Are you, like many, someone to get a little "trigger happy" when it comes to texting a guy you like? Look, it happens to the best of us, and we all have good intentions. However, those good intentions can easily get lost in translation via text and as a result, you may come across in a way that is unintended and doesn’t accurately reflect who you really are as a person. The good news is, there are ways to troubleshoot this.
In this clip, dating coach @xostefrodden lists three texts you should avoid sending to men. Grab a pen and notebook because she's right on the money with these!
What she's saying here makes a lot of sense. If he wants to respond to you, he will. Also, make sure you're not falling into a pen-pal relationship. Some conversations are better left in person and it's face to face that you get to know someone best.
The response from viewership is a big mixed on these topics. User @rinkydinkydo says, "Yep! That’s the sign of a controlling person if he respects you he will answer regardless plus if you aren’t top priority now you never will be." On the other hand, some would rather trust their own intuitions and what feels right when it comes to texting. Commenter @_nikihun adds, "I stick to my heart when I feel I will text what I feel like. It's not always about them but what brings me peace." To each their own! Additionally, TikToker @bossx0x0 says, "Sorry but yes you can literally feel someone’s energy through text messages."
Through trial and error, we all eventually learn a thing or two about what to text and what not to text in order to move the relationship along favorably. At the end of the day, the choices are yours to make. Just don't say you haven't been warned.
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