Relationship Problems
14 Tips to Fool People Into Thinking You Are Not a Narcissistic Psycho
You are reading this, so I know that you are a narcissist. You may even be a little bit psycho! Here's how to trick people into thinking otherwise.
This Is Why We Repeat Negative Patterns in Relationships
When we repeat patterns in relationships that are not beneficial to our well-being, it could be a sign of a troubled past. I discuss how to fix that.
How to Not Be Bored in a Relationship: 8 Ways to Keep Things Interesting
Are you worried that you're getting bored in your relationship? Here are 8 ways to keep things exciting and fresh.
This Is What Happens When You Date a ‘Love Avoidant’ Person
This is a review of what a love-avoidant person is and how they behave, based on personal experience and research.
Why Is He Acting Weird All of a Sudden? 7 Reasons Your Boyfriend Might Have Suddenly Changed
Is your boyfriend acting weird all of a sudden, and you can't tell why? The best thing to do is talk to him—but you can also read through some of these possible reasons before you ask.
5 Signs Your Relationship Isn't Fulfilling
Relationships come with plenty of ups and downs, minor and even major obstacles, so it can be difficult to determine what's acceptable and what's a sign the relationship is no longer fulfilling.
10 Relationship Mistakes That Shut Down Communication
Communication is crucial for the survival of relationships. It's important to avoid sabotaging your communication. See the following 10 Mistakes that Shut Down Communication in Your Relationship, and avoid them.
Why Do I Feel More Like His Mom and Not His Girlfriend?
If you're dating someone and you are starting to feel more like your boyfriend's mom than his girlfriend, find out why this is happening and how you can stop it from progressing further and ruining your chances of love once and for all.
Surviving Relationships With Abusive People in Denial
Tips on how to navigate challenging relationships with people who deny they were abusive in the past.
9 Signs Your New Boyfriend or Girlfriend Doesn't Like Your Kids
I've learned to pay careful attention to these red flags since a good parent wants to know how their new love interest really feels about their kids.
3 Signs You May Be Dating a Player (and How to Protect Yourself)
What exactly is a player, and how can you avoid falling into a relationship with one? This article will teach you all the warning signs you need to look for.
Living With Narcissists: A Practical Guide to Saving Your Sanity
If you live with a narcissist, learning to do these five things can save your sanity.
6 Common Behaviors of Toxic People
The Little Shaman discusses six behaviors that are common for narcissists and other toxic people.
Dealing With Narcissists: You Can't Win
Relationships of any kind with narcissistic people are characterized by nonstop power struggles. How do you neutralize this problem? Read on to find out.
5 Common Problems in Lesbian Relationships
Any girl who has experienced a same-sex relationship will know that they are magical, exciting, and liberating. However, the unique dynamics present between two women can also lead to some bizarre and undesirable outcomes. Here are five problematic things that gay girls must avoid doing.
How to Deal With Narcissistic Mothers During the Holidays
The holidays can be especially difficult for adults with narcissistic mothers. This article discusses those who still go home for the holidays and those who stay away.
6 Tips for Dealing With Your Spouse's Baby Mama or Baby Daddy Drama
Though you love your spouse, you may not love their former partners. Here are some tips to help you navigate this often complicated relationship.
Narcissistic Relationships: Jekyll Is Hyde
This article sheds light on the infamous "Jekyll & Hyde" dynamic in narcissistic personalities.
What Christians Should Know About Domestic Violence Survivors
Here is a guide to domestic violence which includes reasons victims stay, the challenges victims face after leaving an abuser, and how Christians can help them.
Don't Get Caught Cheating: Six Simple Steps to Hide Your Tracks
Sometimes you find yourself stepping outside of your primary relationship to explore the unknown. When you don't want to lose your main squeeze but you want to explore other options, you must exercise caution and discretion. This article will help you.
Toxic Relationships: "My Relationship Is Different!"
There is often a perception that abusive relationships only involve certain kinds of abuse, or that abusive people only behave a certain way. This is not the case.
Should I Have an Affair? Why Cheating Is Never a Good Idea
In today's world, we are told to follow our hearts. As far as adultery is concerned, the less our hearts have to do with it, the better. This article explains why adultery is never the answer and has too many risks.
Why Do I Attract Psychopaths and Narcissists?
Emotionally manipulative individuals take advantage of others for a number of reasons. They look for certain traits in potential victims. Four of those traits are discussed here.
What Is Micro-Cheating? 5 Warning Signs
Micro-cheating is a nuanced concept and can be very subjective to each person, so how can we tell if it's happening in our relationship at all? Here are a few common signs of micro-cheating to keep an eye out for.
What to Do When Your Husband Gets Fired
Last fall my husband was fired from his job. Here's how we coped with his job loss and stuck together to get to the other side of a bad situation without completely freaking out.
Why Do Adults Stay in Abusive Relationships and How Can I Help?
One of the hardest things some of us will ever experience is watching a loved one—be it a family member or friend—stay in an abusive relationship. Here's a look at why adults stay in toxic relationships and the various ways in which we can help them.
Narcissists and Jealousy
Jealousy is a large problem in relationships with narcissistic people. Why does it happen? Where does it come from? The Little Shaman answers those questions.
What to Do When a Family Member or Friend Betrays You
Dealing with feelings of betrayal has a lot to do with the closeness of the individuals and the level of trust that was broken. Sometimes family lets you down. Here's how you can heal.
I'm a Fixer: What Does It Mean and How Can I Change It?
"I am attracted to people who are broken and I want to fix them." Sounds familiar? Then you may be a Fixer. Don't worry - I am one, too, and I've learned how to deal with it. You can, too!
Gaslighting: Are You a Gaslighter?
Gaslighting is a serious domestic abuse problem. If you think you might be gaslighting your wife, girlfriend, or partner, look at this article to learn the signs of this emotional abuse designed to drive another person crazy. If you think you are a victim, look here for signs of emotional abuse.
Is My Partner Controlling? 13 Signs the Answer Is Yes
Are you worried that you or someone close to you is being controlled by their partner? Learn the 13 most obvious traits of a controlling relationship and help break the cycle today.
Are You Needy? 6 Signs of Neediness in a Relationship
Nobody wants to be accused of neediness. Understand what drives the behavior and then learn how to soothe it—not suppress it—in order to improve your relationships.
Narcissistic Relationships: Asking How, Not Why
It is natural for victims to ask why the narcissistic relationship has come to be, but it's more productive to ask how.
Narcissistic Relationships: Was It Ever Real?
When we learn that we are involved in a relationship with a pathologically narcissistic person, we may struggle with feelings of confusion and unreality. The Little Shaman explains how to deal with this situation.
Narcissists and Hoovering
Hoovering is a very common phenomenon in narcissistic relationships. What is it, and more importantly, how do you deal with it? The Little Shaman explains.
Why Is He Afraid to Commit? 7 Reasons He's Dragging His Feet
Are you wondering why your man seems unable or unwilling to commit to you? Here are seven easons he may be resisting.
Why Isn't He Texting Me Back? 5 Reasons He's Ghosting You
Have you been texting your boyfriend (or just a guy you like), and he hasn't been texting you back? Here are some reasons why he might have decided to ghost you.
Top 50 Relationship Deal Breakers
While searching for a partner, single folks come to realize what they do and do not want in a relationship. These are referred to as "deal breakers," and they are not good things to have in a relationship.
What Does It Mean When You Dream That Your Partner Is Cheating?
Have you been having dreams that your partner is cheating? Are you ready to get to the bottom of these nightmares? Take a look at what might be causing them.
How to Tell If Your Husband Is Cheating Without Spying on Him
Are you worried that your husband is cheating on you? Here are expert clues to spotting infidelity in your marriage without spying.
Stop Carrying the Emotional Baggage for Narcissists
Probably the one thing all narcissistic relationships have in common is that the demands the pathologically narcissistic person makes on the other person are unreasonable and unfair. How can you stop this from becoming your life? Read on to find out.
How to Deal With Cheating in Relationships: 7 Healing Tips
This article shares seven tips on how to deal with the aftermath of your partner cheating on you.
Why People Choose to Stay in Unhappy Relationships
Are you really happy or just really comfortable in your relationship? Figure out the difference and what to do about it.
How to Keep Guilty Father Syndrome From Ruining Your Marriage
Divorce can cause guilty feelings for ex-husbands who have become legally separated from their children. If they and their new wives don't properly address this issue, the second marriage may also fail. This article discusses what happens and what can be done to avoid problems.
How Narcissistic Relationships Can Change You
Can narcissistic relationships change you? What can you do about it? Read on to find out.
How to Tell If You’re in a Healthy or a Toxic Relationship
When a relationship isn't blatantly abusive, how do you know if you're in a toxic or a healthy relationship? Here are a few key points that will tell you whether your relationship is healthy or not.
Toxic Love: Coping With a Passive-Aggressive Relationship
It can be impossible to solve even the simplest everyday issues experienced by most couples in a passive-aggressive relationship. Learn about seven common passive-aggressive behaviors, and how to cope.
9 Steps to Healing Broken Trust in a Relationship
Betrayal hurts, especially when your significant other is the one to break your trust. It's natural to feel angry, devastated, and lost. Here are 9 steps to heal the trust that was broken.
Stop Letting Narcissists Destroy Your Peace
Are you letting a narcissist destroy your peace? What can you do about it? Read on to find out.
Toxic Relationships: Are You in a Manipulative Relationship?
Manipulative relationships can be hard to identify but are toxic to the victim's mental and physical health. Find out if you're in a manipulative relationship and what you can do to protect yourself.