Conversation Skills for New Military Recruits

Updated on May 10, 2017

Communal living conditions, long waiting lines and briefings can cause time to go by so slow when you first arrive at your respective military reception area. When you first enlisted, you might have expected to get right to the exciting warrior stuff when you arrived at your training location and new temporary home. Most times that is not the case. You must do paperwork, get uniforms, learn certain movements and procedures, as well as sit in long briefing sessions.

In your in-between time you are meeting new people from all walks of life. There is plenty of time to get aquainted and have conversations. For some people, this may come easy. One thing I would like to warn you against is to NOT put all your business out there. Yes you are going through similar experiences now, and might really click with this person at first. This does not mean it is ok to share your deep, dark secrets with a total stranger. They might seem nice at first, but who is to say that despite their great first impression, that they're not a blabbermouth? You can still be cool with them but you do not discuss your personal issues. There are ways to have a great conversation and get to know somebody without making your business become theirs.

Here Are Some Tips:

  1. Get to know them - ask about their interests and hobbies. What kind of music do they listen to? Do they have favorite Internet sites? Magazines? Food?
  2. Make comments about the present day's events - this can range from the food at the dining facililty to the scratchy wool blankets on the bunk beds. Try not to complain unless you can also be funny about it.
  3. General interest topics - talk about the weather or how you heard that your branch of service is issuing a new style of uniforms next year.
  4. Ask open questions - like about where they used to work before they enlisted
  5. Ask follow up questions - if you asked what city they are from and they respond with a single word answer, ask them if they ever visited their city's landmarks.
  6. Be pleasant - if someone makes a joke try to laugh. If they share some information that they find fascinating, try to mirror their enthusiasm about it.
  7. Listen - this is very important. Avoid interrupting them or attempting to over-talk them. You both have plenty of time to talk so make sure you take the time to show them that what they are saying is being heard.

Enjoy the Present

You have just embarked on a new chapter in your life. Embrace it and be excited through the mundane times. There is nothing wrong with sharing tidbits of your life with new acquaintances. Just make sure you also allow them to talk and that you don't share too much personal info. Enjoy your new experiences and new (possibly lifelong) friends.

Comments

    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment

    No comments yet.

    working

    This website uses cookies

    As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, pairedlife.com uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

    For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at: https://pairedlife.com/privacy-policy#gdpr

    Show Details
    Necessary
    HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
    LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
    Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
    AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
    Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
    CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the googleapis.com or gstatic.com domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
    Features
    Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
    Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
    Marketing
    Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
    Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
    Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
    Statistics
    Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
    ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)