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10 Tips for Kissing Which Will Leave Your Partner Stunned!


Kissing... It's an Art!

Kissing is a form of art which has many beautiful colours and variations to it which provide an experience of total love and fulfillment! Many people however treat kissing as something to be worried about, or something that has to be absolutely perfect each time… Trust me everyone makes mistakes with kissing! But the more that you kiss with your partner, the more you begin to explore and eventually find your perfect kiss.

You should always remember that kissing doesn’t have to be restricted to just the lips, as you can explore with the cheeks, chin, eye lids, tongue, forehead, neck or even the breast if you are really in love with your partner! There are also many different styles of kissing that you will want to experiment with, like French kissing or using your tongues while you kiss your lover. It actually doesn’t matter! The only thing that matters is that you are enjoying it, and she/he is enjoying it… If not something will eventually fall into place, and you will then begin to enjoy it!

Two people kissing under vail.

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You won’t believe the amount of people who stress over kissing! The whole idea of kissing is that you and another person show your love in such an immensely sensational way, that you both find yourselves in the most magical experience of a lifetime! So what I suggest to you, is that when you’re kissing you empty your head of stressful thoughts, and just go with the flow of the kissing… This is what you should always do on the first kiss, as it means you can discover what the other person likes with their kissing.

Have Fresh Breath.

This is a very important tip for kissing, as if you don’t have fresh smelling breath you may not get your kiss at all! My advice, is to always have a spare mint or piece of gum on you, so that after having a meal you can freshen up before the big kiss! Always remember to brush your teeth every morning and night, for long lasting mouth cleanliness. A side note is to often check your mouth hygiene with your dentist, and if possible, pay a bit extra for private dental treatment. When in a relationship, it's incredibly important that you are sure that your mouth is an clean as possible.

Moist Lips.

Having moist lips is something you definitely need for a great kiss to form, and it can be done by simply licking your lips… I wouldn't recommend using lip gloss as it will make your lips overly slimy, and your lips will be sliding all over the place! However when you just gently lick your lips with your tongue, your experience with kissing will be a lot more pleasant than ever before. Especially, if you usually have dry or cracked lips, which are unpleasant to say the least.

Position of Your Head.

This is an amazing tip for kissing, as all the professionals in love and relationships do it this way all the time! In fact, I can probably assume you’ve seen this type of thing on a film, but just in case you haven’t I’ll go through it with you…

Okay, so when you see that your partner is tilting their head to one side or another, you must tilt the other way while going in for the kiss. Not only does this prevent you from banging noses, but you also will have a luxurious kiss with the position that you’re in! Simple right? Just make sure that it follows smoothly, and that your both feeling happy with what's going on.

Soft Lips.

If you’re going in too hard with your lips, I think it’s best if you soften up a little! Seriously as much as it might be fun to be slightly rougher with your kissing, you may hurt them! Therefore, if this is your first time kissing with them, you want to go as soft as it seems necessary to make sure no one gets a nasty scare! But make sure that your not being overly soft, otherwise she/he might think you're nervous or something...

Couple Kissing in Cologne

By Tim Bartel from Cologne, Germany [CC-BY-SA-2.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/2.0)], via Wikimedia Commons

By Tim Bartel from Cologne, Germany [CC-BY-SA-2.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/2.0)], via Wikimedia Commons

Tasty Lips.

Hey! Why not surprise your partner with a nice tasting lip balm, and you’ll see the delight on their faces instantly! You’ll not believe how much your partner will love your kissing once you add a little flavour to it, and the great thing is that lip balm is also hygienic so why not try some!? A little tip I'd like to give you is that you should buy some quality lip balm, and not some of that cheap and nasty rubbish you might find on the street. If you need some help finding some decent lip balm I have left some ideas to the right.

Close Your Eyes.

By closing your eyes you may find that the whole kiss is that much more beautiful than before… Something that you can keep in mind while kissing with your eyes shut is that you shouldn't go to sleep as it can be very embarrassing! Also you’ll lose a love one… you don’t want that!

Nip Kiss.

(You don’t go anywhere near a woman’s breast during this kiss!) A great tip for kissing is once you have kissed with your partner a few times before, you can go for a very risky yet pleasurable method of kissing which involves gently nipping your partners lip… However, if you nip too hard you’re going to give an unpleasant shock to your partner, so I highly recommend having caution while doing this! Nevertheless, it is a very good way to spice up your kissing and it will leave your partner speechless…

Surprise Kiss.

If you really want to impress your partner, you can go up to them while they’re on the sofa at home, and kiss them on the eye lids so that they wake up to a lovely surprise of you kissing them. Be careful that the person you’re kissing doesn't react badly, and accidentally hit you in the face… It can happen trust me! But if you do it correctly you will share a very good kiss, which could just put them in a really good mood for the rest of the day.

Kiss Alone.

You and your beloved should try to kiss away from an audience of people, since this can cause a lot of embarrassment or nervousness! Therefore, try to go somewhere more secret or at least where there aren't any more than 2 people in the area. (You and her/him.) That way you’ll minimise the chance of stirring up feelings of nervous or feeling embarrassed! However, if your lover feels perfectly fine kissing in public, then there should be no reason for you to feel any different. So why not relax and enjoy the ride!?

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.


Philla de philla babra et Sarah phina on August 07, 2020:

The first things date will ask of is to kiss but remember,a relationship is not all about kisses, but the amount of love you love your date

Rsshid Scar on June 03, 2020:

Thanks so much

chinewest on November 13, 2019:

helpful and thanks for it

Josh on March 20, 2019:

I hate this article

drspaniel (author) from Somewhere, where the sun shines once a year... on February 19, 2019:

It's certainly not for everyone! Though there is something undoubtedly sensual about kissing with spontaneity. Thanks for reading x

Anna Sidorova from Russia on February 02, 2019:

I'm not a big kisser, but your tip on surprise kissing trigged me.

lucy on January 31, 2019:

i love kissing but my partner has a weak lip so i prefer kissing him on the neck and a direct kiss he loves that and keeps asking for more..i love the tips you have given

Frances on January 26, 2019:

Nip kissing is a must, its not only sensual but can make your partner "hold that thought" type of reaction to "omg they are good!!".

Jane on October 14, 2018:

I hate it when my husband licks his lips before kissing me. It makes me want to gag. Use chapstick, lol.

aaliyah on November 30, 2014:

A great kiss is filled with passion. It will make you fall in love even more when the kisses are sweet and passion filled. I love kissing when I am in a relationship with someone who knows what they are doing

Devika Primić from Dubrovnik, Croatia on September 15, 2014:

Kissing is meant to be discreet from my view and your ways are to the point.

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