Confessions of a Wife Stealer
Men steal the wives of others all the time. If you have ever wondered why this happens and why marriages fail, this article will explain at least how some couples wind up in divorce court.
Breaking up a marriage is not as difficult as some might think. Given the right circumstances, doing this is just a matter of choosing the right woman, paying attention to how her spouse treats her and then offering yourself as someone who can make life more loving, nurturing and fun for her.
Here is a hypothetical scenario that should serve as a warning to all who take their wives for granted. There is always someone waiting in the wings to take your place if you forget how important she is to you.
Instead of fighting to get her back, you need to make sure that nobody is able to tempt her to leave in the first place!
Stealing Your Woman Away From You Was Easy
I am the man who stole your wife. You made it so easy, that it was hard for me to resist!
You may assume that I am handsome or rich or that I have an exciting life, but none of that is true. I am just an ordinary guy who was attracted to a woman who happened to be married, and who I wanted for my own.
You thought you were being such a great guy working all those long hours so that you could provide for your family. You never had time to play with your kids, eat dinner with the family or take family vacations.
I, on the other hand, made it a point to lavish your wife with gifts and kindness and let her know that I would be available if she ever needed me or wanted to talk to someone who would listen without making judgments.
Everything for you was always about making money, surviving and sacrificing the present for the future.You never thought about the fact that those things were not what your wife wanted or needed from you.
What she needed was what I provided for her, and as time went on, she realized what she had been missing in her relationship with you.
How Loving Your Wife Allowed Me To Steal Her From You
She told me about how things were when the two of you first fell in love. You were attentive, loving and thoughtful and in those days you showed a real interest in her work, dreams and hopes.
There were wonderful moments when you two quietly shared your warmest thoughts over a quiet glass of wine slipped away into another galaxy and never returned.
However, as time went on, life became busy because there were children to raise, friends to nurture and bosses to please. As people increasingly stepped between the two of you, you stopped hugging her, telling her how much you loved her and thanking her for the wonderful food she placed before you.
Doing these things seemed a waste of time to you, but to here, they would have meant everything.
Before long, she found herself handling all of the household responsibilities herself and spending long evenings alone. She began to wonder what happened to the woman who was so vibrant and full of joy. How had that person become the frumpy couch potato who spent so much time feeling sad and lonely?
Why was she spending so much time by herself, while you got to go out into the world, enjoy business lunches and fulfill your own dreams of success?
You Threw Her Right Into My Arms
I could see the emptiness in her eyes the day we met.
It was quite obvious that she was starving for affection and companionship, and I was more than happy to give them to her.
She was a beautiful woman, full of life and ready to live. I reminded her of that, and brought the sparkle back into her life (the same sparkle that you slowly were sucking out of her soul).
Every time you were too rushed to give her a hug, too busy to listen to her concerns and too tired to make love to her, you prepared another piece of her for me.
My arms were always wide open and ready to take her into them, and finally, she gave herself to me.
Stealing Your Wife Enriched Her Life And Mine
I don't feel bad. In fact I feel pretty good. After all, I have managed to save a woman who was drowning in loneliness and bring back her joy in living.
In so doing, I have made my own life more complete and enjoyable as well. She is my wife now, and I won't ever give her away to anybody.
Why would I? I am now the man who is fortunate enough to revel in her laughter, enjoy her radiance and be loved by her.
I will never open the door of our relationship to allow someone else to enter it. I've learned from your mistakes, and I will not forget the lessons you gave me.
Not a day will go by when I don't hold her, tell her she is beautiful and let her know how much I appreciate having her in my life.
I'm Glad I Stole Your Wife
You were too busy making money and fulfilling your own goals to appreciate what you had.
I am not. I know that money can never replace joy, happiness and love, and it should never be an excuse for allowing another human being to whither.
So, enjoy your money, and I will enjoy my new wife.
This is what you chose, and this is what you got. Don't expect me to feel sorry for you, but if you ever marry again, make sure you get your priorities in order. Otherwise you will lose another wife to a man like me.
I am the man who stole your wife, and I'm glad I did!
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