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Dirty Text Messages: How to Sext and Talk Dirty to Him With Sexy Text Messages
Have you been flirting with someone and want some ideas on how to get him turned on even if you're not in the same room? Texting plays an enormous role in modern romance. Those 160 characters at your fingertips have the power to bring closeness, heighten intimacy, and multiply the sexual energy between you and that guy you have your eye on.
In this article, you'll learn what kinds of things make a text message really sexy for guys, as well as see some examples of steamy texts you can send your boy candy.
The reality is that it has never been so easy to excite a man, make him want you, and drive him crazy with desire. You'll be able to use any of these methods and get a positive response from that hunky guy you've been flirting with. Try them out! Your love life will thank you!
How to Sext a Guy: 26 Examples of Sexts to Send Your Crush or Boyfriend to Turn Him On
- I had a naughty dream last night, and guess who was in it? I'll give you a hint. I'm texting him right now.
- Lying in bed and bored. Wish you were here to play Simon Says with me ;)
- I feel like something's missing in my life. Namely you. Between my legs.
- If I were with you right now, where would you want me to touch you?
- I want to get naked with you right now.
- Sucking on a blow pop right now and wishing it was you. . .
- Confession: I’ve been naughty today and probably deserve a spanking. If only there were someone to do it . . .
- I'm listening to a song that makes me think totally dirty thoughts about you! If you were here, we'd probably make some of them reality ;)
- Guess what I'm thinking? OK, I'll give you a hint. It involves my tongue and you naked.
- I'm dying to find out if you are as good in real life as you are in my fantasies.
- Confession: Sometimes, I can't help but touch myself when I think about you.
- Have you ever had a wet dream with me in it? Be honest . . .
- If you could do anything you want to me, what would you do?
- Work sucks . . . especially when I'm getting distracted thinking about this hot guy I know and his fantastic body.
- Hey, just wanted to let you know that if you're ever having a hard time, like a really hard time, I'm there for you. I mean, I can give you a hand. . .or something.
- I know you're not a wizard, but I think your mouth is pretty magical. I can think of a few places I want it right now. Wait, maybe you ARE a wizard.
- Just got out of the shower and had to text this really sexy guy I know. Didn't even have time to put clothes on.
- Could really use some help putting this sunscreen on right now. And I'll need help taking the bikini off later.
- Just ate dinner, but you wanna come over for dessert? Bring whipped cream and easy-to-remove clothing.
- What's the dirtiest thought you've ever had about me? I know what mine is about you . . .
- All I can think about is doing filthy things to you when I get home from work.
- I'd rather be in bed with you right now.
- Just finished pleasuring myself while thinking of you for about an hour. Dang, you're good.
- You jerked it recently?
- I think it's time we tried (fill in the blank).
- What do you want me to do to you tonight?
23 Flirty Text Messages to Send a Guy
- You look great today. How do I know? Because you look good every day.
- I figured us out today! I think we should just be friends with sexual tension ;)
- There's this really cute guy I've been thinking about all day long . . . what should I do about it?
- If you were here right now, we definitely would not flirt at all, or hug for a little bit too long, or stare deeply into one another's eyes, or anything fun like that.
- I would invite you to come over this weekend, but I'm not sure I can keep my hands to myself.
- So are we really "hanging out," or are you secretly trying to date me? Be honest :)
- Wanna know what I wanna do with you later? Too bad! You'll have to wait and find out.
- I keep having this recurring dream that you're trying to get me naked . . . weird.
- Just read that caffeine can boost a woman's libido. Is that why you keep inviting me to coffee?
- Stop thinking about me naked! Sheesh.
- Do you know what my favorite thing in the world is? The second word of this text.
- I know someone who might have a crush on you . . .
- You're not very good at pretending you don't want me.
- Quick question: what do you do when there's someone you can't stop fantasizing about, but you have no idea how to talk to them about it?
- Just wanted to let you know that I find you very attractive. And hot. And cute. And I want to put my mouth on your mouth.
- It said it was going to be hot today, so I decided to wear a thong and low-cut top and just stay in bed. What are you up to?
- Happy half birthday! Tonight I'll do whatever you want me to . . .
- I swear I was just watching TV, but then I thought about how sexy you looked at my sister's wedding, and I had to take a twenty-minute break . . . if you know what I mean.
- My friends are always getting annoyed that I talk about you too much. I can't help it if you're the sexiest man that has ever walked the face of the earth, and I think about you constantly.
- What are you doing for dinner tonight? I thought about getting reservations for my bedroom but wanted to make sure you were available.
- Good morning! I'm not wearing a bra today. Just thought you should know.
- Was just thinking about seeing you tonight, and, all of a sudden, I was completely undressed.
- Tonight, let me do all the work. We're going to take it so slow, and you're going to scream.
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- I love your body.
- I'm naked right now.
- Remember that crazy thing I told you about that I wanted to try with you . . . I think tonight might be the night.
- If you were here right now, I would tear your clothes off and shove you onto my bed and have my way with you. But you're not, so . . . rain check?
- Is it weird that all I can think about is last night? I keep replaying it in my head over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over . . .
- When you come over today, I want to start in bed. Just FYI.
- Do you have any fantasies?
- I want you right now.
- My hands. My hips. My lips. Your body. Tonight.
- We would be having so much fun if you were here right now.
- Just put on some really crazy underwear. So many snaps! So many straps! You'll have to help me take it off.
- My roommates are gone this weekend. We can be as loud as we want tonight, and I want to be loud.
- I've got something to show you. It's a surprise, and you're going to have to undress me to find it.
- Nothing gets me hotter than thinking about you.
- You should probably clear your schedule for tomorrow morning because I plan on staying up late with you tonight. Very late.
- Let me be clear: when I see you later, I'm going to undress you button by button. I'm going to unzip your pants and take them off leg by leg. I'm going to take off your boxers and throw them against the wall. What happens next is all up to you.
- I'm touching myself right now. Wish you were here ;)
- If you're not busy later, I was hoping to make passionate love to you. I hope that's okay with you.
- If you could do anything to me, what would you do?
- What is your favorite memory of us in bed?
- Did you know that you're incredibly sexy?
- I'll invite you over on one condition: you may not keep your hands to yourself. In fact, you need to tell me exactly where you're going to put them.
22 Funny and Sexy Text Messages
- There's this guy I really like, but he can't know. OMG! I can't believe I sent this to you. Well, now that you know . . . wanna make out?
- Some people say to-may-to. Some people say to-mah-to. I say I-want-you-right-now-you-sexy-beast.
- Here's a riddle for you: What is cute and nice and sometimes hard all over?
- I'm watching HBO right now and getting a lot of ideas for things we could do together ;)
- I've got a B.A. in Communications, so I think I'm pretty much qualified to blow your mind tonight.
- One, two, I want to do you. Three, four, I want you more. Five, six, don't give me tricks. Seven, eight, don't be late. Nine, ten, see you then.
- Did you know that today is National Donut Day? I thought we could celebrate in my bedroom. I'll bring the sugar.
- If I told you that you had a nice body, would you hold it against me? Seriously though. You're hot. I'd like to touch your shoulders right now while you take off my pants.
- Do you believe in love at first sight, or do I need to walk by again?
- My dad always told me to make sure that I was treated like a princess, and you know princesses like it hot in bed. So . . .
- Your body is so hot it's making me thirsty. Was that sexy? Because I'm not wearing any clothes. Okay, that has to be sexy now.
- The top three sexiest things on this earth are your chin, your shoulders, and your . . . I think you know what I'm trying to say here.
- So, I'm outside. I'm not wearing two crucial pieces of clothing, but no one is calling the cops on me. Can you guess what's missing? Also, it's not my shoes.
- I got eight hours of sleep last night in preparation for the rager that I'm preparing to have with you starting at 8 p.m. this evening.
- I just wanted to let you know that I'm picturing you naked right now, and dang, you look good.
- On the count of three, let's both say what we're thinking about. One . . . two . . . I really want to be naked with you right now!
- I was listening to Taylor Swift today and was totally thinking about you. JK. Just wanted an excuse to text you to say I think you're darn handsome.
- 101 things I like about you: 1. You're hot. 2. You're hot. 3. You're hot. You get the picture.
- Imagine that my bed is a football field. I'm the football, and you're running for a touchdown. See, I do like sports!
- You're so sexy; you take my breath away. But, not too far away. . . like, I don't die because of it. Still, you're sexy.
- On the agenda for tonight: polite conversation followed immediately by impolite bedroom antics.
- Y YOU SO HOT 'N SEXY. YOU MAKE ME TALK LIKE CAVEWOMAN.
How to Turn a Guy On Over Text: 7 Proven Ways to Make Any Guy Horny
Here are seven proven ways you can turn any guy on by text. Learn how to write and send texts that will get him hot, excited, and fantasizing about you instantly, no matter where he is or what he is doing.
1. Tell Him That He Is Sexy
Telling a man how sexy you think he is will really turn him on. He will feel sexual just knowing you are thinking about him that way, not to mention that it will boost his confidence and testosterone levels!
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How to say it:
- "I was just thinking about how sexy you look in that fitted black button-down . . . you're such a stud."
- "My friends and I just saw the new Bond movie, and I couldn't stop thinking about what a sexier James Bond you would be."
2. Tell Him How Turned On You Are
Nothing arouses a man more than knowing that a woman is turned on by him and ready for action. Men love to see that they can pleasure and affect a woman. By texting him that you are hot for him, he'll know you're ready for the good stuff.
How to say it:
- "Was just thinking about you and started getting so turned on . . . now I'm just lying in bed with nothing to do . . ."
- "I'm too turned on to put clothes on. Get here quick! ;)"
3. Tell Him What You Are Wearing . . . or Not Wearing
Men are visual creatures. Help his imagination out a little bit by describing where you are, what you are doing, or what you are wearing.
How to say it:
- "What are you up to? I'm just lying in bed in a tight tank top and short shorts texting this really amazing guy."
- "Just got out of the shower and trying to decide between the red lacy thong or the pink boy shorts . . ."
- "FYI: Sent this text while wearing a black thong."
4. Tell Him What You Want to Do to Him
Texting a guy something sexual that you are dying to do to him is a surefire way to turn him on instantly! Men can't help but imagine what you describe, and they won't be able to stop thinking about it. Drive him crazy just by telling him how bad you want him.
How to say it:
- "Can't wait to see you tonight . . . I'm going to take you into the bedroom and . . . well, you know."
- "If you were here right now, I'd take your pants off with my teeth and . . . I'll just let you finish that sentence with whatever you want."
5. Text Him What You Want Him to Do to You
Many women have a hard time asking for things sexually or even talking directly about what they like in bed. For men, a woman who owns her sexuality and celebrates her own pleasure is a total turn-on.
Women are sexually complex beings, and men can use all the help they can get. They love it when you are loving it! So, texting him that naughty thing you love that he does will get him excited and ensure a great night for you, too!
How to say it:
- "I get so turned on when you let me undress you from head to toe."
- "Just thinking about that thing you did last night makes me want to scream."
6. Ask Him a Naughty Question
If you are not sure what to text, you can always ask him a suggestive question to get his mind thinking dirty thoughts. Questions can be less intimidating to text, and you may learn a few things you never knew about him while you're at it!
How to say it:
- "Hey, I was just wondering . . . what is your favorite sexual fantasy?"
- "Very important question. ;) What is your favorite body part on a woman?"
7. Text Him a Sexy Pic
You don't have to go nude (you wouldn't want that spread around the internet, would you?), but texting a suggestive picture is the absolute fastest way to turn a guy on. Men love visual stimuli, so an unexpected picture of you in a lacy bra giving him a smoldering look or biting your lip will send sexy vibes straight to his crotch!
A good sexy picture is all about showing a little bit of skin without exposing yourself in a way that you might regret later. A bit of cleavage and some upper thigh or lower stomach is all it takes to send a powerful message. And, if he wants to see more, he can get that in person.
Be sure you're careful of who you send sexy pictures to. It's very easy to duplicate them and send them to other people. Think carefully about your man and how well you know him to see if you can trust him with a sexy photo of you.
Any one of these texts will definitely get your guy turned on and begging for more. Test the waters by sending one text on its own or up the ante with a two-text-turn-on.
For example, you could text him how turned on you are and then text him specifically what you want to do to him. Or, you can ask him for his favorite female body part. Then, when he responds, send him a quick pic of yours.
The possibilities are endless. Choose your favorites, take some risks, and enjoy the sexy responses you are guaranteed to get.
Gigi on September 07, 2020:
i once asked my bf "did you like your dreams" and he said "yea, because your in it!!"
Æsthetic bee on July 07, 2020:
I tried them with my boyfriend and he called me an "ew"......
Addy on June 12, 2020:
You are pretty Addy
Rufaro on May 24, 2020:
That's great keep on doing that
B- on April 12, 2020:
I said one of them to my bf he didn’t understand:/
Bobwilder on March 24, 2020:
I am Bobwilder's wife .. you believe that I found my husband here .. he says to me that: he would like me his wife to trust him .... I trust a dog, but never again..7 years of marriage with him .. He only made me suffer, with dating and desires and passions with girls and prostitutes..He is so sincere with God and with his wife that, violating the Power of God, touching the praise in the church, like a man without dirt and thinks that in doing so the Creator will Forgive him for not getting out of Prostitution and love deception with girls in the Face Book ... Well says Satan: man says he loves the Creator and disobeys him. he detests me and obeys me ... He knows the Commandment of the law of our Creator .. and he knows that this path and hell in Life .. All that this path will never be Prosperous and victorious .. I ask Him ... Why don't you Bob Wilder ask for the breakup .. you want to make the fifth wife unhappy .. because I know you don't have Manly anymore .. you are with your wife until you meet some idiot like me to fall into your conversation and take away all the dream of happy love .. and that disgrace the life of another innocent woman ... i will wait and i will change my life ... i will take a position of honor and I will show you how to be an April human being .. This one and my husband .. I am very sad, I destroyed everything I had to marry Bobwilder now I see that it has gone from an illusion, passion..and it's over ..., I wish Bobwilder could have the honor of looking at himself and seeing that he is worth a lot more than he thinks by following this hateful dirty path ... he is worth more than all the dirt I saw him do in hiding. ... You know ... I got tired of so much lies and betrayal and deceit and falsehood ... When he least expects the Spirit of the Living God to solve this situation ... I'm getting ready ... He doesn't deserve me ... He always says I love you .. I answer too .. but in my mind I answer: You don’t even love you and hom in some and woman too..He knows that I have pure love .. I don’t trust and I’ll never trust Bobwilder .. unfortunately… I think he doesn’t want to be helped or change… He never loved me and no woman .. since we were married he was looking for women as hiding .. There is no such love and trust needed so much betrayal and falsehood against his wife .. he thinks that love and passion ..He will never be prosperous with his mistakes and falsehood and betrayal .. I am a wife who likes to practice a good relationship with the truth .. all our fights were because of her betrayal, lying and falsehood and adultery ... No woman deserves to be so offended.
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Kelly on February 08, 2020:
Your have mycock and I'm ready for me to see
Gigi grogam on January 25, 2020:
Instead of turning him on I turned my self on
Miriam Jacobs on January 18, 2020:
So how are you doing what have you been doing and how you doing people think is sexy
Amani on November 29, 2019:
I love this so amazing
JD on October 12, 2019:
JD on October 12, 2019:
How wants to play
Carly on September 07, 2019:
I never had sex so can you help me
Nawangchuni on September 03, 2019:
hi boys talking
Amber Leigh on August 21, 2019:
I want to text my bf most of that but the only problem is: we've never had sex! I want to have sex with him but my mom would kill me if she ever found out.
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Naomi on August 09, 2019:
Oooh that sounds so lovely. Whom will I ask this
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15 on sec. 3... will make him maybe feel awkward... say remember not picturing.
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Mila on May 15, 2019:
Cant imagine how many times ive used these texts or variations of these texts and they work for me!
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Holly on February 21, 2019:
I have been using a lot of the suggestion written and so far is going good and I tweak it a little. So thank you!
Hannah on February 19, 2019:
what can i do to turn him on over text if none of these work
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harley on January 21, 2019:
i will want to be loved
Amy on January 20, 2019:
This is so helpful; thank you so much.
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Can't wait to meet a guy here in the US to love me Bd make me happy
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moriah on September 16, 2018:
lolzzzz i didnt use any of these on my friend.... we met on a camp,got each others numbers, started a normal conversation and before i knew it we were sexting hahahaha sadly he has his GCSES soon so he cant handle a relationship at the moment but he said that as soon as they are finished we can date!!!! I CAN'T WAIT XDDDDD
Naom on September 01, 2018:
Nice one. They all worked... Thank you
Margie on July 27, 2018:
....these are so bad? They're just really embarrassing rather than flirty or like, actual hot??
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Mary on June 19, 2018:
Nice one and thank you very much
sphetlana on June 17, 2018:
I know this guy likes me he told me. All I want is him to love me for who I am and I also hope he would love to go out on a real date.
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ISABELLA on April 28, 2018:
I wish I had a boyfriend... anyone willing?
Hondo on April 26, 2018:
Laying down on my bed after my shower waiting for a wife
David on April 23, 2018:
You are sexy
Cool on April 21, 2018:
Ive been sending similar ones to my partner since day one now he’s planning for our wedding after bludy 3 months I wasn’t ready for all of that when I met him but now I’m happy that he gave up everything for me
Jackson on April 15, 2018:
I need someone that will love me
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LOVESOULSHARE on April 12, 2018:
LOVE IS A HEART THAT LIVES IN TWO HEARTS AND A SOUL THAT MAKES ITS NEST IN TWO SOULS. LOVE IS SENTIMENTAL AND SPIRITUAL. LOVE IS THE FULLNESS OF HEARTFULLNESS AND SOULFULNESS
LOVESOULSHARE on April 12, 2018:
BE LOVE, HAVE LOVE, GIVE LOVE, SHARE LOVE, TEACH LOVE, PREACH LOVE, FEEL LOVE, THINK LOVE
Jessie on March 19, 2018:
These texts really helped me elevate my relationship with myself. I make myself feel sexy and confident everyday.
Girl on March 03, 2018:
You guys gotta add more sexy pics to really give me a good understanding ;)
finessed.kira on February 03, 2018:
I sent my bf one of these texts and told him to come over when he got to my house he was really hard and we sext all the time he has a hot body and i tell him all the time he gets really turned on. Anybody wanna sext?
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Jibaro on January 17, 2018:
Really interesting but if you do not intend to follow thru, please do not, without a good reason, crack someone's head. It can backfire!
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Sheniqua.elzy on December 30, 2017:
I am pretty
kris on December 27, 2017:
im trying to get my ex bf back and this is the way to go
Dicl on December 26, 2017:
Laying down to start now I just got out I need a wife not a stripper and my girl cheated On me
Nikki on December 17, 2017:
My husband wants me to send him a letter that will make his dick hard can someone help me please
Seriously, on December 05, 2017:
Eve, you're a human being, a woman, not a zoo creature. Handle your damn self.
Mystee Crockett from Everywhere You Want To Be on December 03, 2017:
Great suggestions. It's important to keep him thinking about you all day long. Texting is a good way to do that.
Rose on November 25, 2017:
This is really good. It turned my boyfriend on. He came to my house like a beast. Thank you so much for that.
Eve on November 21, 2017:
that number is wrong
Unknown on November 16, 2017:
Made my boyfriend love me all that more❤
Vilnor on October 13, 2017:
This is nice.
Lana on September 20, 2017:
Thx for the sexting ideas! Being in a long distance relationship is hard, but my boyfriend loves the tease lol
Obaa yaa on September 20, 2017:
Omg this is really god I love this thanks
hsooth on September 14, 2017:
Sextorius on September 12, 2017:
Me and my boyfriend always text in a naughty way and we both love it
Make me moan daddy on September 06, 2017:
Got rode hard and put away wet
Marie sex toy on September 04, 2017:
I made my crush turn on and now for two weeks already.