As a woman, I write a great deal about men who wear lingerie. To be honest, it has become rather a passion of mine over the past few years.
How I Came to Love a Man Who Wore Panties
As a woman, I write a great deal about men who wear lingerie. To be honest, it has become rather a passion of mine over the past few years, but it wasn't always that way. This is the story of how I came upon this phenomenon of men who like to wear lingerie, and how I came to love a man who wore panties.
In the beginning, I was introduced to men wearing lingerie by a wonderful man who hesitantly revealed his proclivity towards wearing lingerie after several dates.
I don't know if I would have responded so well on the first date, but by the time he told me I had already begun to like him—and I wanted to get to know him better. It didn't really seem like it would be that big of a deal if he wanted to wear lingerie; after all, we all have our little likes and dislikes, don't we?
My Biggest Fear
My biggest fear came about from hoping that I wouldn't laugh if he looked silly in it. After all, a big hairy man wearing a camisole, bra, and stretching out a pair of ladies panties in all the wrong places isn't exactly the image most women want to have of their boyfriend.
I'm not going to lie and say I fell in love with it the moment I saw it. I didn't. It looked odd, and yeah it was a tad strange. But then I got up the courage to touch him whilst he was wearing his lingerie, and oh, dear lord. There is something about the feel of satin sliding over a hard muscled body that is just amazingly sensual. I won't be crude, but I will say that there was an added dimension to our lovemaking that came both from the feel of the lingerie, and no doubt, also from the freedom he was allowed just to be himself.
It might not be your ideal of a perfect mate to have a man who wears lingerie, but trying to shove men into boxes and make them live some role like walking Ken dolls isn't a healthy way to be, and believe me when I say he was all man between the sheets.
There is a common misconception that men who wear lingerie are somehow effeminate, or even gay. However, most men wear lingerie for the feeling. They like the way that the satin and lace feel against their skin. Why shouldn't they? Lingerie does feel good. It feels sexy, and having two bodies clad in silky smooth material only adds to the fun.
Thousands of Men Hide This Side of Themselves
It may not be your thing to have a man who wears lingerie, and that is fine. Just be aware that there are quite literally thousands of men who hide this side of themselves from their female partners because they fear losing them if it were revealed. You may already have a man who wears lingerie and not even know it.
I don't often get biblical, but I am reminded of a story in the Bible where a man goes to a dinner party and neglects to change his work clothes before going. He is turned away at the door because he is not dressed properly; so he goes home, changes into his finest garments, and returns to the party. This time he is allowed in, and he sits down and promptly begins "feeding" his clothes, putting food in the pockets and talking to his clothes at the same time. His host and the other guests look at him as if he is mad, of course, and eventually his host asks him what on earth he is doing. The man then replies "When I came in my old clothes, you wouldn't let me in, so I assume it is my clothes you have invited to your home, and not me."
It's the man under the panties that counts.
Al Beuterol on July 16, 2020:
Why is it that when ever I see a woman in high heels, stockings, and a short skirt..I immediately go into an intense state of erection /why is that??
Robert on April 07, 2020:
I 've been obsessed with women's undies for a really long time. I remember when I was 8 years old when I saw my friends mother in a beautiful two piece swim suit, and from that point, I started to fantasize about pretty women. I discovered the ladies section in a Sears catalogue and was even more turned on. It wasn't until much later that I had the mean to get my own (womans) undies. I just adore wearing a bra (seamless underwire), silky briefs (vanity fair) and silky half slips. I am not gay and I don't go outside wearing my ladies intimates.
Gary Gare on April 02, 2020:
Thank you for this! I thought I was alone. Now I need the courage to share this with my wife. Thanks, Hope!
Mike on April 01, 2020:
There is not a better feeling than that od silk against your cock. It keeps me hard the whole time I am wearing them and believe me I am as masculine as the next man !
Stretchsatin on March 28, 2020:
i started when I was 12, with my two younger sisters, have been hooked ever since, my curiousty got me hooked, so much more comfortable to wear than my whiteys, living with my girlfriend for ten years, we going to be wed, she is at the church getting ready with her bride maids, and I was at home going through her lingerie collection, a bra, 38b cup, panty, cami, garter with six-straps, stockings, all in white, silky and lacey, under my tux, at the honey moon she made such a fuss how great her wedding dress was, I said good for you, I told her has to be better than a tux, she then offered me her wedding dress to try on, wow, I said really, I said yes, I helped her out of her wedding dress and she offered to help me puut on, we are very close in size so fit was close, she said I needed her corset, and the dress fit perfect, wow, we had a great night to follow
jerry s on March 24, 2020:
my love of nylons&garterbelts, bras, waist cinchers with stiletto high heels& boots drives me wild having to dress up&see my body look so sexy. I feel like a woman trapped in a man's body.i have 12 pairs of heels,wedge sandals,boots to go with 6 bras,colorful panties,&many shades & styles of nylon stockings. I feel so sexy when i'm dressed.
steve on March 22, 2020:
i want to clean wash or cook for mature women in birmingham wearing tights or stockings
Devastated Dude on February 12, 2020:
My wife's Aunt has extremely large breasts...say something like a 36DDD size brassiere. What i recently did was to cut one of her brassieres in half...now I have two skull caps with chin straps...rather Cool Eh ??
Lee on January 30, 2020:
I love seeing my hubby wearing feminine lingerie. I happen to see a show on TV about cross dressers and I found it exciting so I told him about it and asked if he did on our second date, discovering that he had and did. Of course this excited me even more and not only did I want to see, I got him to promise and show me. Well to make a long story short a year later we were married and my hubby loves wearing lingerie and cross dressing.
Ned Beulizer on January 30, 2020:
I am not much into cross dressing but the one thing I really enjoy is slipping on a pair off four inch high heels and some thigh high stockings when I am pleasuring myself or getting some serious hand relief from my wife's mother.
Big Pauley on January 20, 2020:
I am not into the brassiere and panties scene, but I totally enjoy wearing thigh high stockings and high heels. It was my ex mother in law who turned me on to women's stockings.. she wanted me to massage her stockinged legs that gave her an orgasm and me an erection. From that day on I have worn stockings during sex and when I am jerking off..which is often. I buy my nylons from a local women's wear shop. The sales lady gets so excited when I come into her shop... she watches me as I try on the nylons..we often have intercourse together.. It's an awesome experience..
Kate on January 18, 2020:
I love to get dressed in white vintage blonde suspenders, black stockings, 50 dresses and high heels + make up - Its so exiting, and the feeling of beeing a sexy women or a shemale with a hard on - and moving out in public at night is so exciting and delcious -
Roy West on January 17, 2020:
My first taste of silky nylon panties was as a boy. Back in the 1960s they were normal womenswear.
Mum and older sister wore them, and they were always hanging to dry on the line or in the bathroom.
The ranged from pastels to black and white, most had lacy edges around the legs.
To say I was mesmerised was an understatement.
My own underwear was so boring, just plain white thick cotton. It was only a matter of time before temptation overcame me, and I was slipping a pink pair up my thin boyish legs.
The feeling was electric, and I was hooked for like. It wasn’t too long before I was secretly wearing panties under my pyjamas in bed.
A little later I borrowed some stockings and a suspender belt to wear with the panties. What a thrill. My heart pounded like a drum.
Later I tried frilly babydoll nighties and ruffled panties. All were normal underwear and bed wear back then.
Sadly not for boys!
Decades later I still love them and wear them. I am not transsexual or gay. I’m not even a full cross dresser.
For me it’s just sexy, filmy, sheer, underwear.
I’m married and still sleep in pretty panties every night. I’m British and although nylon panties disappeared in shops long ago, every department store in the USA has racks and racks of them.
I stock up whilst I’m on vacation.
What does my wife think? She’s happy with me wearing and buys them for me. She admits that they arouse me to the maximum and feel sexy on me.
I still get the same kind of tingle as I did the first exciting day.
Mmc747 on January 13, 2020:
I too love wearing everything sexy. It all started with her stockings. I beged her to allow me to wear her stockings .Then i got her to let me to try panties than a bra she loves me in all of it .My favorite is when im all dressed .First i put on stockings and garter belt black black satin panties black half cup bra 4"heels and a satin kimono.
love machine on January 10, 2020:
i wear suspenders and panties.my wife also wears them at the same time,we sometimes i join my belt to hers and hers to mine and then make love its sensational feeling .
barefouryou500 on January 07, 2020:
Ive been dressing for years love the way it makes me feel wife knowns and does my buying
Joel on January 05, 2020:
I love wearing women's clothes as well
Robert Rhodes on January 04, 2020:
BY THE WAY I WEAR SIZE PANTIES SIZE IS (8) AND WOMEN'S BRAS SIZE I WEAR IS (38 -C) AND SO COMFORTABLE TO WEAR WOMEN'S PANTIES AND WOMEN'S LACE BRAS
Robert Rhodes on January 04, 2020:
I have been wearing women's vanity fair satin nylon granny panties and women's lace bras for about 45 years ago and I am still wearing women's panties and women's bras as well as being soft to wear women's panties and bras and I do go out and bye my own women's vanity fair satin nylon granny panties and women's lace bras and so comfortable to wear them than men under wear and love the feeling when I get to wear women's satin nylon granny panties and women's lace bras all the time and would not take nothing for women's panties and women's lace bras like I truly love to wear them.
carl1867 on January 01, 2020:
I love wearing my panties and bra. I like to wear them in public hidden under my street clothes. It's great going out in public knowing how sexy I look beneath and no one knows !
kenny on December 30, 2019:
I grew up with two older sisters and a twin sister, One evening when I was ten years old I was taking a bath and my sisters panties were by the tub I couldn't help but put them on and they felt so good instead of those thick cotton briefs boys wear and sure enough my mother swings the door open and sees me standing there in those pink panties I was so embarrassed but she just turned around and closed the door I then left then on for the rest of the bath and have been hooked ever since.
RW on December 30, 2019:
I’m 43 and very athletic for my age. Anyway, I and have always been infatuated with women’s underwear. However, for more than a year now, I have been wearing women’s underwear to bed under my pajamas, or if I’m staying home relaxing all day. Any other time, I mainly wear men’s underwear which are Russell boxer briefs. However the women’s underwear I have chosen are way more comfortable. I prefer wearing Satin Sting bikinis from Lexington Intimates which I purchased on Etsy.com...they are VERY comfortable to sleep in and lounge in. I have tried the same style by different companies but feel these are the most comfortable. Now, I have about 6 pair in different colors which are the only women’s underwear I wear. I’ve been with my wife for 22 years and married 17 years, and she has support me wearing them. Over the years, I have tried wearing my wife’s, but never stuck to it. I don’t wear my wife’s underwear, well for one, she is usually a size or two smaller, and two, she prefers to wear thongs and g-stings to prevent VLP. She does have other styles, which I don’t like (Tanga and cheeky styles). When I first told my wife, I was nervous about it, but she is very understanding person and has supported me along with other fetishes I have. I hope this helps other guys thinking about wearing women’s underwear.
Jaydub on December 29, 2019:
I wear panties and occasionally nylons and pantyhose which I find to be incredibly sensuous and sexy, allowing me to explore my feminine and submissive side. I'm currently single but would like to establish a relationship with dominant but understanding women to explore this side of my sexuality.
email@example.com on December 24, 2019:
My older wife now allows me to go about the house in slips stockings and suspenders and her knickers. Im not gay just like the feel of the silkyness of them next to my skin.. It all stared years ago when my Mum and Dad would go on holiday for a few weeks i was in my teens at the time everynight i would go through Mum's undergarments and pick some of her petticoat's stockings and girdles and her silky knickers to wear that's when i wanted to find out how she must have felt wearing those next to her flesh now knew how exciting she must have felt. Everytime she went out for a long time i put them on sometimes i would seek relief while wearing Mum's nylon silky undergarment stockings and suspenders all felt great next to my skin.
Gg on December 21, 2019:
I’ve been trying to find out for years how to find Women that enjoy wearing pantyhose, and are ok with a guy wearing them intimately with her???
BW on December 18, 2019:
I too have been addicted to panties and nylons since I was a kid digging in the panty drawer of My stepmother. She had the most creamy satin and lace panties.Then I found the multi layer baby doll nighties and I couldn’t contain myself. My wives have all been into my fedish.Wife #2 treated me like her girlfriend,current wife is really getting into it we are going shopping for a new outfit this evening. I’m excited that the lady working will know it is for me.
John on December 18, 2019:
Just discovered Maidenform comfort devotion lace back Tangas, OHHH, EMMM, GEEE!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Me on December 18, 2019:
I developed nylon especially pantyhose fetish during my childhood. It was something very beautiful and special feeling while watching female legs in pantyhose, especially shiny ones with reinforced toes. They were so beautiful, so feminine and so exciting that I had to have one and had to play with them. Thus I stole mom's pantyhose and started playing with them which eventually resulted in putting them on. It was an amazing feeling. Slowly over the years I occasionally wore pantyhose, but when I reached early 30's, I started shaving all my body hair, painting my toe nails and wearing female underwear every day. My previous girlfriend had zero tolerance for my feminine side, so she left me. One problem less in my life. :)
Sometimes I fully dress up like a girl and enjoy the day. I'm a straight guy.
Bo Gib on December 10, 2019:
I love wearing all kind of lingeri satin gowns sexy hose it feels so sexy to the skin. My wife lets me and it is awesome feeling
BJ on December 05, 2019:
I’ve tried my wife’s panties on when she wasn’t around and absolutely love them. I’m just nervous to do it in front of her.
John on November 16, 2019:
50 years old, Size 6 nylon/spandex bikinis, string bikinis and hipsters for life! Vanity Fair illumination string bikinis and Jockey Smooth and Radiant string bikinis are probably my two favorites! Been a 24/7 panty wearer for around 8 years now. My wife loves the way I look in them, and we often go panty shopping together, LOVE IT! I not only feel sexy and liberated in them, but the comfort, support and overall feel is something I will NEVER be without for the rest of my life! I think I’d really like to add some thigh highs and pantyhose to my wardrobe. How can they NOT feel awesome!
Mfgmpcs1 on November 15, 2019:
My ex-wife is the only person that knows my proclivity for wearing lingerie. Over the years, most of the women I've been with have commented on a particular skill that I have developed. The first time we reach the point of undressing and in an embrace, I reach behind them and unhook their bra with my right hand. (Haven't achieved ambidexterity yet) Invariably they something about it, usually in the afterglow. They'll usually something like "where did you learn to do that?" Few are told that comes from wearing lingerie
Dave Allen on November 02, 2019:
Iam a full on cross dresser, love wearing women's lingerie, clothes & make up & wigs. Wouldn't do this all the time, but feel great when I can. My wife knows, but can only dresd when shes not around, but im ok with that.
Chrissie on October 27, 2019:
My boyfriend wore panties when I first met him and I loved it and wanted to see what he would look like shaved and with a bra, panties and petticoats on. He could hardly contain himself when I dressed him and now he wears women's underwear all the time - and a chastity cage that I alone have the key to. We have wonderful sex.
Kim Hatton on October 27, 2019:
When I met my wife I told her that I wore women's underwear - cami, bralette, and panties and she said it made her feel sexy and in charge and that she would choose what I wore from now on.
Now I haven't any men's clothes left. I have women's trousers, women's shirts and blouses, a woman's trouser suit for work and knickers, knee highs, and even women's shoes. My wife has completely taken over my life. I wear these clothes everyday at work and nobody says anything but maybe they talk about me behind my back. I don't care. I love the way my wife has taken me over.
Keith on October 20, 2019:
I been wearing pantys since age 9 hand mw downs from my cousin debby.i still wear pantys 24 7love cheeky and string bikini and when feeling ultra fem to get in the mood tie side pantys
Robert Rhodes on September 30, 2019:
I have been wearing women's vanity fair satin nylon granny panties and women's lace bras for about 39 years and I am still wearing women's satin nylon granny panties and women's lace bras and so comfortable to wear women's panties and bras all the time and I am not gay just love to crossdress in women's satin nylon granny panties and women's lace bras but that is the only thing that I have been wearing for a very long time and I do wear vanity fair satin nylon granny panties and I do go out and bye my own women's vanity fair satin nylon granny panties and I do have a lots of women panties as well as women's lace bras and I do wear women's panties hose and women's shirts as well as dressing up as a woman that I truly love to wear women's clothes and I do have pictures of me wearing women's panties and women's bras.
David on September 24, 2019:
Love IT when a Girl make sure that I will wear her lingerie On the bedroom
Perry on September 09, 2019:
I love my panties, bras & nities. I wear. Them daily and have for over 50 years....wow what a feeli g and married too...
SLL on August 27, 2019:
Hi Buddhajoy64, I hope you can become accepting of your husband's proclivity to wearing women's panties. I have been for many years but only "came out" to my wife a few years ago. She has not been very accepting and it does put a strain on our relationship occasionally. I basically have to go back into the closet.
Let it be and you could have some amazing love sessions.
Justlovepanties on August 24, 2019:
Wish my wife would accept. Been crossfresser since i was 12 am 63 now
john on August 19, 2019:
I have been wearing panties for over 40 years every day love the way they fit and feel Warner is the brand i prefer. I am not a cross dresser or gay I just like panties Just like making love to a woman dont waht be with it
Buddhajoy64 on August 19, 2019:
First and foremost, I just want to thank you for your site. I have just recently been "introduced" to this concept, so to speak. My long term love finally confessed that the idea of wearing frilly female panties was "very exciting" to him.
Quite honestly, I am still unable to recall exactly how or why this confession came out (most likely still in shock), However, I am determined to educate myself about "how this works", for lack of a
clearer way to put it.
We are a very happy couple, and I am confident(? !) that nothing else has changed. He is a highly "masculine" male, for what it is worth.
I would greatly appreciate any advice, etc. from anyone who can relate.
Lago on August 16, 2019:
If it just the feel why not buy male satin boxer shorts?
Charles Dickens on July 24, 2019:
I too have just brought some gorgeous lace panties (hipster ones) and they feel amazing so so comfy,i have a different colour on every day, its not even a sexual thing for me you ladies have such a range of gorgeous styles and fabrics. i also have a cute little top i wear at night with some lace/silk panties and feels amazing. id love to have some really nice nightwear, which im buying v soon
Denver on July 11, 2019:
I just bought some panties, I can't wait to try a pair on.
Michael on July 11, 2019:
All in and up for the challenge
George Crooks on April 29, 2019:
Why has Dottie not replied in comments.
Jake on April 12, 2019:
I love to sleep in a bra. It’s very comforting, and makes me feel closer to my wife.
Tom Man on April 07, 2019:
I get very excited when I buy new panties and have to try them on right a way.
michael on April 03, 2019:
Ilove wearing womans panties thongs and g strings and bra s i just dont know anyone here that is into traing a man to be a real sissy here in watertown ny
firstname.lastname@example.org on March 23, 2019:
I agree that men love to wear lingerie. For my self it stated when i was a teenager my friend Tommy hos mother Joyce always hung her bra up over the shower curtain at night. At first i was afraid to touch it but then one night i put my nose to it and the smell of her perfume got me hooked. For the next 8 years i would sneak over there and grab something from her drawer..
Wrighty on March 20, 2019:
I've always loved womens lingerie. Divorced first wife and finally after over 23 years plucked up the courage to tell wifey number 2 who is 15 years younger than me. Initially she was shocked but that weekend we went out for a couple of drinks and she brought up the subject which we discussed. When we got home she went upstairs and came back down a few minutes later and said I've left something on the bed for you. A very sexy pair of lacy leopard print panties. Well what can I say apart from them being a lilltle tight the sex was mind blowing.
During the course of the next week she went out and bought us matching shorts, Brazilians and thongs and since the 7 pairs of individuals for myself.
She's yet to let me wear them when we go out but I'm happy for what I have now. Hoping she will let me wear a matching pair on a date night but won't push it.
Our sex life is amazing, it was always good but now it's mind blowing. A I would do anything she asks.
Peter Johns on March 14, 2019:
I agree, its the wonderful feeling of satin against me that is the turn on, I have met 2 women who have allowed me to wear satin, 1 actively making love to me while I wore those lovely garments, sheer bliss.
email@example.com on March 01, 2019:
Your right Dottie. When i was in my late teens one day when i knew my Mum wood be out for a while and no one was in the house. I decided to have a rumage through my Mum's undergarments drawer slips/stockings/girdles i came upon this what can only described as the most gorgeous pair of white knickers stocking top length. I wasn't gay but by the the sensuous feel of them i just toooo try them on to feel what they would feel like next to my the silk touching my skin was an ecstatic feeling i just had to put them on hoping my Mum wouldn't come early that was the risk i was taking but they felt so comfortable and sensuous next to my skin that it was worth the risk don't know when she used her undergarment drawer again she would know someone had been in her drawer rummaging in her drawer. What do you think from a woman's point of view ??. Im now 70 i asked my wife to try and get the same type for me to wear under my jeans or trousers when in the house or garden at first she objected but later agreed and bought them even now she watches me putting them on and looks at them when i leave my zip open she even allows me to get relief into them as she watches. She not interested in sex anymore but she knows i still have needs and this is her way of giving me pleasure because she do not wear skirts or dresses so i have no undergarments to look at to keep interested..I think she knew that i sometimes used to see up my Mum's skirt at her silky slip stockings and suspenders silky knickers which she is now allowing me to wear without embarrassment too either party . I may stress again I am not gay. Just brought up in a very femine household. Our marriage has be come closer since this happened and we now do more household chores together . Get your guy into the next step by buying him nice soft silky knickers and see the difference it makes to a marriage hope i have not gone ott in my comment..Please email me your comment if your minded to do so.
john on February 03, 2019:
So nice that you OK with you satin wearing man, my partner is ok with me wearing my satins, not all of the time, just now and then when I am feeling somewhat sexy
Dottie on January 28, 2019:
Man, if people got off their stereotyping high horses and tried new things, they may discover a world of sexiness they never knew existed. We haven't gotten to the point of him dressing in lingerie yet, but my husband just began running with me. He was initially b*tching about wearing the "girly" *men's* running tights I purchased for him until he realized how sexy I found him to be in them. Incidentally, he loves seeing me in mine (telling me he loves running behind me for the view). What's good for the gander is good for the goose...and that's good for everyone. We've been at it like bunnies like crazy since he's been running.
Ezra on January 28, 2019:
I have been looking for a woman who who accepts is interested in my lingerie wearing a bra since I was a child I wear a 38c I love stockings and garter belts and all kinds of lingerie I want a woman who accept endorses and encourage this as I am not gay I love all kinds of lingerie of gods and you stockings and garter belts bodysuits courses I also love wearing skirts dresses and high heels
firstname.lastname@example.org on January 25, 2019:
Been wearing women's clothing secretly for 30 years. Tried to get my wife to accept it also and didn't work. So I am alone also. I'm a slender attractive guy. Would love to find someone to accept this and embrace it also. Can be very stimulating for both. Let the feminine side show, Had one lady enjoy it also and like the feeling of her hands on me. THan she moved away.
Rhapsody on January 11, 2019:
I suppose I’ll dissent. Although I enjoy wearing lingerie, the more complicated the better, when I’m intimate with a man I really prefer him to be completely naked. Sometime you’ll see a video where the guy still had a shirt on or something and, no, skin only. Just how I’m wired, I guess. I love the unadorned male form, and wrapping my legs around him as he own to business.
Michelle Orona on December 24, 2018:
My sexy wife loves to dress me up in the most sexiest lingerie and I love it when her and her girlfriend's feminize me in my sexy lingerie. She loves to show me off in public when we go shopping at our big mall. She has a few girlfriend's that works at Victoria secret and Fredrick of Hollywood and she always calls ahead to let them know that the lingerie is for me . I love all the attention that I get especially from all the women and girls. When I try on my sexy lingerie in order to get them I have to model them out side of the dressing room so they can see how good I look. Alot of the women and girls always tell us how cute and sexy I look. My sexy wife calls me her sexy pantyboy with a shiny hiny.
bruce on December 19, 2018:
ive been married for 43 years and recently ive relize i like wearing sexie lingeria and wearing tight workout glothes and sexie lingera sport bras leggings thank god my wife is ok with this its been fun dressing up but got very price but worth it just wish there was better cloths out there to buy any one have a good web site to buy sexie stuff for men
jim on December 02, 2018:
Have been attracted to lingerie since childhood. Would wear my mother's stuff. Now in my 60s it still turns me on. Have developed breasts and love to caress them them.
MLM on November 30, 2018:
I recently started sleeping in panties. My wife had a hard time with it. A few days ago i bought a red lace babydoll nightie with a padded bra. I put it in the basket to be washed. Next day it was laying on the floor. I had a bad feeling. Later in the day it was gone. I looked in the washer it was there with the g string panties all by itself. When i went in bathroom to get ready for bed it was laying on the vanity. I put on the panties and nightie and went to she snuggled up with me as we slept. I guess shes accepted the fact i have some bitch in me. LOL
Mike on November 29, 2018:
There is no such parable in the bible. There is one about a man having the crap beat out of him when he wasn't attending a wedding in "wedding garments" but that's not the same story. (Matthew 22)
But it does say
A woman must not wear men's clothing, nor a man wear women's clothing, for the LORD your God detests anyone who does this.
Consider this as an idea of wearing it OUTWARDLY (drag) as for undergarments, i don't think this applies, unless that's ALL you're wearing in public
Michael on November 26, 2018:
it started when i was 13 and my sister nearly 11 and she said why dont we swap underwear to see what its like. i pulled up her frilly nylon panties and they were a perfect fit. however she was the sort of person who would snitch to our parents so i wore her underwear secretly,and wear panties full time since i left home though have to buy my own
brenda on November 11, 2018:
i hav been wearing nylon panties ever since i discovered them. it started with moms panties at the age of 11. now i wear more than just panties. i wear bras , slips , girdles, stockings, pantyhose, ect.it is difficult to find a woman who is realy into it espcialy sexualy...
Jim on November 01, 2018:
I've been wearing women things since i was 8 starting with panties but only nylon vanity fair leg laced briefs then went on to trying on. Nightgown always knee length or better then went on to try putting on 1 then 2 then even 3 to having on at one time to having sex with the wife while we both wore them she didnt care for it much but aloud it anyway.until the day she died.
girl in waiting on November 01, 2018:
i have worn panties on and off ever since I was 11 or 12 and I am in my early 40s know. I have a collection of all kinds from full back to high thigh with only a string. Flower prints to solid colors. silk satin and even cotton. I love ruffles and every time I wear my panties I make sure that I also have a maxi pad in them. It makes me full so fem. I find my self trying to make myself feel and look more fem each time I put a pair of panties on and that drives me wild. I would love to be a girl full time but I am to old and would never pass at my age any more. It is a sad reality for me but true. So for any girls out there make your dream come true as early as you can and enjoy all that the female body will allow you to do.
John M on October 29, 2018:
I have worn lingerie and other women's clothes for 30 years and enjoy doing so. I love the silky feeling on my body. Also, i definitely have a preference for women's jeans. They fit so much better than men's. I am 72 years old and will not change.
Crushed on October 28, 2018:
My wife of 21 years just divorced me. Her primary claim is my panty fetish. She doesn't understand it, she doesn't like it, she feels like I 'cheated' on her. Now she's gone and I'm absolutely crushed that the girl of my dreams - who I've known since we were kids - has rejected me and walked away.....
I read about all the acceptance and that I'm not the only guy with this fetish. Yet, here I am, alone.
John M. on October 26, 2018:
I also have a wife who likes me in lingerie and has bought me many things over the years.
Roxanne on October 14, 2018:
I love the way she takes care of me. I feel ever so feminine with her. Yes, I am her sissy boi!
J on October 12, 2018:
I wish I was your man!
J on October 12, 2018:
I’ve been wearing women’s jeans and panties for several years. Panties are so much more prettier than the alternative. Far much more comfortable too!
ramblinray1970 on September 09, 2018:
i really enjoy this site ,it makes me feel better about my own love of wearing nylon panties, to know there are so many other men that also enjoy having thier genitals cradled in silky nylon, i just love the feel and it makes me feel so sexy, i have never worn a bra, that just sounds silly to me, but to each his own,but i would never give up my wearing panties for any reason, or anyone,i love wearing my silky nylon panties and will continue to wear them 24/7, and loving every minute of it!
RB on August 14, 2018:
PaulaPlaytex on July 28, 2018:
Since I Last Posted...About 6 Months Ago...I Now Have Over 100 Bras With Matching Panties In My Collection...I Am Always Wearing My Bras and Panties...I Am A Natural 46B/46C-Cup Bra Size.
Jimmy on July 26, 2018:
I have loved wearing silk panties and stockings since I was 16, love the way the silk feels against my skin and the stockings feel against my legs. My wife is amazing and we regularly have sex while both dressed up she will even buy me stockings and panties while getting her own lingerie. This doesn't make me any less of a man and is in no way compensating for anything I just like the way they feel and my wife does too. All guys should be able to be honest about this with their wife or maybe they are with the wrong woman. Hope you are an amazing woman like my wife and I have really enjoyed your article.
pinkpantyboi on July 23, 2018:
I'm a panty boi since I have 12 years old my wife loves to see me in pantys 24/7now I wear bras I have about 100 different types of bra and panties about 200 and she loves me always. To wear them
Mike on July 16, 2018:
I am a straight man and I have loved the feel of pantyhose from the time i first tried them on at the age of fifteen. It has nothing to do with it being a woman's garment in my case as i developed a love for the way nylon felt against my skin when i was given a 100% nylon pullover windbreaker two years before the pantyhose trial. Later on in life i began epilating my legs so that i could enjoy the feel of my nylons to the fullest. What a neat idea that was to invent such a wonderful thing to wear.
Chris on June 16, 2018:
Been wearing panties for almost 4 years now. I started more or less as an experiment looking for comfortable underwear and since regular men's underwear wasn't cutting it as far as comfort. I had a hard time finding a balance between loose enough to not constrict or tight enough to keep everything in place and stable. Typically it'd be too loose and I'd slip out or so tight it hurt. So as a lark I thought I'd try some panties (just basic Fruit of the Looms or Hanes) and was rather stunned how much more comfortable it was as they held things great as well as the softer cotton felt so much better. So yeah since then I've expanded into many different brands: Soma, Victoria's Secret, Bali, Maidenform, Wacoal and others as well as moved from just panties to bras, sleepwear, socks, jeans, shirts and shoes.
simo on March 10, 2018:
i love to wear satin french knickers underneath a satin slip also wearing thongs and also satin camisoles half slips are a favorate of mine,even at night when the wind is blowing to stand outside and let the wind blow up my nightdress to show my satin underwear,if i feel good its stockings and a susspenderbelt with french pink satin knickers on
PaulaPlaytex on January 30, 2018:
My Sister-in-Law gave me my first Bra. She said I needed to wear one. She has me now wearing Panties, Stockings and my first Nightgown (Pink). I now have over 50 Bras and Panties in my collection !!!
Dennis on January 16, 2018:
I'm married 67 been wearing nylon and satin panties sincevi was 10. Love the colors the look and the great way they feel next to skin. My wife is happy I wear what makes me feel comfortable. I wear panties 24/7
Loved sat in pan ties on January 08, 2018:
I have been wearing women's satin nylon granny panties and they are VANITY FAIR PANTIES AND WOMEN'S LACE BRAS FOR ABOUT 47 YEARS and MY PANTIES SIZE IS 8 AND MY BRA SIZE IS 38C CUB AND LOVE IT VERY MUCH THAT I FEEL LIKE I BELONG IN WOMEN'S CLOTHES AS WELL AS THEY ARE SO VERY COMFORTABLE TO WEAR ALL THE TIME OUT IN PUBLIC PLACE AND DON'T CARE WHAT PEOPLE THINK WHEN I AM WEARING THEM BECAUSE THEY ARE SO SOFT TO WEAR THEM ON BECAUSE I FEEL SO GOOD WHEN I AM WEARING THEM A LOT ON ME.
steve on January 04, 2018:
I like wearing nighties
black knickers lover on January 01, 2018:
I have enjoyed wearing M&S black knickers 24/7 for the past 60 years, or even more. I absolutely LOVE the soft, smooth,stretchy, clingy feel of them, simply beautiful,comfortable knickers,mmmmm, DIVINE,!!!!!!!.
John Berryman on December 28, 2017:
You're the best. Thank's for understanding, an awkward compulsion/desire I share. Any fella of yours is fortunate indeed. Bless you madam!
Pantybare on December 24, 2017:
Three years ago I stopped wearing my hipster jockeys and started panties. I have a very big collection or panties, currently just over 1000. Different fabrics, colors and designs. Just to add to the collection I have shareware, bras,, lingerie, stockings and my fav garters. I love the feeling of the garters bouncing off my thighs. Yes, I also have dresses, jeans, tops and formal attire. And finely shoes! It's true what they say about women and their shoes.
Soooo wear what you want, it's not cross freeing, it's GenDressing. That's right. GENDER DRESSING
Bobby on December 17, 2017:
I have worn women's clothes since 5 yrs old, now in my 50's I only wear female clothes. I dont own any guys stuff at all.
Charlie on December 06, 2017:
I love dressing up in women's stockings they feel so good and so smooth and sexy I love the way they feel rubbing up using my cock I also like getting dressed up makes me to feel sexy there's nothing like wearing stockings and sexy lingerie I so like putting on sexy dress you having your woman feel you up
Mike R on November 26, 2017:
I wear woman's panties 24/7I'm married the wife doesn't like it but she puts up with it
ken on November 24, 2017:
my ex-girlfriend loved me dressing up in womens clothes n she would do my makeup......until her ex husband came to town ...Then she didn't want me any more.........
Cindy on November 05, 2017:
Hopefully by now you have gotten your guy into dresses too. My brother like wearing dresses cause he says they are more comfortable than tight restricting jeans. He enjoys it so I told him to wear what he wants.
jonathon on October 26, 2017:
When I was 12 I stole a woman's satin panties and wore them. They felt so good that I walked to the mall about a mile and spent my allowance on more. 20 years later I still wear panties. Wife of 15 years loves it.
joe on October 24, 2017:
i have. been. wearing. panties. for. 30 plus. years and. nighties. skirts. dresses.
stan on October 05, 2017:
i wear womens panties and pantyhose and love that soft feeling on my legs and crotch...my wife also loves me to wear them as well...no problem...fun
Chrissy on October 01, 2017:
Why do people say that men wearing women's clothes is not bad as long as it doesn't "hurt" anyone. Why do women feel hurt when their men dress like this? They wear men's clothes?
John Ahearne on September 30, 2017:
In fact the women's open-bottom girdle best suits the male. Preferably something like a Playtex 18-hour girdle that has no fancy frills or bows but is very functional. Even the suspenders look functional lashed down to ordinary nylons rather than hold ups with lace tops. Black stockings are most suitable for the male under trousers as well, preferably under loose Oxford bags.
As a lot of men have taken to wearing some kind of slimming garment now such garments cost a lot . Thus the womens' girdles would be a lot more reasonably priced. And as for myself I find the high waisted Playtex 18-hour the most comfortable and the best.
And whether you're male or female wearing a girdle feels the same. It's tough going at first but you get well used to it after a while. It makes you sit up straight, you don't want to sit in low seats or armchairs, and you need to stand up for relief quite a bit. In walking it's fine but you have to bend your knees to pick something off the floor . Ascending a stairs or even a hi;;y street can hitch it up. The waistband is no joke, your buttocks are crushed in together all the time and your thighs held in together by the lower hem of the girdle. The satin front panel secures your belly flat with great relief. You feel the force of the nylons against your knees but it's a nice feeling, especially around the calves of your legs. Your feet feel much better than in men's socks. You may need to wear a longline bra that goes down over the waistband of the girdle so as to eliminate any pushed-up flesh.
You will always feel the girdle on, though after a while it's not that bad at all. It can even feel good at the backside and thighs, great where the front panel supports the belly, and good all round as it holds you up firmly . We get very used to it all to such an extent that we miss it when it's off.
All in all whether you're a woman or a man it does what it's job abd you feel all the better for that.