87 Sexting Examples to Turn a Guy on by Text

Have you been flirting with someone and want some ideas of how to get him turned on even if you're not in the same room? Texting plays an enormous role in modern romance. Those 160-characters at your fingertips have the power to bring closeness, heighten intimacy, and multiply the sexual energy between you and that guy you have your eye on.

In this article, you'll learn what kinds of things make a text message really sexy for guys as well as see some examples of steamy texts you can send your boy candy.

The reality is that it has never been so easy to excite a man, make him want you, and drive him crazy with desire. You'll be able to use any of these methods and get a positive response from that hunky guy you've been flirting with. Try them out! Your love life will thank you!

26 Sext Examples to Send Your Crush or Boyfriend and Get Him Turned On

  1. I had a naughty dream last night and guess who was in it? I'll give you a hint. I'm texting him right now.
  2. Lying in bed and bored. Wish you were here to play Simon Says with me ;)
  3. I feel like something's missing in my life. Namely you. Between my legs.
  4. If I were with you right now, where would you want me to touch you?
  5. I want to get naked with you right now.
Sucking on a blow pop right now and wishing it was you. . .
  7. Confession: I’ve been naughty today and probably deserve a spanking. If only there were someone to do it . . .
  8. I'm listening to a song that makes me think totally dirty thoughts about you! If you were here we'd probably make some of them reality ;)
  9. Guess what I'm thinking? OK I'll give you a hint. It involves my tongue and you, naked.
  10. I'm dying to find out if you are as good in real life as you are in my fantasies.
  11. Confession: Sometimes I can't help but touch myself when I think about you.
  12. Have you ever had a wet dream with me in it? Be honest . . .
  13. If you could do anything you want to me, what would you do?
  14. Work sucks. Especially when I'm getting distracted thinking about this hot guy I know and his fantastic body.
  15. Hey, just wanted to let you know that if you're ever having a hard time, like a really hard time, I'm there for you. I mean, I can give you hand. Or something.
  16. I know you're not a wizard, but I think your mouth is pretty magical. I can think of a few places I want it right now. Wait, maybe you ARE a wizard.
  17. Just got out of the shower and had to text this really sexy guy I know. Didn't even have time to put clothes on.
  18. Could really use some help putting this sunscreen on right now. And I'll need help taking the bikini off later.
  19. Just ate dinner, but you wanna come over for dessert? Bring whipped cream and easy-to-remove clothing.
  20. What's the dirtiest thought you've ever had about me? I know what mine is about you . . .
  21. All I can think about is doing filthy things to you when I get home from work.
  22. I'd rather be in bed with you right now.
  23. Just finished pleasuring myself while thinking of you for about an hour. Dang you're good.
  24. You jerked it recently?
  25. I think it's time we tried (fill in the blank)
  26. What do you want me to do to you tonight?

23 Flirty Text Messages to Send a Guy

  1. You look great today. How do I know? Because you look good everyday.
  2. I figured us out today! -- I think we should just be friends with sexual tension ;)
  3. There's this really cute guy I've been thinking about all day long . . . what should I do about it?
  4. If you were here right now, we definitely would not flirt at all, or hug for a little bit too long, or stare deeply into one another's eyes, or anything fun like that.
  5. I would invite you to come over this weekend, but I'm not sure I can keep my hands to myself.
  6. So are we really "hanging out" or are you secretly trying to date me? Be honest :)
  7. Wanna know what I wanna do with you later? Too bad! You'll have to wait and find out.
  8. I keep having this recurring dream that you're trying to get me naked . . . weird.
  9. Just read that caffeine can boost a woman's libido. Is that why you keep inviting me to coffee?
  10. Stop thinking about me naked! Sheesh.
  11. Do you know what my favorite thing in the world is? The second word of this text.
  12. I know someone who might have a crush on you . . .
  13. You're not very good at pretending you don't want me.
  14. Quick question: what do you do when there's someone you can't stop fantasizing about but you have no idea how to talk to them about it?
  15. Just wanted to let you know that I find you very attractive. And hot. And cute. And I want to put my mouth on your mouth.
  16. It said it was going to be hot today so I decided to wear a thong and low-cut top and just stay in bed. What are you up to?
  17. Happy half-birthday! Tonight I'll do whatever you want me to . . .
  18. I swear I was just watching TV and then I thought about how sexy you looked at my sister's wedding and I had to take a twenty minute break. If you know what I mean.
  19. My friends are always getting annoyed that I talk about you too much. I can't help it if you're the sexiest man that has ever walked the face of the earth and I think about you constantly .
  20. What are you doing for dinner tonight? I thought about getting reservations for my bedroom but wanted to make sure you were available.
  21. Good morning! I'm not wearing a bra today. Just thought you should know.
  22. Was just thinking about seeing you tonight and all of the sudden I was completely undressed.
  23. Tonight, let me do all the work. We're going to take it so slow you're going to scream.

22 More Sexting Ideas . . .

  1. I love your body.
  2. I'm naked right now.
  3. Remember that crazy thing I told you about that I wanted to try with you . . . I think tonight might be the night.
  4. If you were here right now I would tear your clothes off and shove you onto my bed and have my way with you. But you're not, so . . . rain check?
  5. Is it weird that all I can think about is last night? I keep replaying it my head over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over . . .
  6. When you come over today I want to start in bed. Just FYI.
  7. Do you have any fantasies?
  8. I want you right now.
  9. My hands. My hips. My lips. Your body. Tonight.
  10. We would be having so much fun if you were here right now.
  11. Just put on some really crazy underwear. So many snaps! So many straps! You'll have to help me take it off.
  12. My roommates are gone this weekend. We can be as loud as we want tonight, and I want to be loud.
  13. I've got something to show you. It's a surprise, and you're going to have to undress me to find it.
  14. Nothing gets me hotter than thinking about you.
  15. You should probably clear your schedule for tomorrow morning, because I plan on staying up late with you tonight. Very late.
  16. Let me be clear: when I see you later, I'm going to undress you button by button. I'm going to unzip your pants and take them off leg by leg. I'm going to take off your boxers and throw them against the wall. What happens next is all up to you.
  17. I'm touching myself right now. Wish you were here ;)
  18. If you're not busy later I was hoping to make passionate love to you. I hope that's okay with you.
  19. If you could do anything to me what would you do?
  20. What is your favorite memory of us in bed?
  21. Did you know that you're incredibly sexy?
  22. I'll invite you over on one condition: you may not keep your hands to yourself. In fact, you need to tell me exactly where you're going to put them.

22 Funny and Sexy Text Messages

  1. There's this guy I really like but he can't know. OMG I can't believe I sent this to you. Well, now that you know . . . wanna make out?
  2. Some people say to-may-to. Some people say to-mah-to. I say I-want-you-right-now-you-sexy-beast.
  3. Here's a riddle for you: What is cute and nice and sometimes hard all over?
  4. I'm watching HBO right now and getting a lot of ideas for things we could do together ;)
  5. I've got a B.A. in Communications, so I think I'm pretty much qualified to blow your mind tonight.
  6. One, two, I want to do you. Three, four, I want you more. Five, six, don't give me tricks. Seven, eight, don't be late. Nine, ten, see you then.
  7. Did you know that today is National Donut Day? I thought we could celebrate in my bedroom. I'll bring the sugar.
  8. If I told you that you had a nice body, would you hold it against me? Seriously though. You're hot. I'd like to touch your shoulders right now while you take off my pants.
  9. Do you believe in love at first sight, or do I need to walk by again?
  10. My dad always told me to make sure that I was treated like a princess, and you know princesses like it hot in bed. So . . .
  11. Your body is so hot it's making me thirsty. Was that sexy? Because I'm not wearing any clothes. Okay that has to be sexy now.
  12. The top three sexiest things on this earth are: your chin, your shoulders, and your . . . I think you know what I'm trying to say here.
  13. So I'm outside. I'm not wearing two crucial pieces of clothing, but no one is calling the cops on me. Can you guess what's missing? Also, it's not my shoes.
  14. I got eight hours of sleep last night in preparation for the rager that I'm preparing to have with you starting at 8 p.m. this evening.
  15. I just wanted to let you know that I'm picturing you naked right now and dang you look good.
  16. On the count of three let's both say what we're thinking about. One . . . two . . . I really want to be naked with you right now!
  17. I was listening to Taylor Swift today and totally thinking about you. JK. Just wanted an excuse to text you to say I think you're darn handsome.
  18. 101 things I like about you: 1. You're hot. 2. You're hot. 3. You're hot. You get the picture.
  19. Imagine that my bed is a football field. I'm the football, and you're running for a touchdown. See, I do like sports!
  20. You're so sexy you take my breath away, but not too far away, like I don't die because of it. Still. You're sexy.
  21. On the agenda for tonight: polite conversation followed immediately by impolite bedroom antics.

A Guide to Getting a Guy Hot by Text

Here are seven proven ways you can turn any guy on by text. Learn how to write and send texts that will get him hot, excited, and fantasizing about you instantly no matter where he is or what he is doing.

1. Tell Him That He Is Sexy.

Telling a man how sexy you think he is will really turn him on. He will feel sexual just knowing you are thinking about him that way, not to mention that it will boost his confidence and his testosterone levels!

How to say it:

  • "I was just thinking about how sexy you look in that fitted black button-down . . . you're such a stud."
  • "My friends and I just saw the new Bond movie and I couldn't stop thinking about what a sexier James Bond you would be."

2. Tell Him How Turned on You Are.

Nothing arouses a man more than knowing that a woman is aroused by him and ready for action. Men love to see that they can pleasure and affect a woman. By texting him that you are on fire for him, he'll know you're ready for the good stuff.

How to say it:

  • "Was just thinking about you and started getting so turned on . . . now I'm just laying in bed with nothing to do . . ."
  • "I'm too turned on to put clothes on. Get here quick! ;)"

3. Tell Him What You Are Wearing...or Not Wearing.

Men are visual creatures. Help his imagination out a little bit by describing where you are, what you are doing, or what you are wearing.

How to say it:

"What are you up to? I'm just laying in bed in a tight tank top and short shorts texting this really amazing guy."

"Just got out of the shower and trying to decide between the red lacy thong or the pink boy shorts . . ."

"FYI: this text sent while wearing a black thong."

4. Tell Him What You Want to Do to Him.

Texting a guy something sexual that you are dying to do to him is a surefire way to turn him on instantly! Men can't help but imagine what you describe and he won't be able to stop thinking about it. Drive him crazy just by telling him how bad you want him.

How to say it:

"Can't wait to see you tonight . . . I'm going to take you into the bedroom and . . . well, you know."

"If you were here right now I'd take your pants off with my teeth and . . . I'll just let you finish that sentence with whatever you want."

5. Text Him What You Want Him to Do to You.

Many women have a hard time asking for things sexually or even talking directly about what they like in bed. For men, a woman who owns her sexuality and celebrates her own pleasure is a total turn-on.

Women are complex beings sexually and men can use all the help they can get. They love it when you are loving it! So, texting him that naughty thing you love that he does will get him excited and ensure a great night for you, too!

How to say it:

"I get so turned on when you let me undress you from head to toe."

"Just thinking about that thing you did last night makes me want to scream."

6. Ask Him a Naughty Question.

If you are not sure what to text, you can always ask him a suggestive question to get his mind thinking dirty thoughts. Questions can be less intimidating to text, and you may learn a few things you never knew about him while you're at it!

How to say it:

"Hey, I was just wondering . . . what is your favorite sexual fantasy?"

"Very important question ;) What is your favorite body part on a woman?"

7. Text Him a Sexy Pic.

You don't have to go nude (you wouldn't want that spread around the internet, would you?), but texting a suggestive picture is the absolute fastest way to turn a guy on. Men love visual stimuli, so an unexpected picture of you in a lacy bra giving him a smoldering look or biting your lip will send sexy vibes straight to his crotch!

A good sexy picture is all about showing a little bit of skin without exposing yourself in a way that you might regret later. A bit of cleavage and some upper thigh or lower stomach is all it takes to send a powerful message. And if he wants to see more, he can get that in person.

Be sure you're careful of who you send sexy pictures too. It's very easy to duplicate them and send them to other people. Think carefully about your man and how well you know him to see if you can trust him with a sexy photo of you.

Have Fun!

Any one of these texts will definitely get your guy turned on so he is begging for more. Test the waters by sending one text on its own or up the ante with a two-text-turn-on.

For example, you could text him how turned on you are and then text him specifically what you want to do to him. Or, you can ask him for his favorite female body part. Then, when he responds, send him a quick pic of yours.

The possibilities are endless. Choose your favorites, take some risks and enjoy the sexy responses you are guaranteed to get.

What is dirtiest thing you have sent in a text message?

  • I send suggestive messages but they are never explicit.
  • The things I text would make you blush; I text like a porn star.
  • A nude pic! I'm not shy at all with texting!
  • I've never really sent a sexual text message, but I'd like to try someday.
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New Guestbook Comments 58 comments

blah 23 months ago

I need helpvwith flirting with a guy I barely know. I reallynlike him.

baby_anon 18 months ago

These are so excruciatingly vanilla. To each there own I suppose ;)

keshia 15 months ago

I always wanted a boyfriend. But i don't know how

Samsonia 15 months ago

Keshia,can we b frnds?

Angel 15 months ago

I've dated a guy for 3 months and I loveee sexting bc he lives far away

whitney 14 months ago

I want to learn more

Mangle 14 months ago

this is very helpful :)

Jessie 14 months ago

It works very helpful

Enjoy coming on this site

Rerara 14 months ago

The best !!

Marie CHERLINE MULLER 12 months ago

I love this site.. Thanks.....

Fuckboy 12 months ago

These are amazing.they actually work

bang bang 12 months ago

Some of these are just WOW!!!!! I gotta try them with him!

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meganelijah 11 months ago

I want to have sex with my boyfriend because we have been together fo 3 years but I don't know how

Leigh 11 months ago

Being in a long distance relationship is hard but these seem to keep he entertained he lives them and just makes him want to see me more ☺️ He just loves the tease

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greenmind 11 months ago

This is a smart and thoughtful piece on communication. There are some really nice observations and suggestions here. I really appreciate the point of view! You are a really good writer, too. Hubpages could use more writers like you!

idk 10 months ago

gonna try this put

Anonymous 9 months ago

Great. Thanx. It's helped me with long distant relationship. Which just makes him want to see me more. Thanx.

Lolol 9 months ago

Ok so I sext pretty frequently and play off of what he says. These fun things to say had me laughing so hard. Like that isn't going to make him hard.

Zim3000x 9 months ago

This was obviously thought up by and written by a female. The author should avoid giving advice to women.

This was a bunch of half-hearted bland dribble that would possibly get a little boy hard but not a man unless he's exceedingly unimaginative or sex starved.

If you're a woman and using this advice with positive results it just means you got a polite man. Us men get hard by proper explicit and graphic details. Tell me you're "gonna make love to me" and i'll hardly glance at the text and get back to work.

Then again, im not an american so maybe i'm not the target audience. Possibly this is red hot madness to an american?

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SerenityHalo 8 months ago from Chicago

This is hilarious! Are all of these original. Bravo!

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PDXBuys 8 months ago from Oregon

I have always thought that actions speak louder than words. And how did hour grandparents manage to procreate without smartphones?

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tsadjatko 8 months ago from maybe (the guy or girl) next door

Since when does a guy need a special text (sext?) to be turned on? Just any text from a woman does the trick with the exception of from mom or mother-in-laws (unless maybe recipient is Bill Clinton).

aaditirani 8 months ago

grate post i have ever read in this month thanking you for the useful information

ravi 8 months ago

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maddy 7 months ago

hello sani

Juliana 7 months ago

These ones are the worse ones I have ever see like if you want to get him hard the only thing you need to do is say him what you would do to him if you would be with him like these ones are just pointless

Hotlatinguy 7 months ago

Juliana, are you really that good? Maybe you could use these examples too... Who knows? Everyone says theyre sooo good at it, until they have to prove it :)

brigit lancellot 6 months ago

i think e best thing to make him turn on is by let him feel you by giving all of you to him

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Deborah Demander 6 months ago from First Wyoming, then THE WORLD

These were some fun ideas.

My husband and I sext all day long. We can't keep our hands off of each other.

Thanks for writing.


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GlennAnderson856 6 months ago from Airlie Beach

Annnnd i just figured out where my ex got her material from. Thanks

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roob 6 months ago

Do you really need a list?! Lol guys are not that hard to turn on... no pun intended haha.

oyambo 6 months ago

very nice

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fpherj48 5 months ago from Beautiful Upstate New York

Oh No.....I am showing my age again. I HOPE this advice of yours is geared toward the 21 yr's certainly not anything a mature, serious-minded adult would find useful.

I suppose this goes over well with the newly "looking for love" crowd, but I would never recommend it. I don't have a daughter but I do have a 25 yr. old granddaughter. If I had any inkling she was into this, I would know it's time for a really long talk with Grandma.

Also.....You may want to delete at least a couple of these that is disgusting due to the guy's profile name that is a profane word beginning with F and attached to Boy!!

The other is a comment from a low-life, dirt bag, pedophile who admits to wanting sex with 10 to 15 year olds. He belongs behind bars! You should be ashamed to leave such gutter filth on your site!! 10 to 15 yr olds???!! Sickening.

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Happylovejoy 5 months ago from Singapore

Glad I stumbled upon this hub! The texts are creative..shall try on the hubby..on a separate note, should be careful to take and send sexy or revealing (even slightly) photos of yourself never know what may happen to those photos if you end up having a bad breakup!

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PaulsonCouriers 5 months ago from Manchester, United Kingdom

To be honest with you a text message would never get me turned on, a load of letters on a screen?? Hardly erotic. Give me a real life woman any day of the week.

Madisyn 4 months ago

This really helped, thank you.

Enjoy being on the site!

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Evane 4 months ago

Hahahaha! This is one of the best hubs I've read today! Surely interesting and entertaining to read but I have no plans to turn a guy by text. Such a modern way to come into relationship. The traditional way is still the best.

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word55 4 months ago from Chicago

Hmmmm, well SaraFox, texting doesn't do anything for me unless we can get together eventually on the real side from the text.

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im-aryan 4 months ago

well how about a post for texting a girl?? a girl like you?? they are hard to find......... :(

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BassPuppet 4 months ago from near Seattle, WA

thanks brainiac for putting this together

Anna 4 months ago

Keshia,the way to get a boyfriend is easy.First ask him this,"Hey,just wondering...Do U want to be my boyfriend...or Just friend... I'm super okay with boyfriend...if friends...nah...."

It will work! That Is how I got a boyfriend and always turn him on!

Good Luck!

peter565 4 months ago

As a guy, I can tell you we are always in the mood to have sex with a hot girl. As long as you are hot, you don't have to do anything. The problem is that, it is very hard to tell whether a girl wants it or not and we live in a legal society, just because you are not trying to rape a girl, don't necessary mean a jury see it the same way. Unless she give verbal consent it would take some courage to make a move on a girl physically. The type of thing you see in movie, where a guy just walked up to the girl he like and kiss her, don't happen that often in real life, because, if she doesn't like it, that is sexual assault. (Any unconsented/unwelcome sexual act is qualify as sexual assault including rape, the only justification for it, is if you have reasonable reason to believe she consent, but just because you believe you have reason to believe she consent, don't mean a jury see it the same way.)

As a teenagers the only representative we see about female sexual desire is girls felt pressure into sex by their boy friend and older people say she shouldn't do it, if she don't want it. Or the only way you can get a girl to have sex with you, is to toy with their emotion, telling them you want a committment, so she sleep with you and then dump her after the sex. All of these image portray an idea that women don't like sex and would only have sex to please their partner. Growing up bombarded with this sort of image, it make guys fear making a move on a girl even more. it is only after you reach adulthood and start interacting with more girls, you start realizing girls might have sexual desires too. And it is only in recent years, we start seen images on TV, with girls checking out guy with six pack, suggesting girls might actually enjoy sex, also.

Ultimately speaking, when it come to sex, girls need to know to be direct, rather then going around throwing all these sex signals and hoping guys know about it and make a move, because they are not going to risk, misreading those signals and possibly ended up been sue for attempt rape and then the jury...god know how they are going to see it.

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Laura Karina 4 months ago from Neverland

Veto! #22 really? To each their own..

Blah 4 months ago

This amazingly worked my bf and had some fun thanks

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nicole 2 months ago

still having trouble but what ever

john 2 months ago

I just want to show my body to any body

I'LL BE UNKNOWN 8 weeks ago

We only have a week dating, can I sext him or is it still early?

Ellie stevens 6 weeks ago

i know it me too !

SexyTexter 6 weeks ago


this is the author of We first published our sexytextsforhim post back in 2011. We noticed that many of your texts above are either identical or incredibly close to ours. We also noticed that many of your pieces of advice for texting him or, sexting examples, or sexting tips, or Flirty Text messages to send a guy also resemble ours. Believe it or not...we spent over a year crafting and testing...and over 2 years refining our sexy texts the hard way. Beyond that, our first experimental work with our texts goes back to 2009 in another avenue that we ended up expanding into our website.

We do not wish to threaten you with this message, but we would however appreciate and expect credit where credit is due mentioning our site as a source when used as a source.

We researched your domain and found that your domain was registered on 5-4-2016.

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Thank You

Brian 6 weeks ago

They are very interesting. Kept the conversation going. Cheers

J. 4 weeks ago

So sexy! I hope guys actually fall for these, though. Thanks!

morgan 4 weeks ago

i need help finding a guy

Jennifer 2 weeks ago

Yeah me to

lol! 13 days ago

this is funny af you niggas are craaaaayyyy and despite af!

navea mae 6 days ago

My boyfriend just doesn't listen to these he thinks I'm being too dirty minded

Anyass 5 days ago

i really like it

am single and looking for a girl friend is my email beautyftft

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