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Pleasure Advocate Explains How to Deal with Mismatched Libidos

Do you, like so many couples, struggle with misaligned sex drives? At any given moment, they approach you all hot and bothered and ready to go, but you're exhausted from your busy day and just aren't into exerting any more effort. Then, a few days later, it's completely flipped flopped. How annoying. 

In this clip, TikToker and pleasure advocate @natassiabmiller takes a moment to discuss mismatched libidos and how a couple can navigate this common issue with a empathy and a new perspective. 

She explains it perfectly. For a couple to have sex more than once a week is really good and above the average amount for a married pair. Of course, a compromise might be necessary on both parts for things to work out to a happy medium. 

Viewers are chiming in with their thoughts and think the guy in this account might need a little reality check. User @rrossi97 says, "2-3 times a week? That’s a problem? What I wouldn’t do for half that." Commenter @allmediaweekly says, "Wow 2 to 3 times a week seems incredible. I've read a lot of couples married that long are down to like once a month." Similarly, @junierific says, "2-3 times is more than enough. I think men need to reassess how they look at sex. Just because we wake up ready it doesn’t mean we need to."

A woman's body operate differently than a man's, and sometimes it can only take so much. 😆 If this is a problem for you, it might be helpful to communicate with your partner in more detail about what gets you in the mood so you don't feel like you're just doing him a favor when you have sex. 

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