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Why I Like My Men to Wear Lingerie

As a woman, I write a great deal about men who wear lingerie. To be honest, it has become rather a passion of mine over the past few years.

Here, I share how I fell in love with a man who wears lingerie.

Here, I share how I fell in love with a man who wears lingerie.

How I Came to Love a Man Who Wore Panties

As a woman, I write a great deal about men who wear lingerie. To be honest, it has become rather a passion of mine over the past few years, but it wasn't always that way. This is the story of how I came upon this phenomenon of men who like to wear lingerie, and how I came to love a man who wore panties.

In the beginning, I was introduced to men wearing lingerie by a wonderful man who hesitantly revealed his proclivity towards wearing lingerie after several dates.

I don't know if I would have responded so well on the first date, but by the time he told me I had already begun to like him—and I wanted to get to know him better. It didn't really seem like it would be that big of a deal if he wanted to wear lingerie; after all, we all have our little likes and dislikes, don't we?

My Biggest Fear

My biggest fear was that I might be unable to resist laughing if he looked silly in it. After all, a big hairy man wearing a camisole, bra, and stretching out a pair of ladies' panties in all the wrong places isn't exactly the image most women want to have of their boyfriend.

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I'm not going to lie and say I fell in love with it the moment I saw it. I didn't. It looked odd—and, yeah, it was a tad strange. But then I got up the courage to touch him whilst he was wearing his lingerie, and, oh, dear lord. There is something about the feel of satin sliding over a hard muscled body that is just amazingly sensual. I won't be crude, but I will say that there was an added dimension to our lovemaking that came both from the feel of the lingerie—and, no doubt, also from the freedom he was allowed just to be himself.

Understanding Expected Roles and Misconceptions

It might not be your ideal of a perfect mate to have a man who wears lingerie, but trying to shove men into boxes and make them live some role like walking Ken dolls isn't a healthy way to be. Believe me when I say he was all man between the sheets.

There is a common misconception that men who wear lingerie are somehow effeminate, or even gay. However, most men wear lingerie for the feeling. They like the way that the satin and lace feel against their skin. Why shouldn't they? Lingerie does feel good. It feels sexy, and having two bodies clad in silky smooth material only adds to the fun.

Thousands of Men Hide This Side of Themselves

It may not be your thing to have a man who wears lingerie, and that is fine. Just be aware that there are quite literally thousands of men who hide this side of themselves from their female partners because they fear losing them if it were revealed. You may already have a man who wears lingerie and not even know it.

Do a Man's Clothes Really Matter?

I don't often get biblical, but I am reminded of a story in the Bible where a man goes to a dinner party and neglects to change his work clothes before going. He is turned away at the door because he is not dressed properly; so he goes home, changes into his finest garments, and returns to the party.

This time he is allowed in, and he sits down and promptly begins "feeding" his clothes, putting food in the pockets and talking to his clothes at the same time. His host and the other guests look at him as if he is mad, of course, and eventually his host asks him what on earth he is doing. The man then replies, "When I came in my old clothes, you wouldn't let me in, so I assume it is my clothes you have invited to your home, and not me."

It's the man under the panties that counts.

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