100+ Dirty Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend That Will Turn Him On

Updated on June 13, 2019
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Curious about what your man likes? Too shy to think of questions yourself? Try these questions on for size!

Here is our list of 100 dirty questions to ask your boyfriend for those who have already been serious in the bedroom or are just beginning to take steps in that direction! These will give you an inside look into what makes him tick!

Get ready to learn all about how your man thinks with these fun and interesting questions! And, after you're done with these questions, make sure you check out 100+ Dirty Questions to Ask a Girl!

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Dirty Questions to Ask a Guy That Will Turn Him On

  1. In an ideal world, how long would foreplay be?
  2. What do my lips taste like?
  3. Is there a sexy scene from a movie that you want to recreate with me?
  4. If you had a pair of x-ray glasses, which part of my body would you look at first?
  5. If you could only touch me in one place, where would it be?
  6. If we were in a movie theater, and I wanted to do it, what would you want me to do?
  7. What's one thing you want me to do to you that I haven't done?
  8. What's the farthest you've gone on a first date?
  9. What would you do if I sent you a dirty photo of me?
  10. How would you describe your package?
  11. Do you want to play dirty truth or dare?
  12. Guess what I'm wearing right now?
  13. What would you do if I answered the door without clothes on?
  14. Have you ever been caught going solo? By who?
  15. Do you prefer your women shaved or all natural?
  16. Is laughing in the bedroom okay with you or do you prefer keeping things serious?
  17. What's the longest you've gone without doing it?
  18. What's the most number of times you've done it in a row?
  19. Do you like watching me touch myself?
  20. I heard kissing burns a lot of calories. Want to help me exercise?
  21. What do you look for in a partner for the bedroom?
  22. Spit or swallow?
  23. What do you think about toys in the bedroom?
  24. Does the thought of recording a video turn you on?
  25. Have you ever tried edible underwear?
  26. What was the last dirty dream you had? Was I in it?
  27. What's a naughty fantasy you have about me?
  28. What's one public place where you would want to do it?
  29. Have you ever bought lingerie for a girl?
  30. What's the best thing a woman can do to you in bed?
  31. Do you ever watch adult videos?
  32. Do you prefer to give or receive?
  33. Can you send me a sexy pic of your favorite body part?
  34. Can I watch you pleasure yourself?
  35. How would you feel if I made you breakfast while wearing only an apron?
  36. Do you prefer doing it in the morning or night?
  37. Rough or sensual?
  38. What's the longest intimate session for you?
  39. What was your first time like?
  40. How do I compare to other girls you've been with?
  41. Do you like sexting?
  42. Have you ever done it in front of other people?
  43. Have you ever done it with more than one woman in one day?
  44. Do you like getting tied up? How about tying me up?
  45. Have you ever had a friend with benefits?
  46. Have you ever hooked up with someone you weren't supposed to hook up with?
  47. Have you ever used food during intimacy?
  48. Have you ever gotten a lap dance?
  49. Are you part of the mile high club?
  50. Have you ever played strip poker?
  51. What's the wildest thing you've ever done?
  52. Do you like BDSM?
  53. Would you let me pleasure you while you were driving?
  54. What's the dirtiest thing you've though about doing to me?
  55. Where's the most uncomfortable place you've ever done it?
  56. Have you ever fantasized about someone else while making love?
  57. Have you ever done it in the water?
  58. Who do you think of when you pleasure yourself?
  59. Have you ever done it with someone you weren't attracted to?
  60. What's the longest you've gone without doing it?

Flirty Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

Get him thinking (and hot) about you with these super flirty and suggestive questions.

  1. What is your favorite part of my body?
  2. You decide to give me a full body massage, where do you start?
  3. What do you prefer: boy shorts or thongs?
  4. What's an instant turn-on for you?
  5. Black lace or white T-shirt?
  6. Would you rather see me in lingerie or nothing at all?
  7. What is one thing that I wear that you find completely irresistible?
  8. Have you ever just wanted to tear my clothes off?
  9. Can you give me a good example of your dirty talk?
  10. I ask you to dress me for our date night, which outfit of mine would you pick?
  11. I catch you staring at me. What part of me were you looking at?
  12. If you could see me wear anything, what would it be?
  13. Do you get jealous when other guys check me out?
  14. What is your favorite thing I do to you in bed?
  15. Do you like when I make the first move?
  16. When you first met me, was it love at first sight?
  17. If you can describe my body with three words, how would you describe it?
  18. Do you like me being possessive over you?
  19. Do you prefer long hair or short hair?
  20. Tight jeans or flirty skirt?
  21. When do I look the most beautiful to you?
  22. I come home from work stressed. How would you help me relax?
  23. Have you ever bragged to your friends about me?
  24. Will you make me breakfast in bed?

Sexy Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

Learn more about what he likes in bed and about his sexual past.

  1. What is your favorite place to be massaged?
  2. What is your biggest turn on?
  3. What is your biggest turn off?
  4. Do you own any toys?
  5. Have you ever been inside a gentlemen's club?
  6. How old were you when you lost it?
  7. What's the weirdest place you've ever done it?
  8. If you were looking at movies online, what do you look for?
  9. Do you like your hair pulled?
  10. Do you prefer top or bottom?
  11. Have you ever done it in the backseat?
  12. Have you ever had a one night stand?
  13. Do you like when I talk dirty to you?
  14. Have you ever taken naked pictures of yourself?
  15. Do you like when I send you dirty pictures?
  16. Big bottom or big bust?
  17. Do you like making out?
  18. Do you sleep in the buff or in boxers?
  19. What do you find most attractive in a girl?
  20. What kind of music do you like to play in the bedroom, if any?
  21. Do you like experimenting with different positions?
  22. What is your favorite sex position?
  23. What is the craziest thing you have ever done?
  24. Do you have a name for your package?
  25. If not, what would you name it?
  26. Do you prefer having some fun in the morning or at night?
  27. Does being sneaky give you a thrill?
  28. Have you ever gone skinny dipping?
  29. Did you ever have a crush on a teacher?
  30. Have you ever had a dream about me?
  31. How often do guys really think about doing it?
  32. Would you say you’ve been on Santa’s naughty or nice list most?
  33. If your love-making can be described by a weather event or a natural disaster, what would it be?
  34. What do you do when you’re watching a movie with your parents and a certain type of scene comes on?
  35. Did your parents ever give you the “birds and the bees” talk?
  36. What object did your adult-ed teacher use to demonstrate how to put on protection?
  37. Would you consider yourself romantic?
  38. What's your ideal date night?
  39. What attempts did you make to woo me? Which ones worked?
  40. How many exes' numbers are still in your phone?
  41. How many single girls' numbers are in your phone?
  42. Under the sheets, are you Iron Man, The Hulk, Thor, or Captain America?
  43. What do you think of open relationships?
  44. How old were you when you had for first kiss?
  45. How many girlfriends have you had?
  46. Has anyone accidentally seen you naked?
  47. Do you like it with the lights on or off?
  48. Do you ever fantasize about me?
  49. How did you find out about what you like in bed?
  50. When you're on top, what's your favorite position?
  51. Which body part are you most proud of?
  52. Do you like cuddling?
  53. Do you ever have naughty dreams?
  54. When we wake up in the morning, what is the first thought that comes to mind when you look at me?
  55. What is your opinion of hickies?
  56. How many rounds do you think you could go? What about on our wedding night?
  57. What are you best at in bed?
  58. Before we started dating, did you ever fantasize about me?
  59. What's something new you'd like to try in bed?
  60. What's the hottest thing you've done to someone else?
  61. What was your first "adult" experience?
  62. Do you like going down on me?
  63. Have you ever done it outside?
  64. Have you ever cheated or been cheated on?
  65. How often do you like to be intimate?
  66. What's the best bedroom experience that you've ever had?
  67. Where is the most public place that you've touched yourself?
  68. What do you think about dirty talk over the phone or Facetime?
  69. Have you ever been attracted to someone of the same sex?
  70. Is there anything you're afraid of in the bedroom?

Fun Dirty Questions to Text Him

  1. Do you want to know what I’m wearing?
  2. How fast can you get here?
  3. What's your favorite thing to do to me?
  4. Do you like playing rough?
  5. Do you like being loud?
  6. Favorite position with me on top?
  7. Do you ever have dreams about me?
  8. How do you want me to touch you? Describe it.
  9. When was the last time you went solo?
  10. What part of your body do you like me touching the most?
  11. What's your favorite song to get busy to?
  12. What color underwear do you like the most on me?
  13. Do you like it when I go down on you?

Talk Dirty to Me

Not only does asking him these questions get him going, but his responses might make you feel all hot and bothered, too!

Talking can be some of the best flirting in a relationship, and it's nice because you can get away with it in public without others knowing!

If you’re apart from each other or have ears turned your way, you can always send some flirty texts to get each other going!

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Questions & Answers

  • Is there a lesbian version of these questions?

    Most of the questions are applicable across relationship types. Really, many of the questions just need a wording adjustment to apply to whatever the scenario is.

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      Shariah 

      5 days ago

      Very interesting question

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      D hekk 

      6 days ago

      I have a lovly bf and we chat alot but sometimes we just dont know what to talk about. These questions are key to a fun chat

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      Random girl 

      8 days ago

      I was asking my boyfriend this question and he start being turn on (in the phone) we are long distance relationship like 17min away from each other

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      kayla parks 

      10 days ago

      these questions are good to ask your boyfriend cause then u know more about him

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      Nun of your business 

      2 months ago

      These questions interesting.... cough cough take a hint ‼️

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      STOOPID 

      2 months ago

      DONT ASK SERI THESE QUESTIONS

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      hanoo 

      2 months ago

      i asked all this to my fiance, and both of us got shocked of the answers but we just laugh about it!

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      3 months ago

      We turned the questions into a send me a number game (you just send a number and they/you have to answer it and it was really fun

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      Sup 

      3 months ago

      It worked

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      Sizuka 

      4 months ago

      These questions are really good for long distance relationship lovers

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      Wish me luck 

      4 months ago

      Talking to a girl right now and asking her these questions!!!

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      Arianna 

      4 months ago

      The only thing he said was "Can i kiss you?"

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      SexyBoi420 

      4 months ago

      If you like these questions, then you will LOVE the movie GORE-GASM

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      reTARD 

      4 months ago

      yukky

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      Timmy bod 

      5 months ago

      my name is Timmy bod and im very sexy

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      Friday 

      5 months ago

      My girlfriend tell me this is the first time we meet that we can not make Love

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      Amy 

      5 months ago

      This one got my b’dussy hard

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      Scum Gang 

      5 months ago

      k, got pissed off at these. i ain’t even gonna be my boyfriends first apparently, greaaaaat.

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      Oh 

      5 months ago

      Duck face

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      Ur mom 

      6 months ago

      This is so corny

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      Idk 

      6 months ago

      We took the piss out of these

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      Ron 

      6 months ago

      My boyfriend loved this

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      6 months ago

      I know me and my boo loved these so much

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      Kassidi Christian krchris 

      7 months ago

      Nice it is very good

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      Hannah 

      7 months ago

      These were brilliant questions. I actually turned someone from asking these, she loved them. Now she doesn’t stop messaging me. Thanks again.

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      Hayley 

      7 months ago

      Me and My boyfriend had a lot of fun with this Q&A website

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      Lynn 

      8 months ago

      I wish I had sex he doesn’t like me anymore

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      Ricky ratardo 

      8 months ago

      My boyfriend broke up with me when I asked these

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      Ashley 

      9 months ago

      I’d totally recommend these questions. Me and my boyfriend had a blast. Believe it or not, they actually work!

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      Self-Improvement 

      9 months ago from Pakistan

      Seductive article, please go through this article to control obesity https://hubpages.com/health/Obesity-leads-to-fatig...

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      RhapsodyTheBlue 

      10 months ago

      I tend to cut to the chase. When I’m ready to be with a man, I’ll do something like come up behind him, wrap my arms around him, nibble his ear, and whisper, “You will never forget what’s about to happen.”

      Sex is not a quiz. When you’re with the right person, you throw yourself into it with as much passion as you can muster. You’ll work out what you like eventually. Don’t try to draw a map beforehand. Just explore. Dive in, surrender to the lust, be as loud as you want, and take him inside without reservation.

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      Bryan J Greene 

      10 months ago from New York

      good

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      Bri 

      10 months ago

      I loved asking the guy I was talking to these questions. He answered them honestly and some of them turned me on. Honestly they really helped us understand each other about more!

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      Bob 

      11 months ago

      So much fun !!

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      11 months ago

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      Irene Donald 

      11 months ago from Maryland, US.

      Good stuff.

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      Anna 

      11 months ago

      Awesome :-)

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      Elliot 

      12 months ago

      These are cringey yet sexy. 11/10

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      Ethan 

      12 months ago

      Yeah

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      Not kenan 

      12 months ago

      did not get anything out of asking these questions, not recommended. 1/10, was funny.

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      Casey-n-Jason 

      13 months ago

      The questions are fun n exciting!! Had a blast!!

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      Prof vk jain 

      13 months ago

      Frivolous and also excellent

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      Baby girl 

      13 months ago

      This questions actually work :-):-)

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      Rish 

      13 months ago

      Nice

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      Gabby 

      13 months ago

      Amazing

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      Me 

      13 months ago

      My boyfriend and I are both gamers, and when we play against each other, the loser answers a question...

      This was a fun round of questions and answers.

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      amor 

      14 months ago

      Amazing

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      Stockson 

      14 months ago

      Great

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      Manii 

      14 months ago

      Nice

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      Bucky 

      15 months ago

      Nice

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      Hacknety 

      15 months ago

      This is grateful

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      dwelly 

      15 months ago

      some of these questions are nice and some are boreding

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      Priyanka jackson 

      16 months ago

      Wow such a great questions after asking these questions to my boyfriend he will turn on to romantic mood !! This questions makes him to kiss me 20 times

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      vannah b. 

      16 months ago

      God damn his answers to these questions were both sweet and sexy. God he turns me on.

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      Elle 

      16 months ago

      These questions are perfect

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      21 savage 

      17 months ago

      Some of those questions are too... CRAZY for my chick to ask me

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      Lea 

      19 months ago

      I asked my boyfriend these and things happened after

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      Lulú 

      19 months ago

      Great

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      Mckenzie 

      20 months ago

      I have a boyfriend and we haven’t even went on our first date or first kiss give me some questions that would make him love me and I’m only 12 and my mom doesn’t care if I date and I have never made him kiss me he said that I was cute really funny and he said that he likes me I wrote him this not and I’m going to give it to him on Saturday next Saturday and I have some questions to ask him about himself or about me and I’m going to see him next Saturday when I actually stay with my mom and not be with my dad on a Saturday cause I missed yesterday going mud riding and I didn’t get to see him but next Saturday I will be able to see hi and hopefully ask hi my questions for him and maybe have our first kiss on the lips and hug and hold hands in public in front of my parents and we’re not going to kiss in front of them cause my mom will make us break up and I’m sure he doesn’t want to break up so I’m going to try to keep him for as long as I can and try not to get another man cause I like my boy friend that I’m with

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      fuck me 

      21 months ago

      I love them

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      Samantha 

      21 months ago

      I really like that book you get for me I like it

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      Me???????!!!!! 

      21 months ago

      Um great conversation starter

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      Come Stein 

      22 months ago

      So much milking

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      Random girl 

      22 months ago

      Honestly hope these work! ;D so far they are!!

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      stacy washington 

      22 months ago

      im stacy 16 about to be 17 in a couple of days

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      Cre8tivity 

      22 months ago

      None worked I could not do anything after I used all of them :(

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      coolbeans 

      23 months ago

      This didnt get me any head!!!!! Im so pist.

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      Cjd 

      23 months ago

      I was able to get to know my bf alot more with this

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      Niyah 

      23 months ago

      Even though I'm a Taurus I still need help with these things

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      Cutie 

      24 months ago

      I like them they help with a conversation to start or make

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      Anthonia 

      2 years ago

      I need questions to ask my man who is far .yh actually is a long distance relationship

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      Mylei 

      2 years ago

      I love these and it was fun gettin to know my bf way better lol

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      cookie 

      2 years ago

      yeah just what i needed

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      Julia 

      2 years ago

      Nice got to know my man better with some of these

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      Melinda 

      2 years ago

      Your questions are very irrelevant and pervertive!

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      Taken!!!! 

      2 years ago

      Please come up with more, they are perfect

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      Tyrone 

      2 years ago

      YunnnnnnnnnnnnYummmmmm

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      Ella 

      2 years ago

      Very nice..so helpful

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      HeaRt 

      2 years ago

      Not bad

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      Summer 

      2 years ago

      Nice questions I'm gonna ask my bf

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      zoey113 

      2 years ago

      these helped me get to know my man

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      raulfhertellez@gmail.com 

      2 years ago

      there`s many good reasons to teach and learn ....english alive...!!!thanks.

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      S,S,A,H 

      2 years ago

      Very helpful and good

      Thank you

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      Jen 

      2 years ago

      These are perfect! Thank you!!!

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      Gay girl 

      2 years ago

      Awesome! Please come up with more

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      sheleah 

      2 years ago

      this is great

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      Sk8terboi 

      2 years ago

      So helpful, great work

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      meme 

      2 years ago

      love this

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      Deborah Demander 

      2 years ago from First Wyoming, then THE WORLD

      These are some great questions. I'll definitely be using some on our next date night, and some others during my flirty texting.

      Thanks for the ideas.

      Namaste

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