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100+ Dirty Questions to Ask a Girl

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Get flirty (and a little dirty) with your girl by asking her these intimate questions!

Get flirty (and a little dirty) with your girl by asking her these intimate questions!

How to Flirt With Your Crush or New Girlfriend

Do you know that intense feeling you get inside when you’re dating someone new? It’s like every ounce of your being knows that you need to be with that person—right here, right now. Coming down with feelings for someone is a fun and wild experience and should be seized to the fullest!

Part of the fun of getting to know someone is flirting with them, whether it’s in an attempt to get to know them on a deeper level or to take things to the next level entirely. Here are some ways you might flirt:

  • Compliments: Girls love to be complimented! Not only does it make her feel good, but it lets her know that you might just be into her. (Score!)
  • Hints: Drop subtle hints here and there that you really like her! If she’s into you, she’ll make it obvious.
  • Subtle contact: When you like someone, it feels nice to make subtle contact with them—and if they like you back, it will be welcomed! Touch her hair and tell her how soft and pretty it is; gently touch her hand or even hold it.
  • Pickup lines: I'm the kind of girl who thinks a cheesy pick up line is cute and dorky. You know it's totally lame, but saying it anyway shows you have a great sense of humor—a turn-on for most girls!
  • Suggestive pictures: If it’s clear that she likes you, send her a picture of yourself without a shirt on after your workout. It’ll drive her wild!
  • Texting: When you’re not together or talking on the phone, sending a sweet text in the morning or at night is a good way to flirt. It also gives her something that she can go back to if she ever desires contact from you that she can’t have at the moment!

Intimate Questions to Ask a Girl

Flirting is a great way to get to know someone and their boundaries, and what better way than coming up with a few flirty and dirty questions to ask! A girl will usually take well to dirty questions if she feels comfortable enough with you, so be sure to test the waters with a few milder questions first. Once you can tell she is willing to play your game, get those butterflies flying and the temperature rising with these dirty questions to ask a girl!

How many times do you want me to kiss you there?

How many times do you want me to kiss you there?

Flirty Questions

These slightly suggestive questions are fun and flirty, and they're the ideal questions to ask a crush or a new girlfriend to see if there might be a little heat between the two of you!

  • What’s your favorite pair or underwear?
  • Where is your favorite spot to be kissed?
  • How do you feel about kissing in public?
  • What is one thing that gives you butterflies?
  • Would you hold my hand?
  • Would you let me hug you?
  • Would you let me kiss you?
  • Are you a snuggler?
  • Do you think about me when I’m away?
  • Have you ever tried to picture me naked?
  • What is the most exotic dream you’ve ever had?
  • What is the most exotic dream you’ve had about me?
  • What was your first impression of me?
  • Using three words, how do you feel about me?
  • If you were to give me a pet name, what would it be?
  • What are you doing later?
  • When did you first realize you liked me?
  • What is your favorite thing about when we’re together?
  • Have you been working out?
  • Can you tell me some reasons why I like you?
  • What do you expect most out of a relationship?
  • What would you do if I kissed you right now?
  • Who should make the first move in a relationship?
  • Would you ever go skinny dipping?
  • Would you like to go on a date with me?
  • Do you see me in your future?
  • How did you get so beautiful?
  • What is your guilty pleasure?
  • Have you ever flirted with a stranger online?
  • What is your favorite thing about me?
  • If I could take you on a date anywhere, where would you want to go?
  • Do you invite someone in on the first date?
  • Would you invite me in?
How long do you want me to tease you?

How long do you want me to tease you?

Dirty Questions to Turn You Both On

Ready to crank up the heat a notch? Fire off some of these questions to your girl! But beware: If you're not in a serious relationship, prepare for possible backfire!

  • Have you ever wanted to role-play?
  • Would you ever use bondage?
  • Where do you like to be touched?
  • Do you think lovemaking should happen anywhere, not just in a bed?
  • Are there any moves that you’ve never tried but always wanted to?
  • Do you like to mess around with extreme temperatures in bed, like ice or wax?
  • What kind of props do you like to use in the bedroom?
  • Where is the most adventurous place you have done it?
  • What are three places you’d do it outside of a home?
  • What is one outfit you’d like to see me in?
  • If I was a motorcycle, would you want to ride on the front or on the back?
  • Do you like having your hair pulled?
  • Do you like biting?
  • Do you like scratching?
  • Do you like to give or receive hickeys?
  • Do you like being teased?
  • What is your favorite thing about my body?
  • Have you ever peeped in on me changing?
  • Are you a virgin?
  • At what age did you lose your virginity?
  • How many people have you slept with?
  • (After asking previous question) Can I be one of them?
  • If I asked you to make a bedroom bucket list for me to fulfill, would you?
  • Do you have any secret fantasies?
  • What are some dreams you’ve had about me?
  • What underwear do you think I’m wearing right now?
  • Could you please lend a hand?
  • What is your favorite position?
  • What kinds of wild adventures would you like to take me on?
  • If we’re out shopping for clothes, would you sneak into a fitting room with me?
  • Have you ever done it in a public place?
  • Do you want to do it in a public place?
  • How do you want me?
  • Would it drive you wild if I whispered naughty things into your ear?
  • Would you flash me?
  • If I bought you lingerie, would you model it for me?
Would you rather have me obey your every word or have me tell you exactly what to do?

Would you rather have me obey your every word or have me tell you exactly what to do?

Naughty "Would You Rather" Questions for Your Girlfriend

  • Would you rather have food before fun or fun before food?
  • Would you rather possess good looks or intelligence?
  • Would you rather have a hot shower or a bubble bath?
  • Would you rather have a glass of wine or a six-pack of brews?
  • Would you rather wear classy lingerie or fuzzy, pink handcuffs and a blindfold?
  • Would you rather be in control or be controlled?
  • Would you rather join me in the shower or get me when I get out?
  • Would you rather have it ribbed or studded?
  • Would you rather go to my place or yours?
Which piece of clothing would you take off first? Which would you save for last?

Which piece of clothing would you take off first? Which would you save for last?

Intimate Questions for Texting

Want to let your girl know you're thinking about her when you're apart? Here are some dirty questions to text a girl! Don't forget to hit SEND!

  • Have you ever sent someone a naughty picture?
  • Would you ever send me a naughty picture?
  • Do you miss me right now?
  • What would you want to do if I was at your house right now?
  • Are you interested in Netflix and chill?
  • Is there anything you’re too nervous to tell me in person?
  • How do you feel about me?
  • Would you like to know how I feel about you?
  • Want to go out later?
  • Want to come over later?
  • Can you come over to cuddle?
  • If you came home to find me waiting for you naked, what would you say?
  • What would you want me to do to you right now if we were together?
  • Are you thinking about me?
  • What are you thinking about right now?
  • What do you daydream about?
  • What do you dream about?
  • If I was at your window right now, would you invite me in?
  • If you could kiss me goodnight every night, would you?
  • Say we have 20 minutes to spend together. What do we do?
  • You feel my hand going down your back. How do you react?
  • Do you want to see me without my shirt on?
  • If we could be together anywhere right now, where would it be?
  • Want to exchange pics?
  • What are you wearing right now?
  • What is one word that describes how you’re feeling right now?
  • If you come home stressed, what can I do to help you unwind?
  • Would you pick up the game Twister while you're out? And a bottle of baby oil?
  • What could I bring you that would make you especially grateful?
  • Am I going to get lucky later?
  • Can you send me a link to something sexy you would wear for me?

Enjoy a Sexy Question and Answer Game!

Now that you have some good ideas for dirty questions to ask a girl, it’s time to work your charm and get her to participate! Don’t forget to follow her answers up with your own answers if there’s the slightest hint that she is interested! If either of you need more inspiration for questions to ask, you can check out these dirty questions to ask a boy.

If you want to keep the naughty question game going, try some dirty Truth or Dare ideas or dirty "Never Have I Ever" questions, too!

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.