Relationships can be tricky. Men and women sometimes seem to speak entirely different languages. Why does this happen and how do we cope with it in order to maintain a good relationship?
This is a question I ponder when I hear from men who are trapped in relationships with women. ( No, I'm not singling out women as the bad gals here, it's just that most men who wear panties tend to be straight, and a great proportion of them tend to...
My experiences growing up and coming out as transgender while living in the deep (and deeply religious) South.
For many men who wear lingerie, the most difficult part of the journey is not making the decision to wear the lingerie, it is letting their partner know about their desires and habits when it comes to lingerie. It's hard enough finding a nice lady...
A woman looks for a man that exudes strength and confidence because she is inherently looking for a strong protector and provider. She wants an Alpha male. Hear me out.
The road is not easy for non-binary trans* folk. Here are a few, personal things I could've done with knowing at the beginning of my journey.
Figuring out your sexual identity can be confusing, especially if you are attracted to more than one gender. Here are ten way to help you figure out if you are bi or pan.
While most of us agree it's hard to find a good man, we all know women who always have a guy in their lives, willing to settle for a creep rather than go it alone. Even today, when they have more financial freedom and less social constraints, why do some gals always need a man to feel complete?
What happens when you don't identify as strictly masculine or feminine? How do you label yourself when neither feels comfortable? Revised and rewritten.
For most women, wearing women's clothing in public is not a big deal. It's something we do everyday without so much as batting an eyelid. We can also wear men's clothing out in public without too much trouble either. When was the last time someone...
Did your friend just come out to you as trans and you're not sure what to do? It actually doesn't take much to make a positive difference. Check out these tips!
Do you think 99% of women would leave James Bond because he occasionally wears a bra? Methinks not... This is a tough issue, but I think that it is one that needs to be addressed. It has become obvious that many men who wear women's clothing, both...
Caitlyn Jenner might be answering questions for the first and last time, but she shouldn't even have to speak out.
Realizing you are part of the LGBTQ+ community can be an emotional time. Here are some things you should remember.
When a loved one chooses to come out to you as transgender, know that you have been given a gift-one that might have taken many agonizing years of soul searching before being offered to you.
A spirited article that answers those hard hitting questions about being a lesbian, from a lesbian perspective. This article helps you understand the questions you may have surrounding your female sexuality. Bold, honest, and informative!
Most people learn at a young age that there are distinct physical differences between males and females. As we get older, we learn that in addition to different sex organs, males and females have differing amounts of certain hormones in the body,...
Ever wonder what exactly makes up a lady? All ladies are women, but not all women are ladies. Here are 20 ways to see if she is a lady.
Sometimes life as an asexual is daunting in the amount of stupid comments you are bound to hear about it. So what is the truth? What are the myths? And can kill pop psychology, please?
Is his silence deafening? Are you having a challenge understanding what's going on in his head? His silence may not be what you think. There are two huge reasons why he is the way he is. Check it out.
The title says it all so here we go: 1) Feminine Men are Gay This is the biggest myth of them all and it couldn’t be more false. Being feminine says nothing about whether someone prefers girls or boys. It’s simply a way of seeing ONESELF and...
Traditionally, men have difficulty with intimacy and emotional vulnerability, associating this with weakness.
People say don’t judge a book by its cover. But then, why do most feel disgusted when seeing two people of the same sex together? What is there to be so repulsed about? They are just people.
Have you just realized that you like both men and women? Are you thinking of coming out as a bisexual person and don't quite know how to tell the world? Here are some tips!
It's my first time in a relationship with a woman, everything I've ever known about relationships is out the door. What do I do now?
I believe that the menstrual cycle has been demonized throughout culture and history, harming women’s self-understanding, and overlooking a monthly opportunity of renewal.
A reader's lament for the real men of the good old days before the emergence of metrosexuals. This article compares rugged cowboys to the new feminized male. Explains that the metrosexual male is not attractive to traditional women.
Labels are the way some of us identify ourselves in this world full of diversity. They can help us choose to define where we fit into the scope of it all.
The alpha woman is unique among women. She is self-assured, self-confident, and does not suffer fools gladly. She is often very authentic and does not believe in game playing!
For those men who are a bit confused as to what real men do and don't do. I've compiled a list to help you out. Best of luck as you proceed...
While most people in the world spend a good chunk of their energy on their romantic life, some people are aromantic instead. What does aromantic mean, though? How is it different from being asexual?
When my son came out, everyone in our family seemed tolerant and accepting at first. As time passed, though, I began getting annoying questions and asinine comments. Instead of being supportive of me, these folks were expecting me to comfort them and be their source of all knowledge about being gay.
Recently, you may have heard the term "pansexual" and aren't sure what it means. You might also be confused about how it differs from bisexuality. Let's try to clear this up with a simple explanation.
What does it mean to be intersex or transgender? What is the gender binary? This short guide to some core LGBT terms and concepts will help you understand why the way we frame the problem matters.
Some people might try to deny that women are awesome, but when you truly think about it you will also agree that chicks rule!
Ever wondered if you were saying things offensively or using the wrong terminology? It's easy to use the wrong words if you don't know what they are.
As a woman, I write a great deal about men who wear lingerie. To be honest, it has become rather a passion of mine over the past few years, but it wasn't always that way. This is the story of how I came upon this phenomenon of men who like to wear...
How to be an alpha male? Know the characteristics and personality traits of an alpha male. Peak into his world and understand how he behaves and acts in typical situations with friends at school and college, mates at work, girlfriend or wife. Adopt these qualities into your own everyday life and learn how to become an alpha male.
Being a woman or being a man used to mean that you had a certain code of behavior that you had to follow especially when interacting with the other sex. It meant that you had a particular set of responsibilities, a list of DOs & DON’Ts and that...
It's hard for a queer girl out there these days! Mostly the big question is, "Is she gay, or just a hipster?!" The struggle is real, so here are 10 signs that a girl of interest might be gay.
Girls' toys Boys' toys As a young girl growing up in the United States, I was frequently told by parents, teachers, and other authority figures that I could grow up to be whoever and whatever I wanted to become. When I was young, I took this...
An explanation of asexuality, common questions addressing asexuality, and how asexual persons are impacted by societey.
There are many similarities between bi and pan, but there are also some differences. How do you know if you are bi or pan? This guide will help you to figure out your identity.
Have you realized recently that your friends are kind of homophobic? Whether or not you are gay, how you handle prejudice can make a big difference between changing minds or solidifying biases.
Are you thinking of dating a transgender person, but aren't sure how to proceed? Here are some important tips to help you cut through the confusion.
Confused about the difference between sexual orientation and gender identity? You may find this hub useful in examining the difference. It also includes positive transgender role models from the LGBT community and links to supportive organizations.
So it has happened. You're a straight guy, just minding your own business, and you meet this girl. Now, you know she's a lesbian; you know she could never want you; you know she doesn't look at you like that and that you're just really good friends,...
When most people think of gender identity, they are really thinking about biological sex. Actually, sex and gender are very different things. When you describe your sex, what you are really describing is your "plumbing," so to speak. Do you have...
What do boys like about girls? Here are the top ten things, according to a boy who appreciates girls.
This answer depends on many things, such as: your home life, the friends you have, and where you live.
People normally think of just the 4 main LGBT orientations. The fact of the matter is there a lot more than 4 orientations. I myself am a part of one of the "invisible orientations".
I obviously didn't know what I was getting into when I first slipped on those panties years back..and by that I mean, at that age, I couldn't fathom actually trying other kinds of lingerie on. But once I got to looking at those catalogues and saw...
A young man recently wrote to me and expressed his desire to stop wearing panties. He asked my advice on the matter and immediately I was thrown into something of a quandry. The bulk of my articles are aimed at supporting the idea of men wearing...
So you have a gay friend. She's a confirmed bachelorette, a girl who likes girls, a follower of Sappho's teachings. The thing is, you get the feeling that maybe she's feeling gay about someone specific lately, and that specific someone is you.
For older women, modeling real womanhood is performing a duty. Older women teach whether or not they are aware; it would be great for them to teach real, productive womanhood intentionally.
So what exactly is a transgender person? Simple. A transgender person is someone who was assigned one gender at birth, but currently identifies with another.
This subject can cause anxiety in some people, making them frantically question their sexuality because they happened to find a given woman attractive, then realized somehow that she was not physically female.
Men dislikes to be wrong. They don't like it when they are being told that they are wrong. We need to look back to men's upbringing to understand this mystery of men. Read on...
Here are a few annoying questions I have received about my sexuality and how exactly I feel about them.
Coming out after realizing that you are bi can be a scary process, but these tips can make it easier.
I found an old book from 1954 that my grandmother actually used in her 1950's housewife days. It is called "Pictoral Medical Guide", and was published in 1954 with writings by 42 specialists at the time. It's quite interesting and sometimes funny...
Read about my experience learning about social norms and cultural prescriptions concerning gendered verbal communication, and how masculine speech differs from feminine speech.
Men not wanting to marry is a growing concern for women of all races in the United States. Let's take a look at some reasons for men not wanting to marry, and what women can do to reverse the trend.
Sometimes, a man feels the desire to wear a bra. This can be brought on for a variety of reasons, including fetishism, medical reasons, bedroom games, and simply because he likes it. Bras can be objects of comfort, desire, humiliation and punishment...
Men and women have different brains, both structurally and chemically. Understanding some of these differences might explain why your spouse or significant other frustrates you.
Many men love to wear bras, but quickly become confused when confronted with the plethora of bras that are available on the market today. There are a wide range of terms and types of bra that can be a bit befuddling. That's why I've prepared this...
There is a lot of support available for those who feel ready to come out but sometimes the reactions received are not always ideal. Here are some tips on what to do if someone comes out to you. June is Pride month.
50 Things Real Women Don't Do is a companion hub to my article of 50 Things Real Men Don't Do. It's all about being equals...
Being transgender left me feeling like a "space-alien"... like I wasn't part of humanity. But a stroke told me that I'm just an ordinary boy faced with extraordinary circumstances.
Have you ever wondered what women really want men to know? I've complied a list of 50 tips to help you find out...
Unfortunately, biphobia is pretty common. It can be as simple as a seemingly- misconception that is spoken on.
This article is designed for the transsexual who is looking to get on hormone replacement therapy relatively quickly and easily. I discuss a number of systems which may be available to use in your community. More often than not, if you live in a...
Masculinity is seen to be under threat. What makes a man masculine? Why is one man perceived as more of a man than another man? Are these accurate reflections of masculinity? Has masculinity changed?
I'm writing this article in hopes that someone can relate to this experience, both the negative side of unnecessary commentary and the positive side of experiencing an amazing healthy relationship.
What does femininity mean to you? Regain some positive associations with the term and its expression in your life.