5 Signs Your Man Does Not Love You Anymore

Updated on December 19, 2016

Love, as great as the feeling can be, can slowly fade away for some reasons. If you suspect your man does not love you anymore, and you still love him, you are in a difficult situation. How you will you know if your promises of forever will last? Find out how to know if he is not in love with you anymore, and make up your mind on the next step towards your own happiness.

1. Spends less time with you

Does he only spend a little time with you? Does he spend more time with other people when you go out? One of the first red alert signals that your man does not love you anymore is the amount of time he spends with you. In the beginning he used to take a minute from his lunch break just to talk to you, now he says that he is too busy to see you. He rarely takes you out on a romantic date. He no longer makes any plans for your future together. He makes a lot of excuses just so that he doesn't have to be with you. Men when they realize that they do not feel affection for you anymore will try hard to find excuse to not be around you.

2. Communication dries up

Does he call you to know how you are doing? Does he immediately pick up his phone and press the answer button when you call? Communication is a critical ingredient to build a great relationship. Before, he was sending you unlimited sweet text messages and calls you regularly, now he doesn’t even bother sending you a “good morning” text message. When you call him all you receive is his answering machine telling you call back later. If you text him you will have to endure waiting for at least day to receive a reply. If your guy changes his number, doesn’t take your phone call and cuts all means of communication, better start finding somebody else before he finds somebody first. He may love hanging out with his own friends and having a nice time. But if he cannot spend a few hours with you and does not really care about communication and being together then do not think that he is still in love with you unless one of you takes the initiative to come closer.

3. No affection

Does he still look at you lovingly in your eyes? When was the last time he took you out on a weekend getaway? When was the last time you had steamy nights together? Love when it is lost in a relationship is the beginning of fallout. In the heavy days of courtship, he cannot bear to be apart from you, he wants to spend as much time together as possible, but now he doesn’t find it that fun anymore and thus beings making excuses. He avoids all attempts of intimacy from you. He doesn’t touch you anymore in a gentle way. The shining shimmering sparkle that once was present in his eyes was gone.

4. You are taken for granted

When was the last time he gave you a compliment or appreciates something you have done? When was the last time he asked for your opinion or suggestion on something? When he doesn’t do these things anymore, you are probably taken for granted. He cannot remember specific dates and he forgets simple things about you - like your middle name, your birthday, and anniversaries. He does not give you amazing gifts and great surprises. If he ever breaks his promises then he maybe planning to break your heart too. Broken promises will eventually lead to a broken heart and end up with a broken relationship. The moment he taking good care of you, he does not love you anymore.

5. He has no respect for you

Do you argue a lot? Does he physically hurt you when he gets in rage? How many times has he made you cry in the last month? Love should never feel like a rusted nail is forcibly driven into your heart. If he yells at you, hurts you, degrades you, belittles you, makes you cry, then he does not love you. If he lies to you, then the relationship is not worth salvaging anymore. When he loses respect for you, he wouldn’t think twice about yelling or hurting you even other people are around. Can you still call it love when he does not even respect you?


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      Aline 9 days ago

      If you see all these red signs then you should also be able to see that yoi worth a lot more. To all the ladies here. You all deserve real love and appreciation. First tell your guys abt the thungs he stopped doing and how he needs to do for you to make you feel good. Still if he dont follow better to dump him straight.

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      KLC 14 months ago

      Nothing hurts more than when you love someone you gave your heart to and they obviously don't feel the same anymore... Sadly after 10 years of marriage with my hubby he fits all five of these now and I have no clue why or what went wrong... It's hurts when you're married and feel lonely 99% of the time...

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      jiminie 14 months ago

      i'm sad... it's too accurate

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      Christy 18 months ago

      My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now.... he never tells me I'm petty or beautiful or sexy I guess he did maybe 4 time in 2 years I always tell him he is my sexy man or how good he looks I always say something like that. .I never here it from him ...he tells other women they are just not me. He tells me he loves me a ND does not want us to break up at all.... when I stay at his place and then be for I go home evert me before I go home he starts a fight about somthing. He always has me crying about something that I did or just because I want to here him say just once ha baby your looking fine or beautiful or sexy any thing just once I don't feel I'm beautiful any more at all.I feel like I'm dog poo.

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      dorz 3 years ago

      tsk,5 out of 5... so sad,i need to accept that my husband doesn't love me anymore.

      married for 6 years with 2 kids, i think the love is gone,but i still love him but unfortunately he cannot reciprocate that anymore for me.

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      TheHoneymoonIsOver 3 years ago

      All of the "red flags" in this post sound a whole lot like my marriage....

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      it's just molly.. 3 years ago

      we've been dating for five months.. and now sadly everything on this list is true.. he doesn't comfort me when i'm sad, he doesn't text me unless i initiated.. and even then he takes awhile to reply, never complimented anything, forgets to say goodnight. i know he's busy with family (since he said he is).. but it's just too much. dumped him last week. i think now i made the right decision.

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      maggie 3 years ago

      I notice this, and it s very difficult for me now that my boyfriend for five years doesn't love me anymore, I feel very bad

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      Mr 3 years ago

      Very true, from last couple of yr , I can notice in my husband . Many arguments, not spending time, spending time on phone .less communication.

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      rabi 3 years ago

      These all are true for life faileure persons like .....my mom!!!....

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      mhine 3 years ago

      True also

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      anonymous 4 years ago

      This list is very true.

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      keis 4 years ago


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      monirah nantale 5 years ago

      love is really complecated