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All the men reading this are probably wondering "Why would I ever want to do anything non-sexual with my girl in bed?" Gentlemen, you should know that women like to be pampered and also love loads of intimate interaction with their partners. Non-sexual interaction in bed is a great way to rejuvenate your relationship with your girlfriend. Let's look at 10 things you can do with a girl in bed that are not entirely sexual in nature.
11 Things to Do With Your Girl in Bed (Besides Sex)
- Plan Vacations
- Shave Her Legs
- Breakfast in Bed
- Sip a Glass of Red Wine While You Both Read a Book
- Tickle Each Other to Death
- Watch a Movie
- Talk About the Future of Your Relationship
- Play Board Games
- Cuddle and Just Be
- Massage Each Other
- Lay Naked and See How Long You Can Keep From Touching Each Other
1. Plan Vacations
What better place to talk about a possible romantic vacation or holiday to an exotic place? If you and your partner have been wanting to plan a vacation but just can't seem to find the time to do it, doing it in the bed is the perfect place. There are no distractions, and it's just you and your girlfriend to dream away to the exotic land you've always wanted to go—all you have to do now is book the tickets!
2. Shave Her Legs
Shaving, epilating, waxing, or removing hair from legs and other body parts is often one of the most intimate activities a woman will undertake on a regular basis. If you want to explore your woman's body without being sexual about it, shave her legs in bed.
Make sure that you cover your nice sheets because they are bound to get dirty. Doing your woman's personal grooming for her will, allow you to get really intimate and personal with her body, and you will find an excuse to explore her curves without being a pervert about it. So ask her to lean back on the pillows and eat strawberries while you do the dirty work.
3. Breakfast in Bed
Giving your girl breakfast in bed has never gone out of vogue. If you do this for her, she may reciprocate and surprise you in bed too! Not with a breakfast.
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4. Sip a Glass of Red Wine While You Both Read a Book
Even if you and your girlfriend are not voracious readers, reading a book while sipping on a glass of wine can be a very relaxing thing to do in bed with your girl. Imagine a lazy Sunday afternoon, and you've got nothing else to do. Catch up on your favorite magazine, diary, book, or novel, and sip on some red wine with your girl in bed. Picture perfect lazy Sunday, don't you think?
5. Tickle Each Other to Death
Tickling is a great non-sexual way to keep your girl smiling in bed. Don't just use your fingers; get a feather if you can get your hands on one or other such ticklish object. Rub it on your girl's body and make her do the same to you. By the end of this tickling session in bed, you both will be happy, smiling, and exhausted!
6. Watch a Movie
Women and men alike love to watch movies while cuddling in the arms of their partners. Your girl will love it too! Grab your laptop and watch a rom-com flick while you both are snuggled in your blankets in bed. Make sure you have enough finger food on your bedside table to last you through the movie.
7. Talk About the Future of Your Relationship
If you are in a committed relationship with your girlfriend, chances are that you and your girl love to talk about the future of your relationship. Lie down in bed with your girlfriend and talk about things like "Where do we see our relationship going?" or "Where will be at in 2 years time". There are no interruptions; it's just you, your girlfriend, and your future in your dreamy eyes.
8. Play Board Games
If your knowledge of board games is limited to Monopoly and other commonly played ones, you need to update yourself with the awesome range of board games available in the stores. Don't be surprised if you spend many non-sexual hours with your girl in bed just playing board games because they are truly fun and addictive.
9. Cuddle and Just Be
Women have reminded the male species a billion times about how they love cuddling, but men just don't seem to understand. Guys, if you want to earn some serious brownie points, spend more time with your girl in bed just cuddling, lying, and being. For all you know, your lady love may be thoroughly impressed and promise you a great time for the next time you are in bed.
10. Massage Each Other
Do you know what the best part about you massaging your girl is? From her point of view, she will enjoy a massage from you much more than she would from a stranger at the salon. Simply because your girl will not be conscious or uncomfortable when you are rubbing her body as she would be in the case of a stranger. So the next time you see your girl in bed, go over and undress her only to give her a nice and long massage that will wipe away all the exhaustion and worries from her mind.
11. Lay Naked and See How Long You Can Keep From Touching Each Other
We had to leave the hardest nonsexual thing that you can do with a girl in bed for last. Lying naked in bed with your girlfriend and refraining from sexual activity will probably be the hardest thing you've ever tried in life. But hey, you have to learn sometime, don't you?
If you see your relationship growing into a stable one and see yourself living with your girlfriend, there will be umpteen times you will see her naked. Sex will not be possible all the time, and what better way to start acknowledging this than lying naked in bed with your girl and doing nothing?
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