want to date lol. We even said "I love you" a month after our first date! But, during Thanksgiving break, we finally saw each other after not seeing each other for three months. It was sooo awkward, because the relationship was dead as hell. So I ask him "do you still like me?", and he says "why would you ask me that?" and we had a little discussion, and we basically said that we should work on our relationship. So fast-forward to yesterday, I texted him telling him that we rushed into this and how the romance isn't there, but the friendship and humor is still there. He told me that he has been feeling the same way for months! When he told me that, I felt so relieved, like a big weight was lifted off my shoulders. I am so excited to start a new relationship as friends now!

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      14 months ago

      I know how you all feel

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      allyssa 

      14 months ago

      i feel sad my bf does most of these things, i try so hard and i get nothing i feel like shit cause he prefers to hang out with his friends and mother, he ignores me and rather plays on his stupid computer. he says theirs nothing wrong with our relationship but he always leaves, going to party's and wants to smoke weed and ruin his life. i love him but i dont think he loves me anymore.

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      Lyn 

      14 months ago

      My boyfriend did not meet me for six months already but he does messaging me. He says "I love you" in his text. All the sweet & comforting words he does say. Every time he is saying that he is just busy with the work that's why he cannot meet me. Just last 7 days he did not message me. After that he told me he was hospitalized due to a severe sickness. His mobile had been switched off for a week. He has always reason on everything. I don't know how to end up our relationship because I love him so much.

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      Elena 

      14 months ago

      Wow my boyfriend of almost 4 years does most of these, I know I have made mistakes in the relationship but I don’t know how to get back to when we were good. It breaks my heart he says he feels I don’t respect him I have been trying and working on myself but I guess he doesn’t see my effort. Sometimes I wonder why we even try to be with someone else for the long run anyways no one wants to stay or work on things anymore I feel like especially with my generation people see relationships as something that is so disposable. I love this man and I have wanted to be with him since I was 14 it hurts that he says he’s unhappy.

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      Lucy 

      14 months ago

      Dose it mean he still loves me if he dosent rlly talk to me and he hangs out with his friends more than me

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      Cleo 

      15 months ago

      But when he's showing that he actually still wants to be with a girl, could he just be pretending too? Because people do pretend

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      Tania 

      15 months ago

      LADIES! we all actually know exactly what we HAVE to do ... and that's to let go . because we deserve somebody that will fight for us not away from us . IF we FIGHT for them why cant they do the same? because we are not that important . because trust me! we ALL make time for what we really want in life,, unfortunately i am going thru this myself and it really makes me teary typing this because i actually needed it to hear it also :(

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      Dolce 

      15 months ago

      My boyfriend used to text me whenever he have a leisure time or a break time from his work he's in the army that's why I always understand his situation. And he always made me feel loved he talks about his dreams, goals, and our future. It just feel so good that he have plans together with me. But one day I was the one who stopped communicating with him because He changed like how often he text me before. And I get confused like does he really love me. I'm such an idiot...Well though it hurts a lot knowing that the person you loved just blocked you. I am still hoping that one day when the right time comes I will get to see him again and I hope whatever destiny would bring us ...what we have will work out.

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