How to Kiss Someone for the First Time


Whether you are a boy or a girl, it's always a bit of a challenge to kiss someone for the first time, especially if it's your first time kissing anyone! This article will show you how to kiss and help you feel less scared about doing it for the first time.

You might be in one of the following situations:

  1. There's someone you really like and you're going to kiss soon. Maybe you've talked about it, you're planning something special, or you just feel like it could happen.
  2. There's someone you like and you hope to kiss them one day.
  3. You're just curious how it will work for when the time comes.

Steps to the First Kiss

Kissing isn't as hard as it seems. Most people think they don't know how, but it happens they're really good at it!

Before: OMG Are We Going to Kiss!?

  1. Make sure you and your breath smells good. Shower and wear deodorant. Brush your teeth and tongue. Floss. Don't eat stinky foods (avoid spicy, onions, and garlic). Try smelling your breath.
  2. Drink water to keep your mouth moist and fresh. Feel free to pop in a mint or a piece of gum and then spit it out beforehand, but keep it discreet, or offer it to the other person too.
  3. Prep your lips. Kissable lips are smooth, not dry, and not coated with sticky lip gloss or tons of lipstick. If your lips are chapped, you can rub them with sugar to get some of the dry skin off.
  4. Think about where you might like to kiss. It should be private and somewhere or sometime where you won't have many distractions or be worried about other people. You'll want to keep as much focus on the other person as possible.
  5. Flirting by tickling, teasing, poking, or finding ways to touch their hand or arm can help show that you want to kiss. If you're sitting next to each other, move so your knees, legs, or arms are touching. Touch their arms or shoulders, or put a gentle hand on their thigh.
  6. Read the other person's body language. If they're touching you back, looking into your eyes, and smiling, then they probably want to kiss you too. If they're biting their lips or staring at yours, that's also a good sign they want to kiss.
  7. If you're ready to kiss, look deep into the other person's eyes. Focus on them. You might get a feeling in your stomach like, whoah we've been looking at each other for a while. This is the perfect time to kiss.
  8. If you're very shy, it's okay to ask if you can kiss someone. If they like you, they'll say yes. If not, they won't. If they like you but they're not ready, hopefully they'll say so.
  9. If someone asks you if you want to kiss, just respond truthfully.
  10. If you're staring into each others' eyes wondering why you're not kissing yet, you could say something like, "Shouldn't we be kissing now?" or "Don't you want to kiss me?"

Just Before and During: You're Kissing!

  1. Move your face closer to theirs. You don't want to have to lunge for a kiss. If you're standing, stand close to them, so your toes are almost touching. If you're sitting, turn a little to face them and move your face closer to theirs or put your arm around them. If you're hugging, you could put your forehead on their forehead. Now your lips are even closer.
  2. When you're going in for the kiss, don't go all the way. Move about 90% and then let them come the rest. That way you know they want to kiss you too.
  3. If they're stiffening or pulling away, it's time to stop. It takes two to kiss, and if the other person isn't on board, then there's no kiss. Move back to flirting and maybe a kiss will happen later on.
  4. As you move your face towards theirs, tilt your head slightly to the right so you avoid knocking noses. If you do knock noses, though, just laugh it off and keep going for the kiss.
  5. Part your lips slightly, as if you were breathing through your mouth (but don't breathe through your mouth).
  6. If someone is moving in to kiss you, all you need to do is relax, tilt your head slightly to the right, keep your lips soft and slightly parted, close your eyes, and then meet their lips with yours.
  7. Aim for one lip (usually the lower one)—it feels better than both lips pressing each other.
  8. When you get there, close your eyes and gently brush their lips with yours and linger for a little bit. This is not the time to try to imitate the most passionate kiss you've seen from the movies. When in doubt, go even more gentle and short. Keep it simple. The first kiss shouldn't last longer than four or five seconds.
  9. Breathe through your nose.
  10. While kissing, you can hold their hand, put your hands around their waist in a slow dance position, gently cup or stroke their face, play with their hair, or put your hands around their neck. Other locations (you know where I'm talking about) can wait to be touched.
  11. If someone is kissing you harder than you'd like or with tongue when you don't want any, you should feel free to pull away and say, "I like it when you kiss me gently, like this."

After: We Just Kissed!

  1. Afterwards, pull away and look into their eyes. You don't have to say anything right away. Smile or play with their hair. Maybe go in for another simple kiss, just like the previous one.
  2. If you do want to say something it could be something simple like, "I've been wanting to do that for a while," "You're great," "You're so beautiful / handsome / cute / pretty" or even just, "I like you."
  3. A hug is a great way to part ways, maybe with another gentle kiss, a kiss on the cheek, or saying when you'll see them or contact them next, something like "I'll see you tomorrow, right?" or "Want to hang out this weekend?"
  4. If the kiss was awkward, that's okay. It's rare you'll be great at something the first time you try it. If you really like each other, there's no reason you won't kiss many more times and get lots better at it.
  5. Be careful about who you tell about kissing. Make sure you're on the same page with the other person with how public you want to be. It's no fun to show up at school and find out that everyone knows. Be respectful of everyone's feelings.
  6. Also, remember that the first kiss is not about making out. It's about letting the other person know that you like them. Maybe in the future, you can go a little further with longer kisses, or even french kissing.

Important Things to Remember for Your First Kiss

  • No matter how old you are, there are other people your age who have never kissed anyone before. It has nothing to do with looks. So don't feel like this is a now-or-never situation. You're going to have plenty more opportunities to kiss in your life.
  • First kisses are almost always awkward. Laughter and a good sense of humor will help make it a great experience for everyone. Remember the first time you tried to play a sport or an instrument? Kissing is a skill just like those things. You're not going to do it perfectly the first time.
  • If you're kissing someone who is more experienced than you, don't be embarrassed that you haven't kissed anyone before. It doesn't mean that something is wrong with you. Everyone starts out where you are. Remember that they're excited to kiss you too!
  • You should only kiss someone because you want to. Don't do it if you feel like you need to kiss someone or it's never going to happen, because someone really wants to kiss you, or because you think you should want to kiss someone.
  • If you're in a situation where you feel pressure to do anything you don't want to, that's a sign that it isn't right. You can tell the other person that it just doesn't feel right, and they should be understanding. If they're not, then that's an even bigger sign that they're not right for you.
  • Remember to breathe. Often when we're nervous, we kind of hold our breath. Taking a few deep breaths will help you relax and enjoy.
  • Your first kiss does not determine your kissing future. If it's bad, that's okay. You'll get better with practice. If you get rejected, that's okay too. You'll find someone who wants to kiss you.
  • Sometimes first kisses are special, and sometimes they're not. Don't feel like this has to be the best moment ever.

General Kissing Advice

  • A first kiss should always be spontaneous, soft, slow, and not messy at all!
  • If your partner kisses you first, you might open your lips a little, but no french kissing. It would ruin a first kiss and be sloppy. The idea is to press your lips up against your partner's but not too much. Make sure your position is comfortable too, so you're not in pain while kissing.
  • Another good way to kiss your partner is to start by kissing him or her softly on the cheek—then when when he or she looks at you, you can kiss him or her softly on the lips.
  • Remember, a first kiss might go most smoothly while you two are alone. Things might not be so good when friends—or jealous exes—are watching.
  • Make sure the person you want to kiss wants to kiss you back. This is the most important thing.
  • Talking about a first kiss before it happens can be sweet but is also dangerous. It may cause you or your special someone to worry, and in the end, it may come out way too rehearsed—it's more romantic to be spontaneous.
  • Just remember, if the person likes you, they'll understand starting out slowly is better.

What If Someone Wants to Kiss You But You Don't Want to Kiss Them

You might not want to kiss someone because you don't like them, or because you don't feel ready.

  • If you don't like them and don't want to kiss them, tell them "No, thank you" or "This doesn't feel right" or "I don't want to do this."
  • If you like them but don't feel ready, tell them that. Say, "I really like you but I'm not ready to kiss yet. I know you'll be understanding and it will be so much better when I feel ready."

What If You Want to Kiss Someone but They Don't Want to Kiss You

They might not want to kiss you because either they don't feel attracted to you, or they're nervous.

  • If they don't feel attracted to you, there's not much you can do. Respect their wishes and know that there are many people who will find you very attractive. As a precaution, check to make sure you smell good, that your breath is good, and that your lips are kissable. Some of these might be causing a little hesitation on their part. If they're still not attracted, then move on.
  • If they're nervous but say that they like you, respect that they're not ready. You might tell them that you'd like to kiss them but that you'll wait until they're ready. This will give them the space they need and will help make your first kiss even better.
  • Never try to kiss someone who tells you that they don't want you to. You should only kiss someone who really wants to kiss you back.

What If You Kiss Someone and It's Bad

No one does anything perfectly the first time. Tons of things can go wrong in your first kiss. It's best to have a sense of humor about it and laugh it off. It's not the end of the world, and you're not doomed to a lifetime of bad kissing.

  • Maybe they weren't ready, or you weren't ready so it just felt weird.
  • Maybe you were so nervous you couldn't focus on them or the kiss.
  • Maybe someone's breath or body stank.
  • Maybe you knocked teeth, or there was a ton of tongue and it was really sloppy.

All of these will probably happen to you at some point, and most of them can be solved with practice and hygiene.

It's important to remember that kissing is about the other person. Imagine how what you're doing might feel on their body. Tell your kissing partner what you like and they'll reciprocate—communication is the best way to make sure everyone is having fun.

Kissing Tricks and Tips


  1. It helps if you know the person you're kissing well.
  2. Try to seem confident, but if you can't, it's fine to look shy or nervous. (Most likely he or she will find it cute! <3)
  3. Don't talk about kissing too much around your special someone—they might think you are trying to force it on them.


  1. On a first kiss, it's ok to slightly suck your partner's upper or lower lip. (For both guys and girls.)
  2. Even if you're not Frenching, you can use your tongue a little. The key word here is "a little!" Less is more.

Have Fun With It! And . . . .

Keep It Private

This goes for the setting! A first kiss is a private affair, and it should happen in a private setting. Don't waste this special moment in front of an audience. Instead, find someplace secluded and quiet so that you both can concentrate on each other. While you are concentrating, remember that no loud theatrics are needed, so keep yourself quiet and controlled as well.

Keep It Short and Sweet

A first kiss should always feel like a preview of more kisses to come. Don't let a first kiss last for hours, and don't attempt to pack all of your feelings into one long-lasting kiss. Instead, keep it short and sweet, and you partner will be dying for more.

Keep It Comfortable

In films, it may seem like a first kiss always follows a monumental announcement of love and a long period of staring into each other's eyes. In real life, the same behavior would be totally embarrassing. If you suspect a first kiss is looming, keep it comfortable and don't allow any grand gestures to get in the way.

Keep It Clean

No, this doesn't mean French kissing is barred. It means that you should both have clean teeth, breath, and lips for a great first kiss. Brush your teeth before your date, and chew a breath mint or flavoured gum after you eat. Apply lip balm, and you should be all set. Just don't continue to chew on mints or gum longer than necessary because you certainly don't want any obstacles in your mouth during your first kiss.

Keep It Choreographed

When couples have been together for a while, their kissing becomes choreographed. Heads both tilt right, eyes close, lips open, and the kiss is successful. For a first kiss, these variables are all up in the air, and it can be hard to figure out what you should be doing when.

Take your cue from whichever partner initiates the kiss. If you are going in for the kill, tilt your head to one side. If you realise your partner is starting things off, note which way his or her head is tilting, and tilt your head the opposite direction. Close your eyes during every first kiss, and decide in advance whether you are willing to open your mouth or not. Then stop thinking and enjoy it!

First kisses are exciting. Whether it is your first kiss ever or your first kiss with a new partner, there are bound to be butterflies in your stomach and fireworks in your head. Keeping your first kiss short and sweet will make your partner beg for more, and if you play your cards right, that is exactly what you both will get.

Enjoy your first kiss. You only get one, and even if it was bad, it doesn't matter because it was with someone special.

Comments 360 comments

Chesnee 14 hours ago

I had my first kiss today and he said that I kiss weird and I just laughed it off. But what do I do for the next time? I mean this sounds helpful but Idk. I think he'll try again. Help? And I'm 15

cool_teen 24 hours ago

I'm 12 and I like this guy since last year

and now he finally asked me out and I said yes

but now I never kissed someone before and I'm so afraid and I just hide from him at school

but I love him what should I do

Highschool senior 10 days ago

All of these 12 year olds talking about their relationships and kisses are making me feel even worse about being 17 and never kissed anyone or been kissed lol

.... 2 months ago

I really want to kiss my Bae but I'm too scared and I doubt he will make the move! I plan on doing it as a surprise next time I see him in like a week or two. But I am so afraid that he will be like " What are you doing! " I am so worried bit I am going to message him saying that I want to do it! We haven't even held hands or hugged! Wish me luck!!!! *~*

Jazmine martinez 3 months ago

I live a guy I'm 12 and he is 12 too we really wanna have our first kiss we talked about it and we disided to try it today We are so exited hope it's fun thanks for this artical it was helpful

kiss sweet hearts 3 months ago

I kissed lots of boys when I was 10 but now I'm 12 I really want to kiss this guy, but he lives in Bruxelles MB and I live live in Holland MB.

what do can I do?

Lungelo 11 months ago

Wow! Incredible advice i tried it and it worked with fire works!!!!!!

Matt 16 months ago

i had my first kiss today. Definitely pretty awkward. Didn't know what to do so I just leaned over and kissed her but it was more of me putting my face against hers not really a kiss. Our lips touched. I wouldn't mind really kissing her. Like French.

I ❤ Lane 21 months ago

This has made me feel less anxious about not having had my first kiss yet

I ❤ Lane 21 months ago

Okay so im 12 and ive liked this guy since first grade and ive went out with him before but broke up bc i got nervous (not allowed to date) but i still like him he flirts with me a lot like A lot hes older than me but in a lower grade and wont go to the same school until next year ive went over the situation a million timesand he is single right now what made me start thinking about this is my best friend had her first kiss on friday and it just makes me think bc i really want him to be my first kiss and i know he has kissed his other girlfriends and i think he is warming back up to me. if we ride fourwheelers he drives i ride its just the way he lets me hug him and hold on tight and lay on his back and if i drive or someone else he leans all over me AND I JUST REALLY REALLY LIKE HIM I THINK I MIGHT EVEN BE IN LOVE but if he isn't my first kiss



Chhunna&Josh 22 months ago

So I had my first kiss today ! :D I was confident and it wasn't regretful xD we kissed each other 3 more times today :3 it was a 2 second kiss but it was worth it :3 I can tell he really likes me because he keeps on kissing me every time we hugged xD !! Thanks for the advice again !!

Chhunna&Josh 22 months ago

Thanks for the advice !!! I'm 17 and a 11th grader and haven't had my first kiss before :( the guy I'm "getting to know" but not officially dating yet is 16 and a 10th grader. He's 6 foot (im 5 foot) he's white(im Asian) he's athletic and he does gymnastics and has a 6 pack abs with a v-line xD I'm chubby-ish and I'm not as cute as him. Yesterday, which is December 10, 2014 ; I kissed him on the cheek and I found it embarassing because I forcibly pulled his neck to kiss him and I kissed him with the side of my lip(I regretted it so much ! ) but he liked it and told me that today, December 11, he's gonna kiss me ! On the lips this time ! And it's going to e my first. This article gave me some confidence xD and yes i will use some breath mints and my minty chapstick :) btw should it be a quick kiss or a long-ish kiss ? And is it like a peck on the lips or smoochy ?? Thanks ! :)

Naruto 2 years ago

Lol she just asked me out:-0 GOD im to nervous and scared wat should i do omg omg omg!!!! Were gonna have one today at 10

So nervous :3

Naruto 2 years ago

Lol im just 15 and still stuck.and i dont even know my crush,plz help

cece 2 years ago

I don't know what to do pls hlp.14 yrs old.

SoNervous 2 years ago

*Idk what to do. Sorry stupid auto correct.

SoNervous 2 years ago

I'm 13 and am a freshman. I have known my crush since the fourth grade and on Friday he's staying the night with me. I really like him, I think he likes me to. If I what to do. Please help! Today is the 24th of July.

JoJo xoxo 2 years ago

im 12 and never kissed any1 ever my bf said he is gonnna kiss me soon n im soooo ready to kiss him but I didn't really know how but this really helped! weve been dating for 6 months n im so excited wish me luck. xoxo

kolkol 2 years ago

I'm 13 and I have been dating this boy for 3 months and he started talking about kissing but I've never kissed anyone and I'm very shy....anyways I was Going to wait for a little while cuz he told me I could kiss him anytime I saw him so I was thinking about doing that the next time I see him but Im scared to make the first move (I have been reading this hub since me and him have been dating and I noticed a few things in common like "holding hands, hug and slight touching) he does all of those to me but I want to know how I know that he is ready for kissing

advice giver 2 years ago

Yo coco loco if you want to know if he likes you then just ask him out and take things slow and if he doesn't like you then you know and you ccan move on instead of wasting your time on somone who dosnt like you trust me i know and it sucks so just go for it your perfect guy is out their somewere

coco loco 2 years ago

Hey everyone I don't have a boyfriend but I've got my eye on someone who is cute funny outgoing etc but I'm trying to say we are good friends but he's best friends with my brother and I think I'm in love with him the reason is I feel like making the first move but I'm to scared he might push me aside cause I think he likes someone else and someone asked him out just yesterday at school and was like no way thank god

Can u guys help

Merp 2 years ago

O gosh thankies!!! Im gonna kiss him tommorow

Barbie 2 years ago

I 12 and I really like this guy that I've been dating and today he told me that he wants to kiss me at the school dance and Friday and I'm really scared. I told home that I'm not nervous but I really am... Help!

ILoveHim 2 years ago

I want to kiss him soo bad! But.... I'm very nervous D: I've never kissed before and idk how v.v hopefully everything goes well :) love him to death ;*

Vaibhima 2 years ago

I luv my JaAnn

Cali 2 years ago

Wow I was nervous about my first kiss but now I'm not. Thanks

FEARLESS McGeba 2 years ago

hi , I am 18 yrs , I had a gf bt w hv evr kissed, so few weeks to come I will hv to kiss her, pls heldp me out on whr and hw to stsart cz am scared to make flobs,It would b my first kiss bt am rlly shy....plz help

Anonymous 2 years ago

Im 13 And This Sounds Like A Very Good Explination I Feel Much More Confident Now Thankyou So Much ;) x

hi 2 years ago

I am 12 this boy won't to kiss me at school and he has a gf though but is not me and I have never kissed before and the the e'er is a lot of snitch at my school

hi 2 years ago

I had mine today with my bf and it was awesome

Bob 2 years ago

We did one today as well

Meagan 2 years ago

I have never had my first kiss but I think my bf is going to kiss me over the weekend!!! I really want him to and i am super nervous this blog gave me so much more confidence THANK YOU!!!! He has only kisses me on the cheek at a track meet:)

Hi hdjd 2 years ago

Calm down there EPICNESS seriously ur probs jealous of them

EPICNESS 2 years ago

I'm a foreigner as well MR_MASTERS, and I TOTALLY agree with you.

I am 13 years old myself, but I don't understand that 10, 11, 12, and 13 year old kids want to go kiss the person they like, or their ''girlfriend/boyfriend''.

honestly, I think that a boyfriend/girlfriend at that age is a status thing.

swaganator 2 years ago

F**k this dont be scared just let it flow natrually. I am a little young but I have a girlfriend and. you just have to let it go an just feel it. or move on to another man.

F**k this 2 years ago

I going to have my first kiss 3/20/14

I'm nervous the guy I'm dating has kissed a lot of girls and he is a bad boy so he will probably try to French kiss me and I'm scared but I really like him

alex Burch 2 years ago

I really like sam pesley hes cute I go out with him after the summer want be his girlfriend

LovePie 2 years ago

I loved my first kiss it was great. it wasn't too soft or too sloppy

Mickey 2 years ago

What if kids started dating and somebody is cheating on your friend?!?!

Mickey 2 years ago

I don't have a bf but I am really nervous cause this one kid likes me a lot and I sit next To him???

trey 2 years ago

Im 12 and my new girlfriend is gonna kiss me tonight.......its gonna be my first......I dont know what to do

person 2 years ago

started goin out with this amasing girl a few weeks ago but i not sure if i should make the first move somebody pleas give me advice in the following comments after this one

PS: DJ PON-3 is boss;) if u know what that is u deserv a cookie

2 years ago

I think that the 1st kiss is better when you don't plan it and it joust comes out naturally

Riley 2 years ago

I'm 13 and I sit next to this girl I'm in love with in every class and we've been holding hands in class for about 2 weeks now and I know she likes me

NCAMSILE 2 years ago

Great!! its help

Trent 2 years ago

Im in 7th grade an my frist kiss was n kindergarden it was a fail the teacher seen it and everthing (EMBERISMENT)

olivia 2 years ago

I'm 16 and i love this boy soooooooooo we are going out. we are in a serios relationship but how do i kiss him i also want to have sex

Olly 2 years ago

Cheers this really helps! I'm only 12 but I'm in a serious relationship with someone I really like and I'm meeting her on Friday so that we can kiss even though I'm quite confident in myself this seems like such a nervous and big step but these tips are really helpful. Wish me luck !,!

Danny 2 years ago

Thank u. Im 13 andI was doing a lot of thinking of how to have my first kiss with my gf. I kept thinking I would mess it up. But now I feel confident and hopefully it won't go wrong. Wish me luck...

LORD OF AWKWARD 2 years ago

yep,this post is amazing!im thinking about kissing this girl that I like and sking her out at the same time in 11 days for valentines day.its 2/1/14 but im only seeing her on the Wednesday before nervous,but I think I can pull it off

IM SO UPSET! 2 years ago

I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN 'scared and nervous'!! Me and my bf have been dating for a while now and he's gotten me like small gifts and stuff but we barely ever hang out so what's the point of even dating? I feel like I should replay him somehow, but I don't know how! Sometimes I just wanna go up to him and peck him on the cheek but I always get so nervous and chicken out!! Grrr… But the only place we could kiss would be at school but my mom is a teacher their and once again GRRRRRRR!!!!

scared amd nervous 2 years ago

15 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for 1 month.. it's mostly been on facebook. I barely see him in school. We don't hang out. And yeah. It's because I'm super shy and awkward. He keeps telling me he wants to kiss me and stuff. And I'm freaking terrified. Tomorrow I'm gonna attempt to see him after school. I seriously want to kiss him. But I don't.. being a teen sucks.XD

Loner with no bf or kissing experience!! 2 years ago


Sooo........ i really really REALLY like this boy but im too scared to ask him out. This has given me a bit of courage but when i asked him out the 1st time a few months back and he pretended to vomit :( im gonna try tomoz, wish me luck plz!!!! I HOPE HE SAYS YES!!!

yea 2 years ago

It helps

lisa 2 years ago

I want to kiss but don't know how to kiss. Please help me

Chaddy 2 years ago

Imma try kissing ma g/f for the first time:-) i dnt know how but ill try... bdw im 17 never kissed a girl... thanks to this blog.;-)

Scott B. 2 years ago

I've had my gf for 4 months and I really want to kiss her but her parents are overprotective of her and it is always so awkward when I go over to her house what do I do.

The one and only me 2 years ago

I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for 3 months and we don't talk much lately since we go to different schools and he got grounded. But u might get to c him soon and u think he wants to kiss me.... What do I do?!?!?

arthi 2 years ago

Bst of luck guys

Kevin 2 years ago

I like Jamie gallaway

connor 2 years ago

i am 10

kevin 2 years ago

This was the BEST thing EVER I got a lab-top for Christmas, wait whatare talking about.We are talking about what we got for Christmas, right? I am so confused right now what is happenning. Also, serisouly what are we talking about?

zoey 2 years ago

This is the worst blog i have ever seen in my earth! Thanx, but no thank u it was horrible , eww, blugh, yuck, ugh! I hate this blog it makes me throw-up on it!:-) I give it in percentage a 10%!

briannna 2 years ago

This blog really helped me kiss a guy I really like his name is Jacob he is a really mchottkins!Thanx dohe blog it really helped me.Can wait for my first kiss on January 2nd.

anonymous 2 years ago

Is two years too much of an age gap to be going out with someone? I love this guy sooo much, it makes me want to scream when ever he talks to me. We're not going out but I know that he loves me back. He told me.

CakeNomNom 2 years ago

Hi, I'm 14 and I go to this all girls school. I don't know many boys but recently I have been hanging around with my friends and boys from the joint school. There is this other guy I have met before and he's really cute and he told me that he likes me. We talk every evening and we are gonna start skyping. But, there's another guy who likes me as well. I'm worried about what to do because I don't wanna be a heartbreaker …

vineet 2 years ago

My gf loves me very much but i dont love her i just want to use her

bananaman 2 years ago

I'm batman

Caleb 2 years ago

Im almost 13 and there is a girl I think I am in love with, but she is 3 years. Younger than me... :(

Dan 2 years ago

I've not had a girlfriend yet and i've never kissed a girl and im 17 now but if there are any girls out there within maybe 2 years of my age who would like to start chatting i live in the UK and my email is im sure when i do get my first kiss i can come back and thank this page

kaily 2 years ago

Hello again we still have not kissed and I am still scared out of my mind but a b**** in my class told the 5 and 6 graders that me and this boy have to kiss and I have bated her ever since I first meet her but anyways now every body us doing this to us KISS KISS KISS and it is freaking annoying!

please help me :( and thank u for those who help me :)

kaily 2 years ago

Hi people say that 12 year olds cant be in love but I am there is this one guy who always picked on me but we are now going out and my bff is teasing me about him liking me and he wants to kiss me tomorrow and I am scared.

Thanks you for the info :)

just someone 2 years ago

Thanks but I don't know... he might think that I can't kiss!!! And he's already tried it like 3 times!!! -_- I don't even know why he likes me so much, cuz I have a low self esteem and I don't really like myself :/

2 years ago


noname 2 years ago

i already had my first kiss and it wasn't very good and now im afriad because my new boyfriend has never had his first kiss yet so what do i do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!!!! :/ 8/

Your name 2 years ago

Savannah Dias, just kiss him, no big deal the more people who know the better. Unless he is nerdy or weird or not popular. Then u don't want to.

Savannah Dias 2 years ago

Hi im Savannah and I have a boyfriend we have been together for 3 weeks almost 4 already and well my sister is in highschool and I'm 11 well my sis plays soccer nd me and my boyfriend Sebastian go to the soccer games well we were planning to kiss but it backfired and I want to kiss him and we wur texting nd he said he wants to next time I see him nd that's in 4 days but we go to different schools but he's already kiss a girl nd he wants to kiss me but his friends will be there and we don't know were a quiet spot would be. I'm really stuck and I'm 11 almost 12 and he's 12 already he just turned 12 two months ago and well I'm in 6 grade and he's in 7 am I to young to do this or should I wait ??please help me

vicky 2 years ago

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Tyler 2 years ago

But what if she's not your not your girlfriend and she's not anyones.

Sam 13 2 years ago

Well theres this girl i really like and weve been friends for like a really long time. Theres practically nothing we know abt eachother. She has a boyfriend but their really off and on so one of those times i asked out. But i was rejected. She told me it was because she kinda liked me and someone else. Anyway i really love her and want to spend more time with her. But theres this other guy she likes so im not sure what to do

Audie 2 years ago

Ok--hoo cares bout sayin your and you're correctly anyway? It just, we'll, doesn't mean anythin to me. Maybe when I get in to 7th grade ad the bigger grades I will think it is important

anon 2 years ago

obviously the person who wrote this cannot use your and you're correctly.

lily 2 years ago

I can't believe that you seriously got a photo of Zach Efrong! He's, like, totally Zach Efron's twin!

devon webster 2 years ago

I'm 14 and I like this girl named Megan's.we both admitted that we like each other on the phone I depend on kissing her this Saturday at the ranasofts festivable. But I'm nerveous that she will take it the wrong way. What do I

Megan's is 13 turing fourteen this december30/2013

devon webster 2 years ago

Just do it

Audie 2 years ago

Lol, why'd ya say its good?

Lol 2 years ago

It's good

Audie 2 years ago

I am gonna kiss my BF weneva I can. My mom is kinda protective. This site has TOTALLY helped im gonna kiss him next time I see 'im. That isn't far behind, tho. Wish me luc!

The Girl Behind The Lyrics 2 years ago

Hi. I'm 13 years old. I know most people say how younglings shouldn't know what love is. I guess I kind of agree. However, I do really like this one guy(Like. Not love) but there's four problems on the table here. 1: He has a girlfriend 2: If they do break up, I doubt he will ask me out 3: I'm shy 4: I've never kissed before 5: I've never dated anyone before

So.. yeah.. just a few minor(major) bumps in the road. Any help would be good.

Oh and to everybody struggling, Here's a little message of inspiration:

You there, the one reading this now.

I want you to do something.


Why? Smile, because you're beautiful


The Girl Behind The Lyrics

Girl Behind The Lyrics 2 years ago

Hi. I'm 13 years old. I know most people say how younglings shouldn't know what love is. I guess I kind of agree. However, I do really like this one guy(Like. Not love) but there's four problems on the table here. 1: He has a girlfriend 2: If they do break up, I doubt he will ask me out 3: I'm shy 4: I've never kissed before 5: I've never dated anyone before

So.. yeah.. just a few minor(major) bumps in the road. Any help would be good.

Oh and to everybody struggling, Here's a little message of inspiration:

You there, the one reading this now.

I want you to do something.


Why? Smile, because you're beautiful

Lol 2 years ago

Lol I always had dreams all tho I never had a crush Thanks tho:) ps you are the typeo queen

someone 2 years ago

I am going to kiss my bf tomorrow he is the love of my life I am too excited

l' 2 years ago

there is this girl who liked me for 3 years and i kind of like her back but we both wont admit it to our selves. i know she wants a kiss. what should i say first before kissing. im 11

Donny 2 years ago


Donny 2 years ago

I really like this person, but I have no idea whether or not I should make she first move.

Help me!! 2 years ago

Pls I need feedback

Help me!! 2 years ago

I'm 12 and my crush hugs me

A lot does that mean she wants to kiss me I'm a boy

Kako 2 years ago

I've been dating this guy for almost a year and we still haven't kissed. This hub helped, but I don't know weather or not I want to make the first move. What should I do?

hayhay 2 years ago

I'm going to try that it well be hard but I'm going to do it

K.H.E.L. 2 years ago

You don't have to if your not ready yet say your to shy or uncomfortable with it cause it can wait until your ready

Oralis 2 years ago

My bf ask me to kiss hem but I shy

elena 2 years ago

omg my lip is still numb

K.H.E.L. 2 years ago


I totally agree with you bam la lam and Alyssa as a matter of fact my couisoins in pre k he is 4 his girlfriend is 5 and they give each other hugs and they are talking about kissing no thounge just lips and I think they are too young!!!!??:-_

K.H.E.L 2 years ago

Pleas, I think some kids are to young to kiss can't it wait till your 14 I have been doing a documentary on this and I'm 11 I have gotten many genouris offers but I say no! Or perhaps sorry will do it. But there is a couple at my school and they've been going out since they were 3 and the boy supposibly broke up last year because she wanted a kiss but on the lips that's it. And she cried for a month so we sould deal with these problems later we sould have more fun not worrying about are boy toys at our age we sould be hanging out with friends at the movies or, a carnival possibly. So i hope you take these facks seously.!!! :-/

trin 2 years ago

I'm 13 and my bf wants to kiss me on sunday. I don't know how but I really like him. Plz help if you'd like. I would really apprciate help

2 years ago

I am afraid.

jess 2 years ago

I have a rely CUTE boyfriend and this won girl wrote in the bathroom [my name, is a beach because I am dating and his name and anyway I rely want to kiss him but I am such a chicken to do the move I rely want him to do the move and he hasn't done it yet he did do the move to hug me and I have ben hugging him now plz some won right back tell me wut to do plz I am scared to kiss him I love him though wut I do

Anon 3 years ago

Kyli next time he gets close just lean a little and let it happen :)

kyli 3 years ago

Well Zach and I have been dating for three weeks tomorrow and he says he wants to kiss me like crazy and I don't know if I'm ready. I love him to death do us part and when we hang out he always gets so close to my face so I cover my face. What should I do? If anyone can give me some advice please don't hesitate I need some advice. I think I want to kiss him but I'm not sure if I'm ready

alexus 3 years ago

IM 12 and this boy wants to kiss me and I have never had my first kiss and he has IM so afraid IM gonna mess up!!! This blog has given me some

confidence and me and him are now probably gonna kiss next time we see eachother

mackenzie 3 years ago

Kissing a boy for the first time can be magical but what if he doesn't like you that way. There is this boy i like who just dumped his gf and it was predicable. You date some one then they let u down easy but break ur heart. So dont go after someone who doesn't like u back or go be risky take a chance and break ur own heart.

lauren 3 years ago

Wat do i say to him on monday?

Lauren 3 years ago

Please help me now.

Lauren 3 years ago

I dont have a bf and one of my best friend told me some one have feelings for me and i know him alreally . And he told my friend he have feelings for me and she told me tht. And this is yesterday morning at school. And on monday i dont know what to say to him. Please help me and to say to him on monday morning please help me.

lauren 3 years ago

I dont have a bf and one of my best friend told me some one have feelings for me and i know him alreally . And he told my friend he have feelings for me and she told me tht. And this is yesterday morning at school. And on monday i dont know what to say to him. Please help me and to say to him on monday morning please help me.

Hughes 3 years ago

Thanks for the tips. I recently had my first kiss, and this made me feel a bit better about it, seeing as I thought I screwed it up....

cicela 3 years ago

I do not have a bf but i do have a crush but if i ever get a bf this should help thanks :-):-)

un known 3 years ago

my first love and kisser is ahmed ansari he can kiss me very softly

thanks for u

unknown 3 years ago

nice explanation of kiss thanks alot

devil's dad 3 years ago

i m 22 years old and i never kissed any1 , and reading above posts of 12 year old kids is really making me cry .

Someone... 3 years ago

Help! I really like this guy called Cameron but he is a year older than me and gone to a different high school to me ;-( he's had a few gf's b4 and is really hot, cute and sweet and funny. I'm 12, he's 13. I don't wanna kiss yet, but IDK if he likes me or not...

Purplegirl 3 years ago

I agree with bam ba lam. I'm 11 years old and in my grade (6) people r "going out." It's simply ridiculous. I mean, you can have a crush on someone, and tell them; but if u r that young u don't need to be kissing OR dating for that matter.

bam ba lam 3 years ago

All these 12-14 year olds shouldn't be kissing

Elizabeth 3 years ago

I just turned 13 last week and me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 days and we are going to kiss I'm so nervous what should I do

Emily 3 years ago

I just had my first kiss yesterday, but I closed my eyes too soon and missed, so I half kissed his lips and half kissed the side of his mouth. It was SO EMBARRASSING and I started apologizing and freaking out, but he took it really well and thought it was funny

hi 3 years ago

My boyfriend and I are both like really awkward people, but i guess that's a good thing. We have been talking abut kissing a ton but we dont know how. He intends to kiss me on saturday and I really want to but dont know how... plz help me someone

miss hotti 3 years ago

im 15 and i want to kiss my boyfriend but im so

Lovestruck 3 years ago

Help I like this guy and I told him and now he acts all weird around me. I know I know. He probably just embarrassed. But what can I do to get him to talk to me again?

Eric 3 years ago

I am 12 and i will be kissing my girl friend tomorrow this article is very helpful to me thanks.

Natsai 3 years ago

Wow I have never kissed a guy. B4 and I'm really worried he doesn't like the way I kiss bcuz he has kissed way more then i have soooooo wish me luck

Anonymous 3 years ago

My best friend is a boy I kinda like him but if we go out what if it fails! I'll lose the best friend I've EVER had! Plz help

Evangeline 3 years ago

I really love my bf we've been going out for 4 months and I wanna kiss him soooo bad but idk how I think I will on new years:) Wish me luck btw im 13

sabrin 3 years ago

this page gives so interresting ideas and it gives so confidence to do it sooo thank you

Tom 3 years ago

im 13 me and my girlfriend have just got back together after 3 months we went out for about a month before and we didn't kiss and im planning to next time we meet up out of school this page has given me so much confidence to do it THAAAAAANK YOOOUU

Sana Kir 4 years ago


anonymous 4 years ago

Although this article did help a lot, i still dont exactly know how to kiss. When it says look into their eyes then kiss them, i dont exactly know what to do?

anonymous 4 years ago

my gf broke up w/ me ...

hurts like hell

Jackson 4 years ago

Hi im twelve and i know its kind of young but I have hade one girlfriend, but i never kissed her. I'm hoping to get this girl in my class to go out with me. I want to kiss her and I know that she likes me. Its summer and schools out but when its starts again I'll ask her. I have the perfect place to kiss her already in my head. with me luck.


Marissa 4 years ago

Me and my boyfriend Kyle are both 12 years old & we just started dating 2 weeks ago. Me and him are going to the movies tomorrow & he talked about kissing me. I really wanna kiss him baack but im soo scared to. Im afraid im going to do it wrong.. But this blog helped a little thaanks

weparty 4 years ago

i am 11 and in the 6th grade and i am gonna kiss my gf at least try but now i'm not as scared wish me luck

I❤Sean 4 years ago

I am 10 and I have this really cute bf his name is Sean and he is the most popalar boy in my grade but 2 of my BFFs likes him. And when we text he talks about kissing me. Then he ask me if i"ll ever kiss him and I said yes. But I am am too shy and he isn't making the first move.

For all the boys here please give advice or help

John Oluwaseun 4 years ago

D first time I kissed my 1st girlfrnd, I quickly spit d saliva in my mouth away in d presence of d girl though, d girl's mouth was clean & fresh bt I did dat due 2 ignorance, nw d girl had left me. Had I known I would av read dis blog.

anonymous 4 years ago

I had my 1 kiss when I was 7 with this boy named austin he is really nice he kinda gave it all at the first kissbut it help a lot I am know married and I have 4 kids alex xander harper and trish and I and my husband is austin we got married17 years ago so thanx

alyssa 4 years ago

I agree with momo. Most of you people in this blog are children. This generation is full of man whores and sluts. For those of you that are under 16 should be on crack if you think you are in love. You guys don't know what love is. You simply choose to kiss so you can tell your friends. Grow up and if anything, this page should be blocked for minors. For those of you that proclaim to be over 17 then go back to school because your grammar is horrible. What happened to the old times when men would keep it in their pants and woman would keep there legs closed.

Kk 4 years ago

Imma kiss my girlfriend tommorow im so happy i have a lot of confidence thanks whoever posted this you awsome #BVBArmyForever

Adagiogirls 4 years ago

Hola. I think im gonna kiss my bf on sat, it's my bat mitzvah and we haven't kissed yet. I'm goin to camp in a few days fir eight weeks, peeps think I should do it?

boy 4 years ago

I can give you a first kiss just dont turn gayIf you need help My email is

Tailerstaylor 4 years ago

I haven't had my first kiss and I'm 13 when all my friends have and they mock me about it but there are specific reasons y one I like the same gender

yuli 4 years ago

Thnxz soo much this will totally help me with my new bf

luke 4 years ago

My first kiss was with a friend (girl) as we were on our way home from school.

She said to me "have u ever kissed anyone?".

"no. Well not snogged or like that."

She then said quietly," well lets experiment then."

It was the best kiss of my life(so far!)

Ruby 4 years ago

Hey Thanks This Was Helpful Im Going Out This Guy and Its Gunna Be My First Kiss Cuz We Are In The 6Th Grade

SM 4 years ago

I couldn't even get past the third sentence. There were so many errors! It makes the writer looks unprofessional and uneducated. I don't know about anyone else, but someone loses all credibiity to me.

Nompilo 4 years ago

I nd mi bf r alwyz kicing ths feels lyk a gud thng 2 end my day coz hez da bst kisser ever.

secret 4 years ago

Was it my fault iif you are beastman if so im sorry

Ruined 4 years ago

Gosh i just had my first kiss and it was horrible.... Im so embarassed!!!!

secret 4 years ago

Wow man way 2 young. Don't suck her lip just kiss her on the lips for like 1 or 2 seconds. I hope i helped. Also i am 12 if your 2 nervous dont. Dont do it. Sorry donthave an email

Beastman52 4 years ago

havin mine tomorrow but don't know if i should suck her lips or not! like i wt it to be special pease help. btw i am 12

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Chavez Breh 4 years ago

Ok so today is may 7 2012 and yeesturday was the 6th I live in richmond, CA, I'm 13 and yesterday there was a parade on 23 street and there was this boy that I saw and haven't seen since 2nd grade I've had a crush on him since what do I do if I ever see him again please help

secret 4 years ago

I need tips

why should you know? 4 years ago

Well i was at my bestfriends mums graduation party right, and him and my bestfriend kept going away from me to talk i didntknow what it was about. Then my friend dragged me away and told me he was gonna kiss me. HE IS 13 I AM 12

Soo we went into this private pathway and just kind of looked at each other and joked around and everything. Then he said I don't know how to kiss a girl and Then i went over and kissed him . and kind off lowered my head and strted walking away ....but then he dragged me back and said that wasn't proper and kissed me again.

When i was about to go we grabbed each other bu the waist and he kissed me

please 4 years ago

Should I kiss my friend on the cheek before i leave

please 4 years ago

Im moving in1 day so im startin fresh so i need tips cause im not romantic. Im 12

michael 4 years ago

Have you ever kissed your mom on the lips just do it a second or 2 longer. Good luck

Will 4 years ago

Erm I need help bcus I'm 15 and I'm going to kiss my girlfriend for the first time in a few days and I have no clue what to do, but she's already had her first kiss and this is going to be mine /: any tips anyone? Taa x

michael 4 years ago

My name is really michael i also go by (secret) im 12 and not a girls boy but have what ittakes and i second "anonymous. But i could use romance tips but need

anonymous 4 years ago

i suggest.

if u think u r 2 young. or not ready.

just refuse. it'll be like ur easy to get if its like that

my girlfriend and I, no kiss yet! only at the cheeks!

so. a kiss should be done by two couples(who are true to their feelings and not just sex. who r not too young)

duh.. i think u know wat i mean

secret 4 years ago

Do it like you are kissing your mom but do it a second or 2 longer but try to be alone to ease up the pressure. If you don't mind after you kiss (if you kiss) please tell me how it happened it might help with comments i wont use your name i promise

Nathan 4 years ago

kissing my gf on friday & im going insane

secret 4 years ago

I truly thank you for posting this question i might start answering all. The comments with real opinions and not all aregoing to say your to yooung ;^}

secret 4 years ago

Sorry this is a bad website to get help on but for one your to young to kiss and if your not ready don't do it.if i sound like a parent sorry but i live in a christian home but please take me seriously he must be crazy no offense to want to kiss you at this age.(that or you are crazy hot). 12

alice 4 years ago

my boyfriend wants to kiss me on sunday but all my friends will want to watch since i will be the first one doing it, cause we are all 11 haha lol. i have never kissed a boy before so im kinda scared! i have went on loads of websites but they don't answer the questions im wondering about ! what do you do with your hands? what am i supposed to say before and after? do you kiss like you kiss your mum ?? its all so confusing! if you can help please DO ! x

help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 years ago

I am moving in 1 week and really. Want her to like nme shuold i try holding her hand or is that cheesy

help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 years ago

Girls think im cute but don't know how to approuch them im not thinking about kissing but want to be romantic and im 12. And have an eye on one cute girl

anonymous 4 years ago

@ ????

you should drop subtle hints.

I mean. Yah. i'm like that.

when my she is not yet my gf. i told her that i love her.

i waited for 5 months. i didn't know that she loves me.

she always drops hints. but i just don't know what to do.

when i suddenly said i love her u to this tym.

she told me that she love me too. wow. cant imagine how it works. love waits. haha

annlashay 4 years ago

im waiting for a rainy day to kiss my soon to b partiner in the rain

Klaudia :)) 4 years ago

Ive Never kissed a boy before , my bestfriend who is like my brother , i like but idk how to tell him i don't want it to ruin our friendship , what should i do?

Evie 4 years ago

Most of these circumstances are so cute, but I'm just a silly girl totally in love with the guy at my church that I've been with for most of my life and have no courage to tell him that I like him

aundrea 4 years ago

I'm 15, and I've been friends with this guy fir a while now. I know he is totally in to me because I am all he talks about, but we were texting and he kept talking about kissing and how he wants to kiss me. I've never had my first kiss before and I kind of want to save it but just thinking about kissing him makes me get butterflies and feel nauseous! the thing is. I KNOW he is going to kiss me monday in private when we hang out but I don't want it to get to serious. we arent even dating. also, he's not a virgin and I know he's had sex lately, but I don't want him to just like me because I'm "fuckable" (people say) someone help me?!

eva 4 years ago

I don't know wat to do my bf is going to kiss me tomorrow and I swear I gonna piss my pants I'm so scared and I don't even know how to kiss!!! :(

???? 4 years ago

There's a boy who has been my best friend for 6-7 years and he's my secret crush since i met him but I think he doesn't fancy me. Some times when I'm talking to him little kids or people who don't really know us come up to us and are like " you two love eachother" and I asked some of my friends and they said we'd be great going out with eachother because we have the same personality and they keep trying to convince me to ask him out!! D: all of a sudden I got like REALLY interested in him and we are going to different secondary schools soon and I kind of want him to know that I fancy him but I don't know whether to ask him out! Help please?!

anonymous 4 years ago

haha young couples these days.

just like me.

im a 14 year old guy haha :D

Zac.c 4 years ago

To miranda yes he does if not he has real high respect for you which is a real big advantage for a girl

anonymous 4 years ago

i mean!!!! I'm her 3rd not 'his' 3rd

sorry if there are wrong grammar.

I'm a filipino citizen thats why

anonymous 4 years ago

I'm already a 14 year old guy.

Well. I don't know why i came to this page.

Its curiosity. I have a cute girlfriend. well

she's my first. and im his 3rd.

at first. i thought that her personality was not great.

But when i finally knew what she really is.

well, shes cute :3 i wanted to kiss her in her cheeks coz thas what she often do when im with her and nobody is around. i want to kiss her in her cheeks but i always end up hugging her. well its kind of sweet for me to hug her.

Miranda 4 years ago

what if you like a guy but you don't think he like you back. but then his friend say, "oh so you don't like her?" then the friend says something mean about her and then the guy i like says, "don't talk about her like that!!" and it sounded like he yelled it. does it mean he likes me?

That's mean... 4 years ago

you really shouldn't say that..... I am 12 years old and I just happen to like a boy just a little bit older then me. We aren't really dating but this blog will help me get ready for mine. Anyways, the person who wrote HAHA shouldn't say that. U can't just snog their face! It is more difficult then that! Besides! You don't even know how it is like to like someone and the feeling of wanting to kiss the person u like! Who ever wrote HAHA makes me sick! Talking about others relationships like that! (Sorry if I wrote to much)

keit 4 years ago

am 17 years, mi and my girlfriend hav bin going out 4 a year and we have never kissed.we both scared to kiss and last month we almost broke up(no ways,i need to kiss her).av only kissed one girl before

Zac.c 4 years ago

Im 13 and I have this huge crush on this girl brileigh, I know she has a crush on me too I figured that a while ago I really want get closer with her but I don't know how ( she has big tits) can someone help ????? Plz

Jk 4 years ago

Im 13 and there's this girl in my class and she's very interested in me and I know this B-cause I caught her starrin and checking me out in tha gym Iv spotted her doing so about 6 times, she texted me she really likes me and wants to kiss me Wat do I do I'm nervouse and she always flirts with me and another thing is she lives rite across tha street :o

Zak 4 years ago

I remember my first kiss it was awesome I sorta stuffed it up butt i don't think she even reallised (My first kiss was at age 11) the worst part is someone saw and spread roomers unlucky for him I found out it was him and in year 8 I kik'd his ass

tortor 4 years ago

Hey, to whoever momo is, I had my first kiss when I was in the fourth grade so, ha. And I'm 15 now, so, ha!

tortor 4 years ago

Btw- hes 15 and I'm 14, and I don't know hes just... idk perfect everything I ever wanted. I cant explain it, am I in love? Is this how it feels, like, I wish he was with me right now:( ive never felt this way before, wow, I wish I could explain it, I would die for this guy any time, any day. Does that sound sewicidle? Or do you understand?

tortor 4 years ago

Well, my bf wants to kiss me and I want to kiss him, its his first but ive already had mine and hes really specieal to me and I don't wanna screw it up. And hes coming over on Thursday, and I just came back from vacation and I really missed him and ie told me that he wanted to give me a kiss when I get back but I'm really shy and so is he, what should I do????!?!?!?!?

roo 4 years ago

I had my first kiss just a few days. Ago and it was absolutely amazing

Momo 4 years ago

What the heck?!

This generation couples gets younger and younger. O.O

Just shocking reading all those girls who are having their first kiss in the age of 12 and being deeply in love. Seriously? 12? you guys are still too young for having bfs at this age.. Mennn~ What will happen with the future now? Baby boomers once again.

And yes, i have a problem with that. -.-


little.welsh.girl.Kira. 4 years ago

im 14 now, 15 later on this year and i have already had my first kiss however, i know it may sound bad but it didn't reallt mean anything. Now i have began to get really close to this boy, he is the most amazing thing that has happened to me in years, and one day next week hes going to 'snog' or 'french kiss' (whatever you want to call it) me. This time i know will be the one i will remember forever... for all the people out there that say you cant be in love at 14... i am.

But advice wise, then i'd say don't panic about it, it'll be such a natural thing that happens and the butterflies will be working their magic:)

#hope this helps..

-oh and as for sex, no don't do it if your like 13 or whatever, at that age you probably don't even know how to put a condom on:-D


ahmad 4 years ago

I am 13years old and I am talking my first step forward to kissing tonight my girlfreind and I are going to have sex woah could somebody give me some tips.

Random xxx 4 years ago

im fourteen and im having my first kiss was going to be today but me and my partner got nervous.its going to be tomorrow and although this page is helpful it doesn't tell you what to do etc. etc. my partner and i were worried so we shifted it to tomorrow because then we can make sure its better for each other,its both our first kiss and i hope my partner wont think im awful ...and even if i am my partner can help me through too.

lola 4 years ago

Its not as bad as yall think... You people are just over thinking it... when the right time comes it will happen. :)

ibelle 4 years ago

im 8 years old and i want to kiss this guy

Hey 4 years ago

I was kissed monday we whent to the back of the oval an kissed all lunch it was a first time weve ever Kissed did a french kiss I love him to death he is so cute

Then yesterday we started kissing but then a whole heap of people were waching so embarassing

f*ckbuddy 4 years ago

Megan 4 years ago

Me and my bf have been dating for a month now and all my friends want me to kiss him. Im 13 and he is almost 15. I love him a lot and want to kiss him but Im afraid of screwing up. Does anybody have any advice.

Jamie 4 years ago

Tomorrow me and my bf r gunna kiss I'm kinda nervous but at the same time excited!

Al 4 years ago

Im 13 I had my first kiss a month ago with my gf. We had been dating for2 weeks. For all you guys the trick is to lead up. Hold hands, sexually hug, then kiss her when you get the chance. It will probably be awkward but who cares? It was with me but then we got better at kissing and it's awesome now. For all you ladies don't be nervous. As I said it will be awkward but who cares. Just a tip I had mine at the movies in the top row. If you want to kiss, go to a chick flick, sit in top row, cuddle up, and it will come. :)

Mystery 4 years ago

This blog was so helpful. I think i am gonna kiss my gf tomorrow. Thank u so much

ashley 4 years ago

me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a month now and we have already held hands( which was my first time)....but before we dated we always talked and laughed and were really good friends and now that we are dating he hardly looks at me and when we do talk he looks literally straight ahead..and idk if its because hes nervous or what but i don't want to kiss someone who doesn't love me like he says he does, i think he likes me because it was his idea to want to kiss but he said he wouldn't try anything until i was ready...hes really sweet nice funny and cute but idk if im ready to kiss...i think im mostly scared :/ what can i do to make me feel less akward?...i want our realtioship to change before we kiss...cause if we kiss i don't want us to go on hardly talking less than before....and my friends say if we hardly talk then we should break up but i want him for me and i want him to be my first kiss...

slw loves dlm 4 years ago

so me and my bf have been going out for 2 months 2day and we are both in the 8th grade and hes 14 im 13 and were going to the same high school but the sit.. is even though everyone knows about us he almost completely ignores me at school before we started going out he couldn't keep his hand off me now all he does is give me a hug at the end of the day and i really want him to kiss me i told him i loved him over txt like "Good night"

"p.s I Love You" and he dident text me back but i want him to kiss me what should i do

ME!!!!!! 4 years ago

Okay, here's the 12, he 12. we go 2 the same school, and have every class w/ each other. we talk all the tim, but not abot anything serious, even school dances. he has a phone, i don't we have been dating for abot a month, and we've hugged and held hands once or twice but that's it!!!! And im scared that he don't like me no more but i really like him, and i want it to b more than what we have. i want to have my first kiss with him, but im scard he dint like me no more!!!Ugh, im prob souding parnoid rite now, but i don't care!!!I love him, but what if he don't like me back????? grrrrrrrr..............................:(

emily 4 years ago

Ok so I need help. Ive never kissed anyone before and I go to this camp with this guy that I rlly like. He doesn't live near me but we text all the time and he told me he wants to kiss me when we go to camp this year and hopefully ill know what to do but we wont be able to get alone and I don't want an audience. So what to I do????? HELP!

4 years ago

Thanks for that

Hotchick200 4 years ago

Ok my bf wants to kiss me but i don't know how to tell him cuz he broke his fone so i don't know wat to do cuz he said that he does want to kiss but...... Idk

Madhatter_80 4 years ago

lol how did i end up reading this article

collegeBeBe 4 years ago

I have no boyfriend ,never kissed ,never fall in love but some guys saw me sexy they wantted me but i want a bf to love and kiss

i need u boys to love me

Kio 4 years ago

I just got my GF the other day when she texted me that she really likes me. I rerrrreeaaaallly want to kiss her and hug her and all that jazz, but we go to different schools so when we meet our parents r watching us like hawks!! So awkward..... PPPLLLZ HELP! I've had a crush on this girl ever since 1st grande and I'm in 7th...can't...stop..thinking...about....her....

Slut 4 years ago

I believe that as a U.S.A. citizen you should all be forced to get a life! Serioisly instead of talking about kissing someone just do it! If you are going to plan on kissiv someone, include that they might be doscusted by you and throw-up in your mouth. Be warned! Toodle loo loosers. Slut out.

YeaDasRite 4 years ago

Im gonna kiss my girlfriend for the first time 2maro we've been dating fOr 2 weeks and this helped me a lot thx LOVE YOU MADISON

Michael K 4 years ago

I'm gonna kiss my GF for the first time tmrw and this helped me a lot thank you now I am confident

vanessa 4 years ago

im getting my first kiss, idk when exactly but im dating this guy and everybody keeps telling us to kiss i don't want to kiss him in front of the whole school cuz that would make me even more nervous and he even texts me about our gonna be first kiss. i have no idea what kind of kiss he wants to do either.

Person 4 years ago

I really wanna kiss this girl who says were dating but she resisting to even hug or hold hands. And how should I tell her I wanna hug and hold hands?

Sexygirl18 4 years ago

There's this guy named Danon and I really like him and he like me and we always text and flirt and we both really want to kiss each other but I don't have the guts to do it so I'm waiting for him to make the move


asdfghjkl 4 years ago

best tip: watch chick flick kisses :P

Trenten 4 years ago

I am 12 years old and there is this girl in my class who really LIKE REALLY likes me (she told me when we were 6 that she loved me) and I love her to iv'e told her when we were 11 but we can't go out because if ANYONE and I mean ANYONE in my class figures it out lets just say ill probably have to move schools and we live like an hour walk from form each other and there is only 2 people who know about this I was talking to my dad and it accidently slipped (thank god he doesn't know her) and my best friend Calvin he is I think the only person I can trust with a secret. Everyone knows she loves me but know one knows that I love her. We are just playing this like were friends and we have never had time since I told her I love her to talk about it. PLZ HELP I really love her...

12 4 years ago

Me and my Girlfriend are went to my place to eat supper and after that we went out for a walk in the park and then we sat on a bench, no one around, quiet, perfect time for it and she kissed me. It will be one of the best feelings you will get in your life. Kinda felt weird because most people don't go out till their older. But still awesome and thank you to this very descriptive guide on how to kiss

someone who needs a kiss 4 years ago

im still looking for a girl but this blog has really opened my eyes in the world of kissing

Taylorlover11 4 years ago

Okay so I'm 14 in 8th grade and my girlfriend is 13 in the 7th grade. We've been talking for 3 months, and dating for 2 weeks. I don't see her much because of different schedules and we are going to the movies Saturday. She said we should kiss but this will be my first and I'm really nervous. I love her a lot and I really hope it goes well.

Love Crazy!!!! 4 years ago

I'm 13 and there's this guy in my class I'm CRAZY about! My friends say they've seen him staring at me and one said they asked who he liked and mentioned my name, he got sooo red and started defying it like crazy :P I want really bad to hug him or hold his hand! If we ever become bf,gf I think ill want to kiss him :)

sammy 4 years ago

ok i really scared to kiss my bf but we both wont to sooooooooooo i hope it gose good im so scared!!!

Tidi bbz 4 years ago

hy i hav b33n datin 4 six mnths nw and haven't kissed am so nervous plz help

maz 4 years ago

this helped me a lot wen a had my first kiss ages baq but i got a new mann now duno weather to kiss hym yettt; hmmm

Brianna 4 years ago

So my best guy friend and I like each other but we can't go out until some things are taken care of and he hasn't had his first kiss yet but I have and I really want to kiss him on the cheek and I'm so scared like this is the worst it has ever been and I just don't know if he's ok with it and I don't know if he will still like me or be offended and I'm just scared out of my mind but I think that I'm going to do it anyways because I've liked him for a year and he's just so nice and sweet and he hates how he hasn't had his first kiss and I really want to give it to him and reading these things help with my confidence! Thank you sooooo much!!!

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YadiraE 4 years ago from Puerto Rico

First times are so nerve-recking yet so exciting at the same time! Thanks for writing this great hub!

courtney 4 years ago

Ok I'm 11 and I really want to have my first kiss with this one guy his name is zach and he kissed like 8 other girls and ive never kissed any one the part about the breath mints helped because were nabors and we hang out all the time and text and like a month ago he asked me out and I said yes and to day he said he would kiss me by surprise and now I don't no how much Tim I have to learn how dose anyone have any more good tips. For me please and thank you

Hanna 4 years ago

Ok this guy named TJ is so hot. I really like him so I'm going to kiss him tomorrow . This will be my first kiss! ? but, I'm very nerviouse. I know I'm only 12 but I think he might like me more if I do plz help!

- hanna

Candy lips 4 years ago

OMG i am going 2 kiss my boyfriend for the first time he's going to perform thn after we re going 2 kiss cnt wait 30march

A_coded 4 years ago

I hv been datin mygrulfrnd for d past 3yrs,i neva kiss her,am a shy guy pls wat should i do.

Dakotaham1 4 years ago

I don't know if he wants to because I'm scared that he will break up with me if I don't do it right I really do like him but there's two problems first his best friend is always blocking me stupid RYAN! And it's during dismissal help!!!

melissa 4 years ago

this really did help, but im still 2 scared 2 kiss my bf, im 13 and hes 12, but neither 1 of us have ever had a 1st yet, were both 2 scared 2 make the 1st move, do u think i should do it, or wait 4 him 2, because we both want to kiss each other, but we cant, and when ever we did try to before, it was to public, because we were at a bus transfer, should we wait until were alone, or sneak a kiss in while were in public? PLEASE HELP ME!!! i really luv him, and i don't want us to break up all over a kiss, cause its happened 2 me once b4 already. :'(

cici 4 years ago

Ugh.. i hope this helps cause im 11 and hes 10.

Angel 4 years ago

Thanks to this I had my first kiss a week ago and it was great!!!!! And I'm only 11

KrystalDawn 4 years ago

ive had my share of boyfriends but ive never actually made a move to kiss them... this article helped a bit but i think im gunna just go for it next time, we only live once right? xox

Ahhhhh 4 years ago

I'm 13 This dint help at all my first kiss was amazin. We broke up though but now were sending each other really flirty texts I wanna go bac out wiv him but how HELP?¡?

tyler 4 years ago

I'm only 12 but there's this girl I like and were not officially. Dating but I know she likes me a lot and I really want to kiss her. But I don't know when or where and I'm not completely sure how

BrattyChik4427 4 years ago

Im dating this dude who may not be cute to everyone eals but he is cute to me! I don't know if I love him but I hope he kisses me soon :) but if he doesn't I can wait im just a lil scared that my friends will say something bad bout it but I know he cares :) J+N

Chicky chick 4 years ago

My bf and I went to the edge one friday. A few of my friends were with me. We all sat down in some bleachers and they were screaming kiss kiss kiss. I was soo embarised. He said that it was up to me and I said idc. Do u have any suggestions of what I should of said?

that girl 4 years ago

I love CJ!!!!!!!!!

Dani 4 years ago

Im 12 and dating this guy for about a month and i rly wanna kiss him but don't hav the guts but yesterday he told me he wanted to kiss me and to meet him in the chorus room wish me luck *-*

Noneofyourbuissness 4 years ago

So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month now and still havn't kissed he talks about it online but not really in person we are both 12 and schools like the only place we can kiss i need help how do i figure out if he's ready or not?

Victor 4 years ago

I'm 18yr and i have never kissed before, and i don't know wen i'm gonna kiss because i'm not sure if i'm ready!

lucy 4 years ago

there's a guy who really likes me and we barely know each other, well, we talk on facebook but not face to face-he said he will start tomorrow and he asked if he carries on speaking to me if we could go out on tuesday and i said yes. I do kinda like him but I haven't had that butterfly feeling for ages and I don't know if i've done the right thing. And now I'm seriously worried about the kissing because I've never kissed before and he has, tbh I'm kinda scared

piya 4 years ago

me nd my boy fnd decided to have a kiss on her bday but my mother know about our relationship nd she nt let me go out nd our kiss remain

Joseph 4 years ago

I'm going to try Friday wish me luck!!!

Poopoopoop 4 years ago

Tomorowni havw my first kiss and i feel. Better. Kinda

nataly 4 years ago

i am 7 years old and i wish i had a boyfriend.

vikki 4 years ago

my bf tyler loves me and i love him. but he told my friend that if i don't kiss him he going to break up with me!!! idk what to do, do i kiss just so he stays with me. the thing is i don't really want to. HELP!!!

Anonymous 4 years ago

Lol, everyone asking for advice and no one's gonna give it to them..

I'm 14. I finally got this guy to say yes when I asked him out on Monday. Since then, all of our friends have been saying "You two should kiss. Your both frigid" It's not that I'm frigid, I just don't want my first kiss with him to be in front of loads of people. And I haven't found the right moment yet.

I have decided though, to kiss him on Monday. He kissed my cheek so I know he's interested.

I'm 14. Wish me luck!! :)

Natalia 4 years ago

I'm 12 and me and my boyfriend havn't kissed yet and school is the only place but the problem is that in our school wr aren't allowed to kiss and i don't know if he is ready or not. How do i figure out if he is ready?

zoe 4 years ago

My boyfriend kissed me for the first time last night:) it was kinda funny because the first time he tried he actually missed! Lol but then he tried again and it was great

I heart 1Direction 4 years ago

This blog really helped!!! Thx so much. My first kiss went so good!!! Im 12 x

Calvin 4 years ago

Hey im 12 and i have a gf who I really want to kiss but I don't know what to do her name is Haley smith um Calvin santiago

Sammy!! 4 years ago

Heyy! I'm 12 years old and my bf is 11 years old! we've been going out for 7 months and we have kissed before but theres always someone around idk where a good place to kiss him??And by the way this article was super HELPFUL!!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!! :)

Delaina Brown 4 years ago

OMG i just kissed my boo 4 the first time and it wuz awesome but it only lasted for like 2 seconds and i don't know why he wont kiss me for any longer but it might be because he is afraid he is a bad kisser but i will find out and if that is the reason i will teach him i think he is going for something a little more than a kiss because every time we are around eachother his hands are on me so i think that because of that reason but before he can get in my pants he will need to at least make out with me i don't know but it should happen soon later wish me luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Sam 4 years ago

I am 12 and I really like this guy the same age as me and we have been really good friends for years and I know he likes me and he knows I like him but I have never kissed anyone but he is a huge player and has lots of experience. I keep dropping hints of a kiss and I know he has picked up on them. My friends say they always hear him talking about me saying he wants to but hasn't. How do I get him to kiss me and make it special? Helllpppp!

noah 4 years ago

my girl and i have been talkin about kissing tommorrow when we go out to the busses and ive never kissed anyone and she has and im worried it wont b as good as her others and that ill mess up we love each other and all but im just to shy ive been lookin up stuff bout kissin and this is one of the best ive found all night wish me luck

katie 4 years ago

me and my boyfriend started going out on valentines day[3 days ago],he said he wants to kiss me but he will only kiss me when im ready.i really want to kiss him,but im afraid i will do something wrong!

its really helped me,but i just wish i was more confident.i think im going to wait,just take it step by step,as i don't want to take it to fast&i don't want to do anything wrong.i know its silly but im scared he will go of me because i wont kiss him,but deep down i know he wouldn't-because he's a lush boy.just worried!

ilovehiim 4 years ago

OKey soo My bf and me have been dating for almost 6 months and im 12 and hes 11 and today was valentines day and my plan was to kiss him, but it was gonna be a surprise to i told one of my best friends and he goes and tells my boyfriend. AH! nd so it wasn't a surprise so then me and him were walking home well he was walking me home and we were in a hallway ahhahah, and i looked straight into his eyes and mouth and lips. And he smiled.And nothing still happen and since he knows i want to he kept looking at me and normally its they guy that's wants to kiss. And when we were walking home i turned backwards and like it was the right potion and everything was good but i was stupid and turned around like now i feel dum for doing dat! UGH! but i'm going to try my best to get tht kiss to happen this week. ilovehimm

josh 4 years ago

i am 12 and i have gf and she is shy and i am not how do i start lol thanks for blog :)

Ken 4 years ago

Am now 20 and my gf is far away for morethan 6years now but it seemce she'll coming home next week. This explanation has really help me, thankx...

All smiles 4 years ago

2morows valentines day and for my bfs present I gonna kiss him he is 3 years older then me so he takes stuff seriously so I gotta make this 1 good!!!so excited!!

Gabbi G. 4 years ago

This really helped now i know how to kiss my special person tomorrow lol. Thank you!

hu 4 years ago

M Hey I need help. So I rlly like this guy and I've told him tht I like him an he is starting to like me. I'm 12 and all of my friends want us to "hook up" . I don't exactly know what they mean by that... and I've never kissed anyone and he's made out with girls before ... someone help please??!

Bryson 4 years ago

4 days till my first kiss

Anonymous but needs help 4 years ago

I have a huge crush on one of my best friends, Kiera. I am 13 now, and so is she. She's gorgeous and so fun to be around. She's made a move once or twice, but I haven't picked up on the "mixed signals" and I have been stuck in the family-friend zone. I really want her too be my first kiss because people always say they regret their first kiss, and I don't want that to be the situation. I am in desperate need of advice, Help!

Haley 4 years ago

Im 12 and I really like my boyfriend and Tuesday is valentines. My friends say he is going to kiss me on the cheek but I want to have my first kiss. When my friends told him to kiss me on the cheakhe freaked and said my mom won't let me do it! I am super freaked out, but I really like him and he really likes me! I'm not sure how to get him to know that I want to have my first kiss without me Having to tell him please help.

4 years ago

Me and my boyfriend were only dating for a day when we shared our first kiss, it wasn't alone but i wasn't bothered. just loose yourself with them and don't concentrate on anyone else n also if your a girl wrap your arms around their waist it it was more comfortable! xx

Myfriendcallsmeloverboy 4 years ago

I'm going to kiss my gf on valentines day but were should i

Soccerlover 4 years ago

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a week and we are going to the movies this weekend and I think he is going to kiss me. I have never kissed anyone before and I'm 14. I really like him and he likes me a lot. I just don't know if I'm ready to have my first kiss. Any suggestions?

bumble bee 23 4 years ago

thnx 4 tha advice b cause i just got a boyfriend yesterday

vinay 4 years ago

Really awasome lines...

razledazle 4 years ago

I kissed my bf last Friday and I rlly want to french kiss him, wat shud i do bw I'm in seventh grade.........

suzi 4 years ago

ok i've liked this guy for a while and finally he asked me out oday at school. i really want to kiss him but we are never alone. how can we get away and be alone?

winston 4 years ago

i did not get through when i kiss her she fart

kumas 4 years ago

hey ive known this awesome guy my neighbour for like 11months im loving him more day by day should i kiss him though ive never ever kissed before and i am 13 he is 14

Partygurl 4 years ago

I am dating this guy hes really nice im 13 i go to his hockey games and he comes to my house sometimes weve been Alone a few times and go outside to sit and talk a lot he told my friend he wants to kiss me but im not sure i can ive never kissed anyone b4 but i love him

Sheedah 4 years ago

Well,i liked this guy and he likes me,am 13 and we had our first kiss on his birthday party,it was preety cul,tanks a lot it waz beatiful.

shannon+kai xx 4 years ago

omg it sorter worked well i tried kissing him and it failed cuz of his mate we were so close what do i do now

Justaboy 4 years ago

OMG. ... First date in 2 days and I think I'm goin to kiss her... Im 15 and kissed a lot once but now I feel like its just the first kiss... I even afraid to come close to her at school

hey 4 years ago

hey thx for this blog it's interresting well I want your help . When I was 7 years old I was with my cousin and we were children , so we didn't know the real meanimg of a kiss . He asked me ' let's try a kiss ' and i laughted ... We were friends and were not in love .. So he put his lips on mine for a second it was a cold kiss without any feelings it was just a try .. We didn't move our lips it was just a touch .. Is that called a first kiss ?? Please help me

monkeys 4 years ago

there is this boy who is 15 and i am 11 and he asked me to kiss him and i don't have a clue what 2 do

pllleeeeaaaazzzzzzz help

Awko taco girl 4 years ago

Ok so there is this guy that i reeeeeelly like and I know he likes someone else but he acts like he likes me..... Anyway if I ever get the chance to kiss him idk what to do cuz I'm reeeelly short and he's reeeelly tall.....

ILikePie 4 years ago

I'm 9 there's this guy he's been my best friend since third grade and I really want to be more than friends but he is moving in the middle of forth grade I really want to kiss him b4 he moves but there IS one problem hes my seacret crush and I don't really want to tell my mom Im his gf if I do succeed so Maby we should have a seacret love? Idk but I don't know how to tell him I "like" him I told my outher friend that is a guy but then he told his friend that is a girl then yesterday at lunch she asked him if he "liked" me but he dident reply he always askes to squeez me and so I say yes btw it hurts sometimes lol so I one time sayed can u keep a seacret and he sayed yes than I murmured I like u but he dident here but luckily I'm friends with all his friends but I really want to kiss him I tryed getting advise from my guy friend and he had no clue pls help! Thx

Cass 4 years ago

Hey Im 11 and I wanna kiss my bf but were kinda on&off so idk if I wanna waste my 1st on him. Any advice??

Jafas 4 years ago

I had my first kiss yesterday, been so happy ever since.

sam 4 years ago

ive never kissed anyone or had a boyfriend.this tatolly helped me to be prepared

Love xxx 4 years ago

Heyyy me and my boyfriend are going to the movies and we text sayin that we owe each other kisses :) but should i french kiss we have only kissed once

What do i do

Sarenity 4 years ago

your'e advice helpes me A LOT! thank you sooooooooooo much:)

Whats ur business 4 years ago

MY first kiss was great! Thank u!!!!

samrox99 4 years ago

So I'm 13 and I haven't had my first kiss yet :/ My bf and I have been going out a week now and I really want to kiss him because he's just the sweetest most amazing guy I've ever met! But the thing is, we haven't started holding hands yet.... I'm afraid that I'm wanting to take things to quickly. I honestly don't know what to do! This article did help tho :)

twisted L 4 years ago

Yea I've been kissin since I waz prob's at all now am 16 nd I neva thot I'd fall inlove.I wana kiss ma gaL bt I get cold knees...I dnt knw whr 2 start..I just love ha

Nrg 4 years ago

i meet my GF only on sundays and that too in a fully packed tuition class , i'm 15 and none of us has kissed b4....... i'm a shy kinda boy but thanks to this article now i got the basics , i think i'll go 4 da kill dis sunday.

ILoveYou 4 years ago

okay thankyou soo much for this!!!

i have never been kissed before and now i think that the day is coming VERY soon

but im really scared any other tips on how to keep bad breath away

and also im more nervous cuz

he has kissed A LOT of girls before but he is my first!!!!!!!!!!

Bananabutt 4 years ago

So, I'm 13 and I'm dating the most amazing guy. He tells me how much he wants to kiss me, but I always end up turning away and chickening out. I would LOVE to kiss him, I really would but I can't find the confidence. Trust me, I've had a bunch of opportunities but still I can't do it. Please help. Although, this article was very helpful, thank you.

babygirl 4 years ago

i am soo nerves about the kiss we are dong t thursday wish me louck im soo scared but soo exited i hope i am good at t :) :(

babygirl 4 years ago

i am having my first kiss Tuesday wish me luck :)

HELP ME PLZ 4 years ago

Theres this guy i like but im not sure if he likes me my friends keep saying he doesn't like me but we were cravking up and we have kind of an inside joke 1 time and i wore his hat 4 like 2 seconds if any1 can hlp me plz do idk if i should go 2 the y dance we have every friday nite nxt weekend and kiss there but idk where and what if he doesn't like me HELP

UMMMM..GURL 4 years ago

Lol to you above me, just take the first step if you have to:) I recently kissed my boo thing first, good luck;)

NZGIRL 4 years ago

im 14 and ive been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months now and we havnt kissed. but he told me that he wants to and i told him the same, the problem is that we are both very shy. I really want to kiss him. When the time comes ill know sort of what to do thanks to this website :)

super666atheist 4 years ago

kissing is ridiculous! i'm 19 and i never had my first kiss because i find it irritating. but i had girlfriends before but it was a joke i hate them all. because i didn't love them. my friend and i had a deal our deal is to collect girlfriends. hell, i did not enjoy it like others does. but i have no choice a deal is a deal. i didn't kiss this previous girlfriends of mine because i'm planning to give my first kiss to this girl. her name mazel shane..yay!!!

neverkissed84 4 years ago

thanks i think i'm ready to kiss my girlfriend tomorrow

Katy 4 years ago

You spelled Efron wrong lol

kisser 4 years ago

ok so i have never kissed anyone EVER before. I really like this guy and the guy likes me. he said he wants to kiss me but i don't know if i do because every time he tries i get nervous an don't kiss him! is that normal or do i not like him! help!!!

scared 4 years ago

ok im ten and ther is this cute boy in my class and we have bee n going out for a while and i want to kiss him tomorrow so bad.wat if he doesn't though wat if its bad....wat if he doesn't like the fact of me kissing him and tells everyone that would be so enbarassing but he is nice so mabey it will work out wish me good luck please

Gary 4 years ago

I havn't kissed a girl yet but im worried when i do shell say im a bad kisser what can i do to make it seem like its NOT my first kiss.

Shrey 5 years ago

Hey I'm 14 and I'm gonna kiss my girlfriend today after some ours... Its been a year and a month since we're dating each other... I think this was a helpful article... Anyways thank you!

Zelda....HELP!!!!!! 5 years ago

alright this is kinda weid but, im 9 turnig 10 next yr......ive nown this boy for........3yrs now and i cant stop thinking about him. i cant do ANY of my school work propely and im 1 of the smartest kids in the whol GRADE! how do i no if he loves ME.........why cant i stp thinkin about him


jeje 5 years ago

i am 13 and my bf is gnna kiss me told him im fine with it but deep down im kinda scurred...

Em 5 years ago

Omg I want my bf to kiss me tomarrow at the movies

Nervous 5 years ago

So me and my boyfriend just started going out 3 days ago and we hardly get to see each other because he does not go to the same school,For the first time I am hanging out with him on Friday for the first hour its only going to be me,him,and his FRIEND ,I am going to feel so awkward.He told my friends he is going to kiss me,I don't know how to react I am scared,I haven't had my first kiss yet and I don't know how,This blog did not really help,What if we both go the same way when we turn our heads to kiss,When is he going to kiss me I have no idea I really want it to happen when we are watching the football game our friends are going to be there 2 of my friends and 1 of his friends,I really and worried and I cant even sleep thinking about it and guess what,FRIDAY IS TOMORROW.He said hes kissing me on Friday,Oh my gosh I want to cry I really don't know how to kiss,ugh this whole first kiss thing is really stressing me out I love him and I don't fully know if I want to kiss him but he wants to kiss me! Help me seriously,I don't feel confortable talking to my mom or sister or my friends but strangers will be a big help.Please and I am 12.Please help me!!!!!

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Person 5 years ago

Im 12 and I have been going out with this girl i rly like for 5-6 months and i was going to her school last year but now im going to another and i only get to see her on fridays bcuz that's pizza night and she has been hinting about a kiss but im way too shy i can barely hug her i think i will soon though thx for the help

anonomous 5 years ago

well theres this kidd and i kno he likes me and i like him bak but im too embarassed to qo out wit him bcuz my friends don't like him like dhat and i don't want to qet judqed in school by my friends so i told him dhat we should be like friends wit benefits but like no sex obviously bcuz im 13 but i never kissed anyone but i really want him to be my first kiss and i just don't kno how and like he sed wen da day comes and i want it to be asap but private but i think hes scared to do it and obviously i want him to do it first i just really don't know what to tell him tho.. please help i really like him..

Madison 5 years ago

Im fourteen and ive been dating this guy that's 15 and i knew him a yr b4 we actually started dating.weve been going out 8 month now abd still haven't kissed but we want to and i think hell try soon cant wait.........!

Someone,,, again 5 years ago

is during the summer

Someone 5 years ago

well my gf left me bc we lived 700 miles apart and I'm still falling for her and the only time I can see her please help and I'm textin her now and she said my modo is "waiting for that special someone" and that's what I go by any help to get her back we are still single please help and ps I'm 13 and never kissed): e-mail me at or,,, thanks in advance,

Lexii 5 years ago

Yeh my like best guy friend and I we like ask eacother questions and I said what would u do if I kissed u and he said kiss u back and sometimes he says he wants to hug me and sometimes he says he wants to kiss me like in private and I think I like him I don't know what to do but this has made me feel a little bit better do thx

libby 5 years ago

hey pleeeez help! this boy i go fencing withis sooo nice and i think i love him but ive nevr kissed any1 bfor!i think he lkes me because he always smiles at me and i samile back! also wen we fence if he accidentally hits me he will ask me over and over again if im ok! i realy dnt no what to do about him! respond and help!

Ryan 5 years ago

im going to kiss my GF towmmoro and i did not no were to start this helpd alot TY :)

love 5 years ago

Im kissing my crush tommorow and this totally helped!!!

thank u soooo much

NERVOUS 5 years ago

i like this guy who lives in New York, and so i wanted to kiss him before i left for school this past summer, and so he said he wanted to and our kiss was really...well bad becuz i never kised anbody and didn't know how. So i'm going to see him again for spring break and i'm hoping i get another chance to kiss him and show how much i care about him! Wish me luck!

unknown 5 years ago

hi my bf is goin to kiss me on Valentine's Day and i cant wait we planned it out we will meet at the orchestra room and go to a practice room at around eight twenty im so excited i have never kissed but now im more confident thnx ^-^

Annah xxx 5 years ago

we went out for 2 and a half years so since i was 10 he means the world to me but id rather my best friend go out with him than me i just want them both 2 me happy.

Annah xxx 5 years ago

Im 12 and in secondary school in year 4 this guy called Jack came in and i knew straight away WOW! so in yr 5 we got together and then when i was going out with me we broke up but not afitualary he asked my best friends out Alex and Laura!!! and now he is going out with another one of my friends Teigan and i still

5 years ago

i like this guy but should i kiss him... if i did it would be private but idk where

Bubbles 5 years ago

Okay so im 12 and im not dating this guy but, we flirt a lot and all he talks about is wanting to kiss me and he grabs my butt all the time during school and we hug everyday after school too. My only problem is hes like amazing and hes kissed, frenched, and madeout with 3 other girls because hes 13 and ive never kissed anyone before. Someone Please Help Me.

bailee 5 years ago

ok so im 12 and i have a new boyfriend and he asked me for a kiss today but his bestfriend was there so i really didn't want to kiss him the and it was in a hall not very romantic. but i wanted to but i was too nervouse and im a cheerleader and we have our first game on monday and i think before the game im gonna kiss him or i want him to kiss me thanks ill use this on monday!

miranda 5 years ago

I'm 12 years old and i am dating this guy and he takes me every. But he never took the first step and i'm to shy.So i started by holding his hand and the next thing i know he's kissing me. It was the best kiss ever!! thank you!

Neville 5 years ago

I just asked my gf out but idk if I should kiss her or not

Kehinde(kenny) 5 years ago

He really enjoy kissin me.. Cos he want more and he don't want 2 stop, i felt his lips it realy taste lyk Apple!!! He don't want 2 let it go cos i got a supa lips

Kiera 5 years ago

i was looking at stuff on the internet about first kisses, as i am 17 and i still haven't had mine :L I am still at school and i sit next to the boy i go out with in geography class, and a few weeks ago, he held my hand!!! i was absolutely amazed that he would have even tried that, and it has become something that we do every lesson. Recently i was talking to him over IM and he said "we hold hands but we never kiss" then went offline- i cant wait to see what happens and this hub has made me all the more confident about kissing him! ;)

Connor!! 5 years ago

Thanks for this awesome Article, 15 and think Ive finally met the right Girl,this article has helped me out a lot i think the first kiss is so romantic! :)

Sammy! 5 years ago

Thanks this was usefull I'm 13 and I wana kiss my gf samara but people are always around >.> especialy my friend and her step bro tyler >,<

sharleen 6 years ago

thank you

Chloe 6 years ago

I'm 12 a d I've never kissed anyone when I go out with people I never kiss them because I'm too shy ' this blog was a lot of help but I'm still not too sure how to kiss yet

y do u care 6 years ago

im 13 and i haven't had it yet well i actually did in first grade in the swirly slide lol

nedjma 6 years ago

yes i do thatis a very long time

6 years ago

it was really romantic he was dying for the kiss more im going to do the french kiss.i really like him i can't wait thank you for the blog he loved our first kiss

6 years ago

Me and my fiancé are far from each other and have been wanting to kiss so bad ! It will be the first kiss for both of us. I can't wait...........

anonymus 6 years ago

first kiss in 8 days and counting! cant wait!!!

angelica 6 years ago

thank you!!!!!!!!!!! ugh I've been liking this boy for a while now and we are going to kiss on Thursday, its may 16, 2010, and its my first but not his. im totally panicked!

help 6 years ago

ok so please help. me and this guy arent officially together but we've been friends for a long time. and we hugged really romantically for the first time today like he practically felt me up and we got caught by the school cop and so i could sorta tell he wanted to kiss but i have never kissed anyone in that way before and don't know what to do this blog is helpful but not fantastic. i don't know what to do.

ms.kissless 6 years ago

I really like someone and I want to kiss him,but I don't know if he wants to kiss me and ive never kissed anyone(EVER!). i no he really liks me. thnx 4 the blog.we'll see this weekend

Ana 6 years ago

omg!! Im having my first kiss tommorow!! This blog has gave me sooooo much confidence! THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!

elixer 6 years ago

i am plannig on going to the movies with my gf but idk if i should kiss her

sediqa  6 years ago

i like to kiss some one at night

Miki 6 years ago

Idk if I'm going to kiss my bf just yet but this helps slot thnx =)

kelsey 6 years ago

This is a great explanation.

When I had my first kiss, I was completely wasted. but I don't really consider that as my first Kiss. So now that I have someone special who wants to kiss me, I will now know how.

Mariah 6 years ago

I can't wait for my first kiss! I am 15. My new bf is going to kiss me tomorrow!!!! He is my first bf!!! I feel confident in myself thanks to this blog. THANK YOU!! :-)

Sam 7 years ago

Ive already had my first kiss but my first one with my new partener im 15 and from all the kisses ive had it was the best. And tomorrow im going to french her ;) 9/14/09 todays date

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tony0724 7 years ago from san diego calif

There Is by far and away nothing more magical and romantic then that first kiss ! Nice hub .The first kiss Is by far and away the best !

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caoshub 7 years ago from Portugal


great post =)

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