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How to Pull Off the Greatest Revenge on the Person That Did You Wrong!

Updated on June 23, 2016

The Cost of Revenge

What brought this article to mind was an article I read recently about an IT admin employee who is sitting in jail because he password protected a large portion of the City of San Francisco's computer system and added some extras and will not divulge the password. They say they don't know why he has done this, but then proceeded to say he was given a bad performance review. The (I'm assuming now ex) IT employee has given several passwords to the police after his arrest, but each one so far has been the wrong one. He refuses to give the right password. Talk about revenge! I guess he was more than a little upset by his bad review.


First, let's talk a little about revenge. Revenge is payback; a way of settling the score. It can be something trivial and fleeting or it can consume you and last many years. Sometimes revenge is in the form of a prank, is actually quite funny, and no harm is done by it. Sometimes revenge takes a completely different form with nothing funny about it, harm being done, and criminal activity involved. Of all revenge, the affairs of the heart appear to cause the greatest need for revenge. That being the case, that is what I'm focusing on here even though a work related revenge is what made me want to write this.


There are several sayings on revenge:

  • Don't get mad, get even.
  • One good act of vengeance deserves another.
  • Revenge is a dish best served cold.
  • Forgive your enemies, but first get even.
  • Women do most delight in revenge.

(The last one I almost didn't include, but when I started looking into what I could find on the subject, it did seem that women were on the giving end and men were on the receiving end of revenge more often than not. I'm not going to get into the argument on whether men are just usually doing the wrong and deserving the revenge or women are just more emotional and can't control themselves.)

Different Approaches

I have heard, read and seen all types of revenge. There are old favorites like wrapping a person's house and yard in toilet paper or egging someone's car - these, of course, are all too tame when it comes to avenging a broken heart. Newer ones involve changing a person's password and changing their voicemail message to a less than polite message, emptying out a bank account, or posting very unflattering pictures or stories on the internet.

People have taken out ads, billboards, and had signs flown over ballparks in order to humiliate that person that did them wrong. More serious even still involve vulgar messages painted on cars, houses, etc. to let the world know what the offender has done. Damage is done to property in anger, especially to that one thing that is known to be the favorite item to that despicable person - the car is a common treasured possession for men.


The bad thing about a deep sense of a need for revenge is all bets are off and logic is out the window. People destroy property and go overboard to try to exact the absolute best humiliating revenge. The problem with this is that it can get very expensive legally. Now, there is help. There are websites available to help exact your revenge or to help advertise the revenge you have taken. Here are just a few I've run across while looking around:


The Best Revenge

Okay, so the how do you obtain the absolute 100% guaranteed best revenge? Whatever the situation may be, there does seem to be one type of revenge that is more effective than all of the others.

As trite as it is going to sound, the best revenge is to forgive, live well and succeed. The immediate satisfaction is not there, I will DEFINITELY grant you that. You know the one I'm talking about... The one you dream about - the one you fantasize about when you are thinking about which revenge you are going to use and you are picturing the reaction, the stun on their smug face. But the satisfaction is fleeting and will only come back and bite you in the end (either financially or emotionally).

Spite Is Not Satisfying

When you do something spiteful, you might as well go to the other person in tears and lay down on the ground in front of them and let them walk all over you. You are letting them know that you are devastated and that they have an emotional hold on you.

So we have established that the spiteful revenge, although briefly satisfying, is definitely not the best approach. Okay, so now what? By carrying the need for revenge, you are keeping yourself from moving on and healing.


Well, personally, I think the only way to move on is to forgive. Talk about the hardest thing in the world!!! It is easy to forgive people you like, but to forgive someone who has betrayed you deeply and doesn't even care - you feel like why bother! I'll tell you why - for yourself. Until you forgive them, you will not be able to move on.

Now, the forgiving part is not instant. It is not something that you can just wake up one day and say okay, I forgive them, all the anger and resentment is gone. You make the decision that way, but you have to remind yourself that you have forgiven them when the hard feelings swell up. Keep telling yourself that you forgive them, pray to forgive them, and eventually you will realize that you mean it and that you really do forgive them.

The next part is easier. Once you can move past what happened, live well and succeed. The reason this is easier is you are not carrying the baggage of anger, which is extremely heavy baggage. Now, everyone's definition of living well and succeeding is different. Mine is being happy; enjoying life. No person should count on another person for happiness. Be happy with yourself and who you are. The rest is just topping on the cake. It is much better to be happy by yourself than be miserable with someone else, trust me on this one.

Two Very Different Endings

Here are two stories I am very personally familiar with:

First story, a woman's husband cheated on her and left her for this other woman. The first woman stayed bitter about it and never was able to get over it. She dwelled on it and brought it up every time her children were together for family gatherings, trying to turn her children against their father. She died with the bitterness and had also caused her children to pity her for the last thirty years of her life.

Second story, a second woman's husband cheated on her and left her for the other woman. She grieved, she forgave, she moved on. After a while, she decided to become friends with him and his new wife (for the sake of their children) and she remarried someone else. To this day, she is happier than ever. About five years after the divorce from her cheating husband, her ex-husband came to her in tears explaining that divorcing her was the biggest mistake of his life. There was no going back at that point, though.

When you seek revenge, you dig two graves.

— Confucius

Don't get me wrong, each person's story will be different, but each person's life is what they will make of it. The decision is yours and the path you take will be of your choosing.


Some more quotes on revenge that should be taken to heart:

  • A man that studies revenge keeps his own wounds green, which otherwise would heal and do well.
  • There is no revenge as complete as forgiveness.
  • An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.
  • In taking revenge, a man is but even with his enemy; but in passing it over, he is superior.
  • You cannot get ahead while you are getting even.
  • Live well. It is the greatest revenge.

Do not give anyone the satisfaction to rule your life but yourself and God. Two really good things to remember during times like this: 1) I can do all things through HIM who gives me strength, and 2) all things work together for good to those who love God.


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    • christinekv profile image

      christinekv 8 years ago from Washington

      Nice hub - I enjoyed it very much! Lots of contrast , words of wisdom and the imagery you included, some of it is too funny!

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      Greg Boudonck 8 years ago from On A Mountain In Puerto Rico

      Very good hub--thank you!

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      New Reflection 8 years ago from The Real World

      Thank you both. You would not believe all that people have done. I had so many that I wish I could have included, but didn't because of the vulgarity of the messages painted on the houses and the cars!

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      marisuewrites 8 years ago from USA

      New Reflection, I am glad you added the forgiveness piece, in some ways, that is the biggest form of revenge.  You are lighter, and they are burdened with their own pain and guilt.  Or not, either way, you win in the end.  Anger is a heavy burden to carry thru time.

      I'm lazy, I'd rather forgive, be wise, and not give toooooo many chances for them to repeat the mistake.  Besides, I'm pretty busy asking people to forgive ME.  LOL

      I appreciate this thought provoking hub.

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      New Reflection 8 years ago from The Real World

      Although I have had more than my fair share of thoughts of revenge, I usually opt for the forgiveness. It is a struggle at times, but definitly the wiser choice.


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      marisuewrites 8 years ago from USA

      You're right New Reflection, and sometimes it's what they least expect. One time, a person tried to hurt someone I loved. I spent many weeks frustrated and wanting revenge. It was eating me up and one day I saw the person who I was upset with on the street. He was laughing and being his obnoxious self.

      I was the only one suffering. It opened my eyes. I worked hard to push off the hard feelings and resentment. One day, I walked lighter...and realized I was close to forgiving. When it happened, it was a physical relief. He never changed, but I did.

      I am better for it. =) Thanks for your hub that reminded me of my journey and all of us to make clear and healthy choices.

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      dafla 8 years ago

      You don't have to exact revenge on anyone. Karma will get them eventually. Alll you have to do is wait. However, I did get revenge on one cheating BF who came back to me, only for me to find that he was living with someone else. I told her the truth, and she and I got on the phone together and called him. It was priceless! And all I did was tell the truth. I told her it was her decision to make whether to stay with him or not, but she needed to know the truth. She left, she came back, she left, he tried to come back to me again, I laughed at him in front of his friends. Revenge is sweet sometimes.

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      talented_ink 8 years ago from USA

      Brilliant hub! I read a hub Julie Johnson wrote about forgiveness and I also wrote one a while ago called self empowerment through forgiveness. The point is you have covered what we both said so well and it's amazing how much forgiveness helps out the forgiver.

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      New Reflection 8 years ago from The Real World

      Dafla, if faced with a similar situation, I probably would have done the same. If not in the name of revenge, at least in the name of justice. The other woman had every right to know.

      talented_ink, I read your hub and enjoyed it. I had also read the one by Julie Johnson yesterday. Both were very well done.

      Thank you both!

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      talford 8 years ago from U.S.A.

      You are a talented writer. You have been able to draw me in twice already. Good job.


      P.S. I heard an old Chinese proverb one time, "He that seeks revenge needs to dig two graves. One for his enemy and one for himself."

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      New Reflection 8 years ago from The Real World


      I promise I wasn't trying to trick you- just make you think a little. Thank you for your kind words and for reading my hubs...

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      Karen N 8 years ago from United States

      Really good hub!

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      New Reflection 8 years ago from The Real World

      Thanks so much for reading Karen N. Glad you enjoyed the hub... :-)

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      Cailin Gallagher 8 years ago from New England

      Excellent writer. I love this article. I like your take on forgiveness as the best revenge.

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      Disillusioned 8 years ago from Kerala, India


      You have the knack of choosing very catchy titles that will attract readership. You write well too. Perhaps you could look at the length of the article and prune it a bit.


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      New Reflection 8 years ago from The Real World

      Cailin Gallagher- Thank you for your kind words.

      C.V.Rajan- I have never claimed to be a writer, but I do love to write. I’ll see what I can do about revising this hub a little when I get a chance… :-)

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      Social Conscience 8 years ago from Earth - Where are YOU from?

      Wow, that billboard is almost too much!

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      New Reflection 8 years ago from The Real World

      That one was a little harsh. Thanks so much for reading...

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      flutterbug77 8 years ago from USA

      Nice Hub! I try to forgive and let go. They say being angry shortens your life.

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      New Reflection 8 years ago from The Real World

      I couldn't agree more.

      I appreciate you taking the time to read and comment...

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      michellemoseley 8 years ago from New Hampshire

      Great hub. Having a couple of chances to get my revenge was tempting. I thought about how it would feel. Finally giving him what he deserved after all he had done. Guess what, I never did a thing. He ended up in jail for violating a restraining order. Sometimes things have a way of taking care of themselves.

      Since, I have forgiven and moved on. Life is good!!!


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      New Reflection 8 years ago from The Real World

      Some call it Karma... But you will always have the satisfaction of knowing you didn't sink to his level and thankfully, you didn't have to... :-)

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      ana 8 years ago

      i totally disagree. I got my revenge and now I CAN SLEEP!!!

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      Bob Davis 8 years ago from Paisley, FL

      Excellent Hub, and well written. I get the feeling that you are wise and a basically good and honest person,

      I am goimg to write a hub in the near future which will be more for requesting advice than for providing all solutions. I hope that you will comment when I do.

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      Victel 8 years ago from Breda, The Netherlands

      Great hub and I love the funny pictures!

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      New Reflection 8 years ago from The Real World

      Thank you Bob and Victel for your kind words and for reading this hub.

      As for you ana- as long as you can sleep... I just know from my own experience that revenge is sweet, but only for a short time. Forgiveness is definitely the best way to deliver peace of mind for me.

      Best to you all... :)

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      Christoph Reilly 8 years ago from St. Louis

      Hi, New Reflection. I loved this hub. Funny and scary at the same time. You're right, of course, about the moving on part. Life's to short to waste time being angry. Still, when the wound is fresh, imaginging various - shall we say - actions you COULD take, sure can make you feel better. One of my favorite quotes from literature is from Poe (wouldn't you know): "A wrong is unredressed when the redressor fails to make himself known as such to he who has done the wrong." This just before he walls the guy up with bricks in the catecombs. That Poe cracks me up!

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      betherickson 8 years ago from Minnesota

      Hi! You're hub is very terrific. I love reading it. Great and inspirational lesson to learn. Thumbs up for you! :)

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      Patty Inglish 8 years ago from North America

      Very good and entertaining Hub with a good ending lesson. Brava!

      The Jill Clayburg film An Unmarried Woman similarly used the line The Best Revenge is Success.  Add forgiveness and it's more success. 

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      New Reflection 8 years ago from The Real World

      Oh bab,

      Getting even only brings temporary satisfaction.  As someone who has been around a while, it is nice to look back on situations where I could have really jabbed a knife in the back of someone who did me wrong (metaphorically speaking) and I did not and know I did the right thing.  Taking the high road and staying above the fray has never disappointed me or any one else I know that has done the same.  You’ll just have to trust me on this one.

      Thanks for reading… :)

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      teeray 8 years ago from Canada

      Nice hub - the pictures are great!

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      JNitchie 8 years ago from Canada

      I love the topic that you chose to write about. I myself have been wanting to exact revenge on someone off and on for a long time even though I have forgiven them before. The problem is that just when I can stand to look at them again, I'll find out something else horrible that they've done and then want revenge all over again.I also loved all the pictures and quotes that you put on your hub you made me laugh out loud; though I won't really put any of it into practice. I have however taken note of the different revenge agencies that you've listed.

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      gabriel 8 years ago

      I stumbled upon this blog and I'm glad I did. Just recently someone did something wrong against me and my family and revenge is too tempting. Some of my friends want me to get even, the others just want me to get over it and move on. If I have only one option I'd take the last one. Your post gave me a reason to take stock of my life and look ahead at better things. Thank you for posting this.

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      mit 7 years ago

      this is complete crap. people who pretend to forgive NEVER have any peace. the only sense of peace and restoration of personal emotional equilibrium is when you've returned the favor to the perpetrator in some form. that is the ONLY way out short of lying and self delusion.

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      New Reflection 7 years ago from The Real World

      Thank you all for the comments...

      mit- I am sorry to learn that you are such an angry person. Emotional equilibrium is not contingent upon exacting revenge... and if you are honest with yourself, you will come to the same conclusion.

      Thanks for reading and for taking the time to comment...

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      Dan 7 years ago

      Totally useless information

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      Ashley 6 years ago

      Thank you for all of this information. I was feeling deeply lost and confused about some current events in my life where an individual caused me much grief. I was actually looking for revenge when I found this page and I'm glad I found it. I feel a sense of peace now...the pain is definitely still there but I know what I have to do now. Thank you.

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      Marie 6 years ago

      I would like to forgive this person, but she keeps on doing the same stuff over and over. It is getting harder and harder to forgive.

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      Habaroa 6 years ago

      This has helped me get over my ex-girlfriend dating with my bestfriend behind my back.

      I'm moving on from them 2 and thank you so much for this.

      This quote you put:

      An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.

      I love it, really no reason to get even and to lower yourself to their level. I am going to continue living my own life and be happy and I know that's going to be revenge enough for both of them

      God Bless

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      Paris 6 years ago

      Thank YOU! This made my day and put my soul at peace. I was boiling over my betrayal! And I felt the satisfaction of revenge would take at least some of the pain away… This site and quotes really opened my eyes to how revenge is only a confession of pain. And while thinking of plotting revenge you’re a prisoner to that pain. You’ll only be hurting YOURSELF in an attempt to hurt the person who hurt you. The best revenge IS to forgive, not for the other person but for you. Thanks Again :-)

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      janice wilkes 6 years ago

      I have a friend and she wants revenge on these people and she wants someone to go to three different houses and scare these people. She is wondering does anyone knows anybody that can be a rough neck or in a gang, if so she wants someone to go to this address 6050 S Western Ave Apt 405 Los Angeles, CA 90047, she wants someone to call 3237528132 and threaten them over the phone. These people are about 5'5, 5'6, and 6'1, when going to the place ask for ray cooks, ruben broaster, and abraham so someone can kick their asses. Use your fists and use something to scare these people to death

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      gustav 6 years ago

      Somethin very bad happended yesterday, but I'll do as the Talmud says:"Live well. It is the greatest revenge".

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      that guy 6 years ago

      you know i might get some haters for this comment but some of the revenge quotes are shown in mw2 (modern warfare 2)

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      Lenore 6 years ago

      Thank you so much for writing this, and everyone's comments. Reading this literally just stopped me in my tracks, from an act of revenge on someone who has caused me so much heartache. I made up my mind to forgive and forget... however long it takes. I feel lighter and happier already!!

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      Melissa 6 years ago

      This article saved me from myself. I left my husband for a man I met and fell in love with. I lost my house, I almost lost my children. I struggled for 2 years and finally ended up living at my grandmothers with my 4 children. There's MY bad karma.

      The man I left him for turned out to be a person who just used women and cheated on everyone. He took advantage of me in the end. He cheated on me and left me for another woman. I was so hurt and alone. I'd given up everything for him.

      I wanted to extract revenge. I have a degree in computer science and searched all hacking sites and started plotting. I did many things to him but never felt any better until one night when I came across this site.

      I've forgotten what's important. He made me hate myself and the only way I can be happy is to move on and love myself again.

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      Marie 6 years ago

      The recession has been tough with no raises nor bonuses and decreased benefits. I was given a job offer with increased pay and benefits. I took the offer in good faith in June 2010. It was the most horrible law firm ever. I was subjected to foul language, sexual innuendos, false accusations, innappropriate touching, poor training and structure. After the 4th complaint the abuse escalated and I was let go. It seems that other employees knew I was going to be let go, giving them license to continue the abuse which escalated. I was devastated b/c I'd only been there 2 months and left a good job for what I thought was a better job. I have nothing but anger.

      I've recently discovered that one of the women who abused me has a criminal record. I so want her to suffer, then I realized that she is suffering. You've heard that saying to not judge anyone until you've walked a mile in their shoes. Someone recently told me to imagine waking up as these women and to imagine my life as them. I realized they have miserable lives with little joy nor respect for themselves.

      Altough I still have anger and continue to pray and look for employment, I awake as myself and not these horrible souls.

      That is my revenge.

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      Godforgiveme 6 years ago

      I came to this page looking for revenge, but this post really changed my mind. Thank you.

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      vindication 6 years ago

      My husband was having an affair with a very attractive married girl at work (using the excuse of working late) of course he was. Her office was located quite close to the door of the gents toilets.

      I made him a lovely meal and added that extra special little ingredient.......10 senakots.

      Three days in the gents! What must she have thought? Grunting and groaning coming from the cubicles and other men coming and going with smiles on their faces.

      I felt so sorry for him and 'acted' the perfect little wife, tending his every need. Course I did.

      Revenge was very sweet. Now very much divorced and happier for it, it still brings a smile 26 years later.

      Bless you Dave, if you're still alive.

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      Still sad 6 years ago

      Hello, I enjoyed your post. My boyfriend & I had a long distance relationship. He broke up with me on NYE. Not only did he make me feel like the break up was my fault, he also cut all communication with me. About a week ago he came clean and admitted that he had been deceiving me the entire relationship. He laughed about it and called me a fool. I was devistated. I sent an email to one of the girls he cheated on me with to let her know that he was probably lying to her too. This made him angry and that gave me satisfaction. I still wanted to make him feel the pain that I felt and began to search for ideas when I came across this site. Thanks for giving me a different perspective on getting revenge.

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      Nancy 6 years ago

      Enjoyed your perspective and am pleasantly surprised to not see juvenile pranks/suggestions for revenge. I am a codependent and thought that I could help someone get/stay clean. We'd been together 14 years and I recently discovered he was doing drugs and having an affair. I knew he was messing around with someone but it wasn't until I found out he was doing drugs again that I decided it was time to end it. When you say its better to be happy being alone vs being miserable with someone I couldn't agree with you more. I still worry about him but try to remember how miserable things were and that I can't change him. I wasted 14 years trying to do this and I fear he may kill himself once he is faced with reality. Alanon meetings helped me see that I wasn't the only one going through this. If you are in a relationship where you think you can save someone or are putting up with abuse then please take my advice and get out before you waste another moment of either or your lives. The only person that you can change is yourself.

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      Marika 6 years ago

      My ex husband had many affairs. With his brothers wife, dental assistant, who sadly killed herself, multiple patients and a patient who he is currently with. They vacationed together and were asked to depart from Las vegas separately because this woman caused a scene in the airport. She called my home, my children and even vandalized my home. My ex continued to deny the affair and even lied to the police when I filed for harressment. Liar and coward. When asked for help from his mother, she said "son be happy" "do what you want" And called me a "nut". She even entertained the other woman while we were still married. PIG. That is so wrong!! As their affair continued she also tried to kill herself with sleeping pills,he ran to her side, weak...I eventually filed for divorce. My ex and his girlfriend continue to bash me around their family, friends and dental staff... where is the code of ethics? God Bless you Janet! I hope your family see's you for what you are! Looking at her family and friends.. I can see the apple doesn't fall far from the tree...

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      5 years ago

      I'm apologizing in advance for the length, but this is still pretty fresh, and honestly when you read this, you'll see why my friends hate this guy & I can't really talk to them much about it...

      I reunited with a guy I was very very close with a few years ago after nnot being in touch for awhile. We met when we were 1 5 years old, my best friend at the time introduced us. We hit it off immediately, on the phone all night..we dated for a few months in high school, he cheated on me, we broke up but still had a thing from time to time. Underneath all that, we were also very very best of friends, and i t seemed the friendship meant a lot to each of us.

      So we reunite years later after I was divorced & he had ended a 10 year relationship 2 years earlier. We admitted we both had those old romantic feelings & tried to give it another go. During the course of time apart, he ever moved from his parents house (we are in our early 30's now), yet I had been independent since the age of 17. He has a criminal record with felonies from selling weed years ago & I came to find out he was addicted to painkillers. I don't have any of those issues. But I stood by & tried to help him find work & encourage him to get help for the drugs.

      He'd been talking to his ex a lot, to the point where I told him you know, I don't want to interfere with anything, I know you were together a long time...he assured me no worry. Then on my way to work one morning, I see his car at her house (she lived in my neighborhood). I was pissed. I even asked her the same thing & she said they were done, just friends. But this sleepover crap went on & on. She felt threateend by me, started interfering, and drugs or no drugs, John was a fucking dog with girls back in the day & old habits die hard. But I thought he'd come around. Went through 2 breakups with him where we didn't alk for months & then we'd talk & for me all the feelings came back & for him it was playtime again.

      He ruined 2 Christmases & New Years with this crap. Was close with his mom & she was helping him lie the whole time. It all came to a head this January when I was told he got the other girl pregnant. I am devastated over this. I confronted him, we got in a HUGE fight, I told him I hope his kid is stillborn, he's a POS, etc., etc. Said some horrible things, and I am best to battle with words. Deeds sure I can do them, but my best damage is done wby the pen. I screamed, I threw a fit, his whole neighborhood heard, yadda yadda.

      Have not talked in 5 months. He actually expected me to stick around while he sees this girl through a pregnancy, with all his how do we even know it's mine horsecrap. I said you brought me to your family's for Christmas, I brought you to mine, how do I explain something like this to my dad, let alone take myself seriously, are you effin NUTS??? He wouldn't stop bothering me, you know this guy went as far to say ooh it's probably better we try a relationship now because when we were younger, you probably would've caught me messing around..saying this while he WAS ACTIVELY messsing around?? What human being lies like that???

      I am having an IMPOSSIBLE time letting this go, even knowing that he is crappin his pants if he is having a kid, because he & his enabling mother are in no shape to handle this. It feels like it's not enough for me, I am so angry that he treated me this way, completely tossed the friendship in the trash, nothing is salvageable. I should've seen it coming, but thought I meant more. I guess there's always people you care about you come to find mean more to you than you do to them. I feel like I have half a lifetime full of these b.s. meaningful memories with this guy that I don't know what to do with.

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      haeven 5 years ago


      i was burning and you calm me down man

      thank you anyway

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      sandra 5 years ago

      Hi, very nice article .But sometimes resentment can be so painful ! The worst thing is when you are confused and undecided about it! knowing that forgiveness is the best thing to do, but being unable to forgive because you're really hurt and still suffering is a problem.

      I hope you can give some advices . thank you

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      alexus 5 years ago

      nice revnges

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      Hanging by a thread 5 years ago

      My husband of 23 years, who always told me he couldn't ask for a better wife and would go on and on about how much he loved me, suddenly fell in love with a married woman in the spring of 2008, and they romanced each other for 2 and 1/2 years while waiting for her husband to die, who was in need of a second heart transplant and couldn't get it. Meanwhile, I still did not leave him, even after all these years of feeling like I didn't matter. I was constantly left sitting home alone while he went out hunting, fishing, playing karaoke, cards, visiting friends, etc, and after he met his girlfriend Ina, he would be gone for days at a time, at his sister's, as his sister was her best friend and lived down the street from her and they would all hang out together. I was never included in the financial decisions, and he kept making one financial blunder after another, getting us deeper and deeper in debt, while I did without EVERYTHING and he got everything he wanted. I didn't even have any say in him getting a vasectomy after my son was born. I wanted 1 more child so my son would have a sister or brother to grow up with and someone else to be there for him throughout his life and at holidays after my husband and I pass away, but no, he went ahead and did it anyway and didn't care what my feelings were, so now my son will have no one when we are gone. I had no regular medical care until April of 2010, I wore the same glasses for 8 years and the pair before that was 13 years, I have had to go without the medical care and new glasses and much-needed dental work because we couldn't afford the out-of-pocket expenses...... I have had one cheap Walmart purse for 20 years, my one and only purse, never more than one half-good pair of shoes and an old pair of sneakers at a time, no more than 2 pairs of pants and 2 or 3 shirts at a time, could not buy makeup and skin creams and perfume like other women or get my hair done, because there was always a stack of bills needing to be paid. Meanwhile, my husband kept wasting more and more money. I worked for 10 years of the marriage, taking 7 off after having my son, and then I quit in March of 2005 because of back and hip problems. I missed the 5-year disability deadline that I did not even know about, and did not have enough medical proof to back up my claim, because I couldn't afford to go to the doctor for tests, so I have been turned down twice for disability and am waiting for a hearing, which I hear I can't get for 1 year. Meanwhile, we have been in the process of a divorce since April of 2011. He left me on Halloween night of 2010, even though his girlfriend of 2 and 1/2 years had already dumped him a few months after her husband died in Feb of 2010, and she moved out of state. He has been cold and hateful to me ever since he met her, even though I have done nothing wrong, and he continues to be hateful to me, and is trying to cheat me out of everything in the divorce, though I have no income, and he doesn't care if I lose my home and end up homeless and with no medical insurance, even though I have Diabetes, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, arthritis in my back and hips, breathing problems, etc. I have no idea of what is going to happen to me, but I am even more worried about what will happen to my 4 cats. I have never felt as depressed and scared and helpless in all my life, and when I discovered a little while ago that he has given a lot of my stuff that was in the garage and storage building away to his relatives and friends, I was ballistic! He is a cold-hearted, lying, cheating, selfish coward who cannot act responsibly or maturely, and I have taken an hard, objective look at him and our marriage since learning about Ina in 2008 and being treated like a nobody for so many years. I have come to the conclusion that I am a lot better off without him and glad to be rid of him. It is HE that is the loser. I was an excellent wife to him and loved him and stood by him through everything and in spite of his faults, but he has totally destroyed everything. I do not regret marrying him, because I got a wonderful son out of the deal. The light of my life, 22 years old and an amazing young man. My soon-to-be ex has done so many things that anger and frustrate me that I cannot begin to include it all, but it is a humongous amount of stuff I have put up with. Even in the divorce, with him trying to cheat me out of what I deserve just to save himself money and lying under oath and trying to get me to pay 1/2 the debts he created out of my half of the 401K even though I have no income, and trying to get my mobile home repossessed and on and on, I have tried to remain calm and not get into fights with him, as it would only escalate things and would hurt my son, but it is getting harder and harder to stay calm, like when I found out about all the stuff of mine in the garage and storage building that he had given away without asking. I was on here looking for revenge, but your article helped give me back a bit of sanity. I know that everyone says to forgive and move on and that hatred and anger only hurts the one who is feeling the hatred and anger. I KNOW that is right, it is just very hard to do, so I have to just trust in God to handle it, hope for karma to even the score, and have hope that life will get revenge on him FOR me while I try to stay out of it and do the best I can and have faith that there will be some kind of justice in this world for me in the divorce and with the SSD, because I don't know how I am going to survive without enough money, medical insurance, or my home, and I especially am not going to give up my cats. They are my family, my babies, and they have been my source of comfort, companionship, and love for years that my husband was not giving me, and are the reason I get out of bed each day. The humane society is always backed up for over a year and wouldn't ever take any strays that came to my door, I will not never take them to a kill shelter, I don't know anyone who would take them and I would be haunted by not knowing what was happening to them or how they would ultimately end up, I am not allowed to have any pets if I have to go to public housing, I am all they have ever known, and I cannot stand the thought of giving them up, it makes me cry like crazy to think of it, and I would sooner put a bullet in my head. Everyone please pray for us. I am trying to hang on but it gets harder and harder with each passing day.

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      Sweet 5 years ago

      I don't understand the lack of satisfaction you describe. I feel great satisfaction at even the smallest acts of revenge against someone who hurt me deliberately years ago. Not only do I not feel bad I feel great that she suffered some pain for what she did even if it was small. I don't get satisfaction from taking the high road to avoid revenge- I consider I'm ON the high road despite the revenge and that is sweet.

      Also I think it's pure poison to tell people to forgive injustice and cruelty. Write it off as pathetic and beneath contempt sure, let it go so you don't spend any energy on it but do it on your terms not by forgiving them! They say it isn't letting someone off the hook- of course it is! Writing then off however is the way to go.

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      air1409 5 years ago from Japan

      Thanks so much for your article. Just today I decided to start live well. I agree, the best revenge is living well although at first it will be hard. But I must do that. Someone has hurt me a lot. I love him so much but I felt this is first time I've been deceived by someone & the worst thing is that someone is the one I love most now. Thanks. You gave me more encouragement to move on. Keep writing :)

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      poo82 5 years ago

      Just had a baby father has been very mean to me after 4 years. He did and said a lot of hurtful things as far as he didn't want my child. After he begged me to have him lied and said he didn't want mt

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      poo82 5 years ago

      Continue: my child anyone.he started a whole bunch of drama. I almost participated but something told me not to anyway two weeks ago he got arrested and is facing about 15 years.

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      Biz 5 years ago

      It's hard not to want revenge when you have been so badly hurt and the other person continues to hurt you and your family. My husband left myself and children on holiday so he could move his girlfriend into our home. The girlfriend was a friend! Myself and children had to move in with my elderly parents, where i had to find schools for the children etc. They didn't have their toys, clothes etc around them. I had to help them through the pain of what their father did to them and me.

      He continues to try and force this woman into their lives, and friends tell me to forgive and move on!

      My life has been taken by my "Friend"

      My home. my husband etc

      I cannot understand how what they did and do is right.

      How can i forgive?

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      docrock33 5 years ago

      My girl friend and I dated for over 8 months. She said she wanted a relationship and wanted someone to treat her good. Well I bought her flowers for no reason, we spent a lot of time over the holidays exchanging gifts and I spent a lot of money on her and even helped her fix up a rent house that she was selling since she is a realtor. Anyways just when things were looking like I was doing all the right things she said a girlfriend had a ticket to the Cotton Bowl to go to Dallas stadium and her boyfriend got sick and could not go so she was going with her girlfriend to the game at the last minute the day before the game. I was so stupid that I even offered to keep her 11 year old son while she was gone and told her to have a good time. While she was gone she did not text or answer my phone calls. I became suspicious but gave her the benefit of doubt. She posted a pic of Dallas stadium and commented that she was having a great time in Dallas. Her girlfriend commented "Wish I was there with ya!" Busted! She must have not checked her facebook account because she called me a couple of days later and said she missed me and I wanted to see how far she would go in this lie so I asked whose car they took and she said her girlfriends, I said really, that's funny because she commented how she was not there with you. She got silent as I could tell her mind was racing to figure out what to say. I said you were with a guy in a hotel room in Dallas weren't you? She said it's complicated and he is just a friend and I would not understand. She then hung up on me and blocked my phone number and deactivated her facebook account. She did not even say she was sorry or try to explain. She just said she only lied because she wanted to go to the game and he was just a friend and knew I would never understand. Why do people say that they want a relationship and want someone to love them if they really do not? I feel used and betrayed and did not even get to tell her what I feel or think about what she did. She has just cut me off and I thought she was my best friend and lover. I really do not know why people use other people and hurt people. I treated her so good and now she acts like I never existed. It is hard to heal when I feel like I meant nothing to her. I don't think I will ever trust anyone ever again. Please give me any advice because it has been a rough couple of weeks for me. Thanks.

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      NO MORE ANGER 5 years ago

      im soo at peace after reading this be thankfull because i have a verry HOT HEAD AND VERY CAPABLE OF DOING SOMETHING VERY REGRETABLE ..THANK YOU ITS NOT WORTH IT

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      mark 5 years ago

      Not point in revenge on relationships as they are fickle, period! But what if you can't "move on and succeed"? I can forgive but I'm screwed still and this will go on for sometime. So it's back to me or him. It may have to be both as I'm not going to prison.

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      linson 5 years ago


      Hello,Dr.Magbu i want to thank you for the returning spell you did for me my wife is back to me after using you returning love spell and she said there is no need for the divorce again thank you so much,i we never forget this great happiness you brought to my life. if you are in need of this powerful spell caster you can reach him through this Email address: i must tell this to the world you took a sad man like me and make me happy.

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      nonyya 5 years ago

      weird website!!!!!!!!!

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      Marge 4 years ago

      What I have learned after 22 years of my ex-husband being the winner: got rich got the kids got his old girlfriend: from a picture she looks like she is trying too hard and he looks miserable. The grandchildren look like me.

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      4 years ago

      This is very true. Great read, really reflects what I'm going through now

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      livelove 4 years ago

      Excellent. thanks for adding the humor of what we think often about. I am reminded while reading this hub one important thing. When God is with you, who can be against you? I trust in the Lord and he will direct my path. even when people are plotting against me, God will show me the way. Amen.

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      flippy 4 years ago

      If someone brakes something you like brake something they like

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      Red 4 years ago

      You have got to be kidding me! Revenge is not the answer although I do understand. My husband left a good marriage after 21 years. It hurt like hell on earth. That was three years ago and it still hurts. You can not allow someones decision to destroy your life like that. I can see that 'now' that all of the fog has lifted and soon you will too; if you so choose. You have to forgive and let go and allow something/someone greater to enter into your life. Why on earth would you want to place a spell on someone who demonstrated their no longer wanting to be with you? You can't possibly be that desperate. You think you have won when you have won back someone who has left you, disrespected you, betrayed you, lied to you and betrayed you. If it was real they would come back with a full apology on their own! Really! That's your trophy? Please men and women become empowered by first loving yourself enough to know that you deserve better and if they left you learn to slowly digest and accept that. You can choose to forgive, choose to heal and choose to move on at your pace of course. But start living! You don't have to settle. Love 'yourself' in the same like manner that you would want to be loved!

      To the gentleman that was used; I feel so bad for you because if feels awful being used by someone! I am there right now. A man took advantage of my vulnerable situation. I grieved, shouted how unfair - guess what - realized that there r some very mean and selfish people in this world. You may not get closure, just remember love and pain are synonymous with one another. Please don't change who you are because of her, because there are beautiful, intelligent, fun-loving women like myself, desiring what we are willing to offer. Keep your head handsome and know that she just wasn't not the one.

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      Mimi 4 years ago

      Came across this when I was looking for the best way to revenge my soon to be ex husband who has been cheating and now we are separated and I sleep in my friends couch cos I don't have a place. I have cried, gotten angry, yelled and screamed but all this has not taken me anywhere. Reading this I realize it is pointless to dwell on the pain he has caused me. I am determined to get focused on me and rebuild myself again for our kids sake....

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      Arkanine 4 years ago

      Revenge is just a matter of talk.The world has 9 nuclear nations with North Korea alone having the capacity to destroy the planet.Then there are extremists who can commit murder and other acts over the slightest provocation,it's all standing and existing on the maintainance of a moral code that dictates life and prevents excesses.The breaking of this moral code leads to abnormal behaviour or extremists acts which are then named on different reasons.Talking of revenge gives satisfaction for dramatisation like quoting from a book that has a dramatic passage of world personalities like Hitler or Napoleon,another coincidence is that revenge means your end and of the one you hate or seem to hate.

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      Lastsage10879 4 years ago

      Very good, love the quotes, this will help, I bookmarked it to help ne later on, nice, thanks for the tips.

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      nikky 4 years ago

      How can I forgive a man that rape and dis virgin me, took all the money I have worked for in a relationship of 5 years. He was not working for the 5 years I feed him , house him and cloth him the moment I lost my job. He left me and now getting ready to marry another woman that has money. He rune my business took everything now am 34yrs without a job and he is enjoying.

      Tell how I will be able to forgive him.

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      Libby 4 years ago

      I do not think they are worth forgiveness and giving people more than they're worth just ends up another source of anger. Block them from your mind if you can but not forgive.

      Also I get no satisfaction from the times I took the high road. I wish I'd had revenge. It's for me not for them.

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      igolti 4 years ago

      Doctor Messiah made me happy again, I was at my wit's end with trying to get my boyfriend to commit to our relationship fully. I had tried everything I knew, but what I DIDN'T know was that all I had to do was come to him,if not for this and with his spell casting blessings and special magic powers, I wouldn't have to do all the work at all. I got my life and my love back and now all in my life is balanced and happy again. He did a great service to people, and I do think many people should know about him EMAIL contact the he is talented and will help with his service if you are in any need of help just like he did to save me. I am so glad for weaving his magic love spells for me and ruin. It's back to me just the way it was when we first met, and we're coming up on our fourth anniversary now!

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      I would like to share my success. after 3 days of using the spell of prophetharry, My husband decided to stay with me, and I know it is prophetharry's work which has achieved this miracle for me

      Thanks to from the bottom of my heart.

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      namilena 4 years ago

      I just broke up with my girlfriend a couple months back. I really love her and want to get her back. Its been about 4 months since we broke up. We had a fight and she said she loved me a lot before the fight and after the fight she said she did not have the same feelings for me anymore. I need really help to get her back so i contacted a spell caster on the internet and i explain my problems to him and he cast a spell for me and guarantee me of three days that she will come back to me,to my surprise the third day she come back to me and now we are getting married.i just want to say thank you for helping me to get my ex girlfriend back to me and i am totally grateful.just in case you also need help you can contact him on Email he can also render help to you if you need him for. His contact number +2347051705853

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      joe 4 years ago

      Get the revenge big time,

      my cousin did his cheating wife by cooking dinner, hers full of laxatives, while she is enjoying that he is ,

      cutting up her bank cards,tearing up her banknotes and taking her house keys away, he then told her he knew slapped her pretty good and kicked her ass out of the house.

      He then took her clothes in plastic bags to her parents house, and told them the news, broke their hearts as they thought the world of him , meanwhile she is walking the eight miles to her parents with shit running down her legs. LOL.

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      MERCY 4 years ago

      “When I first opted for this spell, I did not expect much from it. I had experienced failure before. But since I was been on getting him back at any cost, I decided to give it a shot. To my surprise spell from brought me much more than what i expected. Spell from is a best option for anyone who wants to get their love back and resume a healthy and loving relationship

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      Hello To The World At Large,

      I am Miss Wacks.,From united states of America.I will start by saying to all that have experience heart break and also cant do with out there lover should please stop here and read up my story, So as you will know how to go solving or getting your ex back from this spell caster..AND AGAIN I WILL WANT TO ALSO TELL ALL THAT THIS SPELL CASTER I WILL WANT TO TELL THE WHOLE WORLD ABOUT IS HARMLESS AND DO NOT HAVE ANY SIDE EFFECT, BUT TO RESTORE AND GIVE YOU BACK WHAT YOU DESERVE, COS WHEN I MEET WITH THIS SPELL CASTER THAT WAS INTRODUCED TO ME BY THE WIFE OF MY BOSS IN MY WORKING PLACE, HE MADE IT CLEAR THAT HE CAN CAST SPELL ON SO MANY OTHER PROBLEMS EXCEPT IN GETTING YOUR EX OR MAKING YOUR LOVER TO LOVE YOU MORE THAT WILL SUITE YOU. Last year December, My lover was cheating on me and was not also give me the attention that a man should give to a woman,And really that was troubling my mind and tearing my heart apart to the extent that i was not concentrating in the office the way i use to before the break up by my lover.And before that incident,I always see how my boss use to love his wife so much. I was binging to think that i was not doing the right thing to him that will make him love me forever,So i really gathered my courage and went to my boss wife office to ask her the secret that made her husband love her so dearly,In the first place she refused in telling me,She asked me why i am asking her such a question,That if is it not normal for every man to love his wife.I told her the reason that made me ask her about this question,That my lover started cheating on me lately,When i knelt down before her for her to see my seriousness in this issue that i went to ask her,She opened up to me by telling me that i should not tell anybody about what she want to tell me,The wife to my boss started to say to me that she used a very powerful spell on his husband to love her,And the spell that she used is harmless, But the spell is just to make him love her and never to look for any other woman except her. I QUICKLY ASK HER HOW DID SHE GET TO KNOW THIS GREAT,POWER,DURABLE AND PERFECT WORK SPELL CASTER,she said that a friend of hers also introduce her to him. Then i also ask her how i can meet with this spell caster.SHE SAID EVERYTHING TO ME,THAT THE NAME OF THIS SPELL CASTER IS JOHN YIYI ORACLE TEMPLE.My next question to her was how can i get this wonderful spell caster,She said she is going to give me the email of the spell caster for me to contact him for my problem,Really she gave to me this spell caster email and i contacted him and explained all to him,And after every thing that needed to be done by the spell caster, In the next two days, My lover that hated me so much came to house begging for forgiveness and i was so glad that i have finally gotten my heart desire..I was so grateful to this spell caster for what he has done for my life.. So i made a promise to him that i will always continue telling the world about his wonderful work towards me and also to other that came to you before and also the people that will also get to you from my story that i narrated online now..I will want to say to the entire world that you should not cry over noting again, That there is a great man that has been helping individuals to restore there Joy and smile in there faces !! The direct email to get this man is : ,This is what i want to tell you all out there,That is thinking that all hope is lost ok..Thanks


      Miss Wacks.

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      GETTING YOUE EX BACK NOW 4 years ago

      My Name is Erick Wilson..I never believed in Love Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster when i went to Africa to Execute some business..He is really powerful..My wife divorce me with no reason for almost 4 years and i tried all i could to have her back cos i really love her so much but all my effort did not work out.. we met at our early age at the college and we both have feelings for each other and we got married happily for 5 years with no kid and she woke up one morning and she told me she’s going on a divorce..i thought it was a joke and when she came back from work she tender to me a divorce letter and she packed all her loads from my house..i ran mad and i tried all i could to have her back but all did not work out..i was lonely for almost 4 years…So when i told the spell caster what happened he said he will help me and he asked for her full name and her picture..i gave him that..At first i was skeptical but i gave it a try cos h ave tried so many spell casters and there is no solution…so when he finished with the readings,he got back to me that she’s with a man and that man is the reason why she left me…The spell caster said he will help me with a spell that will surely bring her back.but i never believe all this…he told me i will see a positive result within 3 days..3 days later,she called me herself and came to me apologizing and she told me she will come back to me..I cant believe this,it was like a dream cos i never believe this will work out after trying many spell casters and there is no solution..The spell caster is so powerful and after that he helped me with a pregnancy spell and my wife got pregnant a month later..we are now happy been together again and with lovely kid..This spell caster has really changed my life and i will forever thankful to him..he has helped many friends too with similar problem too and they are happy and thankful to him..This man is indeed the most powerful spell caster have ever experienced in life..Am Posting this to the Forum in case there is anyone who has similar problem and still looking for a way can reach him here: CONTACT THIS POWERFUL SPELL CASTER TODAY VIA

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      HOW I GOT MY EX BACK TO ME 4 years ago

      I had been sick for years now, I lost all of my possession due to this illness, every member of my family became tired of me because to them i was now a liability, i bless the day i got introduced to this fellow at John Yi Yi Temple who uses this email address: when he requested for 350 dollars to buy the items for the spell to cure me of my illness i felt he was a spam then i told the person who introduced me to him and she said to me that she paid 500 dollars to save her marriage so i was convinced to pay the money and i did two days after , he cast the spell i was cured of all of the diseases that i was attacked with. And also he said to me that my husband that had ran away will be disturbed to come back home to be with me and exactly what really took place...This man at is just so good at his spell work. CONTACT HIM TODAY VIA

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      lydia moore 4 years ago


      i just want to say a big thank you to doc ANEGBE for what he has done for me,He brought back the man i loved and cherish with all my heart,A man who left me for another woman for good 3years,with 2 kids,i just decided to check some spell caster's But all kept deceiving me,Until i meant Doc ANEGBE,Who told me everything will be over i taught he was also a scam,until he told me that my ex will be back in 2days time.Am so grateful today that my ex is back to me and we are happy and he always wanna be by my side,I will advice you people not to fall in the wrong hands but to contact doc ANEGBE who his trustworthy and straight forward,You can contact him via email

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      Sindhu 4 years ago

      I am Sindhu from the Qatar. I never believe in spells and magic until I experienced one sometimes ago and it really worked for me. I was in love with this guy and he is in love with me too for 3years and we making preparations to get married but to my surprise, his parents didn't want his hand in the marriage cos of the religion difference. I was about loosing my man to another lady under the influence of his parents until I met a spell caster on net that claimed he can help me out. He helped me cast a very strong spell that helped change his parents mind and i noticed also that my man love for me has greatly increased. We are happily married now with kids. People with similar problems can contact the spell caster on:

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      Wilfred 4 years ago

      I and my girlfriend brokeup just because i could not tolerate seeing her hanging out with guys that she claims to have nothing with but call them just mere friends.

      I could not take it anymore because i love her so much and though am jealous seeing other guys around her, i need her to understand that and respect that as well. But reverse was the case. she told me she was tired and could not continue, she complains that i dont trust her so how sure our relationship would lead to marriage.

      I was so devasted and could not lose my love just for my selfish reasons. so i found this spell lady online who then did a love spell to bring her back and made our relationship more closer than ever and even more happier. The spell lady did help my life, my job because i could not focus on anything, and even brought my lover back in to my life.

      The spell lady email is, her spell is more powerful than i can evern imagine.

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      Audrey Mason 4 years ago

      My name is Audrey Mason from Germany,My husband and I have lived together for 10yrs but with no kids, we went to different spritualist,temples and magicians , all to no avail. This caused frustration.and my husband left me alone for another woman. I was so bitter,cried and Even tried to commit suicide, it was by this river bank while trying to get my self drowned that I met this man.I explained all my problems to him and he laughed and told me to follow him home. At first I taught he was some spiritualist or another scamer just wanting to take advantage of my helplessness. He prepared certain things for me to eat and bath with, and a week after my husband left he came back to me begging and not only that I have my love of 10years back, am also two months pregnant now. And he did all this without collecting a single penny from me. I just want to thank this doctor,i have always believed there are no real prophets,magicians and spell casters again,but this great man showed me there is power to whom power has been given. His name is Dr David Okafor. U can contact him on this email address TRY HIM he's indeed a Life saver.

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      sweetrevenge 4 years ago

      yes it is better to forgive and forget, but after 20 or so years of forgiving, a person can snap. Pee in their cologne so that once the scent wears off the women he is hitting on can smell your urine, pee in his bath wash, again makes you feel much better when EVERY female in the world is being treated by your man the way he should be treating you! Talking to them does no good, so revenge can and is sweet. There are MANY other wonderful things you can do to make sure these women KNOW he is a S**T Sack of a human being, empty the contents of your hair brush into his car, leave some press on nails (even if you don't use them) in his glove compartment. Spray your side of the bed (hell, even your side of the car) with your perfume if he rolls into it, he smells like you and should he bring someone to your bed she gets to smell you! Make your side of the bed very much yours. Put out pictures of the two of you on your bedside table, pictures of your kids with him there as well. put love notes in his pants pockets, that way when he opens and reads them in front of the women he is all over they get the hint that he is a scumbag. If he denies your relationship make sure you do the EXACT same thing to him but to his family and friends! Let them know that he is the one that has set the ground rules to your relationship. If he tells people that he would never marry you and you are there, ask them what makes them think you would even want to marry someone so self centered that CLEARLY does not deserve you! yeah, revenge is sweet, and I love to serve it up just as hot as it is dished out to me! I have no intentions of forgiving them, not until I am happy and that might take a while!

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      Likesporty 4 years ago

      Sorry but after all I've been through with this person, your wimpy suggestions seem very self-serving, i.e. to move on and forgive. What he did can't be forgiven because he devoted 24/7 to ruining my life and didn't even go to a job, just made a job out of finding a way to ruin my life like a person possessed of demons for years. I still haven't began to find the extent that he went to. And the thing is I only knew him for a couple of weeks before our wedding. He knew nothing about me to ruin my reputation, I was a stranger to him in every single way and he knows nothing of my background, struggles, etc. to ruin me. I'm still on the tip of the iceberg of what he's done to ruin me and find new things daily he's done. I really needed advice on revenge techniques and all I get is sappy religious spiel. You religious people need to get a friggin education and get a real job and join the rest of us working slobs who have to deal with life and not fairy tale reading and re-telling.

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      Collins Gordy 4 years ago

      I have been dating my lovely girl for three years and six months now, we had some argument which lead to a break up of our relationship, i have begged her several and numerous times for forgiveness but she refuse to listen to me. I also send her flowers and card but she said no its over between us. I called and message her but no respond yet. Then i saw a post from Vicky thanking Doktor Prince Ojomale on how he help her bring back her lover. At first when i saw the posting i was scared that this might be scam then i decided to give it a try in which i contacted Doktor Prince Ojomale on his private email m or his cell #+2348097359565 and explained everything to him.

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      Case Armitage 4 years ago

      I'm gonna have to say that this hub is full of it.

      Revenge is perfectly fine. If you know what you're doing it can work wonders. It can be a motivator. Property damage, assault, stalking etc are dumb forms of revenge. They're quick but they don't do much in the end. They'll put you away for a while. Revenge is all about GAINS.

      Revenge is best done right under the person's nose. You wanna get back at a cheating wife? Get buff and cheat on her. But instead of shoving it in her face like an idiot would, you just keep chugging along, not let her know. Start asking for more favors, slowly, VERY SLOWLY change the balance of the relationship. Take money, ask for gifts. But make sure that they are "gifts" otherwise it can be brought up in court. Eventually they will leave. Which is fine, because you want them gone anyway, just not before you get what you can out of them

      It can give you purpose, a reason to wake up in the morning. Revenge isn't about being petty, dumb or immature. Who cares about being "mature, wise, and caring?" Did the person think twice about those qualities in you while they hurt you? No. They did something painful, didn't care, and all that remorse BS is just crocodile tears. They're just sad about being found out-they don't want to lose face, other people may think negatively of them and they don't want that. In the end, revenge won't teach the other person a lesson. BUT, if you went about it properly, then the pursuit of revenge may just improve your life.

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      soniacandy 4 years ago

      Hello every one i have just met with this and i finally find out that he is really a truthful spell caster and so powerful and i believe that he is the most powerful spell caster that i have ever met. how i wish i met him before. my husband would have just come back to me.and every thing happened just the way Dr. Magbu had said it,i am so happy that i have met with Dr. Magbu,and now i have my husband back to my self. if you all that are here have not tried Dr. Magbu,just have to do so and get your heart desires fulfilled. stop been doubting i have tested him and i am now a fulfilled woman. And that's why i am out on the internet today, testifying of what he has done for me and my husband, if you were in my situation contact him through this email Brianna

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      mike bruskin 4 years ago

      thank you

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      Poochi 4 years ago

      I met someone on a dating site. We connected instantly. She was fresh out of a relationship. I asked if she'd ever go back...She said no. So I trusted her. Talked for hours on the phone. Met in the middle of the night to grab a bite. The next day she sends me a text and day she knows what I want...To have an relationship. I was like..We haven't even gone on a date yet.

      Anyway we saw one another as friends for a few weeks. Texted every day. One night we drank wine and ended up in bed together. But she still gave me the I don't want a relationship card. We continued to see one another. She met my kids. We had movie nights together on sat evenings. Went out for sunday breakfast. All was good. Then she pulled away. Says to me it's starting to feel like a relationship. Something she doesn't want. So we didn't talk for a week. And started texing again. I told her. I can't do this. We do all the things like a couple. But we are not one. We are just friends?

      She put more effort. Things seemed good again. Xmas was coming. She got sad. Said she missed her kids. They were all grown and out of town. I felt for her. We shopped for gifts. She came on xmas eve and spent the night with. Next day xmas day. She got text after text after text. I thought nothing of it.

      She decided after breakfast to go home and get ready for a trip she was planning to go visit her son. So she did. I didn't feel good her leaving on xmas day and leaving all alone. Betting she went to see someone.

      Anyway that evening we had a good time at her friends. Slept together. Was great. Separated again the next day...Boxing day.

      She came over and we had xmas with my kids. She spoiled the heck of them. And me. Was great.

      She kissed me by. And later that week went on her trip to see her son. Or did she? I don't know. All I know is while she was gone she made me invisible. I was so upset.

      When she was away we texted. She told me she didn't want me. And didn't want to have a relationship with me. I got really upset. I don't want to do this any longer...I wen back on the date site. Met someone and was planning to see her again later that week. Well my car got in an accident and she came and drove me home. When she was here I was honest. I told her I had a date later in the week. She got very upset. Real tears and everything..

      She left and went home. I called her. Said I would cancel my date. I want to be with her. Not on a stupid date site.

      She told me it wouldn't be fair to tell me to not go. And to just go on the date. I was very upset. Later in the day She sends me a text....I DONT WANT YOU. And I texted her back and told her I new she didn't mean it.

      We didn't talk a few days. The weekend came. I called her. I texted her. Many times. No answer. And finally sat afternoon she texts me and says to have a good time with the kids. I am away for the weekend with my ex at a pool tournament. My jaw hit the floor. I was so upset.

      Anyway a few days go guy. I text. I call. I text and call. Then I get a text. Please don't try to get in contact with me any longer. I am back with my ex. I am very happy. We are planning to buy a home together and get married. Good luck and all the best.

      I cried my ass off. I couldn't believe it.

      I continued calling. Texting. And no luck. I was so upset. Anyway a few days later I get a call from a police man. Says she has made a complaint about me and if I don't leave her be she will file a harassment charge against me. I was in shock!!

      A week goes buy. I did some things ti my Iphone and wanted to do a system restore. A few months ago I put music on here phone for her. And did a back up for her phone in case something went wrong.

      When I went to back up my phone her back up showed up in the list. For fun I clicked hers. And all the info from her phone went onto mine. I got all her texts. E mails. Passwords. You name it.

      She was still seeing and in contact with here ex. She was seeing and dating at least 5 other guys. And was planning a trip the the usa to go meet someone. I couldn't believe what I read. All while she was seeing me. If I'd just done this a few months ago this would never have happened. I would have kicked her to the curb then.

      Problem is I fell for her. And got dumped. Lied to. Humiliated. I trusted her. Gave her my heart. And she pissed in my face.

      So yes I want revenge. And I want it bad. I can't get in contact with her. Ever see her. Or I risk harassment charges. What can I do with all the info I have. I have all her contacts. All the people she was seeing.

      Everything. Can I use it against her? I would really love to sabotage her relationship with her x. What can I do? I have his cell number. I know where he works. I have all of it. Know were they live. So help. Tell me what I can do to get her back and good but so I don't get a bad rap.

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      allbetternow 4 years ago

      Poochie, you have children, concentrate on them and get a new phone. I am sure anything you do with her contacts can be traced back to your phone and you will have trouble. Think of your children, what will happen to them? How will it affect your relationship with them? How will they see you after your humiliation is made public? How will they deal with the shame of it. Now think of losing your job, home and everything embarrassing this bitch worth it? Her behavior is reckless and she will definitely get hers one day. But please, for your sake and for your kids sake, let her ruin be caused by her own actions, not from you. Concentrate on your kids, concentrate and focus on self improvement,,,god we all need to do that,,, and I promise good things will come to you, and when that perfect women comes along, you will be her perfect man.

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      David Kent 4 years ago

      Yes I got my lover back through Dr Wicca.. My wife left me six months ago. The longer she’s gone, the more I see what a jerk I was. At first, I blamed her for leaving. I told her she was ‘wrong’. In fact, I slapped Scripture on her, trying to guilt-induce her any way I could. My anger only pushed her farther away. I can’t believe the way I acted. My wife gave me chance after chance, and I ignored her.

      I contacted Dr Wicca and within a few minutes of speaking with him, I realized that Dr Wicca was the one person whom I could completely trust.

      Within 48 hours, My wife is back in my life. I can't thank him enough and I will use Dr. Wicca again for further work in the future. You can contact him on his personal cell# +2348097350565.

      David Kent from USA.

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      Sergiu 4 years ago

      Came looking for something else but found what I was looking for. Thank you

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      donvitoc 4 years ago

      Spells? Are you serious? Wow. What century is this?

      It would be just as effective if I did nothing.

      Folks, if you give someone money for some BS hocus pocus spells that won't make a bit of difference, then you aren't too bright and you deserve to lose your money to these quack scam artists.

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      donvitoc 3 years ago

      People misuse and misunderstand KARMA all the time. Folks, karma is not retribution or a one-to-one sort of cosmic punishment or reward. It is not exactly the same as "what goes around comes around." Many understand karma to be similar to the Christian idea of "what you reap, you will sow," in that it takes the totality of ones actions into consideration, but the cause and effect is an accumulation of one's actions, not just punishment or reward for one good or bad incident. Karma is not "a bitch." It is not "payback" for a particular wrong that has been committed. It is more expansive and related to the whole being.

      So, yes, if the person who wronged you is a jerk and continues to reap ill on others or his/her environment, then karma is probably not going to be their friend. However, if they wrong you and that is somewhat or completely an anomaly to who they are, then karma will not make them "pay" for isolated negative incidents.

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      rihana 3 years ago

      hmmm very intresting

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      Michael Hawk1 3 years ago

      SPELLS DO NOT WORK. There is no direct cause and effect. I strongly suspect that the "spellcasters" and testimonials about spellcasters here are scam artists who are preying on people who are emotionally vulnerable for the benefit of so-called spellcaster's bank account.

      You people are bottom-feeder scum, no better than a thief taking a desperate person's last dollar or a televangelist who promises eternal salvation just so they can manipulate people into giving them money. Have you no shame?

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      Michael Hawk1 3 years ago

      I'm back. You said, "The bad thing about a deep sense of a need for revenge is all bets are off and logic is out the window. People destroy property and go overboard to try to exact the absolute best humiliating revenge."

      What evidence do you have that this is the rule and not the exception? Why do you assume that people quit thinking when it comes to revenge? I have found the opposite is true, because they don't want to go to jail they are very careful and methodical. Logic, far from going out the window, aids in ensuring that the intended effect gets done right and without any danger of repercussion.

      The whole "dig two graves," "living well is the best revenge, and "karma's a bitch," all sound nice, but conjecture and wishful thinking do not match the reality that more people get away with acts of vengeance that the number of those who are caught.

      Words to the wise:

      (1.) Living well is the best revenge, but some people lack the resources and ability to "live well."

      (2.) Karma is not a one-to-one cosmic revenge scheme that is "a bitch." It works through and within the cyclic Samsara. Karma takes into account the sum total of your actions. So, I"m sorry to say, karma might not do a damn thing for you other than provide you a lot of fiber so you can poop better.

      (3.) What is the difference beween justice and revenge?

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      Devika Primić 3 years ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      How to Pull Off the Greatest Revenge on the Person That Did You Wrong! an excellent hub and you thought of it so well. A useful hub to all readers.

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      Ronin 3 years ago

      Excellent hub, and sound advice too. When I found out my (now ex) wife had been cheating on me while I was away with the military, I was furious, despite the fact that if i'm being honest, I didn't love her anymore anyway. The betrayal got to me. I was in a complete blind rage, made worse by the fact that she had persuaded me to give my 12 months notice in to the Royal Marines (British) only 6 months prior to all of this coming to light.

      I left the Military a few months after finding out she had been cheating,I moved out of the family house, saw my kids every other

      weekend, but inside I was bitter, twisted and angry. All I could think about was revenge.

      Then something happened, I just let go, stopped hating wished her and the guy she was now with (whom she had been seeing behind my back) all the best and started my life over. 5 months after starting divorce proceedings, I met an amazing new girl, 12 years younger than me (I was 31), gorgeous, intelligent, faithful and funny and we've been together over 18 months now. The ex and her guy split just 2 months prior to me meeting this girl and the shoe was on the other foot. Now my ex continually gives us a hard time, but we don't care, we're happy, thats all that matters.

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      jonathan le 3 years ago

      im 13 in middle school a couple years ago i got into a fight with this kid in school because of him pushing me aroun i ended up kicking his ass but we both got called to the guidence office about it and had to stay away from eachother for a week now yesterday we had a achool dance and he was there! so an hour before the dance ended he saw me and i really dont know why he pushed me to the floor and got me in a chock hold and cause of him he humiliated me in front of all the kids i felt weak not even able to stand up to him a bully and u know what i want payback i been trying to forget and move on but cant cause it feels that i have to do something and get revenge cause of him humiliating me and cause of him i really dont want to face anyone at school on the following monday plz someone tell me how to get my revenge to show im not at a lower level than he is

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      maeljin 3 years ago

      if anyone of you watches naruto then im like sasuke from it. I only want revenge nothing else i don't care what happens to me or anyone else i will not continue with my life until i get sweet sweet and cruel revenge. i have been bullied for many years i have tried to step up to them it never worked. Now im just waiting till i am 18 years old then i will get a gun and kill all the bullies very slowly and painfully. i will make them feel the pain they caused to me i never forget and i never forgive. that is my quote.

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      Robert 3 years ago

      Lydia Whitcomb (aka Lydia Davison Whitcomb and born in July1981) from Providence RI (not Paris, France) is a very dangerous sociopath. She is a liar, drug addict and thief who has file dfalse rape reports and spread vicious rumors about people. She has been in and out of mental institutions and drug rehabs since she was a child.

      Do not let her in your life or you will be sorry.

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      susan 3 years ago

      Hello every one here, I found a great spell caster on line who helped me to get back my husband who has left me for pass 3 years. we where married for 10 years without a child and my friend introduce me to a real spell caster named Dr. ogala which I never believe it exist but after the meeting of this spell caster my problem where solved and now I am with my husband who left me for the past five years, my life and my entire family are now happy, now I’m pregnant with the help of this great spell caster. Thanks to Dr. ogala, I will advice anyone in need of help to contact him email:

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      andriyko18h 3 years ago

      i use this auto dialer , its very good)

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      3 years ago

      This is all bs!!!!!!

      I'll forgive when I see them SUFFER!!!!! First

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      Bass 3 years ago

      A person who forgives is disgraceful. The closest definition to forgiveness is 'forgetting' or 'accepting'. But what use is this? To forget the past as though it never happened... You're literally living a lie. And forgetting is not possible. It happened; who are you kidding. It's called denial and it's unhealthy. Forgiveness is a religious term and it's illogical. You can live a full a life knowing you were cheated, or go out a winner. Forgiveness is for the weak, just admit it. You either play the game or suck ass

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      Winbig121 3 years ago

      ill save the forgivness for god! not the answer I expected

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      oldiesmusic 3 years ago from United States

      "Live well. It is the greatest revenge." Really true. Live well and good and be happy. :)

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      pimpernell 3 years ago from belgium (seaside Flandres)

      Didn't have the time to read all the above but although talking wrevenge is holding on to negative feelings for far too long and seldom has a longterm effect, I do want to share a true story that was brilliant. A woman whom had supported and given up all of her own ambitions to make her husband a succesfull and well known CEO, got after 40 years of marriage orders to be gone in two days, just with her clothes and some small items. He would pay her an allowance for the next 6 months in the amount of 500$ every first of the month. If she argued he would pay nothing. She didn't say another word and started employee imformed her that he planned to let his much younger mistress move in asap. When hubby left for work the next day, she went and bought 4 pounds of schrimp to make him a soup and leave some in the freezer. After she had removed the shells, she put them into the hollow brass curtain rods in the downstairs living- and dining room and also in the master- and largest sparebedrooms. By the evening she had already left the house and the man invited his new lover the same night and they enjoyed the soup immensly! But after a week they started to notice a terrible smell everywhere around the house. they hired every specialist in the book to find where the stench came from...not one could find an answer. It got so bad they eventually had to move house and the best joke of all...His new girlfriend loved the curtains so much, she insisted to let them be installed in their new home. You can guess the rest...the stink was so overpowering, they couldn't stand the smell of eachother anymore and broke up within 2 months! Now that is sweet wrevenge, lol ;)

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      Westy 2 years ago

      Amazing article

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      Angela Joseph 2 years ago from Florida

      Great hub! It's so true, two wrongs never make a right. Anyone bent on seeking revenge is also making him/herself more unhappy. Love the scriptural references at the end.

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      john 2 years ago

      wow forgiveness, thank you for wasting my time

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      Scarlette 2 years ago

      I've had so much anger towards my sister in law , niece and nephew for months . I have told many family secrets as revenge but I still get no satisfaction it doesn't seem to phase them which makes me more mad and determined they just have no feelings at all. My nephew was slowly stealing from my mom who has no money , he disrespected my home when I trusted him and his girlfriend, his mom cheated on my brother and tried to hook up with my husband, my niece will get in your face and screams and cuss u out she has no respect . They all act like they are all that. My niece screws a new bf every month then got knocked up then aborted it and that was the cing on the cake. I started out fir revenge but nothing gets to them it's like they have no feelings. Even though they know my daughter wants a baby but has had 2 failed ivf attempts and can't conceive my niece aborted her baby becsuse it I te referred with her social life. We would have gladly adopted. I do t know how to forgive. Our family is split forever.

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      Lucy 2 years ago

      Hello everyone in this forum, My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. I contacted A spell caster called Dr Laco I explained all my problem to him . In just 3 days, my husband came back to us and show me and my kids much love and apologize for all the pain he have bring to the family. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before you are the best spell caster Dr laco i really appreciate the love spell you castes for me to get the man back to my life i will keep sharing more testimonies to people about your good work Thank you once again. you may contact him via ( you are in any problem you can contact this man for help he is always there in his temple to help you solve your problem Contact Email is (

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      bobaluche 2 years ago

      After reading these posts my take is that you can try to spray paint black evil to look clean and white but in the big picture you have to breathe deeply and learn to love yourself. The comment about digging 2 graves--pretty deep, no pun intended. My problem is a female bureaucrat doing her best to make me feel as bad as she feels .Trying to smear me professionally.I plan on switching gears and let the cosmic gears churn to their resonance and not become the monster. Love me. I can be me for free.

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      Candy 23 months ago

      I recently found myself reliving a deed that was done to me, that made me feel used and worthless. I turned to the internet on how to exact revenge as this event wouldn't leave my mind. I came across this and to my denial at first, I now believe is what I need to do. I want to move forward and stop replaying what has been done, and so I will forgive the person who caused me pain, because ultimately I believe someone will do unto him what he did to me because karma is a bitch. :) Thank you for this article!

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      MARY 21 months ago

      My name is MARY from USA .I am here to give a testimony on how I got my ex boyfriend back. My ex left me for no reason 3 years ago. He moved in with another woman, I felt like killing myself, my life became very bitter and sorrowful. Then 1 day, a friend of mine told me about a great spell caster that is very good to help my problem and, my friend also said that the spell caster gave him some lucky numbers that he played in a lottery and he won. I didn't believe it because I've worked with so many of them and it didn't work. He begged me further so I decided to try this great spell caster called DR SALOBA. I still didn't believe. but I used the spell he gave me and the next day I received a call from my darling boyfriend Thomas last week. He apologized and came back to me. He even gave me 10,000USD as a means of compensating me. I'm very happy now. Thank you DR SALOBA, You can reach DR SALOBA ON via email: OR you can call my DR SALOBA on +2349036493771. He can solve any problem like,

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      Bryan Khan 20 months ago

      I would like to thank you for the write up. I have been through what I would call a 'hell-like' experience. It all began with this relationship and I was naive to give up on my life, family and career and move to another state to be with my so called partner.

      Its difficult to believe what the person could put me through. Mental, emotional and physical abuse. I was humiliated more than a dozen times but just took it silently. The person assaulted me and even cheated on me. I am trying to forgive but its taking a toll on me.

      Would appreciate your prayer and support. I would think about getting even but then wheres the difference between the two of us. I don't feel like wasting my time plotting and planning for my partners downfall. I know his personality will cause that to happen soon.

      I need the strength to forgive and carry this I don't care attitude towards the person. Would appreciate any help and advice from your end.

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      Bryan Khan 20 months ago

      My email address is

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      Adams Bella 19 months ago

      My name is Adams Bella, i live in UK. My life is back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids, I felt like ending it all.I came across several testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and also spell to get a good paid job so on. He is amazing, i also come across one particular testimony, it was about a woman called Vera, she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped his email.After reading all these, I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We resolved our issues, and we are even happier than ever.Dr.Trust you are a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man. If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster, Try him anytime, he is the answer to your problems. you can contact him on ( or or call him +2348156885231.

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      Rc 18 months ago

      I'm gonna get mine!!!

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      KOOLADE52 8 months ago

      A lot of this is about for giving in fact one of the quote are "when you seek revenge you dig 2 graves" but I want revenge on someone for trying to kill me

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      Robert 8 months ago

      My wife cheated on me with my best friend and eventually left me. After several months of searching the internet and reading different things, this was the first thing that was actually helpful! I thank you from the bottom of my heart and wish you all the best!

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      Essenio 7 months ago

      Why is it that most people are pushing for rationalizations?

      It is a rationalization the act of "taking the higher moral ground". This way of dealing with feeling revengeful isn't satisfying, and it is an excuse to yet fail to acknowledge defeat. It is like saying, yeah, they think they beat me, but they have no idea how morally superior i am --while in all respects no one really cares about superior morality, and the only person who believes so it the person unable to exact revenge.

      There are situations in which revenge is unwarranted. But let's look at the facts. I live in the US. I clearly remember 9/11, as I would hope most of the ones who were alive and capable of thought would. The US, as a reaction --revenge-- started the war on terror.

      Another instance of pain and simple (maybe not so simple) revenge is the capital punishment. Revenge in the capital punishment instance provides closure.

      And the list goes on and on.

      It is true, it may start a cycle that never ends. But revenge is a reality of our lives. It is a basic need for humans. The whole legal system is there to provide occasion for revenge.

      Therefore, there is nothing wrong with dragging someone to court, and expect some sort of closure. The key to is is that revenge should be commiserate to the offense received, and not exacted by a person taking the law in his/her own hands, and certainly much better than hiding behind some bogus "magical thinking" such as the higher moral ground, karma, or any variations of such b@$$s*&$.

      Good Luck.

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      Carl v 6 months ago

      A co-worker of mine’s told me to go to lordazeez1990@hotmail. com because I went to some other spell caster’s and nothing worked to get my wife back. I felt all was lost, but Lord. Azeez stepped in after I got a phone consultation from her. SHe saw the problem and told me when things fell apart. I had him to cast the Obstacle Breaker and Ultimate Return My Lover Spell X 3 since things was blocking my wife to come to me and after the spells was casted later my wife came back to me. I’m a man of my word, so I had to spread the news to let other’s know who helped me…. lordazeez1990@hotmail. com is a spell caster”

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      simay 6 months ago

      i love this hub

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      Vaughn 6 months ago

      I like making them feel as though I will be exacting revenge and keep them guessing as to when it's going to come. It never does.

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      lil mama 6 months ago

      let me just use this opportunity to thank lord. azeez for the great help he has rendered me for helping me remove generational curse of bad luck

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      JohnONeill2016 5 months ago

      thats all well and good but there is a thing called JUSTICE - which is the way i see justified revenge.. it also depends on your situation in life - its much easier to forgive and move on if you have family and friends to share your story with and go home to... but what if you are on your own... as i say its much better to release the resentment once and for all than to bottle it for years trying to forgive some evil person for the evil they committed. im not saying go out and kill someone but i am saying a person should be made to feel humiliated and ashamed for the wrongs they committed otherwsie theyll be laughing and proud thinking they have the victory. lets just say humbling someone never did any harm now did it. if we follow your logic we just let any wrongs that happen to us be forgotten and forgive the perpetrator, easier said than done! and something fundamentally unjust about that. its almost like saying if someone commits a crime just ignore it, except thats the point, they may not have committed a crime in the eyes of the "law" but the act they did was technically "EVIL" so some form of justice must prevail. Otherwise we may all go round thinking we can treat people how we please with no recourse!

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      racheal william 5 months ago

      GREETINGS everyone out there, My name is racheal william. i will never forget the help Dr Iruwa rendered to me in my marital life. i have been married for 5 years now and my husband and i love each other very dearly . after 3 years of our marriage my husband suddenly change he was having an affair with a lady outside,i notice it then i was praying for divine intervention the thing became more serious i told my pastor about it we prayed but nothing happen. my husband just came home one day he pick up his things and left me and the kids to his mistress outside at this time i was confuse not knowing what to do again because i have lost my husband and my marriage too. i was searching for help on the internet, i saw many people sharing testimony on how Dr Iruwa help them out with their marital problems so i contacted the email of Dr Iruwa i told him my problem and i was told to be calm that i have come to the right place were i can get back my husband within the next 24hours. He told me what went wrong with my husband and how it happen.that he will restored my marriage. to my greatest surprise my husband came to my office begging me on his knees that i should find a place in my heart to forgive him,that he will never cheat on me again. i quickly ask him up that i have forgiven him. Your case is not too hard why don't you give Dr Iruwa a try he work surprises because i know he will help you to fix your relationship with your ex partner. i thank god for using Dr Iruwa to save my marriage. People call Doctor Iruwa a nice man but i call him a God sent!Do you need help i will advice you to contact Dr with this information: Email:

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      RAGHAv 3 months ago

      I herted so much when my best friend tried to beat me with their friends. but he is my best friend( i trust him so much but he betrayed me) i want to take revenge but i can not concentrate on it that what am i going to do!

      sometimes i thinks that i have to take revenge from him but my other side of mind in which the memories which we send together stops me to take revenge from him?

      what to do plz plz heip me??????????

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      jj 3 months ago

      Revenge on someone who beat me up should have not messed with HA! HA! HA! HA!

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      Dj Bass Alizi 3 months ago

      Good Article.

      Don't waste your time on revenge. Have fun in life. Just let them go and move on.

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      Veronica 2 months ago

      Against my principles I fell in love with a man who was married. I let him borrow $30,000 to help him save his restaurant. I listened to his sob stories of his home life and what he had lost. This had been going on for almost 4 years. I thought I meant something to him. I never expected him to leave his wife or we would have a life together but I never thought he was using me all this time either. I should have known better. Now I'm sitting here missing him because we had so much fun together and angry because I have to face the fact that I was used.

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      Mohammed 2 months ago


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      Bahle 4 weeks ago

      I really loved it, it's not easy to forgive but if you believe in God step aside so he can take over.......

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