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100+ Dirty Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend That Will Turn Him On

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Put the spotlight on your guy with these hot, naughty questions. Get to know what really turns him on!

Put the spotlight on your guy with these hot, naughty questions. Get to know what really turns him on!

What Are Good Dirty Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend?

Curious about what your man likes? Too shy to think of questions yourself? Try these questions on for size!

Here is our list of 100 dirty questions to ask your boyfriend. These ideas are great for couples who have already been serious in the bedroom, as well as for those who are just beginning to take steps in that direction!

Get ready to learn all about how your man thinks with these fun and interesting questions. These will give you an inside look into what makes him tick!

Dirty Questions to Turn Guys On

  1. In an ideal world, how long would foreplay be?
  2. What do my lips taste like?
  3. Is there a sexy scene from a movie that you want to recreate with me?
  4. If you had a pair of X-ray glasses, which part of my body would you look at first?
  5. If you could only touch me in one place, where would it be?
  6. If we were in a movie theater, and I wanted to do it, what would you want me to do?
  7. What's one thing you want me to do to you that I haven't done?
  8. What's the farthest you've gone on a first date?
  9. What would you do if I sent you a dirty photo of me?
  10. How would you describe your package?
  11. Do you want to play dirty truth or dare?
  12. Can you guess what I'm wearing right now?
  13. What would you do if I answered the door without clothes on?
  14. Have you ever been caught going solo? By who?
  15. Do you prefer your women shaved or all natural?
  16. Is laughing in the bedroom okay with you, or do you prefer keeping things serious?
  17. What's the longest you've gone without doing it?
  18. What's the most number of times you've done it in a row?
  19. Do you like watching me touch myself?
  20. I heard kissing burns a lot of calories. Want to help me exercise?
  21. What do you look for in a partner for the bedroom?
  22. Spit or swallow?
  23. What do you think about toys in the bedroom?
  24. Does the thought of recording a video turn you on?
  25. Have you ever tried edible underwear?
  26. What was the last dirty dream you had? Was I in it?
  27. What naughty fantasies do you have about me?
  28. What's one public place where you would want to do it?
  29. Have you ever bought lingerie for a woman?
  30. What's the best thing a woman can do to you in bed?
How often did you enjoy those benefits?

How often did you enjoy those benefits?

Juicy, Intimate Questions to Ask Your Man

  1. Do you ever watch adult videos?
  2. Do you prefer to give or receive?
  3. Can you send me a sexy pic of your favorite body part?
  4. Can I watch you pleasure yourself?
  5. How would you feel if I made you breakfast while wearing only an apron?
  6. Do you prefer doing it in the morning or night?
  7. Rough or sensual?
  8. What's the longest intimate session for you?
  9. What was your first time like?
  10. How do I compare to other girls you've been with?
  11. Do you like sexting?
  12. Have you ever done it in front of other people?
  13. Have you ever done it with more than one woman in one day?
  14. Do you like getting tied up? How about tying me up?
  15. Have you ever had a friend with benefits?
  16. Have you ever hooked up with someone you weren't supposed to hook up with?
  17. Have you ever used food during intimacy?
  18. Have you ever gotten a lap dance?
  19. Are you part of the mile high club?
  20. Have you ever played strip poker?
  21. What's the wildest thing you've ever done?
  22. Do you like BDSM?
  23. Would you let me pleasure you while you were driving?
  24. What's the dirtiest thing you've thought about doing to me?
  25. Where's the most uncomfortable place you've ever done it?
  26. Have you ever fantasized about someone else while making love?
  27. Have you ever done it in the water?
  28. Who do you think of when you pleasure yourself?
  29. Have you ever done it with someone you weren't attracted to?
  30. What's the longest you've gone without doing it?
Do you ever check out other girls?

Do you ever check out other girls?

Flirty Questions for Your Boyfriend

Get him thinking about you with these super flirty and suggestive questions.

  1. What is your favorite part of my body?
  2. You decide to give me a full body massage. Where do you start?
  3. What do you prefer: boy shorts or thongs?
  4. What's an instant turn-on for you?
  5. Black lace or white T-shirt?
  6. Would you rather see me in lingerie or nothing at all?
  7. What is one thing that I wear that you find completely irresistible?
  8. Have you ever just wanted to tear my clothes off?
  9. Can you give me a good example of your dirty talk?
  10. I ask you to dress me for our date night. Which outfit of mine would you pick?
  11. I catch you staring at me. What part of me were you looking at?
  12. If you could see me wear anything, what would it be?
  13. Do you get jealous when other guys check me out?
  14. What is your favorite thing I do to you in bed?
  15. Do you like when I make the first move?
  16. When you first met me, was it love at first sight?
  17. If you were to describe my body with three words, how would you describe it?
  18. Do you like me being possessive over you?
  19. Do you prefer long hair or short hair?
  20. Tight jeans or flirty skirt?
  21. When do I look the most beautiful to you?
  22. I come home from work stressed. How would you help me relax?
  23. Have you ever bragged to your friends about me?
  24. Will you make me breakfast in bed?
And what is your biggest turn-off?

And what is your biggest turn-off?

Sexy Questions for Your Guy

Try out these questions to learn more about what he likes in bed and his sexual past.

  1. What is your favorite place to be massaged?
  2. What is your biggest turn-on?
  3. What is your biggest turn-off?
  4. Do you own any toys?
  5. Have you ever been inside a gentlemen's club?
  6. How old were you when you lost it?
  7. What's the weirdest place you've ever done it?
  8. If you were looking at movies online, what do you look for?
  9. Do you like your hair pulled?
  10. Do you prefer top or bottom?
  11. Have you ever done it in the backseat?
  12. Have you ever had a one night stand?
  13. Do you like when I talk dirty to you?
  14. Have you ever taken naked pictures of yourself?
  15. Do you like when I send you dirty pictures?
  16. Big bottom or big bust?
  17. Do you like making out?
  18. Do you sleep in the buff or in boxers?
  19. What do you find most attractive in a girl?
  20. What kind of music do you like to play in the bedroom, if any?
  21. Do you like experimenting with different positions?
  22. What is your favorite sex position?
  23. What is the craziest thing you have ever done?
  24. Do you have a name for your package?
  25. If not, what would you name it?
  26. Do you prefer having some fun in the morning or at night?
  27. Does being sneaky give you a thrill?
  28. Have you ever gone skinny dipping?
  29. Did you ever have a crush on a teacher?
  30. Have you ever had a dream about me?
  31. How often do guys really think about doing it?
  32. Would you say you’ve been on Santa’s naughty or nice list most?
  33. If your love-making could be described by a weather event or a natural disaster, what would it be?
  34. What do you do when you’re watching a movie with your parents and a certain type of scene comes on?
  35. Did your parents ever give you the “birds and the bees” talk?

Naughty Q&A With Your Boyfriend

  1. What object did your adult-ed teacher use to demonstrate how to put on protection?
  2. Would you consider yourself romantic?
  3. What's your ideal date night?
  4. What attempts did you make to woo me? Which ones worked?
  5. How many exes' numbers are still in your phone?
  6. How many single girls' numbers are in your phone?
  7. Under the sheets, are you Iron Man, The Hulk, Thor, or Captain America?
  8. What do you think of open relationships?
  9. How old were you when you had your first kiss?
  10. How many girlfriends have you had?
  11. Has anyone accidentally seen you naked?
  12. Do you like it with the lights on or off?
  13. Do you ever fantasize about me?
  14. How did you find out about what you like in bed?
  15. When you're on top, what's your favorite position?
  16. Which body part are you most proud of?
  17. Do you like cuddling?
  18. Do you ever have naughty dreams?
  19. When we wake up in the morning, what is the first thought that comes to mind when you look at me?
  20. What is your opinion of hickeys?
  21. How many rounds do you think you could go? What about on our wedding night?
  22. What are you best at in bed?
  23. Before we started dating, did you ever fantasize about me?
  24. What's something new you'd like to try in bed?
  25. What's the hottest thing you've done to someone else?
  26. What was your first "adult" experience?
  27. Do you like going down on me?
  28. Have you ever done it outside?
  29. Have you ever cheated or been cheated on?
  30. How often do you like to be intimate?
  31. What's the best bedroom experience that you've ever had?
  32. Where is the most public place that you've touched yourself?
  33. What do you think about dirty talk over the phone or Facetime?
  34. Have you ever been attracted to someone of the same sex?
  35. Is there anything you're afraid of in the bedroom?
What should we yell together?

What should we yell together?

Fun Dirty Questions to Text Him

  1. Do you want to know what I’m wearing?
  2. How fast can you get here?
  3. What's your favorite thing to do to me?
  4. Do you like playing rough?
  5. Do you like being loud?
  6. What's your favorite position with me on top?
  7. Do you ever have dreams about me?
  8. How do you want me to touch you? Describe it.
  9. When was the last time you went solo?
  10. What part of your body do you like me touching the most?
  11. What's your favorite song to get busy to?
  12. What color underwear do you like the most on me?
  13. Do you like it when I go down on you?

Talk Dirty to Me

Not only does asking him these questions get him going, but his responses might make you feel all hot and bothered, too! Talking can be some of the best flirting in a relationship, and it's nice because you can get away with it in public without others knowing! If you’re apart from each other or have ears turned your way, you can always send some flirty texts to get each other going!

After you're done with these questions, make sure you check out 100+ Dirty Questions to Ask a Girl!

Questions & Answers

Question: Is there a lesbian version of these questions?

Answer: Most of the questions are applicable across relationship types. Really, many of the questions just need a wording adjustment to apply to whatever the scenario is.