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How to Date a Married Woman

I've dated married women in the past, so I have personal experience in the art of seduction and romance.

Dating a married woman is not as hard as it may seem.

Dating a married woman is not as hard as it may seem.

Dating a Married Woman

Every heterosexual man on this earth is interested in and wants to know more about women. Some men may know more than others, but either way, the desire to continuously learn more about women, dating, and the art of good sex is universal.

This article is about how to seduce and date a married woman. Yes, folks, you have read it correctly—how to date a married woman. If you are seriously thinking about dating a married woman, then read through my article completely and try out these tips. Once you have mastered this art, then success will be yours. And it is not as difficult as it may seem.

Where to look: recognize this woman when you see her.

Where to look: recognize this woman when you see her.

Where to Look for a Married Woman to Date

Any married woman, whether a career woman or a housewife, is always looking for that spark in her love life. As their husbands start to take them for granted, slowly and gradually that spark dies down. The wife may begin to feel neglected by her husband because he is not taking the time to keep the romantic aspect of their relationship going.

Once a woman reaches this point, she will be open to but very cautious about choosing another partner outside her relationship. She will need to be sure that the new man will be different from the others. She needs to know that he will be fully aware that this relationship can have no commitment, and that he is not looking to turn it into a serious or long relationship.

In reality, they both know that the relationship they are looking for will revolve around only sex. Sure, there may be some other close emotional moments there, but a married woman knows that the affair is primarily a physical one.

For men, the best places to look for these women are in workplaces, discotheques, pubs, clubs, and supermarkets. Look for a woman in a pub or a club who is sitting alone on the couch with a hunger in her eyes, looking at every corner, and sitting with a posture that is casting about for attention. One way a married woman can signal that she is looking for attention is by going out for drinks alone.

How to Approach a Married Woman

Never hesitate to approach this beautiful woman. Most men wrongly believe that an approach to an attractive and beautiful female is unlikely to succeed whereas it is the reverse. A beautiful and attractive woman will be more likely to fall for a man than an ordinary looking woman, because a beautiful woman has a greater love of the attention of men and is always on the lookout for it.

They like somebody to give them compliments and who comments on their beauty whereas their husbands take them for granted. Moreover, having the courage to approach a beautiful woman shows her that you are bold and it gives off what can be an irresistible wave of confident, masculine energy.

As a man, you should not be ashamed of dating a married woman. After all, these women are not looking for a serious and long-term relationship and their approach toward this relationship is crystal clear. Though sometimes things can get out of hand and she may become emotionally attached to you.

The decision to sleep with someone who is not her husband will be entirely her decision. There are lots of positives for her in this relationship—no commitment and nothing to answer to but her own satisfaction.

How to Make the Next Move

  • Go very slowly: Now that you have found your match, the first tip to begin a relationship would be to go very slowly. Ask to spend time with her—two ideas are to grab a coffee or to stop for a drink at a nice pub in the evening. You may invite her to your place, but be cautious: think of a normal reason that doesn't seem too obvious.
  • Make a good impression in person: Never try to build your relationship on the phone or through text messages. Phone calls and text messages are alright in the beginning. However, they are meant to be used as tools to spend more time together in person. More important, never depend on phone calls and text messages exclusively.
  • Comment on her appearance: On the first date, your first line should be a nice comment on her beauty, eyes, hair, or dress. Women always like to have the attention of men, and are always looking for compliments. Your comments should be real and genuine. Never try to make fake comments as women have a sixth sense when it comes to this and will notice.
  • Have an insightful conversation: You should try to show a good sense of humor. However, don't force it, wait for natural times to spontaneously showcase your funny side. Flirt with her and keep the environment on the lighter side, while also showing that you can be a patient listener. Never try to talk about yourself on the first date; your entire conversation should revolve around her. Try to know about her lifestyle, her needs, and her desires.
  • Do not do anything that can be misconstrued in public: Remember that a married woman is not looking for commitment, and she is not looking to complicate her existing life. She has a family and a husband, and will not be looking to do anything in public that could come back and harm her family life. Because of this, be very aware of body language, both hers and your own. What you do in public must seem friendly, but not like a date, to an outsider. If her body language tells you that she is feeling restrained, ask if she feels comfortable where you are meeting, and if she would like to move somewhere else.
Set a good impression in person over a casual lunch or dinner.

Set a good impression in person over a casual lunch or dinner.

How to Impress a Married Woman

Keep in mind that a married woman who is unhappy will be looking for a man that can excite her and someone she can have a passionate relationship with. To impress a married woman, you have to provide her with that kind of masculine energy she craves.

You will have to be careful about what you do in public, so try to choose activities to do that are romantic but also a bit inconspicuous. Know what kind of social circles she hangs out in and make sure to avoid them.

The number one thing you have to do is project strong masculine energy and confidence. Act and say things with confidence and be sure of yourself and your actions. Heterosexual women are attracted to the masculine energy of men, so don't try to hide your nature as a man. Talk to her slowly and make deep eye contact as this will be a big indication to her that you mean business.

Tips and Points to Remember

  • Dress like a gentleman: Your sense of style should follow certain guidelines. Your clothing should keep in mind the place or occasion. Never try to be a cowboy or a maverick; your attire should be attractive and should match the occasion. You also have to wear clothes that fit your body type and clothes that look good on you for your complexion. Women notice how men dress and dressing well is a signal that you have it together. Plus, dressing well can make you appear significantly more attractive which is important when it comes to impressing a married woman.
  • Speak like a gentleman: To start the conversation, try to avoid talking about yourself. You can start by inquiring about her zodiac sign and trying to know her nature. This way, if you do your homework, you can come off as knowledgeable and witty, while keeping the conversation centered around her.
  • Lay the groundwork, but let her be the one to initiate: Another important thing is to convince her that she's interested in you, rather than vice versa. Be confident and charismatic. This will show through your conversation if you keep it as simple as possible, directing the conversation to what she and you have in common. This way, the conversation can serve your primary job of finding out more about the woman sitting in front of you while also showing that you are knowledgeable and interesting to her. Confidence is key. Keep telling yourself inside that you are not at all nervous; women like confident and daring men rather than somone who is afraid and on edge.
  • Set boundaries: Again, one of the beauties of dating a married woman is that there are no commitments. As you start to date, set boundaries from the very beginning. For instance, you may want to say that you will never compromise her relationship with her family or spouse, that neither of you will ever try to make the relationship more serious than your set parameters, and that both of you have the right to stop the affair without any explanation at any point in the relationship. This will come as a relief and protection not only you but also to her—she will welcome the lack of commitment as a way to protect her marriage.

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How to Stop Dating a Married Woman

You may find yourself in a situation where you no longer want to keep seeing a married woman, and you want to break things off. In an ideal world, she would understand that your relationship was never meant to last, but in reality, she may feel a different way. Here are some tips to follow when you want to stop seeing a married woman.

  • Be clear: Tell her as clearly as you can that you no longer want to continue the relationship. Be in control of the interaction the whole time and do not make it into a big deal.
  • Cease all contact: This is extremely important because you have to make the break as clear as you can. Stop contacting her at all and remove her number from your phone. If she tries to contact you, ignore her. She may not take it the best, but you have to set the example that you will no longer deal with her.

You will have to make it clear to her that continuing the relationship is not going to work and that you want out.

The Dangers of Dating a Married Woman

I think it goes without saying, but there are some big pitfalls to having a relationship with a married woman. While she is responsible for cheating on her husband, you too are at fault to some degree.

If being a homewrecker and ruining a marriage are things that could weigh on your conscience, dating a married woman is not the thing for you. It takes a certain kind of man with a certain approach to life to pull off seducing and dating someone who is married. Not every man wants that and that's totally fine.

© 2009 Kevin R Peter


David on September 01, 2020:

Chrissys birthday was lovely,her girlfreinds and i gave her a party,on her birthday,was a great day, her children and mother took her out next day, husband diddnt wish her happy birthday, oh he doesnt do that, she says , but i made shure my present was as good as her mothers and her childrens,..

Srimanta mandal on July 16, 2020:

Any woman who are interested to relations with me I will give them fully satisfied any woman who are in unsatisfying . them with their houseband away from job or business in other countries. I would help their women . To happy with out houseband I make them feel happy all times.

Srimanta mandal on July 16, 2020:

Happy to other women who are interested in sex with me

Srimanta mandal on July 12, 2020:

Nice pic so beautiful

kabiru lawan on June 14, 2020:

i need marriege american lady

ORUS prince ikah on June 13, 2020:

Looking for married lady to data

Naqash on June 05, 2020:

I want secret relationship

Jonathan Dereje on June 02, 2020:

a freind of chrissys told me sheloved the valentines day add in newspaper, her husband would never do this for her,her birthday present from me will be the best, will be more than her children give her, he will give her nothing. he is standing on paper thin ice, ilove her and i will win,because i treat her properly,with love and affection,

Phillip on May 18, 2020:


I'm looking for a friend woman

david on May 15, 2020:

christine and i had a lovely day for mothers day, we had a good time.

david on May 07, 2020:

am planning a nice birthdayparty for chrissy, and a nice present. her husband Might give her some choclates,and then eat them himself, and will buy them with her money too

david on April 29, 2020:

i just show her my appreciation for her,i ask her if she needs something,or help with something,easy,she loves the small things i/we do together,something her husband cant/wont do,

david on April 15, 2020:

a freind of chrissys told me sheloved the valentines day add in newspaper, her husband would never do this for her,her birthday present from me will be the best, will be more than her children give her, he will give her nothing. he is standing on paper thin ice, ilove her and i will win,because i treat her properly,with love and affection,

Tony Saprano on April 10, 2020:

I have been married for 36 years, for the past 7 years there has been no intimacy in our relationship. I recently met this other woman that is separated from her spouse but is still living with him. We kept passing each other at the cycle park for the past several months and finally at a water stop we were able to talk to each other, I could tell that she was interested in me because she wouldn't cut off the conversation once we got started. Our relationship status never came up. I decided to take the next step and ask her for her cell so we can ride together when she is able to get out. She would text me when she was leaving and we would meet at the same water stop every time. We have both met 4 or 5 times were we go and exercise at the park. I decided to take the next step and we both wanted to meet alone in a secluded area. We talked about the boundaries and what is possible in our current situation. I ask her about her about her current situation and that I did not want to cause issues. She then told me that there was not intimacy between her and her husband. We are both taking things very slow and cautious, she admitted to me that this was a new experience for her. We kissed the last time we meet and she shaking when I kissed her neck, it was like electricity ran through her body and into mine. She pulled back and told me she was scared the feelings she was experiencing when I held her. Its been several days since the last time I saw her, but she is messaging me on messenger keeping it secure, she told me that she wants to see me again, and confided to me that she had a physical reaction while we were kissing. I think she got scared because she had been aroused. She told me she wants to take it slow because she doesn't trust herself control.

Shailaja K on February 27, 2020:

Although am married for 3 years am in physical relation with my unmarried boy friend for 1.5 years,

david on February 02, 2020:

am planning a lovely romantic valentine day with christine,have put an ad in the newspaper for her,and will get her some roses too. i love you chrissy

Justin on January 18, 2020:

Yes i have been dating a married woman for the last 12+ months and we have fall in love with each other and we are now at the stage of "will she leaver husband" for someone that makes her happy and is a perfect match for her

tohead on January 16, 2020:

Seeing a married woman now. In love. We've been dating for 9 years.Heavy flirting. No sex. Very little texting.

david on January 03, 2020:

yes we still love eachother,,, someone once said life wasnt meant to be easy,,

Anur on December 25, 2019:

Affection is the key. Degree of relationship is depend on the degree of initial affection.

Habu on November 16, 2019:

Dating a married is the best dating

david on November 09, 2019:

my darling christine ,i do love you, and i know you love me, and you are so so perfect, i love you always.

david on October 21, 2019:

just get on with living,you trust and love her and seems she loves you,if her husband has been abusing her you must get him out of your lives,just get on with loving eachother,,, end of story... just care for her..

Anonymous on October 20, 2019:

I've been in a relationship with a married girl for a couple of months. The way she acts, the way she talks or how she shows that she cares about me is just amazing. They are living in the same house but they use different rooms to sleep. Her kids sleep with her since he beat her pretty bad. He has sent her a message that he is going to leave soon. She is sad but agreed that it’s best and doesn’t love him anymore. She showed me all of her messages from him. Doesn’t hide anything from me and hasn’t lied to me I feel the same way about her like we’re crazy for each other. She’s worth the wait we both told each other. What advice can you give me?

Ananga Narayan Das on October 18, 2019:

Dating and chating

Raju on October 15, 2019:

Im married

david on October 08, 2019:

loving a woman is not for the faint hearted ,and emotional love and support is so ,important,if you realy do love each other then everything will work,and be patient, regards.

Ruwan on October 07, 2019:

Hi like to chat with

david on October 06, 2019:

..yes i am still madly in love with her, allways will be..

david on September 22, 2019:

when i met my sweetheart,i was truly in love from the start,her perfest blue eyes,natural blonde,slim and trim figure,stunningly good looking,her husband is not well,and cannot intimately satisfy her,our sex life is good ,we are verry compatible,agree on everthing,..its not easy but we do make eachother happy when we are together, i do love her.

david on September 20, 2019:

ive been having a relationship with a married woman for 10 years now,problem is that i do truly love this woman, and she me,spending time with her is so perfect, sex is perfect, but now i want to spend more time with her and i desparately want to spend the night with her,she knows this and we will have to work it out,, i love her so much,so men beware, its not always a little fling,ive seen her longer than some people are married!!

Blake on September 06, 2019:

I need a beutiful, married woman 2 be with.

Cool Dude on August 27, 2019:

Ewwwww you people are shameless and disgusting... Whats the difference between you and the animals?

Sadeeq on August 18, 2019:

Hi there.i am looking for house wife for sex

shah dsp on August 17, 2019:

I'm single

Anon on August 09, 2019:

Who is this self-proclaimed authority on the subject? Pretty stereotypical article.

tanmoy on August 03, 2019:

Pvt dating

Anonomous on July 27, 2019:

So theres this software out there that you put on your wifes phone and it disappears then you put it on your phone and you can see everywhere she goes and see all her texts. You do this, then when she disappears on one of her 3 to 4 hour excursions you follow her and blow the guys head off during the act. Then you get off the charges because of some technicallity like she was being raped. Since shes protecting he marriage she will vouche for her husband.

DDD on July 26, 2019:

I can see both sides.

baker on July 25, 2019:

i m interested in maried woman cos they have true love and they undesternd your problems quictly. they dont have tress to learson to a man when you talk. and be gentle to here do thins that will make here happy she will love you for rever and ever

Eric on July 19, 2019:

it's hard to make a married woman start loving you. but once you find a way to seduce her and you start having sexual affairs with her .if you are able to satisfy her

well.she will never leave you.

manoj on July 15, 2019:

i am interested a married women who does not have kids i meet her daily at a smile once she shared her phone numbers later she block me in whatup and i give her some expensive eatable she accepted i still not understand her mind can u guide me how to impress her iam very keen to love her

Mark G on May 15, 2019:

So some unadulterated piece of shit like you had an affair with my wife, which caused the end of my 14 year marriage and the ruination of my family. I only get to see my son 1/2 the time now because a loser like you could not keep his dick in his pants. It's been 5 years and not a day goes by when I don't think of taking a shovel to the back of the head of the scum bag who caused this. I hope you sleep with the wrong woman and some jealous husband shoots you in the face with a shotgun.

Richard on May 09, 2019:

very nice

D on April 16, 2019:

I truly hope if you’re married that your spouse cheats on you.

Omar bin Ali on April 13, 2019:

I would love to be involed with a lonely woman. My info: Omar bin Ali, Singapoean, Indian, widower, 74, 160 cm, 61 kg. Work in Security Industry.

unknown on March 04, 2019:

already done dating a married girl. it was the worst experience in my life i will want to say this to other guys a girl who isn't leaving her husband after dating you for months will never leave her husband for you..especially if she is asking for more time

NYC Master plumber on January 21, 2019:

I had relations with over 85 women in NYC and all but 3 were married

Rocky on January 20, 2019:

Can I have any contact number of any woman

Raphael Ospina on January 12, 2019:

Great article. Yes! Married women have always attracted me ....The show some sensuality and love their shapes.

Emerson on November 28, 2018:

I’m been talking to a coworker for about a year and a half and it’s just now got heated. Over the past couple months she told me, without my prodding, that she regrets getting married, that her husband was a virgin when they got together, that’s she’s disatisfies with life and that she’s been doin it since she was 15. I reciprocated the comments about my marriage being less than satisfactory. Doesn’t it seem like she’s hinting for an affair? Or am I crazy? If she is I’d be down but I’m not sure how to instigate it. Please help!

Dean on September 18, 2018:

I think the part "set boundaries" must be well executed & commited by both side, it covers and protects both side

Jeff on September 13, 2018:

He is better for you

Jeff on September 13, 2018:

Maria you are good for him and you just saying from a husband that wants.

Jeff on September 13, 2018:

Maria - from a husband in same situation you are helping to make this work! H

Patson on September 05, 2018:

Im 44 and im looking for woman with good sense of human respect and one that knows the need of a man (best) no money but best sx

Puttu on August 16, 2018:

Hi am looking dating with married women but I am not getting women's contact..all are application charging a money..what can I do?

Wilhelmien on August 15, 2018:

Hi im married but want to date my high school ex boyfrind whilst married can you help me

john. oyeleke on July 30, 2018:

Many thanks to the Author,... I am battle with this kind stress some months ago,but I came across this article this morning and I know my problem is solve.

Kasim on May 27, 2018:

Married only

Jason on May 27, 2018:

Married 15 years and would not be a good idea. Back in my younger days , a buddy I knew got killed in the bedroom the husband caught them in. Both wife and guy, boom, dead. Homeboy walks for temporary insanity. Understand this, for most men anyway, you are messing with someones wife, life and domain. I could imagine how married women and men could go for this, marriage at times can be grueling, man tells woman everything she needs to,hear, she is not getting at home because the home at the time is upside down right now due to something called life.

Never another’s queen on May 23, 2018:

This is one bad joke out of the twilight zone. No never someone else’s union will be violated by me. Hey it’s crazy to fathom anyone anyone could..

Mark on May 03, 2018:

Well, nothing is good or bad, its a view point. The woman at home, a wife is a woman, if we can think of other women married or unmarried other than who we have, what if we start caring about the one who is called our wife....our life partner. If we date someone, we are allowing indirectly our own wife to start finding satisfaction somewhere else. If this is the choice, go for it, if not, understand what intel we might seek in reading another married woman, we can spend the same time understanding the woman we married with. It could make everything happier in life......key is, to understand a woman and to get into her beauty.....believe me, you will win back your partner if lost once.

Harry R. on April 23, 2018:

My mum cheated on my dad in a manner not dissimilar to what is described in this article. Her lack of self control tore our happy family apart.

What a sickening and twisted thing to publish. Shame on the author and this website.

Marla on April 12, 2018:

Been married 30 years and have a wonderful husband who understands that I need fulfillment as a woman. He is hopelessly impotent and allows me to discretely see other men for my needs. At 56 I feel like a 19 year old and have been very lucky to still look much younger. Men who are 10 to 15 years younger are my preference and I insist that my guys be friends and no jealousy. This is a fantastic arrangement and every day is another exciting adventure !!

Peter Lawrence on February 22, 2018:

To Stacy's Mom,

I feel same from a man's point of view. Reach out to me via my secure email

Peter Lawrence on February 22, 2018:

This falls in line with what I'm looking for. I've been married 20-plus years and our romance has waned. No matter what I do my wife has remained distant and uninterested in anything I do. Still, I don't want to lose my family, but am about to bust. Hookers is not the way I want to go, but this seems helpful. A mutual understanding with a married woman looking for something more.

Mc on January 20, 2018:

How do you know if a marrie women is in to you

Stacy's Mom on January 19, 2018:

I am a married woman looking to find a guy on the side to date. Answering some of these questions

1.) Why not get a divorce? When you get married, you don't go into it saying "Let's have things go bad." Most women in a bad relationship will divorce, but a lot of us end up in zombie relationships, were things aren't dead, but aren't alive either. You have talked, you have tried, you have done all the regular things people tell you are supposed to work, and your husband lays on the couch and watches TV and ignores you.

You think about leaving, but you have kids who need a home, community property, and the crazy hope that one day your original love will finally wake up and pull their head out of their a$$. But you also know they never will. So you can only try other options.

2.) Why is it unthinkable for two people who have mutual, reasonable needs to help each other out? You don't need bullet proof anything. Hubby is not getting off the couch for me. He is already not sleeping with me, which is why I am here. If he finds out, I'm the one who has to deal with it. So chill.

3.) Where is my moral compass? Well, yes I vowed to love honor and cherish, but hubby also vowed to be there for me and be my spiritual, emotional and sexual food if I kept myself to him. When you cut off the food, don't blame me if I eventually, finally get hungry and look elsewhere to find a way to survive and remember what it feels like to have a guy touch me. We ladies aren't looking for a guy party -We just need one healthy guy who is willing to be fun and keep his mouth shut in exchange for a nice woman who isn't going to pressure him into something he doesn't want.

hmm on November 02, 2017:

What kind of article is this it should be called EVIL or player - what kind of author are you trying to encourage people to commit INFEDELITY? are you working for ASHLEY that was shut down years ago? "Life is too short, have an affair" this is unacceptable. Instead of guiding people to NOT put themselves in that situation. This type of article is what wrong with the society and so many family ends up falling apart.

Please don't listen to this article - it teaches people to do the wrong thing. if you are a wise person you would know better. This is wrong.

princewill edet on August 24, 2017:

i am interested in this idea

Dominic on July 21, 2017:

Love to meet a wonderful woman who is badly in need of love

Ted on June 20, 2017:

Awesome article!

Very inspiring and well-written.

Mo on May 30, 2017:

Great article, I'm dating a married woman who I'm borderline in love with and I haven't even slept with her.

It's been 4 months we've hung out for short periods of times and she's expressed so much interest we've kissed passionately I even had her all too myself one time and thought we we're finally going to have sex and she got cold feet she told me she's never stopped out of her marriage. I was so upset but didn't show it deep down I was fuming I thought how could we have had so much sexual build-up and not even take off her shirt. This was a month ago and since that night she's totally backed off she still talks to me and text me but I've noticed it's not the same, in the beginning she showered me with flattery and flirting conversations but since that night she's been a different person I gotta admit I really really miss her old ways.

I don't know I guess I'm more in love with her now than ever, we use to talk and text every single day to now just limited text messages she may be really busy who knows, I guess I put my hopes up too high and now that she's backed off I feel like she doesn't like me anymore. This is what I get for involving myself with a married woman.

Cubs 101 on May 17, 2017:

This is extremely moronic!

I've been chased by four married "milfs" since the day I became an adult at 18.

I never did anything, I was being an ordinary guy with my own taste in fashion, music, and hobbies.

I did some research and it turns out to be that when women settle down at such a young age they tend to be unhappy with their lives. They start wishing they were our age again and sometimes even behave like we do in order to feel young again.

Everything is games until the moment they go from being "bored" to being "horny" to being "emotionally attached"

They were all good looking and many guys saw them as the alpha females.

Oliver Asamoah. on April 28, 2017:

i like this article.

AJ on April 12, 2017:

I met a married much younger woman at her work place, restaurant, the first time we looked into each other's eyes there was a lightning bolt along with fireworks. I was very polite and dint say anything at that time as I was star struck. The next time I saw her at her register, I said may I ask your name and she gave it to me and I said pleasure to have met you bla bla, may I introduce myself my name is bla bla. and I left. the next time I went to see her, I wrote on my phone, coz there were people behind me, I said , hi bla you are a beautiful refreshing sight. she said thank you. But I felt guilty and put my attention to another female, but it was not the same. so after a week or so I went back and saw her at night and when I look at her I cant feel my face. she did ask me what happened to me, I said , my ex wanted to back with me but I tried but I could not do it. I told her I miss miss you, she said I miss you to and got tongue tied again. I left and waited to think how dumb that was. So I went back and told her I'm sorry but when I look at you , my mind turns to jelly, there are things want to ask you but I cant seem to get it out. I said see you soon, she said ok. I knew she was married as my female friend works there and told me and has one child, so I disappeared and didn't go back for a week and a half. Being away did not change the feeling I get from her. I 'm going to give her a note when I see her tomorrow night. note; hi bla yes you are very beautiful . I wanted to ask you something last night, but I just got tp tongue tied. I wanted to ask you if you feel something special between us, or is it just my imagination. I' m asking this because when I look into your eyes or just being near you, I do feel electricity from you that goes right to my core. I really need to know is it just my imagination and stepping over the line, the last thing in the world I would want to do is make you feel uncomfortable in any manor. I not sure I should even be asking you this, so please forgive me for asking, but I really would like to know. you can give me a piece of paper with one word, yes for, It's my imagination, or no it's not my imagination. If it is yes I will leave you alone no questions asked.

Izettl on March 15, 2017:

That sounds more difficult than dating regularly. In fact, all of this is steps to dating an unmarried "girl", but with the addition of having to keep it secret and hope her husband doesn't kick the snot out of you. Way more difficult to tango with a married woman.

I am married by the way so take your best shot. You won't get anywhere because I have more confudence that going out and having a drink by myself hoping some douchebag strikes up conversation.

Alexandria on December 11, 2016:

I so agree with Albert...Where is our self-respect (both men and women)? Why would anyone give their body to someone who could care less about them as a person, and who is not committed to them? Where are our morales and our love for our families? To me, both the person preying and person cheating are equally guilty of committing adultery.

Mark A. Girard on November 16, 2016:

I stalked, I mean knew a women 22 years ago until I finally build up enough balls to reach out to her on social media. I never was able to land a women on my own due to low self-esteem and a very small ..... so I had only this way left to try. Why not, who cares about ruining a family. I'm not a good looking guy but I studied up on the art of taking advantage of an older women when she is the most vulnerable. It worked like a charm! I just had to text, email, and call her with all kinds of flattering comments and be nice to her and I was then able to lure her into my dark world. I know there is a place in hell with my name on it. At least I'll be warm. MAG

Jeff on October 29, 2016:

Married women are absolutely the best. They as a whole are pleasers.

kiki on September 20, 2016:

its shame ..never shoot people by stones if you have glass house

Albert on August 17, 2016:

45 years on earth and never had a problem meeting interesting, attractive and intelligent single women. Why would I want to be involved with a married woman? Obviously she has no morale compass. If she is willing to screw around on her husband, she is a whore. Same goes for married men. If I got to a point where I was no longer interested in my wife, I would leave her. Most married women I know have too much self respect to have an affair, maybe that is because most of the women I know are intelligent, working women who do not depend on a man for financial support and if they were unhappy, they could just leave. There is no shortage of women on earth. Why in the hell would I want one who I know is sleeping with another man before or after she sleeps with me? No thanks, if you don't have the skill or confidence to pick up a single woman and need to prey on unhappy married woman, you have proven that you aren't a very trustworthy or genuine person like you state you should purport yourself to be in the article. How about just actually BE genuine and caring and find your own woman? This is an article for men who are losers.

Ron on September 13, 2014:

I will just be very happy to meet a good woman to date, let alone dating a married one.

Kevin R Peter (author) on September 22, 2013:

@anand - Thanks for reading my hub & sharing your thoughts. My advise to you - You should open up with her & should touch her area of interest, try knowing from her - what appeals her - what does she like - you must give compliments (genuine) to her & must appreciate her beauty. All Women love the (genuine) compliments not the fake ones & try to know her sensitive area. Try it & then discuss it with me...Good Luck

anand on September 05, 2013:

hi my name is anand I have a problem I have attracted to a married woman its almost years we talk to each other she call me for pick and dropping so many times I feel like she is also interested in me but the problem is she is a friend of my wife also what should I do.

rahul on July 15, 2013:

nice tips .i had tried some and i got positive results so thanks.

joe on June 01, 2013:

I am best sex ever with married woman ; Because she can let herself go with me and she loves it xx

Marion on January 13, 2013:

Kevin.... really you are so awesome with your research thanks. And really you took a big study on women. you right in every thing.

master on January 06, 2013:

it dos not work for all married women.

mohaes on December 14, 2012:

my girl friend married to other man. so i have decided to date with her as she cheated .

i will try using your tips

Jill on November 23, 2012:

I WAS a married woman who started dating my new husband and fell in love. We have been married three years and I am ready to start dating again.... This time with my new husbands blessing and encouragement. I have the best of two worlds.... A great marriage and the thrill of a new boyfriend!!!

Ingenira on October 11, 2012:

I stumbled upon this hub by chance, and wow, I am surprised with the number of external comments you get. So many men out there are interested to date married women !

jolia on September 05, 2012:

you are going to destroy families in your story!

Kevin R Peter (author) on August 12, 2012:

Hey DONT, thanks for reading my article....

Kevin R Peter (author) on August 12, 2012:

Thanks for reading my article - Mostafa

Kevin R Peter (author) on August 12, 2012:

Hey True Bird, thanks for reading my article...

Kevin R Peter (author) on August 12, 2012:

Hey Minx, thanks for reading my article....

Kevin R Peter (author) on August 12, 2012:

Thanks for reading my article NO WAY, keep it up.....

Kevin R Peter (author) on August 12, 2012:

Thanks ElSeductor for reading my article...

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