How to Date a Married Woman
Dating a Married Woman Is Not as Hard as It May Seem
Every man on this earth is interested in and wants to know more about women. Some men may know more than others, but either way the desire to continuously learn more about women, dating, and the art of good sex is universal.
This Hub is about how to seduce and date a married woman. Yes folks, you have read it correctly—how to date a married woman. If you are seriously thinking about dating a married woman, then read through my article completely and try out these tips. Once you have mastered this art, then success will be yours. Any woman on this earth can be seduced, even if she is happily married and allegedly satisfied in her life. Women love attention and are always flattered to be objects of attraction. They love compliments on their beauty and are attracted to the charm of handsome men.
Most men make the mistake of believing that it is easier to date a girl than to date a married woman. Once you have mastered the art of dating a married woman, you will agree that this is not the case. It is easier to date a beautiful married woman than to date a girl. Getting involved in a relationship with a girl or a single woman involves a high level of public commitment, whereas there is much less commitment when dating a married woman.
And it is not as difficult as it may seem. No matter how happily a woman is married, she will always be on the lookout for that perfect man. Of course, no man or woman is perfect, but while a man's search often stops with time, a woman's search never finishes. Women will always be on the prowl for that perfect partner; they actually get bored of living within the four walls of the house and will long to be free.
Where to Look: Recognize This Woman When You See Her
Any married woman, whether a career woman or a housewife, is always looking for that spark in her love life. As their husbands start to take them for granted, slowly and gradually that spark dies down.
Once a woman reaches this point, she will be open to but very cautious about choosing another partner outside her relationship. She will need to be sure that the new man will be different from the others. She needs to know that he will be fully aware that this relationship can have no commitment, and that he is not looking to turn it into a serious or long relationship. In reality, they both know that the relationship they are looking for will revolve around only sex.
For men, the best places to look for these women are in workplaces, discotheques, pubs, clubs, some adult finder sites on the internet, and sometimes supermarkets.
Look for a woman in a pub or a club who is sitting alone on the couch with a hunger in her eyes, looking at every corner, and sitting with a posture that is casting about for attention. One way a married woman can signal that she is looking for attention is by going out for drinks alone.
Never hesitate to approach this beautiful woman. Most men wrongly believe that an approach to an attractive and beautiful female is unlikely to succeed whereas it is reverse. Actually a beautiful and attractive woman will be more likely to fall for a man than an ordinary looking woman, because a beautiful woman has a greater love of the attention of men and is always on the look out for it. They like somebody to give them the compliments and comments on their beauty whereas their husbands take them for granted.
As a man, you should not be ashamed of dating a married woman. After all, these women are not looking for a serious and long-term relationship and their approach toward this relationship is crystal clear.
The decision to sleep with someone who is not her husband will be entirely her decision. There are lots of positives for her in this relationship—no commitment and nothing to answer to but her own satisfaction.
How to Make the Next Move
Go Very Slowly
Now that you have found your match, the first tip to begin a relationship would be to go very slowly. Ask to spend time with her—two ideas are to grab coffee or to stop for drink at a nice pub in the evening. You may invite her to your place, but be cautious: think of a normal reason that doesn't seem too obvious.
Seize Every Opportunity to Make a Good Impression in Person
Never try to build your relationship on the phone or through text messages. Phone calls and text messages are all right in the beginning. However, they are meant to be used as tools to spend more time together in person. More important, never depend on phone calls and text messages exclusively. If she were looking for a few words, she could have tried her luck at a party line.
On the first date, your first line should be a nice comment on her beauty, eyes, hair, or dress. Women always like to have the attention of men, and are always looking for compliments. Your comments should be real and genuine. Never try to make fake comments as women have a sixth sense when it comes to this and will notice.
You should try to show a good sense of humor. However, don't force it--wait for natural times to spontaneously showcase your funny side. Flirt with her and keep the environment on the lighter side, while also showing that you can be a patient listener. Never try to talk about yourself on the first date; your entire conversation should revolve around her. Try to know about her lifestyle, her needs, and her desires.
The best way to win her trust is to try to convince her that she can rely on you. She should feel that she can share her secrets with you and that you can make her dreams real. Never be critical, and never argue on any topic. When a difference of opinion arises, try to offer a compromise. Keep flirting with her as most women love flirting, but don't overdo it.
Do Not Do Anything That Can Be Misconstrued in Public
Remember that a married woman is not looking for commitment, and she is not looking to complicate her existing life. She has a family and a husband, and will not be looking to do anything in public that could come back and harm her family life. Because of this, be very aware of body language--both hers and your own. What you do in public must seem friendly, but not like a date, to an outsider. If her body language tells you that she is feeling restrained, ask if she feels comfortable where you are meeting, and if she would like to move somewhere else.
Tips and Points to Remember
Dress Like a Gentleman
Your sense of style should follow certain guidelines. Your clothing should keep in mind the place or occasion. Never try to be a cowboy or a maverick; your attire should be attractive and should match the occasion.
Thus, if you are going to a club, pub, or bar, then try to be formal. Alternatively, if you are going out for a coffee, then a pair of jeans and a nice collared shirt will do. You must wear a nice deodorant as women are easily repulsed by unpleasant smells.
Speak Like a Gentleman
To start the conversation, try to avoid talking about yourself. You can start by inquiring about her zodiac sign (or by trying to guess--say in three chances) and trying to know her nature. This way, if you do your homework, you can come off as knowledgeable and witty, while keeping the conversation centered around her.
Lay the Groundwork, but Let Her Be the One to Initiate
Another important thing is to convince her that she's interested in you, rather than vice versa. Be confident and charismatic. This will show through your conversation if you keep it as simple as possible, directing the conversation to what she and you have in common. This way, the conversation can serve your primary job of finding out more about the woman sitting in front of you while also showing that you are knowledgeable and interesting to her.
Because the first date is about getting to know her, do not try to kiss or have sex on the first date. Have patience and wait for her to initiate in the future. But if the environment allows you to, she is interested, and it is necessary, then don't stop yourself. Confidence is key. Keep telling yourself inside that you are not at all nervous; most women like confident and daring men rather than a momma's boy.
Don't be ashamed of dating a married woman, and remember: the decision to sleep with you should finally and entirely be her decision.
Again, one of the beauties of dating a married woman is that there are no commitments. As you start to date, set boundaries from the very beginning. For instance, you may want to say that you will never compromise her relationship with her family or spouse, that neither of you will ever try to make the relationship more serious than your set parameters, and that both of you have the right to stop the affair without any explanation at any point in the relationship. This will come as a relief and protection not only you, but also to her—she will welcome the lack of commitment as a way to protect her marriage.
That brings an end to my article, which is based on my real-life experience. By doing your homework and studying these guidelines, you can approach any woman on this Universe.
Enjoy, and all the best!