Skip to main content

What Will My First Kiss Feel Like? 10 Things to Expect

I love writing about relationships, love, romance, and flirting. I hope you find the advice in my articles useful.

Could you experience your first kiss very soon? Find out what and what not to do.

Could you experience your first kiss very soon? Find out what and what not to do.

What Does a First Kiss Feel Like?

First kisses are often magical. This is a moment when emotions run wild, the eye contact between two people communicates desire, and the intimate experience about to unfold is one full of feeling, as if time is standing still in the moment . . . or not! All first kisses are different. They can be romantic, silly, sweet, goofy, you name it. If you are in a long-term relationship with your boyfriend or girlfriend, maybe the time has come for your first kiss! You may be wondering:

  • What will my first kiss feel like?
  • How long will my first kiss last?
  • What if he/she does not reciprocate?
  • Will my first kiss be just like the movies?
  • Will he/she use his or her tongue or 'french kiss' me?
  • Will my first kiss be just like kissing the back of my hand?

We will talk about it all. After reading this article, you will know all about the first-kiss experience and what to expect when you kiss for the first time. We will talk about kissing styles, the types or kinds of kisses, and how to relax enough to enjoy such a passionate, special moment!

Are you ready for your first kiss?

Are you ready for your first kiss?

1. The First Kiss Could Be Totally Spontaneous

You may have been planning for the picture-perfect moment when you kiss your boyfriend or girlfriend for the first time at a certain place and time. However, chances are that it may not happen exactly the way you expected it to or thought it would.

Your first kiss could happen at your place, in a backyard, at a party, on the bus, at his place when his parents are not around, on a chilly winter date, at a friend's place, or at the most random of places. It could be as spontaneous as a lightning strike, so don't expect the precious moment to happen exactly at the time you want it to.

2. You Will Feel Nervous When You Kiss for the First Time

Regardless of how much you have thought out your first kiss over and over again in your head, it may be that you will still feel nervous when you lock lips for the first time.

If you really have deep feelings for the guy or girl who shares your first kiss, your mind is likely to go blank. Along with butterflies in your stomach, you may experience a pang of nervousness just before you lean into your boyfriend, girlfriend, or crush.

3. Your Girlfriend or Boyfriend May Not Reciprocate Instantly

If you take charge and decide to make the first move, your guy or girl may be taken aback and dazed. If this happens, they may not reciprocate instantly. Don't look at this as a sign of rejection—it's natural for first-time kissers to hesitate. Sense the situation, and if you think that your boyfriend or girlfriend has been left stunned out of surprise, just plant a tender kiss and go with the flow. Continue leaning in towards your partner.

4. Both of You Could Tilt Your Heads the Same Way

Unless either the guy or the girl has kissed before and knows how to take charge, both could amusingly tilt their heads the same way and fumble up the kiss in the beginning. This comic fumble is cute and the both of you are likely to giggle it off as you proceed to kiss each other for the first time.

A first kiss will likely be spontaneous.

A first kiss will likely be spontaneous.

5. You Could Bump Noses, Foreheads, or Faces

Don't feel bad if you bump noses with the guy or girl you lean in to kiss for the first time. It could be possible that either one of you comes in too fast or too slow, leading to a romantic nose bump or a funny forehead or face bump with each other.

Nose bumps can happen when both partners tilt their heads the same way. A forehead bump could be in the cards if both the guy and the girl approach each other with downward-looking faces. Either way, treat it as something funny that just made your first kiss even more playful.

Read More From Pairedlife

6. Expect Your First-Kiss Experience to be Soft and Tender

First kisses are generally not as intense as the ones partners usually share as their relationship progresses inside the bedroom. Expect your first kiss to be tender and soft. Both of you are likely to be in exploring mode—that leaves little room for a bumpy ride.

If this is your first kiss, it is totally normal to kiss with your mouth closed and give a peck. 'French kissing' with an open mouth is generally reserved for more experienced kissers—for men or women in long-term relationships. So, take the pressure off your first time and enjoy the passionate moment without the high expectations on performance.

7. Don't Expect Lip Biting When You Kiss for the First Time

Kissing for the first time is a discovery for both the guy and the girl. Unless your partner is an expert kisser, both of you are likely to stay away from any kind of lip biting or nibbling.

Don't be afraid and don't speculate about whether it will hurt if he/she bites, because the chances of that happening are slim. Not to mention, biting is another way of referring to a gentle nibble when kissing . . .

8. Your First Kiss Could Be Over Very Quickly

Unless there is tongue action, which is unlikely, your first kiss could be over quicker than you expected it to be. But even if it lasts only a couple of seconds, it will be etched in your memory as the longest most passionate few seconds ever.

Slow-motion, romantic kissing scenes in the movies seem to last for eternity, but in real life, a short but tender lip-lock could be all you get for the first time. Don't be disheartened, and if you think that your first kiss was over too soon and went too fast, lean in for another go.

First kisses can be both passionate and simple.

First kisses can be both passionate and simple.

9. You Could Giggle and Laugh Afterwards

The first-kiss experience is a jolting concoction of emotions, racing heartbeats, nervousness, fumbles, and happiness. The exciting moment may leave you giggling with a jolt of romantic happiness up your spine or butterflies in your stomach.

10. First Kisses Could Be Sloppy If There Is Tongue Involved

Generally, there is not much tongue action involved in the first kiss. But if your first kiss transforms into a romantic make-out session, expect the tongue to venture out, depending on your appetites for intimacy. Licking may be the natural thing to do after both of you have explored and felt a tender touch on the lips. This style of kissing is also often referred to as 'french kissing' or 'making out.'

Unlike seasoned kissers, you and your guy/girl are likely to lick all over each other's lips, inside and out. And as tongues find their way deeper into each others' mouths, your first kiss will go from dry to sloppy to wet (yes, be prepared for saliva on the face!).

Video: Practice Kissing Your Hand

How to Initiate a Kiss

Whereas every first kiss is different, understand what it takes to initiate a kiss so that it is a great first experience:

  • Spend some quality time together away from other distractions (friends, noise, etc.).
  • Get physically close—brushing shoulders, hugging, dancing, etc.
  • Calm your heartbeat. You may be nervous, but focus on your breath and relax.
  • Wet your lips or mouth. Drink something or apply neutral-smelling chapstick. Avoid dry lips or a dry mouth.
  • Keep it passionate. A first kiss does not have to be sexual or seductive in any way. It can be tender and thoughtful.
  • Enjoy the moment and the person! Enjoy your partner's scent, the warmth of your closeness, and the synchronicity of your breathing. Men and women base some of their compatibility on natural scents.
  • Keep the kiss sacred. Think about how you felt when someone told a personal fact or secret about you to others without your permission—as much as you want to gush about the moment, try to keep it private until both of you feel comfortable sharing the details with friends.
  • While making out is its own 'thing,' it's not something to aim for during a first kiss. A good first kiss doesn't have to be hot and steamy or of the advanced kind of kissing, like a french kiss.

The Types of Kisses and Their Meaning

Kiss TypeMeaning

Forehead Kiss

Blossoming romance

Kiss on the Hand

Demonstrates deep caring

French Kiss

Romance and passion

Cheek Kiss

Good for beginners

Air Kiss

Friendly gesture between two consenting people or friends

Neck Kiss


Biting Kiss

Flirty, playful

Slow Kiss

Sensual and passionate

Making Out

The gateway kiss

Does Every Culture Kiss?

According to the article What’s in a Kiss? The Science of Smooching by the British Council, "Approximately 90% of cultures kiss, making a strong case for the act being a basic human instinct." Whereas the remaining 10% of people in various cultures engage in other intimate behaviors like rubbing noses or touching in other ways, kissing plays an important role in human behavior. We simply enjoy it!

Oxytocin: Those 'After Kissing' Feelings

The body has certain regions or arousal areas called erogenous zones, and the lips or mouth is one such location where our senses are heightened. That means our brain receives a chemical elixir of all sorts of good hormones, which includes dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin. Of these hormones, oxytocin, is known as the "love hormone" and helps us to develop feelings of security and attachment. Oxytocin is also a powerful anti-stress hormone. It literally lowers the stress hormone, cortisol, in the blood!

Video: What Not to Do During a First Kiss

Remove the Expectations: Your First Kiss Can Be Nothing Like You Expect

Regardless of how many times you have practiced the moves you are going to pull off when you lean in to kiss your boyfriend or girlfriend for the first time, a first kiss seldom goes according to plan.

As with any form of first-time intimacy, the magical moment will take its own turns. Don't drown yourself in a sea of expectations from the very moment you start thinking about kissing a guy or a girl for the first time.

Your life is not a movie set. Feel free to share your first kiss with someone who you think is worth feeling happy and sad for. Forget the expectations, and embrace your kiss the way it turns out to be.


princess joseph on September 09, 2020:

Well am 21 a Nigerian girl

Have never kissed before and I don't know how it feels to be kissed cos I kinda find it disgusting but I don't know what it feels like

Daisy.Vivian on August 02, 2020:

nelson 4186 way

Pam on July 10, 2020:

Hi I liked this boy for 5 months now and I having been having dreams about me and him kissing but the fact that he might not like me back makes me depressed and wondering why I am having those dreams

Justchilling on July 08, 2020:


I'm 13 and I've only dated once... It was really fun and we didn't really do much. He left and ghosted me... That hurts a lot but I'm fine. We never kissed so the thought of kissing my dream guy is still in my head lol :). I am really nervous but I know d right person would come and it would happen. But dis helped a lot so tnx.

amina on June 28, 2020:

Okay but what does it mean if he keeps trying to kiss you but you don't to

Issy :) on June 11, 2020:

Hey, I’m 14 and I’ve had many crushes in the past. but when one of my friends in school asked me out I said yes cos I had a crush on for a while but I also think it was peer pressure because I was at a sleepover and all of my friends were really excited. So me and this boy had dated for like two days so I really wouldn’t say “dated”. We texted and FaceTimed but we never went out together. Anyway, all the time I was with him I felt sick, so sick and I didn’t know why. I talked to my best friend about it and she told me that I was just anxious. But it was horrible and made me feel so bad about myself so I broke up with him. I know there were definitely better ways to go about what I did but I really didn’t know what to do. If there is any advice someone could give me so I could stop being so anxious so I can actually get a bf and get that first kiss please let me know xx

Corona hater on May 26, 2020:

Coronavirus is the only thing holding me back from this

hey on May 22, 2020:

I'm 15, lonely af, and I feel I will never have my first kiss.

that's all haha :)

Boy lover on May 21, 2020:

I REALLY wanna have my first kiss. I’ve liked this guy for almost 2 years and my friends think he likes me back. I’m 13 and i feel ready for this. Uggg

Anna on May 11, 2020:

I recently got over my crush suddenly I started having feeling for my neighbour. Lol,so he asked if iI actually like him i and i said yes and he also said yes that he likes me to ,so from there we kinda started dating but we havent kissed yet.But I:m starting to get a weird and funny feeling that we will soon kiss,I'm in 7th grade and he's in 9th grade I'm an Aries and he's a Gemini ,perfect couple. I can't wait for us to kiss.Ive never kissed a boy before

But pls I want u all to know that I'm a Nigerian girl. I can't eait for my first kiss,it's gonna be magical

Hellllooooo on April 30, 2020:

I have never had a kiss hope i do soon!

person on April 30, 2020:

I'm 15 and I've never kissed anyone but I go to an all girls school where a lot of people haven't been kissed. At the end of last year and start of this year, there was this guy- we talked for 4 months and even went out on a date (at least I think it was a date- movies and lunch??) but then he asked me to be his valentine and I chickened out. In a bitchy move (it wasn't meant to be but I'm a social mess) I ghosted him after politely saying no to being his date, then after 2 weeks I sent a heartfelt message about how I wasn't ready for a relationship. The thing is, all of last year I was craving a relationship but when I was close to being in one I said no and it honestly felt like a weight off my shoulders. I don't even know if I honestly had romantic feelings for him, he was super sweet and cared about me but I think it was just the thought of someone actually having a crush on me which made me feel like I reciprocated. I never meant to ghost him but I think peer pressure got to me, all of his friends and one of my close friends kept on asking why we weren't dating and stuff and it just got to me. Anyway I'm not craving a relationship now, I'm not even looking to talk to boys (but I wouldn't mind if a boy initiated it first) but I also feel like I'm never going to have my first kiss :(

RKD on April 12, 2020:

well am 15 and probably will never have a true love kiss simply because this girl who was the most beautiful in my school began dating because her friend introduced her to me it was like divine love for her becoz she was my crush for 3 years when i thought it was time for my first kiss prepared she dumbed me in he cruelest way by insulting me and humiliating me in front of my friend turns out i was the only boy left in her class to toy my feelings with now sad and broken im a pessimist who think girls a lost cause to this forsaken world

kim on April 10, 2020:

I have 3 boy my first kiss lt was nice guys

grill on March 02, 2020:

soo imma be 15 on march 14th and thats the time when spring break starts, im going to visit my friend who is one year older than me and i hope imma get my first kiss with him. im thinking of him too much like too much, im usually thinking how will the first kiss feel and how do i do it...

so stressed...

maximilian praise cleophas on February 17, 2020:

My first kiss was so nice because i felt as if i am in the seventh heaven.

no name on January 20, 2020:

I literally had my first kiss today and it turned into a make out session real quick lol it was really good

Person on January 20, 2020:

I had my first kiss yesterday, it was awkward but so perfect

Tess on December 19, 2019:

I have 6 boy's in my class like me but I ole rede have a boyfriend but they don't care they sell flrt with me but my boyfriend is brakeing up with me☹️

OLUSEGUN from NIGERIA on November 22, 2019:

Educative. Love this!

rayray on October 24, 2019:

Y'all I just had a kiss (it wasn't my first) but it was with this guy that I'm literally head over heels for. Like, I'd take a bullet for him, seriously. But we'd been holding hands, and he hugs me a lot, and he's always by my side, and today he was leaning over me and all of a sudden I just did it and then he reciprocated and I just can't stop thinking about it.

Leah on October 15, 2019:

I Have A Crush Named Demitri (Or Had) he was dating my friend we were friends at the time I went to the bathroom and my friend knew I had a crush on him she told him in chat I came back and he said really u like me i said yeah and I said im going to leave wait he said I actually like u too i was soooooooooooooooooo happy it felt like heaven he went to camp and he told me that my friend mimi said u and leah like eachother and im going to tell ur girlfriend he said how do u know she said leah told me and I didn't I was wondering how

she found out I swear I didn't tell her then the next day she told his girlfriend My friend im surprised she wasn't mad at me he usually was playing basketball but this time he was walking around the playground looking at the ground walking with his friends then I realized he broke up with his girlfriend I was doing the same thing with my other friend walking around the playground we kept passing each other my stomach had butterflies everytime I passed him a couple weeks later demitris ex girlfriends cousin (Hes So Mean Hes A Bully) he and his friend joseph they were like the number one Lemitri shippers one year later he completely stopped talking to me my friend moved on to a guy names Jaiden I havnt moved on (me and demitri have the same b day may 25) he has curly hair then another boy with curly hair came his name is Anthony his b day is on may 25 (whats with me with curly hair boys) (I noticed that I like people with curly hair) "Donte" "Demitri" Anthony is okay okay he dosnt talk to me anymore the last day of school for him it was like to more days untill school was completely over was the best thing ever theirs a window we can use the computers and he was their so I wen their with my friend and he was playing mincraft edu so my friend wanted to play that so i had no idea how to get on so I asked demitri and my friend asked my friends cousin the bully he told me how and he made me a house on mincraft it was unicorn themed even if im old I still love unicorns and even if he dosnt talk to me I still like him I just wish I could atleast hold his hand tips on how he could stop not talking to me TIPS PlS Ps I think he likes my friend elulalia idk how to spell it Tips Pls sorry very long

Marleen on October 01, 2019:

I've always wanted love for myself. I'm in high school and I see these cute couples all the time and I always wonder why it's so hard for me to get that for myself. It almost feels like no one likes me for who I really am. Anyways, I do kind of like two people. It's crazy but one's a boy and the other is a girl. I'm straight but there's something about this girl that I love so much. Both of them are in my Spanish class and both of them are awesome, sweet, funny, nice, handsome and beautiful, and they both seem like my type. Idk but I really want to be asked out on a date by either of them and I really want either one to be my first kiss. It's frickin complicated.

uhh on September 27, 2019:

i’m so nervous, my bf asked me if he could give me my first kiss but it will be at school. I don’t have any experience, tips?

zoo we mama on September 18, 2019:

i had my first kiss 2 days ago at my school after hours and it was magical

???? on September 01, 2019:

It happened Today this morning at 5 am! Me and my boyfriend were at a skating rink at a all night which is from 7pm to 7am and we had previously texted me about it before but we were laying on the ground cuddling and he asked me if im sure im down with it because i said id be down with it in our texts. And i mumbled yes. He told me to scoot foward and he just leaned in and so did I!!!. It surpassed all my expectations. My stomach was in knots while we were leaning in and right before we kissed i got a pang of nervousness but then after we just laughed and it was like true heaven. Then he gave me a sweet goodbye kiss and thats how my first kiss went.

A Wizard on August 29, 2019:

oh man... i am 24 years old and never kissed anyone, in fact i have even been rejected by my whole grade one time they were playing the bottle game. I guess it just never happens to some people :(

I really like like him u3u on August 29, 2019:

Well, 15 and I have never kissed a guy or a girl yet. I haven't even dated someone yet. It kinda feels like no-one likes me. It's just sad. I kinda just wish I could just be in a wholesome relationship. Ah, what does it matter? This guy I like doesn't like me back, He has eyes for my best friend. Ouch, right? I've told him I liked him and he had the most nonchalant reaction ever. Honestly. Most of the time I get over crushes as soon as it's not reciprocated. Nah. Not with this guy. He just... He means the world to me. Ohmygod and he has the most astonishing blue eyes. I wish I could just stare into them forever. And his hair? It always looks so soft and fluffy. I really want to hug him too. He just makes my life that much better by being in it. Honestly. I never ever think of other people or have thought of other people the way I think of him. So what he's unintentionally upset me 5 times this year alone. I would do anything for him. Even if that meant getting over him. F*** this was such a sob story.

sofia on August 16, 2019:

My first kiss they asked me if they could kiss me, I told them they could so they went for it. I ended up turned away at the last second because it didn't feel right at that moment. Later that night the moment was just perfect, and we just kissed.

Me on August 06, 2019:

I got rejected.

Kaleeb on July 30, 2019:

My first kiss was so surprising I was about to leave her house and she leaned in and kissed me with some tongue action it’s kind of fuzzy tbh but amazing she caught me off guard and I cannot stop thinking of her

Me on July 18, 2019:

I really like this nice funny beautiful girl and we have only known each other for 3 days but I think she likes me and I am going to ask her her number tomorrow and I really hope she is my first kiss.

Me on July 18, 2019:

I meet this really nice funny beautiful girl and I really like her but we have only known each other for 3 days but I think she likes me and I hope she will be my first kiss.

Elfreda on July 07, 2019:

Just 2 days after reading this I had my first kiss

Jenna on July 03, 2019:

The day after reading this I had my first kiss with the guy I've been crushing on and it was soooo perfect!!

Amelia on July 03, 2019:

I’m gonna regret posting this when one of my friends comes across it like I know will happen, knowing my lot. I haven’t had my first kiss yet. I’ve been dating this guy for nearly 4 months, it feels immature to go around saying it when I’m not even officially in the seventh grade, but I’m pretty darn sure I’m in love. Hate me if you may, I don’t care, he’s AMAZING.

But that’s not the point,

Thing is, we’re really affectionate, but haven’t actually kissed on the lips. I’m not complaining, what I’m trying to say is, it’s likely about to go down this weekend. We haven’t seen each other in about a month and a half, longest we’ve been apart, Miss each other a ton, etc. We’ve got a date, or at least, have arranged to meet up, at a bowling alley this weekend. There’s no way it’s not gonna happen. No. Way.

I’m pretty confident about it, I just don’t know what I’m doing.

Kinsly Ausborn on June 13, 2019: 13 and I just had my first kiss! It was with the guy i have had a crush on since the 6th grade. Im an 8th grader now. but it all happened so...i dont know. like, cute-ly. if you know what i mean. So it was 10 at night so its dark. Im home alone and i hear this nock on my door. ITS HIM!!! So i rush to the door and my neighbor is their with him. He says, "Do you want to come to a fire with me and *neighbor* so i go to the fire and we hang out. Then he said, "we should go to the park. I look at him and my neighbor and he says," that sounds like a good idea." so we ride our bike there and im swinging. Then he happens to sit next to me and swings. Then he gets up and goes to my neighbor and whispers something in his ear. My neighbor comes up to me and said," Hey "Jeff" wants to kiss you" I didnt wanna leave him hanging so i went over there and did it. It was awkward and silly, defiantly not something you would totally expect...but it was..amazing and unique in its own kinda sorta way.

Lola on June 08, 2019:

ok so im 12 and I've had my first kiss with my boyfriend I was really excited for it but when I saw him I was scared so he tried to kiss me but I moved my head. Then we finally did kiss it wasn't actually that bad considering that neither one of us had kissed before so now we kiss all the time....

Rosie on May 26, 2019:

KayT: I sure hope not. For both of our sakes! It makes every truth or dare awkward, doesn't it? Like, "Who was your first kiss?" Uh, nobody. "Have you ever kissed anyone?" "No." "Oh..." *awkward laugh* "Well, you're an innocent little kid, then!"

Ugh. -_-

Bell on May 20, 2019:

I have a HUUGGGGGGEEEEEEE!!on someone in my class named jack i still havent admitted but he is so nice!I am pretty sure he likes me back but im not sure HELLLLPP

Nina on May 17, 2019:

i had ny first kiss yesterday. It was so amazing i thought about it all day today.

A depressed burrito on May 13, 2019:

I am seeing 12 year olds having their first kiss when they have been dating for like 5 weeks. . . While I am over here 6months and nothing but tbh I could care less I am to nervous and happy the way things are

krizz on May 05, 2019:

today is day. a guys today is our first kiss and it was amazing

KayT on April 27, 2019:

I'm 15 and I've never had my first kiss, is that bad?

Levi on April 08, 2019:

ok so lets get this strait... i don't even know if this counts as a first kiss but like i was playing truth or dare with my sister and a few of my friends, so guess what i have to do, i have to kiss the girl next to me ( not my sister ) and the weird thing was is that i have a girlfriend ( still do ). But i have not have the gut to ask her if we can kiss or not. I mean we have only been dating for 1 month but she is really cute and even though im only 11 and shes 12 ive heard we make a cute couple. But this guide was actually really helpful so as you said, i will not set expectations. lol

Sav on April 03, 2019:

Just had my first kiss today lol. He just so happened to be my neighbor and he was like yo you wanna do this? We just met up and kissed. Literally. (Ngl it felt like a soft raisin lmfaoo idkk)

Yadi on February 14, 2019:

i had my first kiss today...on valentines day...and me and my bf's one in 7th grade...and okay so story time

.....So basically i walked in to the band room with him, his bestfriend, his bestfriend's girlfriend, and another one of his friends. So his bestfriend and his girlfriend pop kissed but they have been together a long looooooong time and um my boyfriend looked at me and i wrapped my arms around his neck and he lifted me up and i wrapped my legs around him and i was shaking so bad so he let me down...then i was like okay im ready and i put my arms around his neck again and i felt lifted into the air, and i felt his arms on my back, and i wrapped my legs around him again and he leaned forward so then i leaned forward to and he pressed his lips on mine and omg his lips were so soooooooooft and then um it was a pop kiss sooo it was really short then he put me down and we walked out of the band room......and thats how my first kiss went ♡

C on January 20, 2019:

I like this girl a lot but im really shy... she's "popular" and im that guy everyone knows... im in 8th grade and ive never been to a dance... i think im gonna die

margorot on November 10, 2018:

cute I wish I could have my first kiss now . Well I wonder when you have your first kiss is that will it feel ashamed . I cant wait until my very first kiss :).

Harlee on October 28, 2018:

I AM expecting my first kiss tomorrow

jani on October 19, 2018:

and our 1-month anniversary is tomorrow so it was even more perfect

jani on October 19, 2018:

it happened and it was amazing. thanks for the advice. it was just a soft kiss on the lips, but we ended up gently making out. i felt like i was in heaven

jani on October 18, 2018:

i'm excited for my first kiss. my boyfriend and i have talked about it and he made sure i was ready. tomorrow is the first middle school dance of the year (i'm in 7th) and i think that's when it's gonna happen

??? on September 24, 2018:

I never kiss someone

T on September 07, 2018:

I'm 18 and I've never been kissed yet, because I don't like guys it's way harder for me

Whined c on August 29, 2018:

I was absolutely hammered my first kiss lol

hmm on August 25, 2018:

i really wish that my ex-crush gave me a kiss.. he was too shy though.

i can see why. we were only in 6th grade too!

Hi on August 20, 2018:

My first kiss was bad, I cringe every time I think of it. I was just not ready at all but the guy was super persistent to be physical and I thought I liked him... moral of the story NEVER EVER let someone pressure you at ALL.

Rosie on August 18, 2018:

haven't even been in a relationship but want mine its really annoying but i'm going to wait until i know the times right

Narai Esparza on July 01, 2018:

I am 18 and I just had my first kiss with my first boyfriend ever, yesterday. It was so not what I expected but it felt nice. I’m seeing all these comments here about people saying that they are 16 and have never kissed anyone and they think it’s bad, but it’s not! Everyone has a different “right time”

Kaminari on June 18, 2018:

I was and still am curious how it is like to kiss a girl. I made a deal with a girl to try it but when we were talking about where its gonna be i changed my mind and thought it will better to kiss a girl i love.It was 3 years ago and still didnt kiss anyone lol

Makayla on May 29, 2018:

I Had My First Kiss with this boy Tavion I can't get him out of my head and I still have deep feelings for him is there something wrong with me??

f on May 23, 2018:

i wish i had a boyfriend. not just to kiss, but to just have to cuddle, hug, and hang with.

Sparkle on April 13, 2018:

Its not always just a guy and a girl.

A on March 23, 2018:

I have never been hugged or kissed by a guy. I'm 16 is that bad.

B on March 21, 2018:

my first kiss wasn't awkward and I didn't felt nervous at all. It just happened. the kiss was soft and lasted seconds. After that we just giggle.

eunice on February 18, 2018:

all of this was all right my first kiss was slope

Adoniz on February 15, 2018:

I would really like to know how it feels and I cant wait!

Holly on February 09, 2018:

My first kiss happened yesterday at a party he saw me he touched my waist and told me to meet him at 7 by the hidden areas and it actually happened he took charge but luckily he sensed the effect he had on me cause I was all wobbly so he picked me up which i thought would never happen

Natalie on January 27, 2018:

Trust me on this, my first kiss happened yesterday and it was not what I was expecting. It was more of a peck than an actual kiss.

Can a do-over first kiss exist? It wasn't a bad first kiss, but it really was NOT what I was expecting from him.

Shriman on January 07, 2018:

Yet to receive mine .... Hopefully it will be great

aaron on January 05, 2018:

just had mine . talk about heaven on earth, almost lost my legs on exit . . . ahhh sublime

Sophia on December 26, 2017:

My dad is not going to like me making out with my boyfriend

Chris on November 26, 2017:

Trey and 12 year old girl I have to agree with both of you guys like what trey said I am to shy to ask out a girl but like what 12 year old girl said if I was in a steady relationship I would step up to do it

12 year old girl on November 11, 2017:

I'm scared but ima do it anyway ima be brave bc i think i love him we've been dating for 5 weeks now...

Trey on November 08, 2017:

I will never use this in reality as I am way too nervous to ask out a girl

a person on October 27, 2017:

O_O I'm seeing my bf idk if the first kiss will happen or not but I want to be prepared

Beau Khongjaeng on October 08, 2017:

Thank for sharing that with me!

I have no idea what to expect from the first kiss at all. I've never kiss anyone before and I would like to know how would it feel to kiss someone for the first time, (just if I have a boyfriend!, LOL). Ahhh!, I can't wait!

SPHINDILE on June 26, 2017:

I had a problem with my boyfriend we don't even talk any more thing are get worse.i need a advice .

Gage Gaynor on May 05, 2017:

What up

Morgana on February 21, 2017:

Thanks for writing this article.. It was educational and well written. I like how you left it on a positive note:

"Your life is not a movie set – Feel free and share your first kiss with someone who you think is worth feeling happy and sad for. Forget the expectations and embrace your kiss, the way it turns out to be."

I love how you wrote it so much, I may share it with someone else!

Jenna on October 23, 2016:

I wish my boyfriend would step up and kiss me

Megan on April 11, 2015:

I wish I could let a guy kiss me.

Eiddwen from Wales on October 13, 2012:

A great hub;original and useful I am sure.

Enjoy your weekend.


Related Articles