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  • Are men really shy? Or is he just not interested in you? Is he leading you? Or are you just not reading his signs right? If you're frustrated because he's not making a move, read on for what to do.

    Is He a Shy Guy or Just Not That Into You?

    Is He a Shy Guy or Just Not That Into You?

    by februarybaby14

  • Want to learn how to attract boys? Learn what boys don't like and what they do like, and how you can attract a boy's attention and get into a healthy and happy relationship. Scientific ways too!

    How to Attract a Boy's Attention

    How to Attract a Boy's Attention

    by Kari20

  • This is a huge collection of pick-up lines that are inspired by various video games and the whole gaming universe.

    150+ Video Game Pick-Up Lines

    150+ Video Game Pick-Up Lines

    by Cheeky Kid0

  • In this article I explore what makes a person attract the opposite sex, what people find attractive, and how individual perspectives may change what society says is hot.

    What Makes a Person Attractive or Hot?

    What Makes a Person Attractive or Hot?

    by Sean Jankowski2

  • There is a lot of pressure on women to act a certain way as of late, but it's time to shatter those notions and to really become irresistible to men. Find out how to be his dream girl now!

    How to Be His Dream Girl

    How to Be His Dream Girl

    by Michelle Jacobs0

  • Tips to easily attract more women immediately. Women want to be attracted to you, but sometimes you guys make it difficult! Here are some suggestions directly from women that you can try now.

    How to Become More Attractive to Women

    How to Become More Attractive to Women

    by herpointofview16

  • If you can't keep a man and want to understand why, don't rely on your girlfriends for an explanation. While they certainly have strong opinions on the topic, they're too spineless to say. If you engage in one or more of these 10 behaviors, though, you don't need to look any further for an answer.

    10 Things Women Should Stop Doing If They Want to Keep a Man

    10 Things Women Should Stop Doing If They Want to Keep a Man

    by McKenna Meyers5

  • What do high school girls look for in guys? A quick query in a popular search engine reveals messed up words of so-called wisdom. Someone even posted "Car, money, 6 inches of pain, and lots of weed" Let's put such nonsensical advice aside and take a practical peak into the psyche of a high school girl and what guys can do to attract and impress her.

    What Do High School Girls Look for in Guys?

    What Do High School Girls Look for in Guys?

    by princesswithapen16

  • How do I get the girl next door? If you've ever wondered this to yourself, it means you need a little advice. This hub is dedicated to helping you get that girl... there are lots of great guys out there who just have no clue how to leave an impression on her... let me show you how to get the girl next door!

    How Do I Pick Up The Girl Next Door?

    How Do I Pick Up The Girl Next Door?

    by S Chon5

  • Keep your rich man interested by not being too predictable, having your own things to do, and by avoiding intimacy early on in the relationship. Remember that a rich man can easily get a sexy woman.

    How to Keep a Rich Man Interested

    How to Keep a Rich Man Interested

    by GlendaGoodWitch1

  • When it comes to dating, the same rules do not apply for men and women. This article is for women looking to be a bit bolder and who want to do the initiating without being rejected.

    The Pickup Artist's Guide: For Women

    The Pickup Artist's Guide: For Women

    by Kelly Musca1

  • Filipina women are known to be one of the most beautiful women in the world bagging lots of international beauty pageant awards and winning the hearts of men with different nationalities. After all, it is home to most mixed races. You look at...

    How to Court a Filipina Woman

    How to Court a Filipina Woman

    by edenloibsalilig19

  • Of course there are more than six things a woman desires in her man, but here is a short list of must-haves for every woman who wants a successful relationship.

    6 Things Every Woman Wants in Her Man

    6 Things Every Woman Wants in Her Man

    by Elaine Flowers10

  • The majority of communication is nonverbal. Scientists estimate that communication is mainly transmitted in this way. They estimate that 55-80 percent of communication is nonverbal. So, it is important to understand what body movements mean so that...

    A Guide to Female Body Language

    A Guide to Female Body Language

    by Kimberly Vaughn1

  • The advantages of dating an older man are plenty. If you are tired of the games of men your own age, you will be pleasantly surprised because young women dating older men have a lot to look forward to.

    The Advantages of Dating an Older Man

    The Advantages of Dating an Older Man

    by Hearts and Lattes0

  • Women like a challenge, and in order to size up men, women will routinely test men for weaknesses and personality flaws. For a woman to be attracted, you must challenge her.

    How to Challenge Women to Build Attraction

    How to Challenge Women to Build Attraction

    by Michael Kismet0

  • Research shows these principles underlie successful flirting. Whether you're looking for a honey or want to flirt with the mate you already have, here's a fun look at flirting. Go get your game on!

    How to Get Noticed:  The Sexy Science of Flirting

    How to Get Noticed: The Sexy Science of Flirting

    by FlourishAnyway50

  • Attract the type of person you want in your life by writing down what you want! Learn how to write the list and how to use it to find your soulmate.

    Attract Your Soulmate by Making a List

    Attract Your Soulmate by Making a List

    by Luvlavie3

  • Why do women flirt with you, but never make the "first move"? What do you have to do to get a lady to walk over and talk to you? Here are 5 tips to help get beyond flirting.

    Tips for Men: How to Move Beyond Flirting

    Tips for Men: How to Move Beyond Flirting

    by Rosa Marchisella6

  • Learn the ins and outs of dating as a shy guy! Take a whirl through female psychology and make the most of your chances.

    Do Girls Like Shy Guys?

    Do Girls Like Shy Guys?

    by James Nelmondo12

  • The media likes to promote beautiful people, but not everybody you meet in real life likes them all that much. I explain the possible reasons.

    Why Not Everybody Likes a Pretty Boy

    Why Not Everybody Likes a Pretty Boy

    by Anti-Valentine84

  • If you've ever been cheated on, you know how much it hurts. Sometimes it's inevitable, but there are some things you can do to lower your chances in your next relationship.

    How to Pick a Boyfriend Who Won’t Cheat

    How to Pick a Boyfriend Who Won’t Cheat

    by Jorge Vamos3

  • Do you ever wonder why some people are deemed highly valuable? Familiarizing yourself with the psychology behind intermittent reinforcement will transform you into the most confident, desirable version of yourself. Keep reading and learn how to appear enchanting and wildly unpredictable.

    6 Ways to Use Intermittent Reinforcement and Make Anyone Love You

    6 Ways to Use Intermittent Reinforcement and Make Anyone Love You

    by Lucy4

  • Are you afraid that you might be pushing your man away and not realizing it? Check out these 10 ways that you might be unconsciously making him run.

    10 Ways That Women Drive Men Away

    10 Ways That Women Drive Men Away

    by Jorge Vamos0

  • I feel that many people misunderstand what flirting really is. With these misunderstandings, flirting can be taken out of context very easily. In a relationship this could lead to issues of trust or doubt, while in other situations it might be taken...

    Signs and Symptoms: Is She Flirting?

    Signs and Symptoms: Is She Flirting?

    by PermissionGiver1

  • Are you close to finding your soul mate? Or are you just infatuated with your new romantic partner? Learn about the five signs he could be your soul mate -- the true love you've been looking for.

    5 Signs He's Your Soul Mate

    5 Signs He's Your Soul Mate

    by Sadie Holloway0

  • Are you having a hard time finding or coming across a good man or woman? Check out these 4 tips that could possibly give you insight on how to attract someone of quality.

    Tips on How to Find a Good Man or Woman

    Tips on How to Find a Good Man or Woman

    by ImanBrewton3

  • If a woman's aim is to attract a man, she should keep one crucial piece of information in mind. Namely, that how she behaves around her girlfriends doesn't always fly with guys. Being catty, for example, may be acceptable among gal pals but will be viewed by most men as a big red flag.

    5 Things Women Should Avoid Doing If They Want to Attract a Man

    5 Things Women Should Avoid Doing If They Want to Attract a Man

    by McKenna Meyers6

  • There's a lot of talk about guys and the things they do that creep girls out during the courtship process. But let's turn the tables a bit. What is it that girls do when getting to know a guy that tends to turn him off or send him running? What can a girl say that will creep a guy out?

    5 Things Girls Might Do That Creep a Guy Out

    5 Things Girls Might Do That Creep a Guy Out

    by Jorge Vamos90

  • There are just some things that I see other guys doing that makes me roll my eyes and wonder how the human race managed to produce such a huge population when so many of my peers appear even more clueless than I do when it comes to courting women.

    5 Things Immature Men Do When It Comes to Women

    5 Things Immature Men Do When It Comes to Women

    by Jorge Vamos9

  • The usual approach to making friends may not work when trying to connect with an introvert. This article offers tips on how (and why!) to relate to the more introspective and reclusive types.

    How to Approach, Befriend and Talk to an Introvert

    How to Approach, Befriend and Talk to an Introvert

    by jenn-zee16

  • Whether you want to use one to talk to your crush or just like to read them for a laugh, pick up lines can help you break the ice. Here is a list of cheesy, clean lines to use on someone special who catches your eye.

    The Best Funny and Clean Pick Up Lines

    The Best Funny and Clean Pick Up Lines

    by AmeliaMercedies57

  • Attracting a great man into your life and making him fall in love with you can be a very difficult task for a lot of women today. Men are sometimes very unwilling to get involved in loving and committed relationships and often seem as though they...

    Three Things You Must Let Go of to Attract a Great Man

    Three Things You Must Let Go of to Attract a Great Man

    by easyrider77

  • The following six suggestions are all proven to help a man like a woman’s company and appreciate her worth. They present alternatives to sexual favors as a means of keeping a man interested.

    How Else Can a Woman Keep a Man Interested?

    How Else Can a Woman Keep a Man Interested?

    by Dora Weithers67

  • How can you tell if she likes you or not? The body sometimes reveals secrets that the lips have not spoken. Here are the signs and body language tips to help you know if she likes you.

    Signs She Likes You Through Body Language

    Signs She Likes You Through Body Language

    by Andrea Lawrence35

  • Be attractive to rich men & keep them interested. It is a lot easier than you think. Rich men do have higher standards than average men, and you must prove that you have class and are worth his time.

    How to Attract Rich Men and Keep Them Interested

    How to Attract Rich Men and Keep Them Interested

    by GlendaGoodWitch20

  • Yes, men have a massive ego, and that ego likes to be stroked. The male ego is tender thing, and you can use it to attract a man to you, make him feel good, and make him feel good about you!

    How to Attract a Man Through His Ego

    How to Attract a Man Through His Ego

    by Kari16

  • Here are 10 great tips for Men to convince a Woman you really Care. From removing spiders from the bath to fixing things in the bedroom, here are some great ideas to persuade a girl to love a guy!

    Ten Ways for a Man to Delight a Girl

    Ten Ways for a Man to Delight a Girl

    by Rik Ravado9

  • Having a check up this week? You might need to sharpen your flirting skills ;P Flirting is truly an art. Even if you’ve mastered the skill, there are situations when you can be caught off-guard.  Coming in for a consult with a real cute doctor...

    10 Subtle Ways to Hit on Your Doctor

    10 Subtle Ways to Hit on Your Doctor

    by melbournebars9

  • From Daniel Craig to David Beckham, British men make our hearts flutter because of their uniqueness, individuality and wit. But how do you get a British bloke interested?

    How to Land a British Man

    How to Land a British Man

    by Beth Burgess17

  • Learn how to attract a man using body language, including using eye contact, playing with your hair, standing confidently, and most importantly—smiling!

    How to Attract Men With Body Language

    How to Attract Men With Body Language

    by Sana Khan7

  • Wouldn't it be great to know exactly the right words to grab that certain someone's attention and create an instant rapport? Here are some of the best and most excruciatingly worst pick lines ever.

    The Very Best and Worst Pick Up Lines of All Time

    The Very Best and Worst Pick Up Lines of All Time

    by herpointofview4

  • Younger men like to date older women. This article offers suggestions to younger guys on how to successfully date an older woman.

    How to Date an Older Woman

    How to Date an Older Woman

    by Mystee Crockett3

  • Infidelity is one of the biggest problems in relationships, behind money problems. Because being in love makes us so vulnerable, being cheated on is very painful. It's better to be aware of the signs and be honest with yourself from the beginning...

    Top 5 Signs He's a Player, Cheater, and No Good Liar

    Top 5 Signs He's a Player, Cheater, and No Good Liar

    by Hope Alexander67

  • I love being the object of someone's desire. The bottom line is that younger men are often shyer and more intimidated by older women and much less likely to make the first move. This alone makes the start up of a relationship with a younger man...

    How to Approach a Younger Man

    How to Approach a Younger Man

    by IsabellaRothchild7

  • Want to know how to make a guy like you? Here's 30 top tips from around the world. Some tips are easy, others a little more difficult. But if you want to make a guy like you, use them all.

    30 Top Tips to Make a Guy Like You

    30 Top Tips to Make a Guy Like You

    by Daniel Long5

  • Have you ever wondered what women want? What makes a woman care? What makes a wife find her husband attractive? This article explains what things you should say and do to attract and keep a woman.

    What Makes a Man Attractive: How to Attract a Woman

    What Makes a Man Attractive: How to Attract a Woman

    by Vincent Lionheart44

  • These days, there a lot of dating options out there. However, most people, including Filipinas, desire more than just a date—they want a deeper connection. They're looking for someone who truly values their worth as a woman.

    How to Win the Heart of a Philippine (Filipino) Woman

    How to Win the Heart of a Philippine (Filipino) Woman

    by Evane30

  • http://www.howtogofromgirlfriendtowife.com Hey Ladies, Are you tired of the junk yard advice on men and seduction? Do you really want to know the truth about men and how to get your man enraptured by your very presence? I don't waste time...

    Art of Seducing Men

    Art of Seducing Men

    by Inside Guys Mind10

  • The shallowness of our society, men, what's amazing about fat women, and my social experiment with online dating.

    Men Don't Date Fat Women

    Men Don't Date Fat Women

    by faithchic157

  • Are you scared to talk to girls? Are you scared to even look at girls? It doesn’t matter how extreme your fear is – if you are not comfortable talking to or approaching girls then you may be letting love pass you by!

    How Can I Find Love When I’m Scared to Approach Girls

    How Can I Find Love When I’m Scared to Approach Girls

    by Kari36

  • How do I get that girl that is a friend of a friend? If you've ever wondered this to yourself, it means you need a little advice. This hub is dedicated to helping you get that girl... there are lots of great guys out there who just have no clue how to leave an impression on her... let me show you how to get that girl that is a friend of a friend!

    How Do I Talk to My Friend's Friend?

    How Do I Talk to My Friend's Friend?

    by S Chon1

  • What the findings of scientific studies might say about romantic attraction, plus "not-so-scientific" considerations that might help ignite the spark of romance.

    What Causes Romantic Attraction?

    What Causes Romantic Attraction?

    by Sallie B Middlebrook PhD0

  • Men can be hard to read. However, here are some clear clues that he's just not that into you. Five signs a guy does not like you enough to be your partner

    Signs a Guy Does Not Like You

    Signs a Guy Does Not Like You

    by Daniel Long0

  • An inspiring list of qualities that men find hard to resist in women and a true life story of an uncommon male magnet.

    Traits of a Fascinating Woman

    Traits of a Fascinating Woman

    by Yves42

  • Body language and actions can tell you a lot about how someone sees you. As hard as it is, these signals show that he isn't interested and you should probably move on.

    Physical Signs That He Doesn't Like You

    Physical Signs That He Doesn't Like You

    by Andrea Lawrence24

  • I was the typical shy guy at one time. I would see a hot woman that I was attracted to and I'd get the urge to go up and meet her but... for some reason... I just couldn't muster up the courage to get myself to do it. Even if a golden opportunity...

    5 Empowering Dating Tips For Shy Guys

    5 Empowering Dating Tips For Shy Guys

    by Tony Nova3

  • Gyms are great places to meet someone new. Learn how to pick up a straight guy at your gym in a safe way using 7 easy to follow steps. Meet the guy of your dreams with this approach and have fun!

    How to Pick Up a Straight Man at the Gym

    How to Pick Up a Straight Man at the Gym

    by CB Jones5

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