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How to Kiss Someone for the First Time

Updated on October 28, 2016
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Whether you are a boy or a girl, it's always a bit of a challenge to kiss someone for the first time, especially if it's your first time kissing anyone! This article will show you how to kiss and help you feel less scared about doing it for the first time.

You might be in one of the following situations:

  1. There's someone you really like and you're going to kiss soon. Maybe you've talked about it, you're planning something special, or you just feel like it could happen.
  2. There's someone you like and you hope to kiss them one day.
  3. You're just curious how it will work for when the time comes.

Steps to the First Kiss

Kissing isn't as hard as it seems. Most people think they don't know how, but it happens they're really good at it!

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Before: OMG Are We Going to Kiss!?

  1. Make sure you and your breath smells good. Shower and wear deodorant. Brush your teeth and tongue. Floss. Don't eat stinky foods (avoid spicy, onions, and garlic). Try smelling your breath.
  2. Drink water to keep your mouth moist and fresh. Feel free to pop in a mint or a piece of gum and then spit it out beforehand, but keep it discreet, or offer it to the other person too.
  3. Prep your lips. Kissable lips are smooth, not dry, and not coated with sticky lip gloss or tons of lipstick. If your lips are chapped, you can rub them with sugar to get some of the dry skin off.
  4. Think about where you might like to kiss. It should be private and somewhere or sometime where you won't have many distractions or be worried about other people. You'll want to keep as much focus on the other person as possible.
  5. Flirting by tickling, teasing, poking, or finding ways to touch their hand or arm can help show that you want to kiss. If you're sitting next to each other, move so your knees, legs, or arms are touching. Touch their arms or shoulders, or put a gentle hand on their thigh.
  6. Read the other person's body language. If they're touching you back, looking into your eyes, and smiling, then they probably want to kiss you too. If they're biting their lips or staring at yours, that's also a good sign they want to kiss.
  7. If you're ready to kiss, look deep into the other person's eyes. Focus on them. You might get a feeling in your stomach like, whoah we've been looking at each other for a while. This is the perfect time to kiss.
  8. If you're very shy, it's okay to ask if you can kiss someone. If they like you, they'll say yes. If not, they won't. If they like you but they're not ready, hopefully they'll say so.
  9. If someone asks you if you want to kiss, just respond truthfully.
  10. If you're staring into each others' eyes wondering why you're not kissing yet, you could say something like, "Shouldn't we be kissing now?" or "Don't you want to kiss me?"

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Just Before and During: You're Kissing!

  1. Move your face closer to theirs. You don't want to have to lunge for a kiss. If you're standing, stand close to them, so your toes are almost touching. If you're sitting, turn a little to face them and move your face closer to theirs or put your arm around them. If you're hugging, you could put your forehead on their forehead. Now your lips are even closer.
  2. When you're going in for the kiss, don't go all the way. Move about 90% and then let them come the rest. That way you know they want to kiss you too.
  3. If they're stiffening or pulling away, it's time to stop. It takes two to kiss, and if the other person isn't on board, then there's no kiss. Move back to flirting and maybe a kiss will happen later on.
  4. As you move your face towards theirs, tilt your head slightly to the right so you avoid knocking noses. If you do knock noses, though, just laugh it off and keep going for the kiss.
  5. Part your lips slightly, as if you were breathing through your mouth (but don't breathe through your mouth).
  6. If someone is moving in to kiss you, all you need to do is relax, tilt your head slightly to the right, keep your lips soft and slightly parted, close your eyes, and then meet their lips with yours.
  7. Aim for one lip (usually the lower one)—it feels better than both lips pressing each other.
  8. When you get there, close your eyes and gently brush their lips with yours and linger for a little bit. This is not the time to try to imitate the most passionate kiss you've seen from the movies. When in doubt, go even more gentle and short. Keep it simple. The first kiss shouldn't last longer than four or five seconds.
  9. Breathe through your nose.
  10. While kissing, you can hold their hand, put your hands around their waist in a slow dance position, gently cup or stroke their face, play with their hair, or put your hands around their neck. Other locations (you know where I'm talking about) can wait to be touched.
  11. If someone is kissing you harder than you'd like or with tongue when you don't want any, you should feel free to pull away and say, "I like it when you kiss me gently, like this."

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After: We Just Kissed!

  1. Afterwards, pull away and look into their eyes. You don't have to say anything right away. Smile or play with their hair. Maybe go in for another simple kiss, just like the previous one.
  2. If you do want to say something it could be something simple like, "I've been wanting to do that for a while," "You're great," "You're so beautiful / handsome / cute / pretty" or even just, "I like you."
  3. A hug is a great way to part ways, maybe with another gentle kiss, a kiss on the cheek, or saying when you'll see them or contact them next, something like "I'll see you tomorrow, right?" or "Want to hang out this weekend?"
  4. If the kiss was awkward, that's okay. It's rare you'll be great at something the first time you try it. If you really like each other, there's no reason you won't kiss many more times and get lots better at it.
  5. Be careful about who you tell about kissing. Make sure you're on the same page with the other person with how public you want to be. It's no fun to show up at school and find out that everyone knows. Be respectful of everyone's feelings.
  6. Also, remember that the first kiss is not about making out. It's about letting the other person know that you like them. Maybe in the future, you can go a little further with longer kisses, or even french kissing.

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Important Things to Remember for Your First Kiss

  • No matter how old you are, there are other people your age who have never kissed anyone before. It has nothing to do with looks. So don't feel like this is a now-or-never situation. You're going to have plenty more opportunities to kiss in your life.
  • First kisses are almost always awkward. Laughter and a good sense of humor will help make it a great experience for everyone. Remember the first time you tried to play a sport or an instrument? Kissing is a skill just like those things. You're not going to do it perfectly the first time.
  • If you're kissing someone who is more experienced than you, don't be embarrassed that you haven't kissed anyone before. It doesn't mean that something is wrong with you. Everyone starts out where you are. Remember that they're excited to kiss you too!
  • You should only kiss someone because you want to. Don't do it if you feel like you need to kiss someone or it's never going to happen, because someone really wants to kiss you, or because you think you should want to kiss someone.
  • If you're in a situation where you feel pressure to do anything you don't want to, that's a sign that it isn't right. You can tell the other person that it just doesn't feel right, and they should be understanding. If they're not, then that's an even bigger sign that they're not right for you.
  • Remember to breathe. Often when we're nervous, we kind of hold our breath. Taking a few deep breaths will help you relax and enjoy.
  • Your first kiss does not determine your kissing future. If it's bad, that's okay. You'll get better with practice. If you get rejected, that's okay too. You'll find someone who wants to kiss you.
  • Sometimes first kisses are special, and sometimes they're not. Don't feel like this has to be the best moment ever.

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General Kissing Advice

  • A first kiss should always be spontaneous, soft, slow, and not messy at all!
  • If your partner kisses you first, you might open your lips a little, but no french kissing. It would ruin a first kiss and be sloppy. The idea is to press your lips up against your partner's but not too much. Make sure your position is comfortable too, so you're not in pain while kissing.
  • Another good way to kiss your partner is to start by kissing him or her softly on the cheek—then when when he or she looks at you, you can kiss him or her softly on the lips.
  • Remember, a first kiss might go most smoothly while you two are alone. Things might not be so good when friends—or jealous exes—are watching.
  • Make sure the person you want to kiss wants to kiss you back. This is the most important thing.
  • Talking about a first kiss before it happens can be sweet but is also dangerous. It may cause you or your special someone to worry, and in the end, it may come out way too rehearsed—it's more romantic to be spontaneous.
  • Just remember, if the person likes you, they'll understand starting out slowly is better.

What If Someone Wants to Kiss You But You Don't Want to Kiss Them

You might not want to kiss someone because you don't like them, or because you don't feel ready.

  • If you don't like them and don't want to kiss them, tell them "No, thank you" or "This doesn't feel right" or "I don't want to do this."
  • If you like them but don't feel ready, tell them that. Say, "I really like you but I'm not ready to kiss yet. I know you'll be understanding and it will be so much better when I feel ready."

What If You Want to Kiss Someone but They Don't Want to Kiss You

They might not want to kiss you because either they don't feel attracted to you, or they're nervous.

  • If they don't feel attracted to you, there's not much you can do. Respect their wishes and know that there are many people who will find you very attractive. As a precaution, check to make sure you smell good, that your breath is good, and that your lips are kissable. Some of these might be causing a little hesitation on their part. If they're still not attracted, then move on.
  • If they're nervous but say that they like you, respect that they're not ready. You might tell them that you'd like to kiss them but that you'll wait until they're ready. This will give them the space they need and will help make your first kiss even better.
  • Never try to kiss someone who tells you that they don't want you to. You should only kiss someone who really wants to kiss you back.

What If You Kiss Someone and It's Bad

No one does anything perfectly the first time. Tons of things can go wrong in your first kiss. It's best to have a sense of humor about it and laugh it off. It's not the end of the world, and you're not doomed to a lifetime of bad kissing.

  • Maybe they weren't ready, or you weren't ready so it just felt weird.
  • Maybe you were so nervous you couldn't focus on them or the kiss.
  • Maybe someone's breath or body stank.
  • Maybe you knocked teeth, or there was a ton of tongue and it was really sloppy.

All of these will probably happen to you at some point, and most of them can be solved with practice and hygiene.

It's important to remember that kissing is about the other person. Imagine how what you're doing might feel on their body. Tell your kissing partner what you like and they'll reciprocate—communication is the best way to make sure everyone is having fun.

Kissing Tricks and Tips

Tips:

  1. It helps if you know the person you're kissing well.
  2. Try to seem confident, but if you can't, it's fine to look shy or nervous. (Most likely he or she will find it cute! <3)
  3. Don't talk about kissing too much around your special someone—they might think you are trying to force it on them.

Tricks:

  1. On a first kiss, it's ok to slightly suck your partner's upper or lower lip. (For both guys and girls.)
  2. Even if you're not Frenching, you can use your tongue a little. The key word here is "a little!" Less is more.

Have Fun With It! And . . . .

Keep It Private

This goes for the setting! A first kiss is a private affair, and it should happen in a private setting. Don't waste this special moment in front of an audience. Instead, find someplace secluded and quiet so that you both can concentrate on each other. While you are concentrating, remember that no loud theatrics are needed, so keep yourself quiet and controlled as well.

Keep It Short and Sweet

A first kiss should always feel like a preview of more kisses to come. Don't let a first kiss last for hours, and don't attempt to pack all of your feelings into one long-lasting kiss. Instead, keep it short and sweet, and you partner will be dying for more.

Keep It Comfortable

In films, it may seem like a first kiss always follows a monumental announcement of love and a long period of staring into each other's eyes. In real life, the same behavior would be totally embarrassing. If you suspect a first kiss is looming, keep it comfortable and don't allow any grand gestures to get in the way.

Keep It Clean

No, this doesn't mean French kissing is barred. It means that you should both have clean teeth, breath, and lips for a great first kiss. Brush your teeth before your date, and chew a breath mint or flavoured gum after you eat. Apply lip balm, and you should be all set. Just don't continue to chew on mints or gum longer than necessary because you certainly don't want any obstacles in your mouth during your first kiss.

Keep It Choreographed

When couples have been together for a while, their kissing becomes choreographed. Heads both tilt right, eyes close, lips open, and the kiss is successful. For a first kiss, these variables are all up in the air, and it can be hard to figure out what you should be doing when.

Take your cue from whichever partner initiates the kiss. If you are going in for the kill, tilt your head to one side. If you realise your partner is starting things off, note which way his or her head is tilting, and tilt your head the opposite direction. Close your eyes during every first kiss, and decide in advance whether you are willing to open your mouth or not. Then stop thinking and enjoy it!

First kisses are exciting. Whether it is your first kiss ever or your first kiss with a new partner, there are bound to be butterflies in your stomach and fireworks in your head. Keeping your first kiss short and sweet will make your partner beg for more, and if you play your cards right, that is exactly what you both will get.

Enjoy your first kiss. You only get one, and even if it was bad, it doesn't matter because it was with someone special.

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      sylvia 8 days ago

      Last week was i and my boyfriend first kiss you will be surprised to hear i bit him but after reading this i am going to practise it

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      Bobby  2 weeks ago

      This was helpful thanks

      We've been wanting to kiss but we're both to scared to, but thanks for all the advice on this kissing thing.

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      Girly Em 2 weeks ago

      Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 months. We've held hands, he's put his arm around me, kissed my forehead and other basic things you'd expect the average teenager to do. The last time we went to the movies alone together, close to the end, he put his head down next to mine and our lips ended up touching. I didn't know what to do, so I just opened my lips and kissed him once like i had always seen. It was simple, and afterwards he said it was perfect and he wanted me to kiss him again. But in the moment, i was so scared that i was going to kiss him that i ended up stopping. Weve hung out, but not really hung out one on one since then, and it's been about 2 weeks. I mean, he'll wrap his leg around mine and that sort of physical stuff, but haven't kissed again. And I'm dying to kiss him because i know I'll be ready this time. And advice on anything (at all) that could help my situation at all would be greatly appreciated. Thanks:)

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      Amy 2 months ago

      i am surposed to be having my frist kiss tomz and i am really scared this has helped a little bit thx u

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      cindyyy 2 months ago

      Well today I'm hanging out with this guy that I rlly like and he likes me too, but we're not dating "yet" so idk if I should kiss him now. We talked about it but as a joke, but I rlly want to kiss him. Since I didn't have much confidence I went here and thank you for the advice and it made me less scared!

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      Alivia 2 months ago

      My told my crush I liked him while we were watching a movie and he said he's liked me since he met me then asked if we could kiss. I said sure but when we got to a room by ourselves I just left, I guess I was scared but I really did want to kiss him. This helped a lot thank you

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      Liv 3 months ago

      Thanks so much!!! I'm a very shy person and you made me feel a little better!!

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      skylar 3 months ago

      I'm bout to go on our date next weekn I think and I honestly don't know what to do even tho these tips are really helpful but I'm sill worried cause like what if I mess it up or I leave the kiss too early idk... but this article made me feel less nervous cause like now I no what and what not to do and thx soo much!!!!

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      yay 3 months ago

      me and my girlfriend have no idea how to kiss. i'm still super confused. (girlfriends/couple goals right?(i'm jk neither of us get this kissing sorcery and kind of laughed off our fail of a first kiss))

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      Abby 3 months ago

      I'm 10 and my boyfriend asked me if I wanted to kiss so I said yes. But we're doing it in school outside in recess. We're gonna kiss on the first Friday of school. I'm so nervous. But this helped me a lot.

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      NA 3 months ago

      my boyfriend is planing to kiss me on the first day of school, and im want to kiss him too, but it would be my first time, and i am a VERY shy person, but thanks to this artical i feel a little better about it :)

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      Mhaban 4 months ago

      I think I am ready to be a kisser

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      Chase 4 months ago

      I I am a eight and a half and I have a crush on someone and I don't know if I can kiss her but it's too late now.

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      Dr.Potato 4 months ago

      I have been dating this guy for about 2 weeks. He has held my hand about 2 times now,but...he said to his friend he is going to kiss me tomorrow! My class is going to a park for the whole day and he is in my class! But I don't know what to do?!? I have NEVER kissed a boy before, so if he does kiss me it will be my first kiss.

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      To Venus 4 months ago

      I know this is late af, but your comment got my attention.

      If you ain't comfortable, don't do it! I mean, if you aint dtfk (down to french kiss) don't do it. Some dudes out there are just in it for the physical action, so I'd tell him you're not comfortable. Real gentlemen would understand and put you first.

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      To Me 4 months ago

      I know this is a bit late, but as a guy I personally think that it really depends on you and him. If you feel awkward and nervous just take time and wait for the perfect moment, because there's no way you can take that kiss back. If you feel it's ready, go for it. If not, pace yourself. If the guy wants to kiss so badly, he may not really be the guy after all.

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      Me 5 months ago

      How soon is too soon we've date don't only a month and he asked if he can Kiss tomorrow... I'm so nervous and I don't want the awkwardness and there is no way it will be private at school

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      Help me please 5 months ago

      Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about two weeks and he hasn't held my hand or even tried to hug me or anything and I'm too scared too should I be worried?

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      petty or just plain sad 5 months ago

      Thanks but I am not looking to get in bed I just want a kiss.... maybe because I have never been kissed before... and because I like him and have for two years and we are great friends... it might make things weird and I like him to much to let him go... but the things is I always catch him staring at me and the last time I saw him he was asking if I was gonna be at this event that is happening tonight and then I asked and he was like... " yeah why do you ask '' and then he smiled sooooo pray for me guys.... I need all the help I can get

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      unanimous 5 months ago

      omg thank you, me and my bf have been dating for five months now but have never kissed. we both still haven't our first kiss yet. however, there is a dance coming up that we are going to together, i might try and pull something there's but i don't know. anyways it's always good to be prepared.

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      Quan boy 5 months ago

      Thanks it helped me alot

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      Daisey 5 months ago

      Thanks I am all prepared for tomorrow. I have been dating Ethan for almost three months and we talk about kissing and people force us. But I was always soooooo scared. I feel ready now. Thank you for telling me what to do during before after.

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      Someone 5 months ago

      Thanks it helped me

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      Person 5 months ago

      Thanx this helped me so much

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      stevie 5 months ago

      thank you so much this helped me so much me and my boyfriend planned it but i still feel like he is going to give me a sneaky kiss and i just need to know how to prepare

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      Laurie 6 months ago

      thank you for your help I have a better Idea on how to kiss my girlfriend I hope this will make me a great kisser

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      kelvin havor 6 months ago

      when i see her i get very closer and when i am about to kiss her,instantly something goes wrong.

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      Honor Morton 6 months ago

      thanks for all of the help, but when i get close to him i start to tremble and get scard we have put our heads together,and that at as far as close as it will get,he has gave me singes the last pass two weeks and i am moving schools, and we have been dating cence C 7th,on my B day, and we haven't kissed yet, i will miss him soo much. i am 11 and i have kissed someone before but when i am with him i don't know why but i get tarifyed

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      imgay 6 months ago

      thanks for the advice! i now have a better idea on how to kiss my boyfriend. btw i am a guy lmao. im also 14.

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      Nobody 6 months ago

      I'm 14 and me and my girlfriend got together about a week ago. she said that anything can happen at anytime and when i asked her what she meant and she said i could kiss her! Im really nervous though because it would be my first kiss and she has kissed other people before. We also live a bit apart and i only see her in school so i have no where to do it in private. My friends pressure me to "grow a set" and do it but i just don't know how. Plz help

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      Emily 6 months ago

      Hi, I'm 13 and me and my boyfriend had been wanting to kiss. We both know it's both of our first time. We are shy and don't quite know what to do. We had only been dating for 3 weeks but known each other for 2 years (almost 3). We talked and I sounded like I wanted him to do it. I would really like to surprise him and do it, but I'm really busy and have overprotective parents. I don't have any Idea on what to do or how to prepare for it. What kind of lip stuff? How long do I wait? What do I do to hydrate my lips? Do I take a shower and wash my hair? What do I where? These are inly a couple if questions I have. Can anyone be helpful and help me?

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      Savage 6 months ago

      I'm 14 years old and I really like this guy and we just started dating about a week ago and he said he wants to kiss me and I'm scared he is going to try to next time I see him (in like 2 days) but he has kissed many other girls before and I have never kissed any guy before but ya I really want to kiss him but I'm just really Nervouse somebody please help!

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      Megan 6 months ago

      My boyfriend asked if it would be ok to kiss me. I want to kiss him, but I'm scared to. How can I explain this to him?

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      Mike 7 months ago

      Venus, be honest. Just tell him that you don't like the idea of it. If he isn't accepting of that he's not worthy of you.

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      Venus 7 months ago

      My boyfriend says we should start french kissing but I don't like the idea of French kisses can anyone help?!

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      Johnno 7 months ago

      Meet*

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      Johnno 7 months ago

      This girl who is like the hottest girl in all of junior high school sits next to me and is flirting with me constantly and a lot of people have been saying she's gonna ask me out. She's way more experienced than me and has had a fair share of boyfriends. I want to be able to kiss her but I'm not really comfortable with doing it in front of ppl at school. She lives AGES away from me and I don't know how to see her out of school. I want to kiss her when the time is right but I'm so worried and I don't know how I can really eat her. I just hope I don't fuck this up.

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      Francesca 7 months ago

      I'm really scared. Can anyone help? I'm in Year 9 and I've known my boyfriend since year 7. He asked me out at the beginning of this week and obviously I said yes! We've hugged before and all my friends have asked him to kiss me. They asked him to kiss me on Friday and he said "maybe on Monday ". The problem is that I don't want to kiss him in front of anyone, I've told him that I will only kiss him if we're alone. But I'm still terrified! Someone? Anyone? Help me please!!!

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      Somebody 7 months ago

      I feel really bad because I read this article a little too late (I wanted to kiss her but I didn't know how). My girlfriend broke up with me a while ago.

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      Brieann 8 months ago

      Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months we have a date today. My friend asked him to kiss me he said yes but he also said that he's to chicken to. What should I do

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      balls889 9 months ago

      i've dated my boyfriend for a year. he doesn't live here & he's never kissed someone. what do i do

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      Viktuuri 9 months ago

      Hey

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      ????? 9 months ago

      I got asked out and said maybe and now I think if I say yes he is going to try to kiss me and if you new him you would too. What do I do?

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      ❤️ 10 months ago

      I'm 9 I have a girlfriend and I want to kiss her but how

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      FANCY 10 months ago

      OK WELL I LIKE THIS GUY AND HE WANTS TO KISS BUT IM SCARED TO KISS HIM

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      Smiley 11 months ago

      So, me and my boyfriend have been dating for like 2 days and he already wants to kiss, like really bad! I dont know what to do! He texts me and says that if he kissed me, would i kiss him back, how am i supposed to answer that?! I have never kissed anyone. What should i do?!?!

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      Evelyn 11 months ago

      Well I think this will help me to be a great kisser

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      anne 11 months ago

      this website was so helpful now i know what to do when we kiss for the first time

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      Chesnee 12 months ago

      I had my first kiss today and he said that I kiss weird and I just laughed it off. But what do I do for the next time? I mean this sounds helpful but Idk. I think he'll try again. Help? And I'm 15

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      cool_teen 12 months ago

      I'm 12 and I like this guy since last year

      and now he finally asked me out and I said yes

      but now I never kissed someone before and I'm so afraid and I just hide from him at school

      but I love him what should I do

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      Highschool senior 12 months ago

      All of these 12 year olds talking about their relationships and kisses are making me feel even worse about being 17 and never kissed anyone or been kissed lol

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      .... 14 months ago

      I really want to kiss my Bae but I'm too scared and I doubt he will make the move! I plan on doing it as a surprise next time I see him in like a week or two. But I am so afraid that he will be like " What are you doing! " I am so worried bit I am going to message him saying that I want to do it! We haven't even held hands or hugged! Wish me luck!!!! *~*

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      Jazmine martinez 15 months ago

      I live a guy I'm 12 and he is 12 too we really wanna have our first kiss we talked about it and we disided to try it today We are so exited hope it's fun thanks for this artical it was helpful

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      kiss sweet hearts 15 months ago

      I kissed lots of boys when I was 10 but now I'm 12 I really want to kiss this guy, but he lives in Bruxelles MB and I live live in Holland MB.

      what do can I do?

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      Lungelo 23 months ago

      Wow! Incredible advice i tried it and it worked with fire works!!!!!!

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      Matt 2 years ago

      i had my first kiss today. Definitely pretty awkward. Didn't know what to do so I just leaned over and kissed her but it was more of me putting my face against hers not really a kiss. Our lips touched. I wouldn't mind really kissing her. Like French.

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      I ❤ Lane 2 years ago

      This has made me feel less anxious about not having had my first kiss yet

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      I ❤ Lane 2 years ago

      Okay so im 12 and ive liked this guy since first grade and ive went out with him before but broke up bc i got nervous (not allowed to date) but i still like him he flirts with me a lot like A lot hes older than me but in a lower grade and wont go to the same school until next year ive went over the situation a million timesand he is single right now what made me start thinking about this is my best friend had her first kiss on friday and it just makes me think bc i really want him to be my first kiss and i know he has kissed his other girlfriends and i think he is warming back up to me. if we ride fourwheelers he drives i ride its just the way he lets me hug him and hold on tight and lay on his back and if i drive or someone else he leans all over me AND I JUST REALLY REALLY LIKE HIM I THINK I MIGHT EVEN BE IN LOVE but if he isn't my first kiss

      THIS MADE ME MORE CONFIDENT ABOUT IT

      THANKS ALOT

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      Chhunna&Josh 2 years ago

      So I had my first kiss today ! :D I was confident and it wasn't regretful xD we kissed each other 3 more times today :3 it was a 2 second kiss but it was worth it :3 I can tell he really likes me because he keeps on kissing me every time we hugged xD !! Thanks for the advice again !!

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      Chhunna&Josh 2 years ago

      Thanks for the advice !!! I'm 17 and a 11th grader and haven't had my first kiss before :( the guy I'm "getting to know" but not officially dating yet is 16 and a 10th grader. He's 6 foot (im 5 foot) he's white(im Asian) he's athletic and he does gymnastics and has a 6 pack abs with a v-line xD I'm chubby-ish and I'm not as cute as him. Yesterday, which is December 10, 2014 ; I kissed him on the cheek and I found it embarassing because I forcibly pulled his neck to kiss him and I kissed him with the side of my lip(I regretted it so much ! ) but he liked it and told me that today, December 11, he's gonna kiss me ! On the lips this time ! And it's going to e my first. This article gave me some confidence xD and yes i will use some breath mints and my minty chapstick :) btw should it be a quick kiss or a long-ish kiss ? And is it like a peck on the lips or smoochy ?? Thanks ! :)

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      Naruto 3 years ago

      Lol she just asked me out:-0 GOD im to nervous and scared wat should i do omg omg omg!!!! Were gonna have one today at 10

      So nervous :3

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      Naruto 3 years ago

      Lol im just 15 and still stuck.and i dont even know my crush,plz help

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      cece 3 years ago

      I don't know what to do pls hlp.14 yrs old.

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      SoNervous 3 years ago

      *Idk what to do. Sorry stupid auto correct.

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      SoNervous 3 years ago

      I'm 13 and am a freshman. I have known my crush since the fourth grade and on Friday he's staying the night with me. I really like him, I think he likes me to. If I what to do. Please help! Today is the 24th of July.

      Email:nicimoop@gmail.com

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      JoJo xoxo 3 years ago

      im 12 and never kissed any1 ever my bf said he is gonnna kiss me soon n im soooo ready to kiss him but I didn't really know how but this really helped! weve been dating for 6 months n im so excited wish me luck. xoxo

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      kolkol 3 years ago

      I'm 13 and I have been dating this boy for 3 months and he started talking about kissing but I've never kissed anyone and I'm very shy....anyways I was Going to wait for a little while cuz he told me I could kiss him anytime I saw him so I was thinking about doing that the next time I see him but Im scared to make the first move (I have been reading this hub since me and him have been dating and I noticed a few things in common like "holding hands, hug and slight touching) he does all of those to me but I want to know how I know that he is ready for kissing

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      advice giver 3 years ago

      Yo coco loco if you want to know if he likes you then just ask him out and take things slow and if he doesn't like you then you know and you ccan move on instead of wasting your time on somone who dosnt like you trust me i know and it sucks so just go for it your perfect guy is out their somewere

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      coco loco 3 years ago

      Hey everyone I don't have a boyfriend but I've got my eye on someone who is cute funny outgoing etc but I'm trying to say we are good friends but he's best friends with my brother and I think I'm in love with him the reason is I feel like making the first move but I'm to scared he might push me aside cause I think he likes someone else and someone asked him out just yesterday at school and was like no way thank god

      Can u guys help

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      Merp 3 years ago

      O gosh thankies!!! Im gonna kiss him tommorow

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      Barbie 3 years ago

      I 12 and I really like this guy that I've been dating and today he told me that he wants to kiss me at the school dance and Friday and I'm really scared. I told home that I'm not nervous but I really am... Help!

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      ILoveHim 3 years ago

      I want to kiss him soo bad! But.... I'm very nervous D: I've never kissed before and idk how v.v hopefully everything goes well :) love him to death ;*

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      Vaibhima 3 years ago

      I luv my JaAnn

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      Cali 3 years ago

      Wow I was nervous about my first kiss but now I'm not. Thanks

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      FEARLESS McGeba 3 years ago

      hi , I am 18 yrs , I had a gf bt w hv evr kissed, so few weeks to come I will hv to kiss her, pls heldp me out on whr and hw to stsart cz am scared to make flobs,It would b my first kiss bt am rlly shy....plz help

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      Anonymous 3 years ago

      Im 13 And This Sounds Like A Very Good Explination I Feel Much More Confident Now Thankyou So Much ;) x

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      hi 3 years ago

      I am 12 this boy won't to kiss me at school and he has a gf though but is not me and I have never kissed before and the the e'er is a lot of snitch at my school

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      hi 3 years ago

      I had mine today with my bf and it was awesome

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      Bob 3 years ago

      We did one today as well

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      Meagan 3 years ago

      I have never had my first kiss but I think my bf is going to kiss me over the weekend!!! I really want him to and i am super nervous this blog gave me so much more confidence THANK YOU!!!! He has only kisses me on the cheek at a track meet:)

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      Hi hdjd 3 years ago

      Calm down there EPICNESS seriously ur probs jealous of them

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      EPICNESS 3 years ago

      I'm a foreigner as well MR_MASTERS, and I TOTALLY agree with you.

      I am 13 years old myself, but I don't understand that 10, 11, 12, and 13 year old kids want to go kiss the person they like, or their ''girlfriend/boyfriend''.

      honestly, I think that a boyfriend/girlfriend at that age is a status thing.

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      swaganator 3 years ago

      F**k this dont be scared just let it flow natrually. I am a little young but I have a girlfriend and. you just have to let it go an just feel it. or move on to another man.

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      F**k this 3 years ago

      I going to have my first kiss 3/20/14

      I'm nervous the guy I'm dating has kissed a lot of girls and he is a bad boy so he will probably try to French kiss me and I'm scared but I really like him

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      alex Burch 3 years ago

      I really like sam pesley hes cute I go out with him after the summer want be his girlfriend

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      LovePie 3 years ago

      I loved my first kiss it was great. it wasn't too soft or too sloppy

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      Mickey 3 years ago

      What if kids started dating and somebody is cheating on your friend?!?!

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      Mickey 3 years ago

      I don't have a bf but I am really nervous cause this one kid likes me a lot and I sit next To him???

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      trey 3 years ago

      Im 12 and my new girlfriend is gonna kiss me tonight.......its gonna be my first......I dont know what to do

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      person 3 years ago

      started goin out with this amasing girl a few weeks ago but i not sure if i should make the first move somebody pleas give me advice in the following comments after this one

      PS: DJ PON-3 is boss;) if u know what that is u deserv a cookie

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      3 years ago

      I think that the 1st kiss is better when you don't plan it and it joust comes out naturally

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      Riley 3 years ago

      I'm 13 and I sit next to this girl I'm in love with in every class and we've been holding hands in class for about 2 weeks now and I know she likes me

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      NCAMSILE 3 years ago

      Great!! its help

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      Trent 3 years ago

      Im in 7th grade an my frist kiss was n kindergarden it was a fail the teacher seen it and everthing (EMBERISMENT)

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      olivia 3 years ago

      I'm 16 and i love this boy soooooooooo we are going out. we are in a serios relationship but how do i kiss him i also want to have sex

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      Olly 3 years ago

      Cheers this really helps! I'm only 12 but I'm in a serious relationship with someone I really like and I'm meeting her on Friday so that we can kiss even though I'm quite confident in myself this seems like such a nervous and big step but these tips are really helpful. Wish me luck !,!

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      Danny 3 years ago

      Thank u. Im 13 andI was doing a lot of thinking of how to have my first kiss with my gf. I kept thinking I would mess it up. But now I feel confident and hopefully it won't go wrong. Wish me luck...

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      LORD OF AWKWARD 3 years ago

      yep,this post is amazing!im thinking about kissing this girl that I like and sking her out at the same time in 11 days for valentines day.its 2/1/14 but im only seeing her on the Wednesday before V-day.im nervous,but I think I can pull it off

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      IM SO UPSET! 3 years ago

      I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN 'scared and nervous'!! Me and my bf have been dating for a while now and he's gotten me like small gifts and stuff but we barely ever hang out so what's the point of even dating? I feel like I should replay him somehow, but I don't know how! Sometimes I just wanna go up to him and peck him on the cheek but I always get so nervous and chicken out!! Grrr… But the only place we could kiss would be at school but my mom is a teacher their and once again GRRRRRRR!!!!

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      scared amd nervous 3 years ago

      15 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for 1 month.. it's mostly been on facebook. I barely see him in school. We don't hang out. And yeah. It's because I'm super shy and awkward. He keeps telling me he wants to kiss me and stuff. And I'm freaking terrified. Tomorrow I'm gonna attempt to see him after school. I seriously want to kiss him. But I don't.. being a teen sucks.XD