I love giving advice to women on how to enhance their love life.
Men Like It Hot Too!
Men just like getting laid, huh? If you believe that, you may want to think again! They want good, exciting, and incredible sex just like women do, but they don't always know how to tell you what they want.
For more good ideas about what men really want in bed, read What Makes a Woman Good in Bed?
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- Tell him what to do. Guys and girls are different, and sometimes guys need to hear what you want. It's okay to shout, "Hey, put your tongue on this!" It actually helps everyone!
- Talk dirty. Channel your inner truck driver. While telling him what you want him to do and how to do it, get filthy with your language. Men love it.
- Swallow. I do not intend on discussing this one further as my mom may read this article.
- Masturbate. Guys like to watch. Girls like to watch. Don't be shy.
- Touch. Rub him everywhere else too. A back rub is a nice touch and shows you care more about just getting him off.
- Be open-minded. Adventurous. Willing to at least try something new.
- Be yourself. Do not ever try to be someone you're not. Just be yourself.
- Experiment, experiment, experiment. It is rare to find a man who wants to make love the same way every time.
- Dominatrix? A man might like to be seen as a big tough guy, but most men love for their partner to take control sometimes. You don't have to be the dominatrix type, just sometimes be the one that will take over.
- Take your time. The occasional quickie aside, try to avoid frantic sex that finishes too quickly.
- Responsiveness. Be responsive both with your body and your mouth (verbally). Let him know you are aroused by the way you move or what you say.
- Give and take. For you to give as well as to receive. Making love is a two-way process. A woman who is willing to give her man pleasure is always a plus.
- Spontaneity. A partner who wants to have sex at a moment's notice without making a plan or a lame excuse is a real turn-on.
- Roleplay. Many men like to spice things up a bit and act out fantasies like watching their lover do a striptease. It could even be a role that does not necessarily turn you on, as long as you are comfortable with it and no one gets hurt.
- Sex in the morning. Some men, no matter how old they are, wake up with an erection and love to roll over and make use of it.
- Quick sex (some of the time). A spontaneous quickie here and there is a turn-on.
- Woman on top. Don't hold back. The man might usually go on top, but it does not have to be that way. If you want to be on top, then get on top, and if you like it a little more rough, then, by all means, make it that way.
- Nothing off-limits. Let him explore and discover. Most men love to savor each and every part of a woman's body.
- Look at him. Don't keep your eyes closed. Look him in the eye.
This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.