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100+ Dirty Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend That Will Turn Him On


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Put the spotlight on your guy with these hot, naughty questions. Get to know what really turns him on!

Put the spotlight on your guy with these hot, naughty questions. Get to know what really turns him on!

What Are Good Dirty Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend?

Curious about what your man likes? Too shy to think of questions yourself? Try these questions on for size!

Here is our list of 100 dirty questions to ask your boyfriend. These ideas are great for couples who have already been serious in the bedroom, as well as for those who are just beginning to take steps in that direction!

Get ready to learn all about how your man thinks with these fun and interesting questions. These will give you an inside look into what makes him tick!

Dirty Questions to Turn Guys On

  1. In an ideal world, how long would foreplay be?
  2. What do my lips taste like?
  3. Is there a sexy scene from a movie that you want to recreate with me?
  4. If you had a pair of x-ray glasses, which part of my body would you look at first?
  5. If you could only touch me in one place, where would it be?
  6. If we were in a movie theater, and I wanted to do it, what would you want me to do?
  7. What's one thing you want me to do to you that I haven't done?
  8. What's the farthest you've gone on a first date?
  9. What would you do if I sent you a dirty photo of me?
  10. How would you describe your package?
  11. Do you want to play dirty truth or dare?
  12. Can you guess what I'm wearing right now?
  13. What would you do if I answered the door without clothes on?
  14. Have you ever been caught going solo? By who?
  15. Do you prefer your women shaved or all natural?
  16. Is laughing in the bedroom okay with you, or do you prefer keeping things serious?
  17. What's the longest you've gone without doing it?
  18. What's the most number of times you've done it in a row?
  19. Do you like watching me touch myself?
  20. I heard kissing burns a lot of calories. Want to help me exercise?
  21. What do you look for in a partner for the bedroom?
  22. Spit or swallow?
  23. What do you think about toys in the bedroom?
  24. Does the thought of recording a video turn you on?
  25. Have you ever tried edible underwear?
  26. What was the last dirty dream you had? Was I in it?
  27. What naughty fantasies do you have about me?
  28. What's one public place where you would want to do it?
  29. Have you ever bought lingerie for a woman?
  30. What's the best thing a woman can do to you in bed?
How often did you enjoy those benefits?

How often did you enjoy those benefits?

Juicy, Intimate Questions to Ask Your Man

  1. Do you ever watch adult videos?
  2. Do you prefer to give or receive?
  3. Can you send me a sexy pic of your favorite body part?
  4. Can I watch you pleasure yourself?
  5. How would you feel if I made you breakfast while wearing only an apron?
  6. Do you prefer doing it in the morning or night?
  7. Rough or sensual?
  8. What's the longest intimate session for you?
  9. What was your first time like?
  10. How do I compare to other girls you've been with?
  11. Do you like sexting?
  12. Have you ever done it in front of other people?
  13. Have you ever done it with more than one woman in one day?
  14. Do you like getting tied up? How about tying me up?
  15. Have you ever had a friend with benefits?
  16. Have you ever hooked up with someone you weren't supposed to hook up with?
  17. Have you ever used food during intimacy?
  18. Have you ever gotten a lap dance?
  19. Are you part of the mile high club?
  20. Have you ever played strip poker?
  21. What's the wildest thing you've ever done?
  22. Do you like BDSM?
  23. Would you let me pleasure you while you were driving?
  24. What's the dirtiest thing you've thought about doing to me?
  25. Where's the most uncomfortable place you've ever done it?
  26. Have you ever fantasized about someone else while making love?
  27. Have you ever done it in the water?
  28. Who do you think of when you pleasure yourself?
  29. Have you ever done it with someone you weren't attracted to?
  30. What's the longest you've gone without doing it?
Do you ever check out other girls?

Do you ever check out other girls?

Flirty Questions for Your Boyfriend

Get him thinking about you with these super flirty and suggestive questions.

  1. What is your favorite part of my body?
  2. You decide to give me a full body massage. Where do you start?
  3. What do you prefer: boy shorts or thongs?
  4. What's an instant turn-on for you?
  5. Black lace or white T-shirt?
  6. Would you rather see me in lingerie or nothing at all?
  7. What is one thing that I wear that you find completely irresistible?
  8. Have you ever just wanted to tear my clothes off?
  9. Can you give me a good example of your dirty talk?
  10. I ask you to dress me for our date night. Which outfit of mine would you pick?
  11. I catch you staring at me. What part of me were you looking at?
  12. If you could see me wear anything, what would it be?
  13. Do you get jealous when other guys check me out?
  14. What is your favorite thing I do to you in bed?
  15. Do you like when I make the first move?
  16. When you first met me, was it love at first sight?
  17. If you were to describe my body with three words, how would you describe it?
  18. Do you like me being possessive over you?
  19. Do you prefer long hair or short hair?
  20. Tight jeans or flirty skirt?
  21. When do I look the most beautiful to you?
  22. I come home from work stressed. How would you help me relax?
  23. Have you ever bragged to your friends about me?
  24. Will you make me breakfast in bed?
And what is your biggest turn-off?

And what is your biggest turn-off?

Sexy Questions for Your Guy

Try out these questions to learn more about what he likes in bed and his sexual past.

  1. What is your favorite place to be massaged?
  2. What is your biggest turn-on?
  3. What is your biggest turn-off?
  4. Do you own any toys?
  5. Have you ever been inside a gentlemen's club?
  6. How old were you when you lost it?
  7. What's the weirdest place you've ever done it?
  8. If you were looking at movies online, what do you look for?
  9. Do you like your hair pulled?
  10. Do you prefer top or bottom?
  11. Have you ever done it in the backseat?
  12. Have you ever had a one night stand?
  13. Do you like when I talk dirty to you?
  14. Have you ever taken naked pictures of yourself?
  15. Do you like when I send you dirty pictures?
  16. Big bottom or big bust?
  17. Do you like making out?
  18. Do you sleep in the buff or in boxers?
  19. What do you find most attractive in a girl?
  20. What kind of music do you like to play in the bedroom, if any?
  21. Do you like experimenting with different positions?
  22. What is your favorite sex position?
  23. What is the craziest thing you have ever done?
  24. Do you have a name for your package?
  25. If not, what would you name it?
  26. Do you prefer having some fun in the morning or at night?
  27. Does being sneaky give you a thrill?
  28. Have you ever gone skinny dipping?
  29. Did you ever have a crush on a teacher?
  30. Have you ever had a dream about me?
  31. How often do guys really think about doing it?
  32. Would you say you’ve been on Santa’s naughty or nice list most?
  33. If your love-making could be described by a weather event or a natural disaster, what would it be?
  34. What do you do when you’re watching a movie with your parents and a certain type of scene comes on?
  35. Did your parents ever give you the “birds and the bees” talk?

Naughty Q&A With Your Boyfriend

  1. What object did your adult-ed teacher use to demonstrate how to put on protection?
  2. Would you consider yourself romantic?
  3. What's your ideal date night?
  4. What attempts did you make to woo me? Which ones worked?
  5. How many exes' numbers are still in your phone?
  6. How many single girls' numbers are in your phone?
  7. Under the sheets, are you Iron Man, The Hulk, Thor, or Captain America?
  8. What do you think of open relationships?
  9. How old were you when you had your first kiss?
  10. How many girlfriends have you had?
  11. Has anyone accidentally seen you naked?
  12. Do you like it with the lights on or off?
  13. Do you ever fantasize about me?
  14. How did you find out about what you like in bed?
  15. When you're on top, what's your favorite position?
  16. Which body part are you most proud of?
  17. Do you like cuddling?
  18. Do you ever have naughty dreams?
  19. When we wake up in the morning, what is the first thought that comes to mind when you look at me?
  20. What is your opinion of hickeys?
  21. How many rounds do you think you could go? What about on our wedding night?
  22. What are you best at in bed?
  23. Before we started dating, did you ever fantasize about me?
  24. What's something new you'd like to try in bed?
  25. What's the hottest thing you've done to someone else?
  26. What was your first "adult" experience?
  27. Do you like going down on me?
  28. Have you ever done it outside?
  29. Have you ever cheated or been cheated on?
  30. How often do you like to be intimate?
  31. What's the best bedroom experience that you've ever had?
  32. Where is the most public place that you've touched yourself?
  33. What do you think about dirty talk over the phone or Facetime?
  34. Have you ever been attracted to someone of the same sex?
  35. Is there anything you're afraid of in the bedroom?
What should we yell together?

What should we yell together?

Fun Dirty Questions to Text Him

  1. Do you want to know what I’m wearing?
  2. How fast can you get here?
  3. What's your favorite thing to do to me?
  4. Do you like playing rough?
  5. Do you like being loud?
  6. What's your favorite position with me on top?
  7. Do you ever have dreams about me?
  8. How do you want me to touch you? Describe it.
  9. When was the last time you went solo?
  10. What part of your body do you like me touching the most?
  11. What's your favorite song to get busy to?
  12. What color underwear do you like the most on me?
  13. Do you like it when I go down on you?

Talk Dirty to Me

Not only does asking him these questions get him going, but his responses might make you feel all hot and bothered, too! Talking can be some of the best flirting in a relationship, and it's nice because you can get away with it in public without others knowing! If you’re apart from each other or have ears turned your way, you can always send some flirty texts to get each other going!

After you're done with these questions, make sure you check out 100+ Dirty Questions to Ask a Girl!

Questions & Answers

Question: Is there a lesbian version of these questions?

Answer: Most of the questions are applicable across relationship types. Really, many of the questions just need a wording adjustment to apply to whatever the scenario is.


Axel on August 31, 2020:

Damn my boyfriend is just telling me

Leona on August 28, 2020:

Mmh my boyfriend often asks me awkward questions and i had to answer all the time! so, i thought why not ask some dirty questions for him to ANSWER.?

Well i hope this questions Work!

Fingers crossed... ✌

T on August 17, 2020:

I also have a boy friend he always tells me dat I'm beautiful I really wanna believe dat buh I just can't believe it

M on August 08, 2020:

Well I would say that they worked but it’s hard when you don’t have any one :(

Mariana on July 18, 2020:

Those questions are a hit

Miss P on July 17, 2020:

These questions helps

Miss mommus on July 14, 2020:

Really good questions

DEBORAH MUSA on June 30, 2020:


Sumit on June 24, 2020:

Nice I like rough too

K on June 20, 2020:

My bf loves when I do this

cipher on June 04, 2020:

Wow........it works for me...ilove this

Anne on May 31, 2020:

So i have a boyfriend and hes name is justin francklin and i really liked him help me pls.

Sdjd on May 31, 2020:

Nice ;)

Ariana on May 28, 2020:


Bertha on May 26, 2020:

Thanks for the question you have helped me a lot ,wow

xy on May 22, 2020:

my gf fcking love these

Jessie on May 20, 2020:

Ya zo great l know my boyfriend is npt a virgin

Will on May 16, 2020:

Ayeee I got laid cause of these

Nikky on May 15, 2020:


sexy girl on May 12, 2020:

i liked the questions it help a lot thx

Val on May 05, 2020:


Emma riek on April 27, 2020:

instructions unclear, boyfriend is in refrigerator.

Deloris on April 27, 2020:

This helped a lot , thanks

Hailey on April 23, 2020:

My boyfriend loves it when I ask him these questions!!!

Mercy on April 21, 2020:

Damn! This is so good..it's will just keep the conversation on fire

Jeruh on April 19, 2020:

I got smth to make a long great chat

Damn this are pretty good


Potato on April 17, 2020:

@Mick hung bruh, you funny as hell lmfao

Winnie alex on April 15, 2020:

He loved it

Kiki on April 13, 2020:

Hey y’all

Mick Hunt on April 13, 2020:

damn tried these with my nan she asked me out thank you so much

mila on April 10, 2020:

he loves this

Tykeria on April 08, 2020:

Thank you so much ❤️

Cece on April 07, 2020:

O was aking a boy this and he saidi wish we was together

I’m dumb I stg on April 06, 2020:

Ok so like I was texting my boyfriend and we were both like ya know and then he sent the

banana on March 27, 2020:

oh mah god

pablo on March 24, 2020:

Those are pretty damn good UHHH

Bbgirl lisa on March 18, 2020:

I loved asking these questions he answered em all correct he was honest and for thw first time i think we actually had a long great talk through phone

Lalalal on February 07, 2020:

Oof nice

I love paddy on January 29, 2020:

I love paddy and w era wearing and we were on ft at 2:30 asking you each other questions it’s was fun

Martha murtha on December 03, 2019:

I just wonder if it’s ok for him to want to wear my Panties and lingerie when I wear his and he loves it he’s very manly but has a very feminine side I am not sure if I can accept it and I think it’s hurting our relationship I have never met a kinkery man

Shariah on November 11, 2019:

Very interesting question

D hekk on November 10, 2019:

I have a lovly bf and we chat alot but sometimes we just dont know what to talk about. These questions are key to a fun chat

Random girl on November 08, 2019:

I was asking my boyfriend this question and he start being turn on (in the phone) we are long distance relationship like 17min away from each other

kayla parks on November 06, 2019:

these questions are good to ask your boyfriend cause then u know more about him

Nun of your business on September 12, 2019:

These questions interesting.... cough cough take a hint ‼️

STOOPID on August 29, 2019:


hanoo on August 21, 2019:

i asked all this to my fiance, and both of us got shocked of the answers but we just laugh about it!

B on August 10, 2019:

We turned the questions into a send me a number game (you just send a number and they/you have to answer it and it was really fun

Sup on July 31, 2019:

It worked

Sizuka on July 19, 2019:

These questions are really good for long distance relationship lovers

Wish me luck on July 18, 2019:

Talking to a girl right now and asking her these questions!!!

Arianna on July 06, 2019:

The only thing he said was "Can i kiss you?"

SexyBoi420 on June 25, 2019:

If you like these questions, then you will LOVE the movie GORE-GASM

Timmy bod on June 04, 2019:

my name is Timmy bod and im very sexy

Friday on May 29, 2019:

My girlfriend tell me this is the first time we meet that we can not make Love

Scum Gang on May 22, 2019:

k, got pissed off at these. i ain’t even gonna be my boyfriends first apparently, greaaaaat.

Oh on May 22, 2019:

Duck face

Ur mom on May 10, 2019:

This is so corny

Idk on May 08, 2019:

We took the piss out of these

Ron on April 25, 2019:

My boyfriend loved this

B on April 21, 2019:

I know me and my boo loved these so much

Kassidi Christian krchris on April 11, 2019:

Nice it is very good

Hannah on April 08, 2019:

These were brilliant questions. I actually turned someone from asking these, she loved them. Now she doesn’t stop messaging me. Thanks again.

Hayley on March 28, 2019:

Me and My boyfriend had a lot of fun with this Q&A website

Lynn on March 19, 2019:

I wish I had sex he doesn’t like me anymore

Ricky ratardo on March 07, 2019:

My boyfriend broke up with me when I asked these

Ashley on February 14, 2019:

I’d totally recommend these questions. Me and my boyfriend had a blast. Believe it or not, they actually work!

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RhapsodyTheBlue on January 11, 2019:

I tend to cut to the chase. When I’m ready to be with a man, I’ll do something like come up behind him, wrap my arms around him, nibble his ear, and whisper, “You will never forget what’s about to happen.”

Sex is not a quiz. When you’re with the right person, you throw yourself into it with as much passion as you can muster. You’ll work out what you like eventually. Don’t try to draw a map beforehand. Just explore. Dive in, surrender to the lust, be as loud as you want, and take him inside without reservation.

Bryan J Greene from New York on December 25, 2018:


Bri on December 22, 2018:

I loved asking the guy I was talking to these questions. He answered them honestly and some of them turned me on. Honestly they really helped us understand each other about more!

Bob on December 20, 2018:

So much fun !!

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Irene Donald from Maryland, US. on December 13, 2018:

Good stuff.

Anna on December 13, 2018:

Awesome :-)

Elliot on November 18, 2018:

These are cringey yet sexy. 11/10

Ethan on November 09, 2018:


Not kenan on November 04, 2018:

did not get anything out of asking these questions, not recommended. 1/10, was funny.

Casey-n-Jason on October 19, 2018:

The questions are fun n exciting!! Had a blast!!

Prof vk jain on October 10, 2018:

Frivolous and also excellent

Baby girl on October 05, 2018:

This questions actually work :-):-)

Rish on October 05, 2018:


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Me on September 23, 2018:

My boyfriend and I are both gamers, and when we play against each other, the loser answers a question...

This was a fun round of questions and answers.

amor on September 22, 2018:


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Hacknety on August 07, 2018:

This is grateful

dwelly on August 03, 2018:

some of these questions are nice and some are boreding

Priyanka jackson on July 07, 2018:

Wow such a great questions after asking these questions to my boyfriend he will turn on to romantic mood !! This questions makes him to kiss me 20 times

vannah b. on June 30, 2018:

God damn his answers to these questions were both sweet and sexy. God he turns me on.

Elle on June 25, 2018:

These questions are perfect

21 savage on June 19, 2018:

Some of those questions are too... CRAZY for my chick to ask me

Lea on April 09, 2018:

I asked my boyfriend these and things happened after

Lulú on March 28, 2018:


Mckenzie on March 18, 2018:

I have a boyfriend and we haven’t even went on our first date or first kiss give me some questions that would make him love me and I’m only 12 and my mom doesn’t care if I date and I have never made him kiss me he said that I was cute really funny and he said that he likes me I wrote him this not and I’m going to give it to him on Saturday next Saturday and I have some questions to ask him about himself or about me and I’m going to see him next Saturday when I actually stay with my mom and not be with my dad on a Saturday cause I missed yesterday going mud riding and I didn’t get to see him but next Saturday I will be able to see hi and hopefully ask hi my questions for him and maybe have our first kiss on the lips and hug and hold hands in public in front of my parents and we’re not going to kiss in front of them cause my mom will make us break up and I’m sure he doesn’t want to break up so I’m going to try to keep him for as long as I can and try not to get another man cause I like my boy friend that I’m with

fuck me on February 09, 2018:

I love them

Samantha on February 03, 2018:

I really like that book you get for me I like it

Me???????!!!!! on January 27, 2018:

Um great conversation starter

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