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40-Something Woman Makes Perfect Case for Dating Guys in Their 20s

These days, it seems like so many women believe dating older men is the move. While there may be some advantages to dating older men in some ways, their younger counterparts may be overlooked in other ways. At least, that's what one woman on TikTok is campaigning about. 

In this clip, @jensue55 shares a screenshot of her texts with a younger man she's dating, and why women shouldn't count them out of the market. We have to hand it to her, she has a point here!

Guys in their 20s can be great to date for many reasons. They generally have more energy, are eager to please, come with less baggage, and not to mention, they're super attractive! Besides, how many men in their 30s and 40s do you see shopping in Target for fun? We'll wait. 

Viewers in the comments get it. User @bridgeport86 says, "35 here and bagged a 28 year old that treats me and my kids better than my 40 year old ex. DO IT," and @wtrlvr18 says, "I’m so happy for you. You’re giddy when you talk about Mr. Almost 28." Some have found out that just because a man is older doesn't necessarily mean he's better or more mature. Viewer @sunnysocalvibes admits, "I dated a guy 10 years older on purpose thinking he’d be settled & mature. He ended up being the worst." Now, some people believe younger men are all only after sex, but that isn't always the case either. User @amykate27 says, "44. boyfriend is 29. we've been together for 5 years. best relationship I've ever had." Well, there's that. 

Not only that, men in their 20s are often known to be openly positive of how women older than men are more confident and know what they want in life - and in the bedroom. Think about it, if you want a fun relationship with someone who admires you for the kickass, sophisticated woman you are (and tags along with you on your Target runs) then give it a shot with a 20s guy. Don't knock it til you try it! 

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