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Non-Sexual Things You Can Do With a Girl in Bed

There are many non sexual things you can do with a girl in bed. If you are running out of options, read up on this list!

There are many non sexual things you can do with a girl in bed. If you are running out of options, read up on this list!

All the men reading this are probably wondering "Why would I ever want to do anything non-sexual with my girl in bed?" Gentlemen, you should know that women like to be pampered and also love loads of intimate interaction with their partners. Non-sexual interaction in bed is a great way to rejuvenate your relationship with your girlfriend. Let's look at 10 things you can do with a girl in bed that are not entirely sexual in nature.

1) Plan Vacations

What better place to talk about a possible romantic vacation or holiday to an exotic place? If you and your partner have been wanting to plan a vacation but just can't seem to find the time to do it, doing it in the bed is the perfect place. There are no distractions and it's just you and your girlfriend to dream away to the exotic land you've always wanted to go. All you have to do now is book the tickets!

2) Shave Her Legs

Shaving, epilating, waxing or removing hair from legs and other body parts is often one of the most intimate activities a woman will undertake on a regular basis. If you want to explore your woman's body without being sexual about it, shave her legs in bed. Make sure that you cover your nice sheets because they are bound to get dirty. Doing your woman's personal grooming for her will, allow you to get really intimate and personal with her body and you will find an excuse to explore her curves without being a pervert about it. So ask her to lean back on the pillows and eat strawberries while you do the dirty work.

3) Breakfast in Bed

Giving your girl breakfast in bed has never gone out of vogue. If you do this for her, she may reciprocate and surprise you in bed too! Not with a breakfast.

4) Sip a Glass of Red Wine While You Both Read a Book

Even if you and your girlfriend are not voracious readers, reading a book while sipping on a glass of wine can be a very relaxing thing to do in bed with your girl. Imagine a lazy Sunday afternoon and you've got nothing else to do. Catch up on your favorite magazine, diary, book or novel and sip on some red wine with your girl in bed. Picture perfect lazy Sunday, don't you think?

5) Tickle Each Other to Death

Tickling is a great non-sexual way to keep your girl smiling in bed. Don't just use your fingers, get a feather if you can get your hands on one or other such ticklish object. Rub it on your girl's body and make her do the same to you. By the end of this tickling session in bed, you both will be happy, smiling and exhausted!

6) Watch a Movie

Women and men alike love to watch movies while cuddling in the arms of their partners. Your girl will love it too! Grab your laptop and watch a rom-com flick while you both are snuggled in your blankets in bed. Make sure you have enough finger food on your bedside table to last you through the movie.

7) Talk About the Future of Your Relationship

If you are in a committed relationship with your girlfriend, chances are that you and your girl love to talk about the future of your relationship. Lie down in bed with your girlfriend and talk about things like "Where do we see our relationship going?" or "Where will be at in 2 years time". There are no interruptions, it's just you, your girlfriend and your future in your dreamy eyes.

8) Play Board Games

If your knowledge of board games is limited to Monopoly and other commonly played ones, you need to update yourself with the awesome range of board games available in the stores. Don't be surprised if you spend many non-sexual hours with your girl in bed just playing board games, because they are truly fun and addictive.

9) Cuddle and Just Be

Women have reminded the male species a billion times about how they love cuddling but men just don't seem to understand. Guys, if you want to earn some serious brownie points, spend more time with your girl in bed just cuddling, lying and being. For all you know, your lady love may be thoroughly impressed and promise you a great time for the next time you are in bed.

10) Massage Each Other

Do you know what the best part about you massaging your girl is? From her point of view, she will enjoy a massage from you much more than she would from a stranger at the salon. Simply because your girl will not be conscious or uncomfortable when you are rubbing her body as she would be in case of a stranger. So the next time you see your girl in bed, go over and undress her only to give her a nice and long massage that will wipe away all the exhaustion and worries from her mind.

11) Lay Naked and See How Long You Can Keep From Touching Each Other

We had to leave the hardest non sexual thing that you can do with a girl in bed for last. Lying naked in bed with your girlfriend and refraining from sexual activity will probably be the hardest thing you've ever tried in life. But hey, you have to learn some time, don't you? If you see your relationship growing into a stable one and see yourself living with your girlfriend, there will be umpteen times you will see her naked. Sex, will not be possible all the time and what better way to start acknowledging this than lying naked in bed with your girl, and doing nothing?

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.


MingleArena on March 18, 2013:

does it work?

Courtney Leah from Atlanta, GA on April 17, 2012:

I like #11, but you say girlfriend. Why not wife? I guess that's the new thing now. "Girlfriend" We've left marriage behind, huh.

Mary from Washington on April 02, 2012:

I love so many of your ideas! I especially like reading and drinking red wine. I think it is really, really hot when a man reads to me. I absolutely love that. A glass of red wine is icing on the cake and a near guarantee that we will both end up very happy!

Mike on February 04, 2012:

it's a great article but don't do it unless you are a married are very serious about your relationship, otherwise if you do it if you are just going out, there is a high possibility of you getting dumped be it man or woman

Sharilee Swaity from Canada on December 04, 2011:

Princess with a pen, love it! Such a romantic hub! So true that lying in bed is a great place to sit and talk, and have fun!

Brett C from Asia on December 04, 2011:

A lot of good advice there, many of which are great for a relationship. However, the leg shaving would not be something I think my partner would go for, nor that I would particularly enjoy, as not only would I probably cut her (men are not used to shaving knees), she likes her 'private time' too. The rest however I think are great tips for a good relationship.

zzron from Houston, TX. on December 03, 2011:

Here's a thought, why get in bed naked, If you're not going to do anything sexual? We can all do that outside of bed with our clothes on. LOL. I'm just saying.

princesswithapen (author) on December 03, 2011:

Haha! you're funny!

zzron from Houston, TX. on December 03, 2011:

Yes it does sound very risky but this one I don't mind losing. LOL.

princesswithapen (author) on December 03, 2011:


The last one is a bit risky because one wrong move and it can all go from non-sexual to sexual. But it is fun and pleasurable indeed once two partners can keep their hands to themselves while being naked in bed.

I'm glad you liked this list. Thanks for reading and commenting. Much appreciated.


zzron from Houston, TX. on December 02, 2011:

Good list. I have to say my favorite one is the last one.

princesswithapen (author) on December 02, 2011:


Which study was that and where are the men who participated in that study? Haha! Jokes aside, cuddling with a loved one is a very special and intimate experience. It takes the stress and exhaustion of a busy week away in minutes!

Thanks heaps for stopping by on this one and commenting!


princesswithapen (author) on December 02, 2011:


Thanks for stopping by and appreciating this. I'm glad you liked these suggestions.


princesswithapen (author) on December 02, 2011:


You're absolutely right. On a light note, men may reap big rewards if they practice the ability to be non-sexual in the bed as much as they can be sexual. Haha!

I'm glad you liked this and thanks for recommending this hub to your friends.


Stephanie Das from Miami, US on December 02, 2011:

It all sounds like fun, except the part about shaving legs. I'm all about togetherness, but that's me-time :)

Also, I just read a study that men actually enjoy cuddling more than women. Women are more likely to cuddle their partner until he falls asleep, then they roll away.

Great ideas!

Steve Orion from Tampa, Florida on December 02, 2011:

Another good Hub, some nice suggestions in here I'll keep in mind. Thanks!

kimberly Crocker from Southern New Hampshire on December 02, 2011:

this is a great hub! i would recommend it to all boys, they need a few suggestions ! The funny thing is that if they did more of the stuff mentioned above, than we famales would be more "in the mood" more often !

princesswithapen (author) on December 02, 2011:


It's good to know that you share an intimate bond with your partner. Sexual acts, like you rightly pointed out, should indeed be an overflow of what happened earlier. Thanks heaps for stopping by on this hub and I'm glad you liked it!


mikeq107 on December 02, 2011:

LoL..we do this stuff all the time...the other stuff is just an overflow...great hub !!!

Mike :0)

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