What It Means to Be Condescending

There's no doubt about it: Being called "condescending" is not a compliment. You should avoid being condescending like it's the plague.

But what does it mean to be condescending? Read on to find out! Down the road, you will thank yourself that you took the time to learn more about this unbecoming personality trait.

A condescending person is someone who...

• thinks too much of their own intelligence.
• thinks too little of the intelligence of others.
• feels the need to correct others all the time.
• cannot accept criticism.
• is smug.
• is arrogant.
• believes that their opinion is something that the world cannot afford to miss.
• tries to appear confident.
• is dealing with insecurities.
• is a show-off.
• thinks of themselves as classy when they're actually not.

Condescending or arrogant people think that they are the most amazing people ever and that the world around them should listen to their ever-growing expertise in just about any field. This is an unfortunate delusion, and they deserve our deepest sympathies for being this way.

If you notice any of the above tendencies in yourself, it'd be a good idea to try to change for the better. Being condescending is not a good thing. Here are just a few reasons you should try not to look down upon others.

It's a Sign of Ignorance

An arrogant person doesn't know much about the world around him or her. They may be street smart, but pretending to know everything is a sign of a lack of knowledge.

Condescending People Make Unnecessary Noise

It just so happens that the person who knows the least about something seems to talk the most about it. This person is wasting your time.

No One Likes Them

Not surprisingly, condescending people are absolutely hated. Who in their right might would want to be treated as inferior by another person?

They Drive People Away

Over time, people will stay away from someone who is patronizing. Such behavior is repugnant and very tiresome to handle.

People Criticize Them Behind Their Back

Since a condescending person hardly ever lets anyone talk in his or her presence, it is only a matter of time before everyone starts to talk about them behind their back.

Being Condescending Is Bad PR

If you want to be popular, have friends, and do well in business, it makes more sense to be humble.

Humble people are easy to work with, and they are loved and admired as a result. Since condescending people are an absolute pain to deal with, no one takes them seriously.

Arrogance Lacks Class

The coolest people in the world are those who are chill and don't have major attitude issues. They are never haughty.

A classy person doesn't look down on or speak ill of others—on the contrary, it's more classy to be encouraging.

It's a Sure-Fire Way to Destroy Relationships

Whether within the family, in friendships, or in a romantic relationship, being condescending is a big turn off. Equality is a very important quality in almost any type of relationship, and it's unhealthy if one partner feels superior to another.

It is possible to avoid being condescending by making a conscious choice to cultivate certain other qualities, such as:

• Humility
• A positive mindset
• Non-judgmentalism
• The ability to take criticism
• A sense of self-esteem
• A love of listening to others
• A love of people in general
• A belief in the inherent equality of all people, regardless of ethnicity, colour, religion, country, or sexual orientation