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  • This is a question I ponder when I hear from men who are trapped in relationships with women. ( No, I'm not singling out women as the bad gals here, it's just that most men who wear panties tend to be straight, and a great proportion of them tend to...

    Do Men Have The Right To Wear Panties?

    Do Men Have The Right To Wear Panties?

    by Hope Alexander108

  • For many men who wear lingerie, the most difficult part of the journey is not making the decision to wear the lingerie, it is letting their partner know about their desires and habits when it comes to lingerie. It's hard enough finding a nice lady...

    Men In Lingerie: Want To Wear Panties, But Scared To Tell?

    Men In Lingerie: Want To Wear Panties, But Scared To Tell?

    by Hope Alexander44

  • A woman looks for a man that exudes strength and confidence because she is inherently looking for a strong protector and provider. She wants an Alpha male. Hear me out.

    Women Want an Alpha Male

    Women Want an Alpha Male

    by Mr-Mediocre2

  • While most of us agree it's hard to find a good man, we all know women who always have a guy in their lives, willing to settle for a creep rather than go it alone. Even today, when they have more financial freedom and less social constraints, why do some gals always need a man to feel complete?

    14 Reasons Why Some Women Always Need a Man to Feel Complete

    14 Reasons Why Some Women Always Need a Man to Feel Complete

    by McKenna Meyers0

  • A strong independent woman needs a strong man. What is a strong man really made of?

    What Makes a Strong Man?

    What Makes a Strong Man?

    by Simone Sander3

  • What happens when you don't identify as strictly masculine or feminine? How do you label yourself when neither feels comfortable? Revised and rewritten.

    What It Means to Identify as Genderqueer

    What It Means to Identify as Genderqueer

    by social thoughts2

  • For most women, wearing women's clothing in public is not a big deal. It's something we do everyday without so much as batting an eyelid. We can also wear men's clothing out in public without too much trouble either. When was the last time someone...

    Why It's A Big Deal When Men Wear Women's Clothes In Public

    Why It's A Big Deal When Men Wear Women's Clothes In Public

    by Hope Alexander55

  • Do you think 99% of women would leave James Bond because he occasionally wears a bra? Methinks not... This is a tough issue, but I think that it is one that needs to be addressed. It has become obvious that many men who wear women's clothing, both...

    Why Women Leave Men Who Wear Women's Clothing (Part One)

    Why Women Leave Men Who Wear Women's Clothing (Part One)

    by Hope Alexander17

  • Realizing you are part of the LGBTQ+ community can be an emotional time. Here are some things you should remember.

    I Think I'm LGBTQ+, Now What?

    I Think I'm LGBTQ+, Now What?

    by Ali Diehl3

  • A spirited article that answers those hard hitting questions about being a lesbian, from a lesbian perspective. This article helps you understand the questions you may have surrounding your female sexuality. Bold, honest, and informative!

    How to Tell if You Are a Lesbian

    How to Tell if You Are a Lesbian

    by India Arnold23

  • Most people learn at a young age that there are distinct physical differences between males and females. As we get older, we learn that in addition to different sex organs, males and females have differing amounts of certain hormones in the body,...

    Why Females are Physically Softer than Males

    Why Females are Physically Softer than Males

    by Nion Kokesu7

  • Ever wonder what exactly makes up a lady? All ladies are women, but not all women are ladies. Here are 20 ways to see if she is a lady.

    20 Ways to Tell If She's a Lady

    20 Ways to Tell If She's a Lady

    by Kari Poulsen32

  • Sometimes life as an asexual is daunting in the amount of stupid comments you are bound to hear about it. So what is the truth? What are the myths? And can kill pop psychology, please?

    Dispelling Common Myths About Asexuality

    Dispelling Common Myths About Asexuality

    by Theophanes Avery53

  • Is his silence deafening? Are you having a challenge understanding what's going on in his head? His silence may not be what you think. There are two huge reasons why he is the way he is. Check it out.

    Understanding the Meaning of a Man's Silence

    Understanding the Meaning of a Man's Silence

    by Shane Brown-Daniels16

  • The title says it all so here we go: 1) Feminine Men are Gay This is the biggest myth of them all and it couldn’t be more false. Being feminine says nothing about whether someone prefers girls or boys. It’s simply a way of seeing ONESELF and...

    Top 5 Myths About Feminine Men

    Top 5 Myths About Feminine Men

    by Lucy8327

  • People say don’t judge a book by its cover. But then, why do most feel disgusted when seeing two people of the same sex together? What is there to be so repulsed about? They are just people.

    An Opinion on Same-Sex Union in the Philippines

    An Opinion on Same-Sex Union in the Philippines

    by Mira Lily0

  • It's my first time in a relationship with a woman, everything I've ever known about relationships is out the door. What do I do now?

    My First Lesbian Relationship

    My First Lesbian Relationship

    by Taylor D0

  • Labels are the way some of us identify ourselves in this world full of diversity. They can help us choose to define where we fit into the scope of it all.

    Let's Talk Identity Labels

    Let's Talk Identity Labels

    by Tracy Sheppard0

  • The alpha woman is unique among women. She is self-assured, self-confident, and does not suffer fools gladly. She is often very authentic and does not believe in game playing!

    Ten Characteristics of the Alpha Woman

    Ten Characteristics of the Alpha Woman

    by Grace Marguerite Williams71

  • For those men who are a bit confused as to what real men do and don't do. I've compiled a list to help you out. Best of luck as you proceed...

    50 Things Real Men Don't Do

    50 Things Real Men Don't Do

    by Linda Bilyeu199

  • While most people in the world spend a good chunk of their energy on their romantic life, some people are aromantic instead. What does aromantic mean, though? How is it different from being asexual?

    What is Aromantic? Am I Aromantic?

    What is Aromantic? Am I Aromantic?

    by Jorge Vamos2

  • Some people might try to deny that women are awesome, but when you truly think about it you will also agree that chicks rule!

    50 Reasons Why Women Are Awesome

    50 Reasons Why Women Are Awesome

    by Linda Bilyeu94

  • Ever wondered if you were saying things offensively or using the wrong terminology? It's easy to use the wrong words if you don't know what they are.

    The Don'ts for Transgender Talk

    The Don'ts for Transgender Talk

    by Eli Scott0

  • As a woman, I write a great deal about men who wear lingerie. To be honest, it has become rather a passion of mine over the past few years, but it wasn't always that way. This is the story of how I came upon this phenomenon of men who like to wear...

    Why I Like My Men To Wear Lingerie

    Why I Like My Men To Wear Lingerie

    by Hope Alexander132

  • How to be an alpha male? Know the characteristics and personality traits of an alpha male. Peak into his world and understand how he behaves and acts in typical situations with friends at school and college, mates at work, girlfriend or wife. Adopt these qualities into your own everyday life and learn how to become an alpha male.

    How to Be an Alpha Male: Typical Characteristics, Personality Traits and Behaviors

    How to Be an Alpha Male: Typical Characteristics, Personality Traits and Behaviors

    by princesswithapen3

  • Being a woman or being a man used to mean that you had a certain code of behavior that you had to follow especially when interacting with the other sex. It meant that you had a particular set of responsibilities, a list of DOs & DON’Ts and that...

    Gender Roles Reversed

    Gender Roles Reversed

    by Lucy8315

  • It's hard for a queer girl out there these days! Mostly the big question is, "Is she gay, or just a hipster?!" The struggle is real, so here are 10 signs that a girl of interest might be gay.

    10 Signs to Tell If a Girl Is Gay?

    10 Signs to Tell If a Girl Is Gay?

    by Celine2

  • Girls' toys Boys' toys As a young girl growing up in the United States, I was frequently told by parents, teachers, and other authority figures that I could grow up to be whoever and whatever I wanted to become. When I was young, I took this...

    Gender Socialization and Its Effects on American Girls

    Gender Socialization and Its Effects on American Girls

    by ksaphner6

  • Confused about the difference between sexual orientation and gender identity? You may find this hub useful in examining the difference. It also includes positive transgender role models from the LGBT community and links to supportive organizations.

    Famous Transgendered People

    Famous Transgendered People

    by Jaynie20009

  • So it has happened. You're a straight guy, just minding your own business, and you meet this girl. Now, you know she's a lesbian; you know she could never want you; you know she doesn't look at you like that and that you're just really good friends,...

    Help! I Fell in Love With a Lesbian! (And I'm a Straight Guy!)

    Help! I Fell in Love With a Lesbian! (And I'm a Straight Guy!)

    by Jorge Vamos202

  • When most people think of gender identity, they are really thinking about biological sex. Actually, sex and gender are very different things. When you describe your sex, what you are really describing is your "plumbing," so to speak. Do you have...

    What is Your Gender Identity?

    What is Your Gender Identity?

    by kerryg59

  • People normally think of just the 4 main LGBT orientations. The fact of the matter is there a lot more than 4 orientations. I myself am a part of one of the "invisible orientations".

    Invisible Orientations

    Invisible Orientations

    by Angela Anna Rose0

  • I obviously didn't know what I was getting into when I first slipped on those panties years back..and by that I mean, at that age, I couldn't fathom actually trying other kinds of lingerie on. But once I got to looking at those catalogues and saw...

    I Am a Straight Man That Likes Wearing Lingerie

    I Am a Straight Man That Likes Wearing Lingerie

    by GetRhythm95

  • A young man recently wrote to me and expressed his desire to stop wearing panties. He asked my advice on the matter and immediately I was thrown into something of a quandry. The bulk of my articles are aimed at supporting the idea of men wearing...

    Escape From Panty Prison | How To Quit Wearing Women's Clothing

    Escape From Panty Prison | How To Quit Wearing Women's Clothing

    by Hope Alexander27

  • Conflicted feelings of love for multiple people? Concerned over whether you're wrong? Read on.

    Why Not Choose Love?

    Why Not Choose Love?

    by Mark Willson0

  • For older women, modeling real womanhood is performing a duty. Older women teach whether or not they are aware; it would be great for them to teach real, productive womanhood intentionally.

    Curriculum for Older Women to Teach Younger Women

    Curriculum for Older Women to Teach Younger Women

    by Dora Weithers46

  • This subject can cause anxiety in some people, making them frantically question their sexuality because they happened to find a given woman attractive, then realized somehow that she was not physically female.

    Does Liking Crossdressers Make You Gay?

    Does Liking Crossdressers Make You Gay?

    by Jorge Vamos10

  • I found an old book from 1954 that my grandmother actually used in her 1950's housewife days. It is called "Pictoral Medical Guide", and was published in 1954 with writings by 42 specialists at the time. It's quite interesting and sometimes funny...

    The 1950's Good Wife's Guide

    The 1950's Good Wife's Guide

    by Pitalli22

  • Read about my experience learning about social norms and cultural prescriptions concerning gendered verbal communication, and how masculine speech differs from feminine speech.

    Verbal communication along gender lines

    Verbal communication along gender lines

    by glassvisage7

  • Men not wanting to marry is a growing concern for women of all races in the United States. Let's take a look at some reasons for men not wanting to marry, and what women can do to reverse the trend.

    Men Not Wanting to Marry: A Modern Problem

    Men Not Wanting to Marry: A Modern Problem

    by Hearts and Lattes0

  • Sometimes, a man feels the desire to wear a bra. This can be brought on for a variety of reasons, including fetishism, medical reasons, bedroom games, and simply because he likes it. Bras can be objects of comfort, desire, humiliation and punishment...

    Men In Bras: Just For Fun

    Men In Bras: Just For Fun

    by Hope Alexander71

  • Many men love to wear bras, but quickly become confused when confronted with the plethora of bras that are available on the market today. There are a wide range of terms and types of bra that can be a bit befuddling. That's why I've prepared this...

    A Basic Guide to Bras for Men

    A Basic Guide to Bras for Men

    by Hope Alexander81

  • There is a lot of support available for those who feel ready to come out but sometimes the reactions received are not always ideal. Here are some tips on what to do if someone comes out to you. June is Pride month.

    What If Someone Comes Out to You

    What If Someone Comes Out to You

    by Stu1

  • 50 Things Real Women Don't Do is a companion hub to my article of 50 Things Real Men Don't Do. It's all about being equals...

    50 Things Real Women Don't Do

    50 Things Real Women Don't Do

    by Linda Bilyeu127

  • Being transgender left me feeling like a "space-alien"... like I wasn't part of humanity. But a stroke told me that I'm just an ordinary boy faced with extraordinary circumstances.

    What a Stroke Taught Me About Being Transgender

    What a Stroke Taught Me About Being Transgender

    by Larry Copano2

  • Have you ever wondered what women really want men to know? I've complied a list of 50 tips to help you find out...

    50 Things Women Want Men to Know

    50 Things Women Want Men to Know

    by Linda Bilyeu139

  • Unfortunately, biphobia is pretty common. It can be as simple as a seemingly- misconception that is spoken on.

    Let's Talk About Biphobia

    Let's Talk About Biphobia

    by Eli Scott0

  • Masculinity is seen to be under threat. What makes a man masculine? Why is one man perceived as more of a man than another man? Are these accurate reflections of masculinity? Has masculinity changed?

    What Makes a Man a Man From a Women's Point of View

    What Makes a Man a Man From a Women's Point of View

    by Tessa Schlesinger4

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