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Top 10 Signs She Likes or Wants You


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Does She Like You?

How do you know when a girl likes you? This question pops up in a lot of people’s minds when they are very close with someone they like. Here are some of the most reliable signs that can help you decide whether a woman is interested in you.

Take into account that some women are more social than others. Some people are shy and are less likely to initiate conversation or call you because of nervousness. A helpful tactic is to observe how she interacts with other people when you are together. If she treats everyone the same way, she probably doesn't think of you differently, but if you notice her smiling at you more, glancing at you, and talking more with you than with others, that is definitely a good sign.

OK. Let’s begin. Here is a quick look at the signs. Down below I go into more detail.

Quick Look: Top 10 Signs a Woman Likes You

Note: All of these signs could also be indicators of friendship, so go with your gut or ask a friend if you need a second opinion. You could always just be forthright with how you feel as well.



1. She turns to look at you when you walk by or makes eye contact.

This isn't fool-proof. Some women are just friendly.

2. She smiles at you.

Again, some women are just friendly. If she's really into you, you might see a sparkle in her eyes.

3. She starts the conversation.

Keep her interest by chatting and laughing as if you've known her a long time.

4. She loves your jokes (or often laughs).

This is a great sign! Keep doing what you're doing and laugh at her jokes too.

5. She asks you questions about activities.

If she asks what you get up to, this could be a way that she is asking to be invited along.

6. She compliments you.

This is a very good sign, since this doesn't happen very often.

7. She talks about sex.

She might be hinting that she is attracted to you.

8. She initiates physical contact.

Touching her own chest, hair, or lips is also a positive interest indicator.

9. She makes you gifts.

If she makes you a gift, you should definitely make a move.

10. She calls or writes you often.

If she's regularly contacting you (via text, social media, or phone call), this is a very good sign.

She smiles at you.

She smiles at you.

1. She Turns to Look at You

If you walk by or look at her and she looks back, that's the first sign that she might be interested. If she looks into your eyes, that's even better. Be aware that some women are just friendly. A single glance is not necessarily a sign of physical attraction. Be careful when you are judging people based on their body language signs, and always make sure to listen to their words as well.

2. She Smiles at You

In body language, a smile means "welcome.” That is why shop owners and retailers will welcome you into their store with a smile. A smile gives a good feeling and a warm welcome. If she smiles at you when you go, or she smiles a lot when you talk to her, it’s a very good sign.

Bonus: If she really enjoys your company, you might even see a sparkle in her eyes. This is a very strong sign that you've won her favor! This glow is often related to couples who are madly in love, so it's a good goal to achieve.

She enjoys talking with you.

She enjoys talking with you.

3. She Starts the Conversation

It's a little unusual for a woman to approach a stranger. If she does that, either she is very sociable or she is very interested in you. If she approaches you with the phrase, "I think I have seen you somewhere before," that's a good sign! If she asks open-ended questions that require more than a yes or no answer, it means that she wants to prolong the conversation.

As a rule, when a woman approaches you, for whatever reason, see this as a positive sign of interest and try to continue the conversation by chatting and laughing as if you've known her for a long time. The ease of conversation will take over, and she'll find herself wanting to see you again. (This is where your Facebook account comes into play!)

4. She Loves Your Jokes (or Often Laughs)

A woman who laughs a lot during your conversation or often laughs at your jokes obviously likes your company very much! Whatever you're doing, keep doing it, and make sure to listen and laugh at her jokes as well.

5. She Asks You Questions About Activities

Does she ask what activities you like? If she raises many questions about a particular activity, that may be her way of saying that you should invite her along. If she asks you about the movies you like, perhaps she would like an invitation to see a movie together.

Does she ask if you like dancing? Try inviting her to go dancing with a friend(s) and see her reaction. Be creative when you plan an activity with her for the first time, and remember to pay attention to her reactions and what she wants to do.

She initiates physical contact.

She initiates physical contact.

6. She Compliments You

Women have very little practice complimenting men. Women often give compliments to each other; but when a woman compliments a man, it is generally a very good sign. Whether it's a compliment to your looks, your clothes, or your personality, appreciate the comment and see this as a good sign of interest!

7. She Talks About Sex

Some women love to talk about what excites them sexually. They want to show their wild side a bit by doing this. Don’t be shocked; remember that women, on the whole, love sex as much as men do.

8. She Initiates Physical Contact

A woman who touches you when she speaks probably likes you. She might lean against you or touch your arm or knee. Usually, a woman who initiates physical contact is comfortable with you and might want to go further. If she touches herself, especially at the upper chest, neck, lips or hair, this could also mean that she wants to seduce you. So, that also counts as a sign!

She texts or calls you a lot.

She texts or calls you a lot.

9. She Makes You Gifts

Women are very keen to express their feelings via little tokens such as gifts. When she makes you cookies or a card, it shows she is willing to spend some time making you happy. If she makes you a gift, you should definitely make a move.

10. She Calls You or Writes You Often

When a woman is truly interested in you, you will notice that the number of calls/texts/little notes you receive will increase with time. This is because she wants to know how you are doing and that you are OK. If this is happening, you can freely express how you miss her. For example, if you went out of town to attend some important commitment. You can say, “It’s a boring journey. Wish you were here with me right now!” Check her reactions. If the signs are good, let your feelings speak for themselves.

Note: Be careful not to misread the actions of a friend as something more. If you're unsure, that's OK. Maybe she is, too. Not everyone knows exactly how they feel all the time.

Now you know how to recognize the signals of a woman who is interested in you, it’s time to practice what you have learned. Don't be afraid to talk to a girl or even ask her out. Good luck!

© 2011 Bestlife


anonymous on November 14, 2019:

there is this pretty lady she works at the job centre is when my father died and I was he`s carer and I need to move on with my life and needed job she had a big smile when I see her she would talk about her family that she was divorce I did think at she liked me just she wanted to know about me to but the lust time I went to the job centre she keep looking over my shoulder all the time when we was talking things had changed I think she liked someone in her office in the end just that when at first I see her it felt different than before when I went there it is hard to explain I did think there was cemisty there I have a job now so I will never see her gain I do wish that I ended up taking her out but I think not to be and if she likes someone in her office than I say good luck to her

Anonymous on August 25, 2019:

Jamison run the other direction. I don’t care what you have to do in order to let this go, do it.

Jamison on August 19, 2019:

I need help, I'm a 40yr old male, an I have started messing a younger woman at 23,an I thinks it's going well, but she won't message me first, but she will keep the messenging going. So thinks I cant understand what she's asking mean times she'll ask me questions that I think are to earier to ask, an will most times keep her answers short. So my questions are,#1 if she's ansking bout a sexcapade that she things might happen,#2 an if she ask's me what kind of actives an interests I have, the shortly after I message her backache says see count wann talk bout my likes anymore, an she does'nt wanna talk about her interests, an starts asking question like what my sexual rate is, followed by where would I take her on the first date.Is this person a scam? does she really like me? an where would I take her on a first date? This all messengering under 1 month

Owen on March 19, 2019:

So there is this girl who is really nice and pretty but I don’t know if she is interested in me. Should I make the move?

She does most of these things.... on December 04, 2018:

I cant figure out if she likes me or not she texted me i like you but i dont even know what that means does she want me or just a friend idk

Truth Really Is on November 28, 2018:

With most women today as it is being very picky and so very stuck up makes it very difficult for many of us good single men really looking for love. Women have certainly changed today from the past making love very difficult to find now, and it has become so very dangerous for many of us men trying to start a conversation with a woman that we would really like too meet since they will usually be very nasty to us and walk away.

Charlie on September 28, 2018:

The girl looks like she hides her emotions, is it a sign or is it me over analysing ?

Donnie Gonzalez on July 24, 2018:

Her name is ladonna and she is butiful and she said she likes my name and smile

justin on May 31, 2018:

What if well this one time i talked about music and she started to smile at me because i was talking about how i was messing with music and wanted to be a Dj and she has a beat that she made but i was like well i would like to hear that sometime

Dave on April 17, 2018:

I girl I know invited me to watch a movie with her and her friends, which I think all are girls. I'm about 90 percent sure. We also text often, like once a day but not always.

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on January 26, 2018:

Hey Felix; yes; signs are very positive that she's interested in you. Why don't you try to built up a close friendship with her. that will open up lot of opportunities for both of you to get to know each other better & perhaps it may lead to a great relationship. it's up to you to take the first step mate. good luck...!

Felix on January 25, 2018:

There is a girl that I like but she is shy and so am I but she always looks at me.she also talks about me sometimes with her friends. Does she like me?

Hidden on November 08, 2017:

Hey, theres this girl that always smiles at me evenever i say hi or good bye to her, and she usually says see yaa while grinning. Her eyes usually sparkle (which is bascially watery eyes i think), and she always keeps eye contact usually. She used o look at me alot, but this reduced (but im guessing shes playing hard to get).

What do you think of this?

Carlos vega on August 30, 2017:

She is always smiling at me she always asking me questions

And texting me if am okay

And trains to make me jealous

And asks me if a had sex

Do you think she likes me

Godwin on August 22, 2017:

l like this girl we holds hand each other,she touches me and I asked her out she said she we figure it out is she going to accept

John on July 25, 2017:

Why should I "definitely make a move" if I see some of these signs? Doesn't my opinion of her count for anything? Why do women assume that if they are interested in a guy, he MUST automatically like them as well?

mynor hernandez on April 13, 2017:

i like this girl and shes so cute but i dont know if she likes me but i really like her i asked her out 2 times and she rejected them but im not giving up but the problem is her dads strong and overprotective and he says she cant have a boyfreind until shes 43 like damm also another problem is that shes 10 and im 12

John on November 14, 2016:

I'm not sure if my neighbor likes me she often brings up the future and talks about if I ever want to have sex and other stuff like that but sometimes if we have plans it will be like 10 min before the time we set and I still won't get a response she constantly says she wants to hangout but I'm not sure but she compliments my looks and laughs at my jokes and I haven't picked up signals that I'm in the friend zone but I have been confused for the past year and really hope someone can help me

Phill on October 28, 2016:

This hot girl who cuts my hair keeps stretching up to show her bum and she keeps lifting her shirt up (she changes her top infront of me) to show her flat stomach, told me yesterday "ur looking good" do u think she wants me?

Neha on October 27, 2016:

hi I am neha my boy friend younger then me but he don't know my age he will accept me?

Brando on October 26, 2016:

what if she smile at you and say hi every time she sees you

Alex on October 24, 2016:

She give me many gifts,smiles at me everytime and love my jokes.She also touch my hand .But she didn't message or either call.

jack on October 19, 2016:

she likes me but she have already a boy friend and i have seen that most of the times she gives me signs like playing with her hair staring at me

Mgl on October 13, 2016:

Now im certain she doesn't like me


Bola on October 05, 2016:

I think she likes me but i don't always have things to talk about when I'm with her.. Can i get some ideas on what to do ?

D. Rahman on October 01, 2016:

In my office I worked with a married girl and she was came to my desk and always talk to me in long time over phone and it seems to me that she like me. One day in my office when she was alone I proposed her and she remain silent and not talk to me around 2 weeks. After that she again come to my room and talk long time over phone . What it is mean? Does She like me or not?

ben the god on September 07, 2016:

hey im 13 there is a girl that i think she likes me wen i talk to her she smiles is that good or bad ? and wen she was talking to her friends she said she did not like me do you think she means it or is she just in-braised?

Pikachu on July 21, 2016:

She sometime hold my hand.But we just friend.

Joseph on July 11, 2016:

Ok so this female co worker looks at me from time to time most of the time she's smiling at me I gave her my number on a piece of paper and she lost it. I gave her my number agin but this time on her phone she was all smiles and even got really close to me like body to body as I was putting my cell phone number in but now it's about 3 hours after work and I still didn't receive a text or call what should I do? Is she into me or not?

rafiq afridi on January 30, 2016:

this is very nice

Jane on October 09, 2015:

I'm a girl and I have a very deep crush on my bestfriend. Once I was drunk and I told her I wanted to kiss her. She passed it off as me being at a vurnerable point after breaking up with my boyfriend. I used to like guys but after being friends with her things changed. I really like her. We used to be great friends and we used to talk a lot but now she has few words to say when she texts. Most of her words be like 'Yes babe','Good night babe', 'Yes darling'. And she claims that she always wants to see me happy. She knows that I like her a lot. We talk less but whenever I try to talk to her she talks back and laughs uncontrolably, plays with her hair and fumble talks. We sometimes find ourselves looking and smiling at each other for no reason. What's our relationship? Any advice?

isabel pedroza on June 23, 2015:

I love him so much

sam on May 17, 2015:

i have a confusion about my friend. she showed some signs like brushing her hair, wetting her lips, laughing just for no reason and also said that she likes talking with me. but there's no sure indicator that she has feelings for me. also she is my distant cousin, so i feel extra nervousness. as far as i know she is not too shy nor too open. also, i have a dark complexion and she is very fair . i don't know what to do. plz help.

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on May 06, 2015:

Hi Josh;

As per your description on what has happen during last few days between both of you, seems she likes you in a way. it is too early to say she is looking for a relationship, but her body language says it is a possibility. let the flow going on , you will find out sooner. good luck...

Josh on May 05, 2015:

I just met this girl a week ago at my new job she started talking to me first like a general question and then as the night went one she talked to me more. The next day I saw her she said that I would fit in at work with her and two other guy friends, who I joked around with. The day after I walked into work she looked at me and said "oh no not you" jokingly and for the rest of the night anytime she was around me she touched me like on the back when walking by or just bumping into me and telling me to move. Any ideas?? Thanks :)

Prince Bethel from Africa on February 09, 2015:

You are most welcome @ Bestlife.

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on February 08, 2015:

@ Prince Bethel; Thanks for the comment.

Prince Bethel from Africa on February 07, 2015:

Great article. Most of the times, a girl might not show all these signs mentioned, I have an experience. Someone said that when a girl is angry at you for so many things, and she still holds on to you then she likes you, but i wouldn't want a girl to be angry at me for so many things like they said, let the love just flow naturally from within. Nice hub. Voted up. Thanks for sharing.

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on January 13, 2015:

Hi Nipuna;

Love.... it comes to our lives without asking , departure without saying....! it is a common thing in most young ones life. in your case; you have made some good progress by settling down her mother's concerns. kindly focus on your education without fail. im sure that was in her mother's advices too. keep the close relationship with her , move with her, life will give you an opportunity one day to win her heart. lets be positive. i'm sure you will , most importantly you can do that. good luck to both of you.

Nipuna on January 13, 2015:

Hello ..

I am Student of NIBM in present ,I am deeply falling with special girl I met. I have good friendship with more than two ,three months .Begins of our friendships' 2 nd or 3 rd week i asked her mobile number . She gave me & tell not to give this for anyone.

After a one week, I texted some messages to her but ,she didn't reply me.But one day I Phoned her few times, after 3 calles she answered me & told me that "Please my friend brother don't phone me this phone ,as my mother is using this phone these days"....but I couldn't stop my thouhts & feeling i phoned her again few more times. Suddenly one day ,I asked her whether you like me .Then She told me that She spent with me as a friend ,didn't keep like those things with her.While I was hanging with her in phone ,her voice was stopped & her mother answer me ''why do you phone my daughter ?"....

I answered her mother like this.." Aunty I like your daughter thatswhy I phone her several times ..." After that my proposal her gave me some advices & she was calm down .Then finaly she was carm down

& thanked me for proposal...

After few weeks my girl also was little bit calm down ...After those thing she phoned me only one time for asking about our IT course's Diplomalevel & to ask about my participation...

Now these days I am following my Diploma level with her ...

What should I do for asking her choice & my love....

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on January 03, 2015:

Hi johnson;

love is not something we can force & get from someone. since you also feel that she treat/loves you as one of your friend, let it be. pls do not get upset & loose that friendship. as per my personnel experience in life, when you see a closed door, there is an open one for you all the times. The question is are we ready to explore it or we are spending time on thinking the closed door...! hope you understood what I'm saying. All the very best in future...!

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on December 23, 2014:

Hi David;

don't get so upset by her action. we don't know for sure what cause this. may be a personnel issue... Just be calm. let her come back to you. there is an old saying " when you let go, if it comes back, it's truly yours...!" lets hope for the best to happen.

David on December 23, 2014:


Well I made plans with her for today and when I asked her about it she said that it would probably be an ok day to meet. I texted her several times, and called her twice today and she hasn't responded. I don't know why she stood me up after all this. I told her a few minutes ago to be honest and tell me the truth, haven't heard anything yet. What should I do?

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on December 17, 2014:

Hi David;

it is a good sign she like to discuss it in personal level rather than txt/phone . get a date & make it a little trip to a remote place like national park; adventure park ect. do not discuss this first; spent some quality time with her. then you will feel which is the correct time to get in to the subject of a relationship. if she's not willing to answer; say that's OK & carry on with the date. plan the next outing before you say good bye. to tell you; this works most of the times. if you like her & she does the same natural chemistry will do the rest....! keep us posted.

David on December 17, 2014:


I recently talked to the girl and she said she did like me. It was over text however, and she said she was not confident in saying yes to the bf/gf relationship and would like to discuss it in person. Is this a good sign? Bad sign?

Thanks again

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on December 15, 2014:

Hi David;

Yes; it seems you like her very much & she does the same. why not make it a good strong relationship? yes' you should try that my friend. Good Luck.

David on December 15, 2014:


There's this girl I know and she's two years older than me. When I first met her I didn't think much but she wasn't hesitant to give me her number, let alone full name. Afterwards we started talking and she's pretty much given me almost 80-90% of what's listed here everytime we meet. She has the Duchenne smile usually when I'm with her,she laughs, states when we talk, touched me once,complimented me once, plays with hair, even was cool with hanging out.Should I pursue her?

phil on October 17, 2014:

hey i asked someone to go on a drink..she said she's having her hair done but invited me to join her with her friends instead..i politely accepted..leter then she said that they won't go out anymore coz they have work the next day.. ofcourse i offered myself.. then she said "let's see". later that night she texted me and was asking where i am and told me that she's at a bar and that she's alone..then i told her i was on my way.. then she said suddenly that she's with a friend. i still went there. when i got there, she welcome me with a smile then moved aside for me to be able to sit beside her.. she was ranting about her hair not being the way she wanted it to be.. and while the conversation is going there are times that she's leaning and putting her head on my shoulders for a while then remove it.. i don't know if that's a sign but i liked it.haha! then i tried to put my hand on her lap..she didn't mind at all.. and when we were laughin and all i tried to put my hands around her waist to pull her close to me.. it worked just fine i think because she didn't remove it? then when the topic was about resorts she said that they wanted to have a swim on our next off, she asked her friend then asked me to join them.. i'm confused right now, coz as far as i remember , before we went home i gave her a hug and her arms was inbetween us i think. so, how should i respond. btw am still figuring out the eye contact while we're at work and how she interacts with other people..

Matthew on September 22, 2014:

Hey, nice article. Seems a lot has to do with body language which is very logical.

I have two scenarios. I am from Toronto and I met this girl online from New York (and I made sure that she was a girl as to not get catfished). We used to talk for 15 hours a day (I was sick for a while so I didn't leave the house much). We would talk until 5 in the morning like it was normal. We could joke around about anything, and get intimate about sexual things. We could talk about serious topics, feelings etc. Beyond being absolutely gorgeous, she outright told me that she loved me and really cared about me. Things happened unrelated to me and we're not talking anymore. I doubt we will again, but on the off chance I meet this girl, based on the things above, do you think she was in to me?

And now for the most recent. I'm in University for Biology. 3 of the 5 days of the week I go to the library to do Calculus homework before my other classes and I keep seeing the same girl sitting in the same place. The first time I saw her, she looked right at me. Some noise was in the background and I turned around then turned back and smiled and she slightly giggled and quickly turned away after looking at me. I left her an anonymous note before I left, telling her I thought she was pretty. The next time I went to the library she noticed me and smiled.

My question is, should I start trying to engage in conversation with her to see if she might have any sort of attraction to me?

Conrad . C kujur on September 16, 2014:

These are really sensible and great signs . I have to salute you how realistic this is. I have had these sort of signs from several girls since I was a little kid . These days are my late teens . I am 17 .most of my female friends compliment about my personality which I really like. Which in a weird way a combo of a flirtatious/platonic relationship s when I get in a cozy mood to talk in her ear or whatever I say . Shes so much interested .she use to really gets into it and laughs at everything I say! Since I left the school . I do contact this other girl on fb who is really interested what am I thinking/doing. She also says how my texts are sometimes beautiful and makes ger feel pretty.

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on September 13, 2014:

@ Jesse;

She's definitely like you a lot & care about you. that clearly express by the body language singes you describe & by her actions you mentioned. By looking at your words , it seems you also like her a lot. if you think you love her, why don't you say so.

lets do it. if you feel , she will be uncomfortable say it even over the phone. let me know about the progress buddy. happy future to both of you...!

jesse on September 13, 2014:

A girl sometimes look at me and smile she even find ways to touch or makes me jealous when I'm at school she doesn't talk to me but when I'm on the phone she talks to me and ask a lot of times if I'm alright what do u think this means

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on September 05, 2014:

Hi Shano;

that's a very good news from you...! as i mentioned earlier, try to get some private time for both of you in a form of a movie watching; visit to a famous local place....ect that will give more freedom to talk freely & express the true feelings. good luck

shano on September 05, 2014:

Thank you for help. I spoke to that girl few times she teases me a lot and i heard from her friends saying that Go and talk to him.Her office friends are helping her and even her manager. I noticed that she tries to find out ways to spend time with me. Her office friends are also talking to me very much these days i think because of her. Even sometimes i got signals that she got upset when i told that i was about to leave this job? i m confused that what should i do? because she is not saying anything directly to me.

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on August 29, 2014:


That is a good sign my friend. why don't you leave the office one day with her. have a chat.... may be an invitation to taste a coffee over the next cafe... possibilities are endless to start a positive relationship. Think... Act... you will be surprise to see the outcome. Good Luck

shano on August 29, 2014:

thank u for the above reply .i want to discuss one more thing that the same girl started teasing me as well and after doing that she smiles at me. she does that when i crossses her some times in the office and when she was about to leave the office she does that. i noticed that she does with me only not with others.

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on August 28, 2014:


Well... it can be a sign of friendship. spent more time with her & watch her actions carefully to see any positive signs. if you like her, make her feel it...!

That's the key.

shano on August 28, 2014:

I am 23 years old boy and there is a girl in my office.one day i was standing with my colleagues and the manager of that girl spoke that i know that ur choice is this girl and i do not talk much to that girl and sometimes that girl asked me what are ur future plans? does she has something for me in her heart?

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on July 27, 2014:

Hi Matthew;

As interpret in body language signs , she likes you. if you are interested, it is a good sign to explore the possibility of fruitful relationship with her. good luck..!

Matthew on July 26, 2014:

There is this girl that playfully touches and slaps me and when i ask her why she says "just cause" does this mean she likes me?

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on July 09, 2014:


lets make a new start. it seems she likes you very much & you like her too. just forget the past & do not worry about it too much. still we are not too late to make a fresh start. I know the feeling you are going through. simply be friends with her again. plan how to be with her , around her as much as possible. Then followed with a simple day out /visit to a nearest place like beach /national park also a good idea which will give both of you a better opportunity to express feelings in an effortless manner. always be positive & world is yours...! go for it bro.

Good Luck to you.

iamepic952 on July 09, 2014:

A girl at school started looking at me and kept staring at me in class and sometimes touched me when she walked past me. I was foolish and didn't react I realised I loved her she admitted to me that she loves me but I haven't told her she hasn't talked to me on a while (about 2 months) she has started to look at me in class and we sometimes stare at each other but she still hasn't talked to me she approached a month brfore and made convrrsation with me but I dont know what to do next please help

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on June 20, 2014:

Dear Kevin;

why don't you make that call buddy? pls dial her number just to say hello...! tell her that you remember her all the times. ask her if it's ok to call her back. if she likes you , she would say OK. Thereafter you know what to do my dear friend. good luck.

kevin on June 20, 2014:

I had a girl in my previous company and we both were in love but we never tried to express our feelings to each other...one day i decided to propose her and i did but after hearing that she ran away i was very disappointed thereafter i decided to quit company and i abandoned her now i have been not talking with her for 1yr but still she is inside my heart n even i have her number but i don't call her......but i love her

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on June 16, 2014:

@ Mack;

Tell me truly what do you feel about her. do you want to start a relationship with her? do you feel for her or it's just a feeling based on the circumstances. all depends on what you think about her &

how you value your existing relationship with your girl friend. Appreciate your input to analysis it further. have a great day ahead...!

mack, vancouver on June 15, 2014:

i have this friend at work and she knows i have a girlfriend..what if she's always play-hitting or holds my hand when she's had enough alcohol? this happens a lot when we're group drinking but not when we're sober..help pls..

ron on June 09, 2014:

I love a girl form 2 years from my class.....but i don't have guts to talk wid her she stares back at me i even asked her for friendship on face book but she did nt reply anything....i told her on fb that i like her but she did nt respond anything....but i sincerely love her....she is rich and i am a middle class guy...she has a boyfriend....but somewhere in my heart i assume that she likes me...

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on June 01, 2014:

@ youngboy;

it's a very simple choice in your hand my friend. if you like her & like to continue a relationship with her, answer should be YES. but when i saw "i did tell her that i like her before" part ; i do have a feeling that you are not interested in her anymore. isn't it?

youngboy on May 29, 2014:

The girl i know just asked me to go out of town with her ,to spend 3 days and 2 nights in a beach resort, just the two of us, I've known her for 5 months now, i did tell her that i like her before and we are still friends but I just don't know what's she up to...what's your opinion on this?

Eric on April 01, 2014:

I been talking to this woman for awhile now I ask her out twice she said she is shy.... I don't wanna rush but I did give something for Valentine's day that past this year. She told she didn't get nothing for Valentine's day and I was the who got something for her, she stop texting for awhile then she start texting back , I really like but I not going out not yet she wanna be friends for right now. What should I do

Knight on March 28, 2014:

There's a girl who is constantly looking at me. Sometimes we look at each other in the eyes.It's like our eyes meet while we are looking at each other. I had a chat with her alone recently and she asked me which subject I liked, and i said biology. She said that it's interesting. Do you think that she's interested? I'm I wasting my time running after her? Should i make a move?(we've only known each other for 3 months)

Last but not least, she never had a boyfriend before.

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on March 08, 2014:

@Alan; try to find what she's interested of ,her hobbies... ect. if she likes drama's/movies you can invite her to join with you to theater/cinema. if she's interested in outdoor activity like hiking, arrange a one with friends & invite her too. if i were you, that's where I'm trying...!

Alan on March 08, 2014:

Hey,can u tell me some good excuses to text a girl or even go to her house to meet her.She is from my school but a year junior,so I just can't talk anythng about studies or homework..Any gud excuses??

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on March 04, 2014:


it seems She wants you to be with her , spent time together & she likes you very much. if you like her/love her why don't you say it. yaah, it will work...!

Mudd on March 02, 2014:

Her friends say she used to have a crush on me (but acted as if she doesn't anymore)

She frequently makes eye contact with me and initiates conversations

When I talk to her I get close so that we're touching and she doesn't move away.

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on February 23, 2014:

@ Phil;

Yes, it's a positive sign that she likes you very much. That doesn't say she loves you... but observe her very carefully when she's with you. In most of the times; body language doesn't lie. spent more time with her & get to know her well.... rest , time will resolve my friend...! Good Luck...!

Phil on February 23, 2014:

There is a girl whom I like..

She often gives me compliments like-

1.she likes to talk to me.

2.she smiles when she gets a text from me.

3.I look nice.

4.I have a nice sense of humuor.

Now what I want to know is do girls say these things only to that 'special one' or even say it to whom they consider to be a friend only..?

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on February 22, 2014:

@ Jack; it's a very positive sign that she likes you. if you are realy interested on making a good relationship with her, you do have a great possibility of achieving it...! spent more time with her; visit her favorite place /cinema/ ect. good luck buddy.

Jack on February 20, 2014:

Once i went to meet her..dat night she sent me a text

'You were looking very nice' and once she said she likes my company...what do you think?

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on February 20, 2014:

@Asad; Wishing good luck means she is treating you as one of her friend, since you know her for few weeks. Just move with her more frequently & spend some quality time as good friends. Good friendship can turn in to love in seconds...! lets watch.

Asad on February 19, 2014:

IF agirl comes and say toyou good luck. Whom you knew Ohly Teo weeks what do you think

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on December 23, 2013:

@stroup ; You are welcome friend...

stroup on December 23, 2013:

as you have explained that i felt many times, but i didn't understand. So thank to explain fantastically

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on December 07, 2013:

@Jerry...... Explore & enjoy her company more... best of luck buddy.

jerry on December 07, 2013:

She tells me she likes my hair because it makes me look mature. Then she wants to know how I prefer her hair to be like. She also wants to cook for me haha.

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on November 27, 2013:

@Dylan; Yes, it's a positive sign that she likes you. That doesn't say she loves you. just observe her very carefully when she's with you. In most of the times; body language doesn't lie. you can assess the relationship strength & look forward. have a blessed day ahead....!

dylan on November 26, 2013:

does she like me if she asking me to be with her everyday

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on April 23, 2013:

@ Jeffery;

Thanks for dropping by.

Well ... it seems she's having a very close friendship with you. Sometimes when they know you for a long & they trust you, will open up there minds freely. This can happen when you too are very close friends too. BUT, yes this is a good sign to build up if you are really interested on her. Have you seen any other body language signs from her? Be more mindful & alert when you are moving with her next time.

Good luck to you.

Jeffery on April 21, 2013:

A female friend of mine did talk about sex to me once

She:"Where do you boys learned how to make love?"

Me:"Well, we didn't learned it from anywhere. When the time comes, we'd know what to do"


Does that count?

alex on May 11, 2012:

i will try that thanks

Giovanni on April 21, 2012:

you pretty much just listed everything she doesn't do. thanks a lot ahaha

yaya on March 25, 2012:

very true, but there are some stupid guys who don't understand this!!

lanie on August 05, 2011:

nice job!

Bestlife (author) from Colombo on May 18, 2011:

Thanks Chinnidivs. Hope you enjoyed reading it.

Vinay from India on May 18, 2011:

Very true !

Nicely put out

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